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Literature › Re: TOLANI - A STORY (Love. Mystery. Suspense.) by crossfm: 1:19pm On Jul 01, 2020
Kayode's father is a typical Nigerian father.most time they do all these out of love,but they don't realise how suffocating it is when you are living another persons dream.
Another reason why some parents do these,is to fulfil their failed aspirations in life.they see themselves in their children.if their children could achieve what the parents failed to,then the parents will be at peace.They do this without considering the effect it will have on the child.
The next group of Nigerian parents,is the once I consider the selfish parents.They are mainly after self gratification.They want to be addressed as papa doctor,papa barrister,papa father etc.That is why most people don't like their jobs.They are wearing another man's shoe.
The ones I pity most are the ones that were aready tagged before they came into the world.some Rev father's and pastors are not doing well spiritually because they were never meant to be men of God,but the presure from their parents kept them where they are today.They can't back out because they don't want to hurt their parents or the society.
Op thanks for the update.
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Health › Re: COVID-19: 7 Private Laboratories In Lagos Get Approval To Begin Testing by crossfm: 10:26am On Jun 30, 2020
Time to cash out for business men.
Family › Re: FG Reduces Fees For Statutory Marriage In Nigeria by crossfm: 8:34pm On Jun 29, 2020
You don't mean it.just negodu FG.we are saying things are very had,yet our government want us to marry more wifes.create job no,the ones employed are been sacked,now they are making marriage cheap.
Business › Re: Bode Akindele Dies At 88 by crossfm: 7:59pm On Jun 29, 2020
2020 the year we will not forget in a hurry.
Romance › Re: Man Fakes His Arrest With Police To Propose To His Girlfriend by crossfm: 7:22pm On Jun 29, 2020
Hope he realise that Nigeria police is nobody's friend.I don't want to hear accidental ...
Politics › Re: Arramma 'Malaminta' Killed During Boko Haram Attack (Pics) by crossfm: 4:39pm On Jun 29, 2020
Oh my God.we keep on hearing how people die up north,but our president is shocked about all these.R.I.P
Politics › Re: Edwin Clark Endorses Seriake Dickson For Bayelsa West Senatorial District by crossfm: 3:40pm On Jun 29, 2020
Old yam eater.Doing what he knows best to do.if you know, you know.
Politics › Re: Giadom Hands Over To APC Caretaker Committee Chairman, Mala Buni by crossfm: 3:31pm On Jun 29, 2020
The spoiler,the slayer of Oshomole.He has achieved his aim,why won't he hand over.
Celebrities › Re: Cassandra Owolabi Blasts Funke Akindele Shares Experience Working With Actress by crossfm: 2:12pm On Jun 29, 2020
When the going is good we won't hear them.Na when casala come we go hear them.abeg they should settle the mata jejeli
Food › Re: FCCPC Shuts Chinese Restaurant Over ‘Discrimination’ by crossfm: 1:35pm On Jun 29, 2020
redcliff:
the good thing about these current times is that we do not have to be creators anymore. copying is good enough. if we apply the progress of these countries who have gotten it right based on time and say we would get there, the point is we would never get there because we would always see outselves as underachieved and always less progressive. look at china today. they got to thos point they are now by copying europe and america. lets copy working systems and if possible modify a bit to suit our environment. we dont need to think anymore. they have done it for us centuries ago.
You really cracked me up on the thinking aspect. This takes us back to why I made mention of restructuring. Each region will embrace its strength, put on a thinking cap and come up with a way to move its region ahead and the country at large. We have been glamouring for this for a very long time,let's try it and see.you will be amazed how some regions which we thought will not do well will surprise us.
Politics › Re: Nemesis Catching Up With Tinubu – Bode George by crossfm: 9:45am On Jun 29, 2020
Make una leave us alone,yam eaters.una mata don taya us.They talk as if its for the benefit of Nigeria's,but in the actual sense its for their own greed.
Food › Re: FCCPC Shuts Chinese Restaurant Over ‘Discrimination’ by crossfm: 9:31am On Jun 29, 2020
redcliff:
the bold is exactly what the problem is. But then again, you would ask yourself, are we the only multicultural nation in the world? the answer is no. In Switzerland, you have three(four technically) different set of languages (Italian, French, Germans and "Romantsch"wink with people almost having different ways of life when you move across regions. Do they share some form of less positive sentiments towards each other? Yes! but its not on the level of national concern. In fact, except for the maybe the Italians who are in their own world, you would be accepted almost anywhere in the whole country if you speak at least one national language regardless of your region and language. How did they do this? they were able to be a country and not be a country. Every state has its own laws governing it even down to the local government. State laws supersede local laws most definitely but when there is none or no contradiction, the most grass-root law applies. Lets stop using the word restructuring to deceive ourselves. lets call it what is is. If we do not practice federalism to the atom of the word, we would always be what we are now and even worse.
your points are valid,but remember nation buildings is a gradual process. We need to try a lot of things to see how far it will take us.
May I also remind you that Switzerland went through a lot before they got to where they are today. A lot of conflicts where recorded, ranging from religious to economic conflicts.
