₦airaland Forum

AreaFada2:
Very desirable but not easy.


You will have to work harder to make it work. Especially if one or both party's parents are against it.

Should things go awry, you will have to bear a lot of poo in silence. Just to avoid "I told you so" from the anti/suspicious side.

I have noticed the poo the majority of female relatives who married into other tribes have had to put up with. They went into these marriages with much naivety and enthusiasm, brushing aside concerns raised by some people. Their usual position was "people withing our tribe do these things too".

They have put up with worse things they initially said they wanted to avoid within tribe. Such as the hubby impregnating other women, hubby secretly using joint property deeds to secure loans without wife knowing, reckless behaviour of covering corruption of a female colleague at work and getting fired from a very lucrative job without benefits/pay off, making wife sole provider for family, secretly taking unsecured loans that wife has to be paying back all over the place later, etc.

Those guys did just about every stupid thing possible and even surpassed the fears of some family members.

About half got divorced but the rest soldiered on, albeit not happily most times. Very unfortunate.

Going into inter-ethnic marriage, please go in with a VERY thick skin. The odds may already be against you ab initio.

I suppose if it works, it can be very sweet. Like the lovely ladies from other tribes married into our family.

Of course they might have worked hard to endear themselves in the beginning. Once they proved their loyalty, it has been all love.

Most have blended in so well that they are not distinguishable from natural born daughters of the family.

biased

Posing beside flowers, so 1980. Hbd sha.

Sexual assault is a reality in this country and worldwide. It should get more publicity so that more people can see the wrong in it. Nigerian parents should help train their children better so that the next generation can be more educated.

Slymonster:
kemen has apologize alot,even on that A.Y show.The guy wasn't that happy when those jokes were being made.Can't we just let it be.This tboss brother might have even done more than kemen and the only difference was the camera

the offender is A.Y.

sisisioge:
I love the way her family is standing up for her...though all of them appear unwell

at least they are better than some nigerian families

fitzmayowa:
From Wendy to Chris, they should let this issue die abeg...


Tboss too should avoid all this so called "comedy shows" since the comedians are not sensible enough to avoid taunting her as regards kemen's misbehaviour...

thank God you said misbehaviour

soberdrunk:
Gaaaawwwwdddaaammmnniiittt!!! What do these people want ooooo!!! Apologies to those that will get offended but even the chibok girls that escaped after being raped and tortured by 'terrorists' have moved on with their lives, ordinary 'tapping of current' this low budget oyinbo and her family will not allow us rest!!!

oyinbo people no dey take rape matter play. Nigerian guys should just play while it lasts, they will soon start feeling the hot hands of the law when we get there.

doyinbaby:
One of the ways to solve this problem is to stop eating cow meat.......I have found that goat meat is almost same price as cow meat hence they can keep their cow meat if compulsorily rearing cow is at the expense of human life

I love this idea. No more cow meat, no more suya, asun is the new choice. My prayers are with the bereaved.

These comments made me laugh. Anyway, as long as they're both happy. Das all

We Nigerians need to come together to make this nation better than it is today. We need to understand that every individual is useful to the development of this Country. Let's use our creativity positively for our progress. I STILL LOVE NIGERIA.

ToriBlue:
See you, are Yoruba's behind Lagos development?

Lagos' development is due to position by the sea, So Yorubas are blessed just for being the original occupants. Just as the NDns are blessed for being the original occupants of their region.

Handsomecutepie:
We Yorubas lead while other follows. Odua Nation's Financial and business capital in view while Ibadan remained our administrative capital

when did that one start?

sevantex:
Mowe side of lagos or Abulegba side of lagos?? cos rent for all this place nor be beans o

just kdding tho.
eko o ni baje!

