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HellVictorinho7:
spits

on yourself?

Taunt:
You sure say no be siofra you meet with so.
She is poorly rich, or rather wealthy poor.
Asin sapally rich,hei!
How do I put it sef.

may we not be poorly rich, iseeee!

🤣🤣🤣

There are many ways I would like to talk on this topic.

But again, there's no time for you to read everything nor for me to write everything.

So, we go keep am short, make we de alright las las.

As a man, you should know when a woman loves you.

It is very important.

Your health, wealth, emotional well-being and the future of your future family is dependent on that singular factor.

Fortunately for you, you have a right to choose who to marry.

Yes, the ball is in your court. Many women may not date you now but when it comes to marriage, you are the one doing the choosing.

But here's where most men get screwed up: they choose the women that loves them less.

But that they love the most.

It's an epidemic out there. It's a plaque. It's a problem.

Think about this, "you see a young yahoo boy married to an old wrinkled white grandma"

The first thing that comes to your mind is that he did it for the paper and green card.

The same thing happens when you see a very pretty girl married to an old, ugly white man.

She probably did it for the paper.

No matter how much Regina Daniel tries to convince you that she married Ned Nwoko for love, you'd laugh it off.

Everyone knows she did it for the paper.

Yet, most men make the same terrible mistakes.

And you'll make the same terrible mistakes.

Of course Ned Nwoko probably loves Regina Daniel, (of course he does). But that doesn't matter.

The question is, does she love her as much? Will she stand when there's nothing?

Will you marry a wrinkled old granny if there's no paper or green card involved?

Of course not.

Yes, you want a pretty woman. Someone that looks like she just stepped out of the front page of a magazine.

But will she love you in return. That's the most important thing.

I'm not saying you are not worth a beautiful girl. I'm not saying you are not fit to marry someone as pretty as any of the models.

I'm just saying, make sure their heart are yours before you go into marriage. Be 💯 sure that you can rely on her.

If na iPhone girl you dey date, you sha go know. If na buy me this and buy me that, you go know.

Every man always knows.

Check out all the marriage palava thread, they always start with "although I used to see or feel this her behavior during our dating days"

You'll always see through the girl you are with when dating.

But you'll mumulishly think, you have it under control or that it doesn't matter or worst, you love her so much or she's just so pretty you may not find another one.

Lolz. Keep daydreaming my sleeping handsome prince 😂😂

I agree with this for the most part.

But again, in matters like this using "most", "some" is very important.

And even at that, we can't help the generalization and "putting all women in the same basket"

Not all virgins will love you for who you are. Certainly, virginity does not automatically transform a woman's character.

And not all evening newspapers and over used kpek*s are with bad characters.

Some are (you cannot say good because a good girl is supposed to be somewhat decent), well will love you genuinely.

But I blame the men for the most part. Instead of looking for signs to see if a girl truly loves you before going ahead to marry her.

Most men get delusional. They see her as the only option like they would never find another 'treasure" like her.

So, they love her and she never loves back. And they won't let go because of her beauty and the sex.

Most men are the problem. You give love and age doesn't return it but you keep staying.

Surely, after dating a woman for 6 months you should be able to tell

DaddyFreeze2020:
Lazy women are the ones who marry lazy men .
No woman with vision will wait for a man who can't meet her needs to settle down with. Only lazy women wait for a man to meet their needs.

A hardworking woman working can never wait for a man to give her something. Only Shawarma, iphone and icecream girls

emotional damage

Banilla:


He'll likely leave behind debts for his own children to inherit.

do children really inherit father's debt?

We go fight o

Banilla:
If chioma was unattractive, would Davido notice her?

So the women are nothing more but wombs and nannies?

What makes you think the children would love him when they are older? They witnessed how he treated their mothers.

If they go to him, it's for his money. But I guess it's better to be used by your children than your baby mamas.

he's not under any obligation to take care of her.

Abi because she born for Wizkid, she dey take care of Wizkid?

The nigga hustle hard for his money. She should hustle for hers.

A child is not a meal ticket.

Again, a child is not a meal ticket.

The little guy can hate him if he grows up. Most of them are programmed to do so anyways.

Even if he gave them money, chances are she will tell the boy another lie like he's an absent father, he only gave you money. He's deadbeat and doesn't care.

Relationships never favour men.

Queendera:
this guy go insult you without insulting you 🤣🤣

never my intention ma

Goodlady:
Ok. Let's say I v been harsh with the insults. You sef know say you deserve small.
But realistically, you don't need to blame any lady that didn't open legs for you or any man. A goodlady isn't trained that way. You must earn sex and it's purely by legal marriage after courtship.
You can only blame yourself for having sexual urges before marriage cos that's what made you to attempt to sleep with those that refused you.

madam I don't earn sex. I don't work for it because it's not something I'm supposed to work towards.

