₦airaland Forum

Koppaguard:
Please can you share the link, this one is not working.

Zhunnurayn:
Hi everyone, I'm deeply pressed. That's why I have to come to dear nairalanders to seek help. I just need someone to borrow me 10 I promise to repay 20k. I'm willing to share my personal info and details to who intends to help. If 10k not possible I can get 5k to repay 10k.
Reach me Watsapp 07080594179

Creamypie:
am, u are not a realist. Face reality, whether l.p or not, presidential tribunals no get any possibility of being upturned

Moh247:




Arguably one of the best FCT ministers and also best Kaduna State Governor

El Rufai is a natural born Administrator

ElRufai doesn't want to end up like Fashola or Osinbajo SAN...

If he joins Tinubu's Administration and Tinubu under performs (highly impossible) ElRufai would find it difficult contesting in 2027 or 2031



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Creamypie:
I strongly advise them both to drop this case. In the end, no tail or head go come out. Though my support was for l.p. all opposition should unite, without any selfish interest, against 2027. Selfish interest of opposition cause the split, making tilimbu succed.abubakir from north, couldn't even win north. His hope was south and east, and we got a far better/competent alternative in obi. Nigerians should brace up for at least 4 years more of hardship

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cazchi:
His guys,
This will be a bit long, but I ask for your honest, well meaning opinion.
Firstly, my approach to dating is to date to marry.
I'm 28 and she's 26. We are both professionals in our fields and we live outside Nigeria

We started dating a couple of months ago and she has expressed to me that she doesn't want to have sex or do anything sexual before marriage, which I thought of deeply and accepted.

She also has said things like she would like yo adopt a child one day, she would get a cook in the house and some strong religious beliefs as well, all of which I've been thinking about.

In recent times however, I haven't been able to stomach something and have spoken out. Please see below for some occasions:

1. Thursday 26/04/23:

She had suggested that we involve God in what we were doing about our relationship and that she needed to pray about it and get His direction before going forward with the relationship. I agreed and told her to take all the time she needed, that I’ll also do the same.

We didn’t talk for a few days and I had a truly intense session with God where I had driven my car out to a secluded area and prayed and called on him for my direction.
She later called me on Sunday, 3 days after we went mute, while I was at work (night shift) and said she had prayed about it and that she liked many things about me and that these are the things she would want in a husband, but that my faith is the one thing that isn't as strong and that it is something she wasn’t sure about. I listened and we discussed where I was with the Catholic Church and my transition and open mindedness in search for the truth and where to serve God. She then suggestef some books and also sent me a testimony from her mum. She then explained the other things she got from her break, but still sounded unsure whethet she wanted this relationship. Towards the end of our conversation, it dawned on me that we had spoken about her experience and her views on me as a partner, taken a break, but hadn’t even touched on mine or my experiences. I was disturbed by this and called her out on it. We argued and said our goodnight after.

2. Wednesday 03/05
We were talking about family, children and roles in the house. She started to ask me about my past relationships and how many women I’ve been with. I answered only the first question. She then said something about men being with women but then marrying a woman who is clean/hasn’t been with other men. I ignored that statement. She asked me if I’d marry a woman who has been with many men, I said no. She went on about that as well, arguing that it was hypocrisy. I haven't even been with many women, mostly those I've dated.

3. Friday 5/05/23
We were talking and I shared with her some issues I was dealing with I.e. my housemate deeply betraying my trust and hurting me and as such, I was going to end that relationship and keep my distance. She then revealed that she had matched and briefly conversed with my housemate on a dating app around the time we started talking, which I didn’t have an issue with, but she said she had recognised him when I introduced them. I felt as though she could’ve told me earlier. Moving on, after I’d shared my experience and decision with her, she made a blanket statement that it’d be unwise to cut my friend off and then went on a tangent about something she didn’t fully understand.
After listening to her, I asked her if she had even asked how I was coping with this, if I was ok or where I was with it first before straightaway undermining the decision that I had made based of my own experience. She went on trying to justify it and then made a flimsy apology at the end.
At the end, we had a truce and I remembered that we had been talking about the church before ( she’s Pentecostal, I’m Catholic, but leaning away from Catholicism for personal reasons) and I told her I would like to come to her church on the third Sunday of the month and that I would like her to come to my service the following week ( this service happens once a month because it is an Igbo service). She declined saying that she doesn’t believe In the Catholic Church. I asked her to perhaps comes for the cultural aspect and to also meet the people that are in my life. She refused, I kept quiet.

4. 07/05/23
We were discussing and the church came up again. She had a lot to say about the Catholic Church (mostly things I’d told her). She seemed to have developed such strong views against the Catholic Church. After we had discussed it, I asked her if she had ever been to the Catholic Church or if she understood the ways of the church? She said no. I asked her this “if your friend was getting married in the Catholic Church, would you go?” She said yes. I asked how that would be any different to her visiting my community to meet them and learn more about why I’m leaning away from that church. She couldn’t reply, but was trying to justify her stance. We argued and then ended the conversation.


I'm deeply worried about these because she always has a response to everything. She rarely wants to be corrected and has strong views of what she doesn’t understand. Are these fundamental issues that can be resolved? Am I being too compromising?

Thanks for your time!

