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Cakhama:
Repulsion between couples may come from many sources (bad habits and repulsive personalities like you've mentioned) but on this particular occasion, I was referring to wives finding their husbands sexually repulsive. Unfortunately, sometimes, it could be as a result of something beyond the husband's control. The husband may be what she never imagined she would end up with and she finds herself struggling to adjust to that reality. Her mind just can't come to bring her body to respond to him. Forget all that overweight, out of shape stuff. He's just not what she wanted (no fault of his).

Some husbands experience this too, but on this particular occasion, I addressed wives because the OP came from a wife.

Cakhama:
No.

Cakhama:
You are lucky you got to experience what mind-blowing sex feels like. A lot of married women cannot relate. They were doomed from Day 1.

You're lucky to have experienced being turned on at one point. A lot of women got married to men they were never sexually attracted to. They don't even know how being turned on feels like, particularly if the husband is in boxers. They find their husbands to be very repulsive.

Good thing you did not paint a fake picture of your marriage like many do.

Iamafinegirl:
Lol@ interesting
That’s quite ambiguous
I can’t seem to interpret the “interesting”.... it seems to entail a lot.
Pls kindly shed more light on that word

Iamafinegirl:
24-28

Iamafinegirl:
I am working but working from home currently.
I stay alone in a big family friend’s house in this city since the house was empty.
Most of my colleagues at work are guys and old people (45,50,59 and above). The few ladies (2) stay far, are older and are married and have kids so they don’t really have that freedom to chill and all that. Na house dem d seat all day or market. Not funky women per say.
My local church....hmmm....big church wey u no go know anybody but joining a service unit wld help to narrow down to a church family unit.
I should have done that @service unit but been slacking...
Reason why? I don’t know but I am dedicated to church just the service unit thing I haven’t done yet.
I don’t know how to make friends no place to go to meet people like that or Mayb I am not so social. Where do they meet people abeg or how sef?
My point is it’s a dry city.
Window shopping....sure once in a while I do and it helps especially if just dead bored of being home.
Movies....I feel like I am wasting my life after watching two movies.
I usually just go for self improvement courses etc but you can’t do that 24hours. but then if you are alone ...u go still look around see say na only u dey house.
It wouldn’t be this much obviously once I commence working from office.

Parachoko:
Nah people like Una dey derail this thread.

Romanoff:
If her period ended on December 2nd, there's no way she can get a positive pregnancy test when you both had sex on 24th December.

If she's on a 28 day cycle, her ovulation/ fertile period should have been around 10th to 14th depending on the length of her cycle. 10 days after the 14th is 24th December. If you had sex then, there's no way she could have gotten a positive pregnancy test by 30th December.

How do y'all even have sex without protection in this day and age that almost everyone is having sex with anything and anyone?

Una no dey fear for Una life o.

The gestational age corresponds with her last period but she prolly slept with someone else before you around her fertile period. The time you slept with her is around the 26th day of her cycle and there's no way that baby could be yours.

Odiriance4all:
Who cares , i lives in the island , and have made up my mind to never visit mainland again especially ikorod axis until after third mainland bridge is fully open because I pass through hell last week I nearly commit suicide on the road due to traffic gridlock

iamoyindamola:
If that thing shock you, it will throw you out of nairaland

DaddyRochie1642:
Madam if nobody here wants to tell you the truth, then I DaddyRochie will Tell you the Bitter Truth.


From your Story up there, you are displaying the typical Nigerian woman Selfishness and I say this without Remorse.... Even if that man eats Five times a day and you eat twice a day, the mistake you made from the beginning is to wait for the man to complain first before you start contributing to food stuffs,

I read in your story where you said you and him contributed half of the money to pay for the DStv subscription and you said you find it absurd..Didnt your mother tell you that marriage is all about Team-Work.. don't you know genuine team work from the parties involved moves a team forward.

Let me tell you a Secret, anytime you hear a woman say "I'm Fighting for my Marriage or I Will Fight For my Marriage",... believe me, that woman made that Statement because she invested alot of effort into that marriage, thats why she won't let that marriage crumble just like that without a Fight.


Lastly, why do I have this feeling that you just moved in with that man out of Pity,

I put it to you that you have no feelings for that man.. you moved in with that man with this mentality of
"I Deserve to be taken care of and he is supposed to move heaven and Earth to take care of Me".... Better discard that Foolish mentality in your Head and Contribute positively to that man's Life, give that man peace of mind, support that man, you don't need to wait for him to start lamenting.

I know you have no feelings for that man, and you're with him out of Pity, stop Deceiving yourself and that man and do the needful.

A smart woman will never see anything wrong in equal contribution in order to move a home forward that she will still enjoy the Lion Share in the Long Run.

Simply put, I can tell you without Remorse that you're not Mentally ready for Marriage..go and meet your mother to educate you more on marriage.

MrFinbarr:
If you check through the write up, you'll see where I posted a wax/ceramic coating liquid I normally use on my car every 3 months.

loveify:
Please I do... I have a laptop and I'm good ICT wise. Can you help me?

Chii59:
Sifia pains
I get so many mentions on this forum, how many can a girl respond to? He's nothing.
You promised to call BTW

Chii59:
Don't bother yourself with that low-life.
You'd be shocked at the amount of DMs I've gotten since I created this thread.
Rich, handsome, intelligent men...
I would envy me if I were them too

GrandFinale2021:
she still wouldn't give you the pussy you're looking for no matter how desperate you're trying so hard to please her

GrandFinale2021:
shut the fucck up you miserable simp and mind your business

GrandFinale2021:
your genotype is SS and you're a sickler but you didn't state it in your post, you should be the one that ought to be banned for scamming people on this forum using your second moniker.
Sickle cell disease Sha

Chii59:
Oh no
No one can bully me into oblivion. Not even a thousand boys calling themselves men.
There just comes a time when you feel its time to go.

drunkpunk:
This our ipod still dey? You suppose don see buyer na