How hard is that for some of you to understand?

It's irritating to see a man building himself and his relationship with a woman and the woman feels she'll "reward" that effort with sex.

Honey, not all men are hungry for it and ready to sacrifice all their life's efforts on the alter of sex.

Sex is not a reward for all the efforts I put into loving a woman. It's vile, irritating and frustrating to even think my woman is thinking that.

It's like saying, the only reason why you love your child as a mother is because you know that one day your child will be the one to take care of you.

How would you feel if that's all your child thinks about for all the love and care you give to them?

It's that mentality that I hate. That deep sitted belief disgust me.

See, there's a reason why I'll never have anything to do with any girl that sees herself as decent or holy or pure. It comes from a very very deep place.

And no, your insult don't mean jack to mean because everything you said was not true.

brutustech:
Is it a compliment?

it is an observation.

This is yellow.

No, this is definitely not a yellow.

jeff1993:
True talk.....

One of the first things I check out when I want to date a lady is to check how religious she is .... if she is that kind that has that mentality "Marriage is the price for sex", I will just silently disengage myself unless she has other undeniable qualities i like.

Most of them feels doing normal stuffs in relationship like cooking, lending helping hand to their partner should be reserved for only men that has married them meanwhile they won't hesitate to collect monetary items and gifts from u and asked to be treated like the only woman in the world. They know how to be very very stingy with emotions.

you get?

Most of them just assume that you are talking about sex whenever you bring on this topic.

Love and happiness is a process. It's like building a house. Marriage is roofing it.

You crown the effort to love and be happy with marriage.

Nowadays, instead of loving and genuinely caring, they want you to marry them before everything.

Goodlady:
Ori e buru!
After effect of the sense I nailed on your head. Leave me and God alone. Baba knows I no dey pretend. But you this idíotic sex starved boy is here lamenting cos many ladies that you wished to shag don outsmart you.
Lament, wail in pieces. You fit the men in my siggy.

you feel insulting me will make me Burge to start insulting you back?

Common, levels dey dis life. I don't play in the mud.

Again, deliberately I choose not to insult you. You can give yourself the accolades for your imaginary argument competition you organized and won.

Shalom

Goodlady:
Your mom na condemn abi. Idiot said he wouldn't touch me. How ll you touch me?
Are we mates or in same class?
Mumuboy that's hungry. Eat and grow sense!

again, a pure and righteous lady but your mouth is filled with bile and all sorts of profanity.

My dear, sex doesn't make you dirty. These things you say. These hatreds you harbor. These malice. These unforgivness. These looking down on other creatures of God.

These things make you unfit and unworthy to be called a child of God or a decent woman fit for marriage.

Not sex.

We have seen non virgins happily married. A good proof that a "good" girl is not defined by sex.

Shalom.

Goodlady:
You should be glad girls are dating your type. What's your problem if a lady refuse to release her pússy?
Even in marriage, your types deserve strict time table before having sex. Cos you are against teachings that warned ladies of being pure. Shey you think say we foolish and we don't know a lot of your short black and broke one boxer short for a week boys are all kids and tell. You v sex with Ngozi, Sade, Amina and you tell John, Ahmed and Obi.
If you think closing legs irritates you, look for a hoe and marry. When you v a girl child, tell her to be a cheerful giver or you say become an anfani adugbo (street benefit).

You are pained you v met girls that didn't give you at all or give you anyhow you want.
Painment

*pukes

I wouldn't touch your p*ssy even if served on a platter of gold... literally.

And it's one thing to call yourself decent, holy and pure but when you open your mouth, all you spill is profanity that will shock even the devil himself.

But hey, you are holy because you don't f*ck.

And to everyone reading this, you can see the sort of reasoning I keep talking about. They brainwashed these girls to think that only sex matters. No character development, no true righteousness, no true hard work or patience.

God helps the man that marry these mistakes.

Read this. Goodlady.

Don't worry, I don't have time to insult anyone. Everyone is as God created them to be, that's what I've learned from my Bible.

nicerod:
60 % true


I experienced something like this last year



Mo japa

this video is a concrete example of what I'm saying.

Just listen to what this preacher is teaching his congregation about relationships in this 15 seconds clip

This is all shades of wrong

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CpdDiACDsdd/

People, especially women need to start thinking for themselves.

Adding you too @almarthins

zikter:
Everyone with their choices. You can marry a church girl, a mosque girl or go to brothel and marry. It is all a matter of choice. The bottom line is what works for others may not work for some. And no source of marriage is a guarantee to a successful marriage. It all depends on how matured the two of you are to solve your unavoidable issues that will arise

@bolded.
Exactly the point I have been trying to make.

