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Kayode's father is a typical Nigerian father.most time they do all these out of love,but they don't realise how suffocating it is when you are living another persons dream. Another reason why some parents do these,is to fulfil their failed aspirations in life.they see themselves in their children.if their children could achieve what the parents failed to,then the parents will be at peace.They do this without considering the effect it will have on the child. The next group of Nigerian parents,is the once I consider the selfish parents.They are mainly after self gratification.They want to be addressed as papa doctor,papa barrister,papa father etc.That is why most people don't like their jobs.They are wearing another man's shoe. The ones I pity most are the ones that were aready tagged before they came into the world.some Rev father's and pastors are not doing well spiritually because they were never meant to be men of God,but the presure from their parents kept them where they are today.They can't back out because they don't want to hurt their parents or the society. Op thanks for the update. |
Time to cash out for business men. |
You don't mean it.just negodu FG.we are saying things are very had,yet our government want us to marry more wifes.create job no,the ones employed are been sacked,now they are making marriage cheap. |
2020 the year we will not forget in a hurry. |
Hope he realise that Nigeria police is nobody's friend.I don't want to hear accidental ... |
Oh my God.we keep on hearing how people die up north,but our president is shocked about all these.R.I.P |
Old yam eater.Doing what he knows best to do.if you know, you know. |
The spoiler,the slayer of Oshomole.He has achieved his aim,why won't he hand over. |
When the going is good we won't hear them.Na when casala come we go hear them.abeg they should settle the mata jejeli |
redcliff:You really cracked me up on the thinking aspect. This takes us back to why I made mention of restructuring. Each region will embrace its strength, put on a thinking cap and come up with a way to move its region ahead and the country at large. We have been glamouring for this for a very long time,let's try it and see.you will be amazed how some regions which we thought will not do well will surprise us. |
Make una leave us alone,yam eaters.una mata don taya us.They talk as if its for the benefit of Nigeria's,but in the actual sense its for their own greed. |
redcliff:your points are valid,but remember nation buildings is a gradual process. We need to try a lot of things to see how far it will take us. May I also remind you that Switzerland went through a lot before they got to where they are today. A lot of conflicts where recorded, ranging from religious to economic conflicts. Another factor why drawing comparison between Nigeria and Switzerland is wrong,is the years it took them to get to where they are.Switzerland was formed in 1291,while Nigeria became a republic in 1963.From 1291 to 1848 Switzerland recorded a lot of domestic conflicts. In fact,the peace Switzerland is experiencing now can be argued to start from the 19th century. Just look at the time it took them to evolve into what they are today.so we need to try out something's to know how viable it is to the development of our country. |
This guy might be on a self-destruct. He should be careful before he rubbish his political career. |
redcliff:we can at list try to tolerate each other. We have diverse culture and personalities. But for me tolerance is the key.Restructuring is another thing that will help out.each region bring up idea's that is best for its region. |
redcliff:you are partially right.I was looking at it from an economic and development perspective. These guys know how important they are to us.they know we depend mostly on them for survival. Our leaders have refused to invest on the development of the country. As for the respect for ourselves, I have always talk about unity and love.for I know when Nigeria's are united we will conquer. Respect for individuals and respect for self is important to improve our image both home and away. |
For this covid period na him them sack person. |
These guys are more racists than white Americans.their brand of racism is aggressive and full of brutality. Funny enough,if not how bleeped up African leaders have been,we are suppose to avoid them like a plague. |
But our president was once a general |
Conducive environment is all we intelligent students ask for. ![]() |
martineverest:you didn't see the sarcasm in my statement. If you did you won't ask such question. |
Billygee2u:Don't mind him,in fact as I type now,my entire family and I are laying down in APC ward chairmans house begging him to join the party .Trust words that comes out of Nigerian politicians at your own peril. |
Bia op where is the Williams sisters .You know we can drag people for life. |
Where is amadioha when you need it most.just negodu her defence. I'm not bla bla bla .... But on a serious note shango is not doing its job well.if not,we know where this lady for da now. |
We know.yeye bello was playing mind games. |
This coro is becoming another thing oh.like play like play the thing just da spread. |
Elvictor:its just the truth.you wan kill me with laugh. |
And one governor is here in Enugu commissioning three rooms in the name of hospital. Enugu is indeed in the hand's of photographer's and bloggers. |
Elvictor:just began reading your work few days back.you are really doing gr8. More ink to your pen. |
Just negodu.we keep on fighting ourselves. How will Nigeria move forward with these mentality. |
Another yam eater caught in the barn. |
Gboyee is no longer a church boy.he is now a street boy . |
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with people almost having different ways of life when you move across regions. Do they share some form of less positive sentiments towards each other? Yes! but its not on the level of national concern. In fact, except for the maybe the Italians who are in their own world, you would be accepted almost anywhere in the whole country if you speak at least one national language regardless of your region and language. How did they do this? they were able to be a country and not be a country. Every state has its own laws governing it even down to the local government. State laws supersede local laws most definitely but when there is none or no contradiction, the most grass-root law applies. Lets stop using the word restructuring to deceive ourselves. lets call it what is is. If we do not practice federalism to the atom of the word, we would always be what we are now and even worse.