Mowe is in Ogun State

mario383:
My dear, although, it is sin to sleep with other girls or women but the fact is that the way men are wired is very terrible. The truth about the nature of man is such that the brain and the mindset of men is about 60% wired toward women. I am just telling you the foundamental truth. I am senior citizen. As aged as I am including my wife, there are times I will want to meet my wife but if you she refuse, big trouble. I will do everything to get my way unless she is sick. Mind you, my children are married, meaning that I would have made love to my wife as many time as possible yet no limit has be achieved. It just a wonderful and powerful thing that is tied to brain of man. What we should do is to try to read the bible which discourage one's mindset toward woman outside marriage. It is terrible with the total makeup of a men

When God made men. They were very good, but then they got corrupted. If Eve knew that that fruit she wants to give her husband will make her offspring the way they are now and make cain kill her son, I'm sure she won't give him.

Jengem:
Thinder fire that your mouth
Whistleblower infidelity oshi
May u never see a husband if u expose anyone
And if ubsee maybhe cheat and may u be part of the 10% that find out.

afraid?

Nellychinma20:
Thanks for the comments
as usual the society blames us
as usual we are expected to be chaste
as usual we are the guilty one and the man a saint
but let me put it to u all
99%of men cheat in marriage
90% of women will never discover
married men on nairaland still run after girls on this forum(i dare some of u to talk trash and I will disgrace u with proof)
Take it or Leave it we still try our best to keep them off.
And to all the accusers, am still a virgin and I don't collect their gifts cos my parents can afford those too.

If all you typed is true, I'm so rooting for you.

Trustworthiness:
I hope women will one day come to terms that Men by the nature of thier creation are polygamous.

The idea of attributing or seeing man going for another woman means cheating needs to be push aside.

Although, I did not buy the idea of man dating another woman without the intention of marrying her. But if he intends to marry her as second, third or fourth wife is not a bad idea as men need more than a woman in thier life.

So, women needs to start accepting the fact that men nature is polygamous.

Let's complete your post, Men need to accept the fact that Women are polygamous in nature. And everyone is happy.

Icecream4U:
what about exposing him? I mean, let his wife know with proof.

it will still bounce back on the single lady. Best thing is to stay clear or make it public if she's up for that.

seguno2:
And we will continue to
- depend on, - work for and - be dominated by
the scientists.

No one can make you inferior without your consent - Eleanor Roosevelt, No pursuit in life is inferior to the other, Nothing is good or bad but thinking makes it so - Shakespeare

simplex2:
Nigeria will never have first nuclear power plant, first nuclear reactor, biggest steel plant nor anything like that.

It's always first customised church this and highest number of pastors with private jets.

Rubbish!

Our export is religion, especially christianity. Let the scientists continue their research

If making heaven were by hardwork, many would have made it

Too high a shoulder. Shoulda done a conical hairdo

darbeelicous:
where two or three women are gathered....... Gossip is their cola nut!!



Just pray ure not their topic


#girls_rock!!

guys gossip too

jdstunt:
TTT behaved somewhat childish in that house. How would a married man be offering his dick to be sucked by a lady in a live show. Huh! Who does that

probably trying to get what his wife has been denying him.

otijah2:
seems like you have been on the same shoes with Bisola lately. This one you are supporting her

my interest in the matter is the fact that a percentage of nigerian males see nothing wrong in duping females. Anyway, that's why we have cybercrimes and the likes.

otijah2:
lol she was not duped, Tony isn't a fraudster. Bisola feel for the wrong guy and was played on. I know the only memories that made her hate Tony most was that of the BJ

for you to support him, you two must be birds of the same feathers

otijah2:
I am that number one who is saying the truth. How can thug ignore him bc of he has a family. For God's sake it was all a game and she fell prey

will you still be saying the same thing if you got duped?

otijah2:
She is a fool!!
A very big one for that matter

seriously? You guys are just hardening girls' hearts. I'm begining to believe that of every ten guys I meet, nine are liars!

They could use that to solve traffic problems in Ota. Thereby improving their relationship with the Ota people.

Shouldn't christian threads be restricted to only christians?

The only teacher of the scripture I know is the Holy Spirit. These men of God are teaching you what the Holy Spirit has taught them. You cant divide the church of Christ. I LOVE THESE MEN OF GOD AND MANY OTHERS. In fact, I love you.

anochuko01:
I dunno o... but I can spend my lifetime listening to papa. he just exhumes wisdom.

he exudes wisdom bro