Another factor why drawing comparison between Nigeria and Switzerland is wrong,is the years it took them to get to where they are.Switzerland was formed in 1291,while Nigeria became a republic in 1963.From 1291 to 1848 Switzerland recorded a lot of domestic conflicts. In fact,the peace Switzerland is experiencing now can be argued to start from the 19th century. Just look at the time it took them to evolve into what they are today.so we need to try out something's to know how viable it is to the development of our country.
Politics › Re: Ondo 2020: Agboola Ajayi Eyes SDP As PDP Aspirants Reject Automatic Ticket by crossfm: 7:42am On Jun 29, 2020
This guy might be on a self-destruct. He should be careful before he rubbish his political career.
Food › Re: FCCPC Shuts Chinese Restaurant Over ‘Discrimination’ by crossfm: 7:36am On Jun 29, 2020
redcliff:
but thats the problem.. we can never be united because we are not the same people, we do not think the same and we are also not ready to reach compromises.
we can at list try to tolerate each other. We have diverse culture and personalities. But for me tolerance is the key.Restructuring is another thing that will help out.each region bring up idea's that is best for its region.
Food › Re: FCCPC Shuts Chinese Restaurant Over ‘Discrimination’ by crossfm: 7:16am On Jun 29, 2020
redcliff:
this has nothing to do with african leaders. you cannot hate other tribes in nigeria and expect to betreated differently by foreigners both home and abroad.. its impossible
you are partially right.I was looking at it from an economic and development perspective. These guys know how important they are to us.they know we depend mostly on them for survival. Our leaders have refused to invest on the development of the country.
As for the respect for ourselves, I have always talk about unity and love.for I know when Nigeria's are united we will conquer. Respect for individuals and respect for self is important to improve our image both home and away.
Career › Re: Josepdam Ports Services Sacks 5 Senior Managers by crossfm: 8:51pm On Jun 28, 2020
For this covid period na him them sack person.
Food › Re: FCCPC Shuts Chinese Restaurant Over ‘Discrimination’ by crossfm: 8:30pm On Jun 28, 2020
These guys are more racists than white Americans.their brand of racism is aggressive and full of brutality. Funny enough,if not how bleeped up African leaders have been,we are suppose to avoid them like a plague.
Sports › Re: Boko Haram Kills 10 Soldiers In Damboa, Borno by crossfm: 4:38pm On Jun 28, 2020
But our president was once a general
Romance › Re: SMART GUYS! If You Were Caught In This Situation – How Will You Defend Yourself? by crossfm: 11:28am On Jun 28, 2020
Conducive environment is all we intelligent students ask for. grin
Romance › Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by crossfm: 3:53pm On Jun 27, 2020
martineverest:
who told u Williams sisters are nigerians?
you didn't see the sarcasm in my statement. If you did you won't ask such question.
Politics › Re: PDP: None Of Our Governors Will Join APC by crossfm: 7:54am On Jun 27, 2020
Billygee2u:
But,he never know that primary 3 kids are smarter than him
Don't mind him,in fact as I type now,my entire family and I are laying down in APC ward chairmans house begging him to join the party grin.
Trust words that comes out of Nigerian politicians at your own peril.
Romance › Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by crossfm: 7:50am On Jun 27, 2020
Bia op where is the Williams sisters grin grin.

You know we can drag people for life.
Education › Re: White Teacher Who Threatened To Kneel On Students' Necks Fired In South Africa by crossfm: 7:45am On Jun 27, 2020
Where is amadioha when you need it most.just negodu her defence. I'm not bla bla bla .... But on a serious note shango is not doing its job well.if not,we know where this lady for da now.
Politics › Re: PDP: None Of Our Governors Will Join APC by crossfm: 7:37am On Jun 27, 2020
We know.yeye bello was playing mind games.
Politics › Re: Okowa's Daughter Tests Positive For COVID-19, Governor Goes In Isolation by crossfm: 10:50am On Jun 26, 2020
This coro is becoming another thing oh.like play like play the thing just da spread.
Literature › Re: Oga Landlord 21+ by crossfm: 10:49am On Jun 26, 2020
Elvictor:
my head don bomb, thank you sir..
its just the truth.you wan kill me with laugh.
Health › Re: Ultra-modern Mother & Child Hospital In Rivers: Wike’s Administration Legacy by crossfm: 10:41am On Jun 26, 2020
And one governor is here in Enugu commissioning three rooms in the name of hospital. Enugu is indeed in the hand's of photographer's and bloggers.
Literature › Re: Oga Landlord 21+ by crossfm: 10:32am On Jun 26, 2020
Elvictor:
lol... I don forget wetin I be wan reply oh!
just began reading your work few days back.you are really doing gr8.
More ink to your pen.
Crime › Re: Akwa Ibom & Abia Communal Clash: 4 Dead, Many Injured by crossfm: 8:57am On Jun 26, 2020
Just negodu.we keep on fighting ourselves. How will Nigeria move forward with these mentality.
Politics › Re: EFCC Seals Theodore Orji's Properties by crossfm: 8:38am On Jun 26, 2020
Another yam eater caught in the barn.
Literature › Re: How Gbenga Found Love by crossfm: 5:44am On Jun 26, 2020
Gboyee is no longer a church boy.he is now a street boy grin grin.
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