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SpiritLifeNG:
Honestly , Would have helped you this morning.. But u can go to hell and dine with the devil .

like I said I'd rather dine with the devil first

BITTEREX:
cased closed. Your sister and your biological sisters are trash and harlots. Thanks for agreeing with me.

You are shallower than a p*ssy

SpiritLifeNG:
Send me Your details oboi. Stupid child

I'd rather dine with the devil first

BITTEREX:
You are so crazily foolish. lmao .What do i expect from a benue bigot? Y'all are not educated .. I'm so surprised you as a man has never been in my shoes or dated a harlot or you expect me to keep a harlot for a wife? oh i forgot you're a Benue man.

you were and will never be a man like me when it comes to dating.

Stop the nonsense talk.

I don't date trash talk more of thinking about turning one into a wife.

Most men see signs of stup*dity in a girl before they even spend close to a month with her.

It's fools like you that think they can change her if they stay long enough. And in time, you become her handbag.

You are not even ashamed of yourself. Dating a harlot up to the point of talking marriage is with her and you don't even know until she decided to dump your sorry as*.

Yet you call yourself man. So, if she no dump you, you for marry am dey shine teeth like roasted goat?

SpiritLifeNG:
Broke people and useless comments. You must be hungry. paste me ur account details so i can cheer you up.. so you don't get into depression.

of course, you always think it's all about the money.

I may be broke but I still won't eat your bread if you spit on my tribe. If you understand this simple logic, I bet you, your next girl will stay faithful.

But you can't. No wonder she left you. And I'm sure the next one will still leave you.

SpiritLifeNG:
You are very senseless evidently, from all the posts you have commented on this thread. I almost got married to a woman from Benue back in 2015 and what op has said so far is not far fetched

you were useless in 2015 and 6 years later, you still are.

All these losers blaming everyone but themselves.

I guess people in benue state don't marry.

BITTEREX:
i dont have sisters.. bast.ard lol
Let's not derail from the fact that your benue sisters are loose

that's no fact.

It's your bitterness at being a loser that you are projecting on benue girls.

Be a man. Grow some balls. Or go to the trenches and find a girl who will take your childish dating life.

You're the sore loser in a dating game, and you will lose again if you don't improve yourself instead of blaming everyone else and a whole tribe at that.

Mehn you are a baggage, I can see why she clearly left you. There are some baggages that are not worth carrying in a relationship regardless of the money involved.

You top the chart in that category bro.

BITTEREX:
You think i'm uncultured like your benue men? If i'm pained then it shows how genuine i was. I've had good relationships, but not with benue women.. Most girls these days are loose but these ones in particular are not for relationships.. Someone i planned to marry and see through school . You and ur sisters are the same. no point arguing with you

sorry o, oga school trainer.

The father to the fatherless one.
And the mother to the motherless one.

Goan train your sisters first. Yeye man.

The next girl na trailer she go use crush your heart by that time na jupiter aliens you go find go date

ArticleBeast:
Them call ur own u say them dey decent. Another person dey somewhere dey say them dey loose. Shey una see say na just yeye generalization Op dey. Every tribe has the good, bad and evil

lolz.

The op is bitter because the benue girl he wanted to play a fast one on, beat him to his own game to the extent he almost wanted to commit suicide.

This thread is the outcome of his sorry experience

BITTEREX:
There is a part of benue that give their wives to visitors for entertainment

crystalom3

lolz.

Y'all say a lot of hearsays. Foursome is now a benue thing?

You're a clown.

If you are making reference to the tiv culture, then you are mistaken.

When a man's friend visit his house, the man dedicate one of his wife to take care of the friend. This include fetching water for him to bath, cooking and serving his food, giving him wrapper to sleep in and all that.

This is what offering someone your wife means but to an outsider, you'll interpret it as the man giving his wife go another man to sleep with.

There's nothing sexual about it.

I've been to a tiv man's house and have lived there for over 5 years.

So, you are basically lieing again

BITTEREX:
Mary Ochigbo Ochanya is her name. May God punish her heavily for coming into my life and draining my resources

shatap abeg.

You only planned to f*ck and dump her but she beat you to your game.

Stop the whyning and grow up.

Can't believe you've created over 4 thread on a girl and still call her tribe useless.

BITTEREX:
Your sister sent me sex tape. If it's not all they can offer, what else?

and yet you almost ended your life because of her

BITTEREX:
Forget bro. All nations play football, but e get very few wey be champions. Naso some Benue people be for promiscuity..

crystalom3 , 99thEnemy i lie?

No worry. I don c how the benue girl shatter your heart for your profile.
You go dey alright las las

chocboi78:
Oga relax, he crossed a line there I agree, but he was also talking from experience and multiple hearsay’s. Besides where did u come up with some these facts @ bolded?

from experience and hearsay?

BITTEREX:
Every man got their opinion..

Every man does not have his opinions in the face of FACTS.

The fact is, only a person who HATES a tribe will take the wrong doing of one person and paint the whole tribe black.

Just as a racist whiteman thinks all black men are bad because of one black man.

Look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself, 'I'm a shameless tribalist'.

Secondly, mention your tribe here and don't be a Coward about it let's see if they are truly better than our Benue sisters.

99thEnemy:
I don't just understand why one pained human being will come out to stereotype a whole tribe from an experience with one person who his relationship didn't go well with.