Killbillz:
All these mumu and their lala land fantasies... Reptilians ko amphibians ni 😆😆😆

benzion72:
If I know how to make certain income I will be so busy making the money and not have time to teach others.
Most of this training is to reap people off of there hard earn money

Funkyswagzz:
Its about 3 months i broke up with my ex so i decided to go on adventure to find another lady i want to call my girlfriend. So i had to connect with more than 5 different girls locally and outside my state. So far i have invited 5 girls to my house that i like within this month of April. Out of those five girls i decided to pick 2 that are good march to me. Basically i though about how I've spent so from April 2 to 29 and i came up with roughly 130k. To some it might not be much but i think it was worth it cos i found two beautiful souls i will choose to marry. I cant put my eggs in one basket again and this time i will make it snappy cos theres no time to waste. By August or September i will propose to one of them. Guy wish me luck🤞🤞

IamdbuII:
For a minute I thought I was Davido with the way eyes were on me.

It was later that I discovered that it was because of my beautiful up and down outfit, which you can also wear as top only or joggers only which I was putting on.

The dress was made by my clothing company called @maldives_island_collections.

You can check us out on Instagram if you like it

WesternPanzer:
Am an Igbo man. But May God empower you more Sanwo OLU! Show no mercy. Anyday you stop the destruction, may death amd destruction never depart from your family and that of your supporters in Jesus mighty name. Amen.

Nothing gives me joy everyday than the pulling down of so called Igbo structures in Lagos. I prayed everyday for this and God seems to be answering.

I really wish Sanwo Olu can destroy Computer village, ASPAMDA, LADIPO and Alaba. Those markets are meant to be in Eastern region. Asin totally destroy them. Some Ndigbo need to have sense.

I have one of my Anambra brothers who has over 20 estates in Lagos alone. 15 are all on the island alone... LIKE WHAT DA HELL? On another mans region?

Abandon property of old did not teach you people anything? Unu abudi iddiot? Chukwu kpoo unu oku dia.

Another very stupid Igbo man from same Anambra has over 40 houses in Ogba and Ojodu berger. The way this man was investing into properties even got me scared. But this same iddiot has only 2 buildings in the East. What a buffon!

Such volume of Real Estate should be in your village in the East even if its not yielding money! Build and abandon it there in the East!

You get mind dey develop another man region? Dey call am no man's land? Are you an iddiot? Don't you think of our future generations who will come in 100 years time?

Ndi All over the world, continue developing Lagos and Nigeria inugo? Umu MPAMA! You see these things all over the forum saying all sorts about your region and you think they don't mean it?

Honestly Sanwo Olu should continue with the destruction of all Igbo properties both LEGAL and ILLEGAL. There is something we are looking for.

If They runaway from the destruction of Igbo properties they started, may death and destruction never depart from their families and lineage in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.

unamamatoto:
Someone or persons with the knowledge of the unseen / metaphysical should share, for insights please...

Hotwest:
I use to fancy the female body before but recently I now see their boobs easily and most of these their cow like shapes. I no come dey like woman again

Their body somehow disgust me when I strip them naked...They only look good on clothes...Strip a typical Nigerian girl with 60watts bulb on u won't enjoy the sight of the full naked body

Lemmy123:
Well, you can paint Lagos bad all you want for your self consolations, but you can't take out the fact that Lagos is the best performing state in Nigeria, sadly...

Flood can happen anywhere, and I'm sure this would be fixed very soon. Peace ✌️

PS: I'm from the middlebelt I'm not even Yoruba just in case you want to start

Sitwalkstand:
He is an oddity in the scheme of life. my opinion

IyaebeTheGreat:
He gave the son just a landed property in Abuja. He really did him dirty and the son is very responsible.

Ronaldo723:
My girlfriend went to school on Saturday to do her clearance and a random guy just stopped her they talked and he gave her 200k to use eat because she told him she is stressed.

Mehn when she told me I was like omo guys day ooo I then collected 30k from the money
Will you call the guy a simp?

Hamachi:
She has a chain on her leg and not her brain. I know a GM who puts on leg chain and she is ta very smart woman.

It's just as some companies won't take you for using Hijab, the head is covered and not the brain.

We need to have a paradigm shift in our mindset and focus on what is most important.

And if at all a company sees it as being against their culture, is it not better it is discussed with the candidate at the interview.

But I have a question, did the company told the candidate that you did well but because you are putting on a leg chain we can't hire you. We need to be careful with how we get one sided reports
Simple solution would be to communicate that the dress code to the employee.
You reject a good fit cos of leg chain.
Next thing they will employ the incompetent person who wore suit and tie. What is the goal really?
Also what is the meaning of leg chain in Nigeria?
Our mothers proudly wore beads on their wrists, legs, waist and necks so what changed? How did they suddenly become evil in Africa
All is well

Borntosmoke:
This stupid girl won dey play games with me. When we were dating you did not tell me u get any disease. Na when we wan f..uck unko dey tell me say u get HIV that whatever I see I should bear with it.
As say sharp guy wey don read gridpiller post and ilegend book die!!! I double condom bang that punnaoo. You won dey joke with me. Tommorow I go still f..uck her. Before dem use me I go use my sense

Zonefree:
You should be concerned how and where to charge your phone, besides, that girl may be laying beside a man while chatting with you. Don't be surprised sha

HellVictorinho7: