Suunnn:

To answer your question

I will make it simple and straight, and impartial because you seem partial

Why do most men marry, a woman,, with everything best in her,,, and still go about keeping secret girls here and there?

Why do most men approach a woman with the intent of making her his yet happen to cheat??

Zonefree:
Na oloshos full everywhere...na mumu dey keep Olosho.

HellVictorinho6:



Nothing but questions about her identity , ambitions/plans to know more about her... she answered some then .asked why I was asking of others.... I tried to explain.... but I wonder ... what's the use of all the drama,?


Over what?


Am wondering too.......

Demonicus:
I've got commitment and trust issues, that's why I mostly keep to myself in other not to waste anybody daughters time.

Savedday:
Know this from today that, all 9ja girls are public toilet ...... All of them

HellVictorinho6:




What if she sees my phone calls and messages as a reason to kill me......., also referring to my presence as an abomination?.?

HellVictorinho6:



Why can't a girl or woman keep me?

HellVictorinho6:
Spits

marlow1962:
I no dy take rubbish from person, display signs of mental illness and I discharge you immediately.

Treat me the way I treat you, if I treat u nicely and you do me like trash ( I go beat u cun trash u out)

I hate lazy gals, bring that feminist bullshit near me, I slap one of ur eye comot (na hu u wn dy follow do that nonsense)

I no fit say wit woman wer get bad character, if u like get the biggest breast for the whole world (idgaf).

habsydiamond:
Red Flags are my own reasons for backing out of relationships... this is majorly because of all I see in relationship around.. once I start seeing negativity that's the end to the relationship

Donwizbro:
I don't know if it's normal, but I tend to lose interest on a woman when I sense you're so obsessed with me. I once had a girlfriend that can call me like fifteen times a day. She can come to my place almost everyday without even telling me. Last year's Valentine she bought me alot of gift, and I was so ashamed I didn't even remember it was Valentine peoriod talk more of reciprocating the good gesture. I've never loved a woman like her in my life. But she's making me scary af
I think I might have ptsd due to the numerous breakups I had.
Sometimes I just stare at her and wished she is with someone more serious than I am. Seriously, that girl is a good woman, a good soul, well mannered too.. she's never asked a penny from me.

dazzlingd:
Our galaxy has several billions of stars. Our sun is just among the several billions and it has nine planets with one planet with life.

Tell me why there won’t be live in some of these solar systems among the several billions

There are several trillions of galaxies in the universe… so tell me why there won’t be live in several of these other galaxies

There are uncountable different beings in the universe and humans are just one of the several ones out there.

dazzlingd:

You have short foresight

Jeromejnr:


Even many news programs show new sightings.

Its not hard to do research.

SporaD8:

On this thread alone, 2 people shared there encounter. Yet people like you'll believe what they needed is deliverance. On second thought, you should expect people who lived near airport to have more encounter with airplanes than those in rural villages.

More reasons why you should believe the footages - the encounters are usually Amateurish because it's accidental - impromptu and improvising with any available recording or third-force surveillance device(Ufos are not primarily here for photoshoot); Blurry because of motions and lack of time to fine-tune camera settings



i.e AMERICA IN SPACE :
ACTUAL ACCOUNT - 1960 - Successful launch - Alien encounter - SOS from astronaut - Lost Contact...
****
EDITED MOVIE/NEWS - 1960 - Successful Launch - Alien Encounter - Face-off - Alien Captured - Discovered it's a mask KGB secret spy! - Alien is a Hoax... the end!

OGwales:
Soon... Nigeria will be free, once Jagaban takes over. God bless Nigeria

opeyy:


I don't think I implied this here...We all know that no one is perfect so everyone has their own BS. Just saying that what a woman would tolerate because she is dependent on the man is very different to when she is not. I am sure I referred to partnering, this implies that both parties have to meet in the middle, and put in the same energy to make it work.

Medianna:

Brothers are not smiling.
You give them peace they give you sorrows.

opeyy:


Your POV is not what I meant. Many women I know cannot keep a man due to them being independent, not for fear of this being taken. In simple terms, as an independent woman, you become allergic to BS. You don't have to entertain a man's BS and can very quickly move on if he is not partnering with you, because you're not dependent on the man.

Malawian:

Man was created in God's image and likeness, meaning man is like what God or "aliens" should look like. Not collaborating anything on this thread though, just saying!

opeyy:
Independence. Period!

Purpletee:
I lose interest too quick

etrange:
The fact that you asked ladies, but the men are all over the thread insulting/abusing thier mothers and sisters is enough to explain why keeping men might be difficult. Men can be inhibitions, they don't give space for thier women to be fulfilled in thier own rights. They see ladies as elements to complete thier own picture without caring much about the ladies' picture. In fact, men want to evolve while ladies don't, and that's not practical. This mostly apply to African men. So asking the women to say why they can't keep a man without blaming men invariably implies you've already concluded it is the woman's fault. In other words, you've already blamed the women and you're just forcing them to accept it and 'confess' thier guilt.

Finally, it's not anyone's duty to keep anyone. People either stay or go.

fman:
c'mmon fade off!!
If you where smart enough, u would have ignored...
But r just a lame and confused nairalander..
(f) today. (m) tomorrow...

Medianna:

I can't even be playing that game of who has value and who doesn't have value.
My own is in English,invaluable mean something of high value.
Shikena!!!!

Jeon:


Yes ooh.. Men are always Saints.

ukaface:
Na mad men full this thread

Jeon:
Why will an invalueable product be keep?
Keeping a man is not an accomplishment.


To keep a man you have to have so much patience and allow a lot of shit most of them are not willing to allow.
It’s easier to walk away in this day and age then to suffer to “keep a man” for 10 or 20 years.


You have better luck keeping an African parrot!.

But DaddyCK, is differ.