From one girl and her sisters, e don turn Idoma people. now na Benue in general.

We have not less than 8 tribes in Benue and they are now all promiscuous because of OP's choice of so called girlfriend.



As a Tiv man that I am, come let me console you with 100 tubers of Yam for what my promiscuous Idoma sister from Benue did to you.

my brother e tire me o.

All the news of relationship wahala we have been Reading on nairalaland, nothing concern Benue but the yeye op, just de yarn dust.

How many troublesome divorce or court cases have you read on NL about Benue state

If op is not ashamed then let him mention his tribe let's c.

Omihanifa:
I currently live with two benue girls (Tiv) in my compound and I can tell you for free that they are shameless, very promiscuous, and uncivilised.

Sleeping around means nothing to them( they do it without shame,) like they can sleep with you just to buy basic things like toothpaste, fill gas, etc

They are experts in child marriages, their women (45-65) sleep with younger guys

My friend once forked mother and daughter (Tiv tribe) in Benue state for less than 4k and they both knew

Honestly something needs to be done to to salvage that tribe

lolz.

U live with ashawo.

Is ashawo peculiar to Benue girls alone?

BITTEREX:
Firstly, i'm not a tribalist. But i've been hearing alot about these set of Ladies from Benue especially the ones from idoma, till my first hand experience with one. They are indeed good cooks , no doubt very homely...

But the koko now be say, most of their marriages don't last , the men are unstable womanisers in marriages and the women are also very promiscuous, most of them abandon their homes .. Very few stay and keep the home together , while their men keep sleeping with many women like 2Baba.. lol

The girl from Benue i once dated has 4 sisters , 2 of her sisters took their children and left their husbands in less than 3yrs, the 3rd sister does hook up and is always going after her sister's boyfriends .. sending nudes to them and all manner of sodomy.. the 4th one has been doing hook up too, til she got pregnant by a man at 20 and the man had to forcefully marry her . The marriage is less than 7months, it may not last, rumours has it the child doesnt belong to the man.

Now, my Ex has been jumping from one short lived relationship to another after cheating on all her ex lovers in the name of survival .. Her relationship is strictly transactional... Once u stop providing or start asking questions, she leaves cruelly ... to sum it all , their mom left their father because he was polygamous and promiscuous , also she didnt want a man to control her.. lol

I didnt draw my conclusion from just my experience with my ex and her family.. But i also grew up with a family from Benue , i lived with them for 2yrs , i noticed the pattern and it's been exactly same occurrence and experience...

There is a high rate of narcissism in this people...

modified: I'm not generalising or condemning all men and women from Benue.. But if you wanna marry from there, you should investigate the family properly, don't ignore the patterns and red flags, genes dont lie...before dem go do u strong thing wey go shake ur foundation and liver..

First of all, you are a tribalist to the core but feel too ashamed to be yourself. And it really disgust me that you claimed not to be.

The way you painted this is like no one in Benue state is married

Or all girls in Benue state are unfaithful.


This is very far from the truth. Idoma girls are good cooks just as you have said. And if we are to count the number of broken homes in Nigeria, I'm sure idoma women will not make the top 200 list.

Secondly, the idomas are the most peace loving people in Benue state and probably the whole of Nigeria.

Don't because you've seen a problem with one family say it is so for the whole tribe.

Only Nigerian bank will wish you merry Xmas via SMS and still charge you for it.

Wazobia.

Listened to them a lot in those days..nedu, Ayo, and co with their cheke cheke.

Been long I listened to radio sha. Just music nowadays

thesicilian:
It's people like you that suddenly decide to dislike what they initially loved because some foreigners do not like it and you want to appear woke.

wisdom dey ur head.

Nor mind d mumu

Ty

I mean anyone can make a mistake. He's probably trying to make people listen to him hence the multiple stories.

At 3 am, anyone outside could be wary and the sound of something in the bush could possibly trigger fear in anybody.

But as usual, he could have asked "who's there?" before pointing his gun.

I know this could have been a mistake but that mistake has cost somebody's life.

"The marching orders are always the same. It has always been the same..."

Bunch of taxpayer's money waster

FriendsAndFans:
Clothes should be your least worries. Think about the books

without those clothes I can't go in for lectures.

For textbooks, I can always download and read them or snap lecture materials with my phone and read.

I really need the clothes for lectures. Not for fashion or anything.

KiNg0G:
okay, network poor, but he can access nairaland.

guy you self no quote me again

Bank network is different from phone networks.

Secondly he made the promise and I believed him.

Thirdly, you are feeling entitled to his help. I don't. Like I said, he's not obligated to help. He chose to make the promise of his own willingness.

Please I don't like this energy you are giving off on this thread. I didn't come here because I felt entitled to someone's property.

KiNg0G:
see the way him Just tell you to write am on whatsapp... other big men dem go fit say something don sup.

you dey come tell me say na promising level.

agbeg nor make me vex

I think you are getting this wrong though.

He wanted to help but network was poor.

KiNg0G:
all this promising people self.

lolz. Nothing do am o.

Na help e wan help. He doesn't owe me anything.


Things no easy for anyone now o

KiNg0G:
them don do one or two give you na, you still need more

sir I've received promises from one person

Please any help will really be appreciated.

January 3rd is our resumption and I have nothing to attend classes in. Please if you can, please help.

Thank you

Kalatium:
Too bad , benue is far

hmm

I understand sir.

Thanks for trying