Instead of teaching girls that all that they need to do is abstain from sex and everything will be alright.

Or that sex is the reason why they will fail in life, not go far or spoil their future.

We should focus on the individual character. Let's mould the child to look inward and choose to be a better person.

Teach these girls what it feels like to love. What it feels like to be loved. How to treat their partner. How relationship is hard work and filled with compromises. How a happy home is not a reward but one of years of trial and errors and mistakes.

Most of these girls are simply not in the business of building. They just want to pack into an already finished and furnished house all because they've been taught that if they keep themselves, then their rewards is a good big man.

Ha. Nowadays I see any holy girl na run I dey run. You no go understand.

Autobot05:
You're contradicting yourself here @ the bolded



God doesn't support fornication... and I didn't mention the word "Sex"

not contradiction.

It's the assumption that everything I said earlier was all because sex.

Yes, I f*cked my girls.

But I hate when they feel everything about them, myself and the relationship should revolve around that 30-one hour of pleasure (just so you know, sex is not 5 minutes of pleasure, try telling brother Joshua the next time he's preaching about sex that some of us go up to hours).

I guess in your Bible God agrees with decievers and liars?

Because mentioning fornication and saying you didn't mention sex, is like saying I took it because no one was looking but didn't steal it.

Again a liar and a deciever but somehow feeling righteous because the sister f*cking is a bigger sinner.

It's the same thing with these religious ladies. Instead of being taught to actually be good and work hard, they are taught, all they need is to abstain from sex and everything else will fall in line.

Fornication or no fornication, you are good if you are good and bad if you don't work on yourself.

Sex is not the ultimate. Character, affection, understanding and submission are the ultimate.

Queendera:
how come sex is always the first thing that comes to religious people's mind.

Do you know you guys discuss sex way more than you discuss God?

Like I read through and the op never talked about sex.

lolz.

Go to church today and all they talk about is sex.

Sex is this. Sex is that. Sex will do this. Sex will do that.

Yet, most of them never even experienced it. It's like the blind leading the blind.

My first religious girl once said "once we have sex, the relationship will die slowly"

Because she has been brainwashed to believe that nonsense.

A relationship that will last 4 years later.

Stephen0mozzy:
The only problem is that you are confusing sex with the word 'love' that you're throwing around.

You didn't mention anything about character or attitude towards anything else.

sex and love are the foundation of marriage or any relationship.

Take away sex from marriage and it dies.

That's how important sex is. Regardless of how much you try to belittle it.

Just as you belittle the importance of money and yet, 99% of the time in your churches, all you talk about is how to become rich.

I hate that hypocrisy in their relationship.

Autobot05:
Simply because they decide not to fornicate right ??

Well I agree with the " my pastor said" part ... it's silly because most of those pastors are just screwing them up


Say no to fornication

now this is the funny thing.

I sex any lady I'm with. In fact, I don't agree with no sex before marriage, it doesn't matter whether you fell from heaven.

So, obviously you are getting this wrong, just like how those brainwashed girls do.

For you guys, it's always about sex, sex and sex. Once two people are dating, you automatically assume anything they talk about is sex.

Gosh, can't you guys just talk about your God instead of sex?

Now this might seem trivia until you are hooked up to the horse and dragged in the mud of frustration as a man.

There's nothing more annoying than being seen as a sin as a man.

Honestly, if I recall some of my previous relationships experiences as I type this, I feel like smashing my phone.

Nothing is worst than being treated as a penis in a relationship.

Nothing.

Stay safe out there. If you find a girl that's good enough and loves and respects you, forget it, you've gotten the jackpot.

No let anyone use religion as a form of "being a good girl" to kee you.

It's even the way these ladies dream about their future husband and home. Lolz.

No go work. They think say by enstranging men, God will give you the perfect man later in life.

As a lady I wish you understood that life is a process. Not a reward.

People get good home through hard work, not a reward from "being good". People get rich from the process of work, not from praying and "i receive it".

Shalom.

I have been very observant of religious ladies lately and honestly, it is not only frustrating but almost impossible to reason with them correctly.

For context, I have dated one or two of them in the past and from what I have seen, i probably will never have anything to do with a "religious" or "holy" lady again in anything concerning relationship or marriage.

Here's why, the brainwashing has become too much.

For most religious ladies, sex feels like the ultimate price in a relationship.

For everything you do for them out of love, it feels to them like you are just trying to get in their pants.

They measure the worth of a man's effort by their p*ssy rather than see a man as a human being, they rather see you as a "pen*s".

Hence any good you do, doesn't mean good.

I don't know if you understand the above.

Secondly, they've been taught to put the cart before the horse rather than the horse before the cart.

Everything to them comes after marriage. "do this"

"no, I can't do that since we are not married"

"do that"

"no I'll only do that after marriage"

Marriage seems like the line they need to cross before they can show affection or love.

But love and happiness needs to happen before marriage. You need to make your partner happy now not after marriage.

Instead of understanding that marriage is the reward and not the process of love, these girls believe marriage is the foundation of love.

Hence as a man, if you are ever dating one, you will find yourself constantly struggling to be loved. You'll find yourself constantly begging to be shown affection. Why? Because they believe they will only show care to you only after marriage.

Any guy who has dated a religious lady can verify this.

Thirdly, they have another authority.

Who is a man who wishes his wife listened to other people more than him?

No man.

"my pastor say" overrides every decision the husband makes.

No need to talk much on this.

And dating to them actually feels like they are doing you a favor rather than being a partner.

Lolz.

Someone feels like you can't find any other girl like her again simply because they've created a line of division between themselves and everyone else.

If you are looking for a healthy, sweet and loving lady. Someone who is warm towards you and not afraid to reciprocate your affections, look outside.

Abi1985:
Since the time I was born, I have never seen a pastor carry gun and force person to give offerings or tithe.

So why are churches getting bad rep? No be by force to give, if you do not want to give, then do not give. After all, na your own money, so it is up to you to give or not to give. If you feel pressure or you are reluctant to give, please do not give at all.

If they talk sow a seed of 10,0000 naira or 50 naira, and you do not have or you do not want to give, do not stress yourself at all. Give what you can give easily and cheerful and if you do not want to, then don't.

Pastor can use words to persuade someone to give. At the end of the day, it is up to individuals to decide to give or not. So leave the Pastors and let them be.

If Pastor fly private jet, well good for him. If he use body guards, good for him. The body guards are getting paid and the private jet is not free.

this is like saying scammers and fraudsters shouldn't be arrested because they did not force you to part with your money. You gave it to them freely.

How we reason when religion is concerned is too wrong. There's something called deception. Your God hates deception.

There's something called manipulation. There's something called intimidation and fear. Blackmail. All these are emotional and criminal.

ICEWIN:
No be the swtest deal b this for nairaland.

OK. Offer your own bruv

Receiving steady dose of shege at 10shege per seconds

Mary of our generation. Virgin wey dey cum

Dangrace01:
Oga the earth does not resolve around the sun. The earth is static stop swallowing science without thinking for yourself and doing your own research. Its the sun and the moon that moves.



The earth is absolutely flat

you are absolutely correct. At the bottom of the earth, there's a dragon supporting the weight.

Sometimes the dragon moves and the earth shakes and quakes, resulting in earthquake and tremors.

I have some blurry video proofs of the dragon. It was leaked from NASA

Dangrace01:
Dont allow Nasa deceive you.

No man can cross van Allen belt

The highest man can go is lower low orbit.

Nasa keep deceiving the world just to collect budget tax payers money.

All this space elon musk nd virgin galactic space program is lower earth orbit

and somehow you're privileged to this information while over 10 million American scientists not working for NASA don't know about it...

Alright, kwantinue. We believe you

Phone is still available.

Buharidgeneral:
Na your shop be that?

try dey use your head na. So na inside shop you go buy unbox phone abi you no see receipt beside the phone?

If no one will tell you, me go tell you. Baba go an work on your relationship.

If you see her chatting with other guys e no go pain you too?

Her emotions matter too.

I'm not saying goan apologize. Next time you meet with her ask her what the problem really is and why she wanna break up.

Sit with her and solve the problem like a man. Instead of putting your ego first...

If you see a long term with her, then apologize and explain how those girls don't mean anything and then promise her that you will try and stop leading them on.

Let's stop putting pride before communication in relationship. Na why we get plenty broken homes today

SporaD8:
On the contrary, you're myopic.

If tommorow humans eventually discovers the life-spark as natural phenomenon, like you, whatsoever life-form we created will also deny our existence and contribution, and argue they evolve from Inorganic matter!

Fact remains that - No matter the exactitude of the composition of an Organic-Matter, if it's not taken from an existing Organic-Matter, it remains Lifeless!


Lailai! Noone can form Life; only evolution - from Inorganic to organic!(No be me talk am oo!)

bordering on delusion now.

People like you once thought we couldn't fly, but here we are.

Who thought that computers as large as the room you're in now could one day fit into the palm of your hand?

People like you once thought we can't form glucose but now even secondary students can produce glucose in their labs.

Today we can grow people in the lab if we wish.

Tomorrow, it's only a matter of time before we become gods and create all living things as we desire. Nothing is impossible except to the myopic