₦airaland Forum

obaidan:
"That's Igbo custom and it must be respected ..
You can't be staying with someone's child without doing the right thing and you expect them to just be giving birth like pig.
The worst thing is that they are prophet and prophetess"

i responded to the words above, how are u able to bring child support into this.
the poster insinuated that because a man gets her someone's daughter pregnant without paying her bride price, his right as a father of the kids they have together can be taken away from him because of igbo custom......and I said NO it is not possible. So me i do not get what you are up to with these whole America, child support, 21st century.

But it is possible.

Once she relocates to igboland, that is all.
Otilor.

Your yoruba custom has no sway there. You have no rights to the children there, unless she pities you.
Even the police there will not support you.

If you want to marry, know the culture and do the right thing.
But if you don't like the culture, stay away.

obaidan:
No matter how you spin it, what confirms paternity is DNA. What confirms marriage is signature on court documents. Custom, Tradition and all are good BUT when e set u go see say custom just dey play....the Laws of the land is superior to any other law, be it christian or islam or traditional laws...GOVERNMENT is King...every other thing just dey align with the laws of d land

Are you aware that even in America, people pay child support for children that are not biologically theirs.?

It's not paternity fraud. Both couples know.

But as long as the State has deemed him to be the father of the child and registered as their father, he has to pay child support.

This is the 21st century in a first world country.

Mitsurugi:
He paid her bride price something Prophet could not do and now the children are deemed his.

Prophet just wan chop and procreate and think he is a real man.

Omoluabi16:
I do not understand the idea of paying millions upon millions in the name of bride price. A whole lot of Igbo (and other) cultures I find quite strange.. but that's about it. Courtesy demands you must respect the beliefs of other. This judge seriously erred by describing the age long Igbo customs with those adjectives. A learned fellow for that matter.

It's not your business.
It's not yours to understand.

We also don't understand why Yoruba people put sacrifices on the roads, but it's not our business.

Why is that difficult to understand?

If any change had to be made, it should come from the men of that culture.

Sleeping with one ada or Nneka in Lagos does not give you the rights into a culture that's not yours.

If you don't like it, marry from your side.

Mcreloaded:
Advi e your evil igbo women to stick to their tribe and not give birth to a man that has not paid her bride price

So Yoruba men were just sitting on their own, and Igbo women came and fell on their wayward dicckkks.?

Were you not the ones that pursued them because Dem use yellow ladies swear for una.?

Anyway, I am from Delta state.
Their men should be the ones chastising them to use their tongue to count their teeth and stop opening legs for fools.

According to him: “In the same breathe, I find the Igbo custom exuded by the respondent and her witnesses that the children of the union can bear Mr Abua Obi as their surname, atavistic, barbaric, evil, ungodly, irrational, unsensational, crass, gross, crude, unwary, provocative, ungodly, discriminatory and insensible.

See what a Judge wrote. For a culture that predates his forefathers, and has helped in the protection of women for generations.

Na igbo women wey dey marry una no get sense.

Mcreloaded:
Igbo culture on marriage is evil and stop saying rubbish.

How is it evil?

Taking a woman as a wife without paying her brideprice for years, and expecting the fruits of that relationship to be yours?

Is that not fraud?
Na una dey first marry? Why not stick to your culture?

Even in america, the custody of the children will go to the women when both couples are seperated.

That is the traditions and customs of a people.
And as long as it is not harmful to anybody, the Judge has not right to call it names.

Magistrate Segun should tell his people to stick to yoruba women or do the right thing when marrying igbo women./

Na everything dis people dey use show bigotry, even court case too.
That Judgement has no Jurisdiction beyond Ondo.

That is the traditions and customs of a people.
And as long as it is not harmful to anybody, the Judge has not right to call it names.

Magistrate Segun should tell his people to stick to yoruba women or do the right thing when marrying igbo women./

Na everything dis people dey use show bigotry, even court case too.

tiswell:
Elon is a jew,and there's nothing the terrorists can do to him

He's not

Don't worry.

All of you will learn economics by force.

That statistics that tinubu said you will not chop, you will eat it by force.

Mad nation consistently voting against their own interests.

Awon emilokan and ronu gang.
Tinubu go feed una papa.

Na dis small boy dey chop this aunty work.

It's alright.

That's one of the intangibles of having a crook as president.

People start to rationalize criminality and aim for the lowest common denominator.

Other leaders inspire their citizens to be better, to do better, to act better, while the one we have inspire us all to embrace our inner darkness, afterall, nobody holy.

Nigeria is a hopeless place.

That's why we shouldn't blame countries where their citizens don't want immigrants from third world countries.

It has been proven that when you import the third world, you will become the third world.

They will bring in their culture of backwardness and dilute the national IQ and SOP.

A country that became first world because citizens hundreds of years ago stood up and demanded better at the cost of their lives even, and which their descendant have maintained.

One backward Nigerian that spent the vast majority of his life hailing crooked politicians now want to enter and enjoy for free.

Where is the justice in that?

highchief1:
people wan Dey give themselves head ache.their Peter obi son drives a 2019 bmw in Uk.there’s no where in the world wherr a presidents son will be managing.No need to decive yourself.even senators kids chatter pj.go to Lagos or Abuja airport pj wing u will ask yourself who is flying them.Nigeria has almost the highest number of pj in the world.Abeg e

Stop making bogus statement that shows your ignorance.

There is no first world country or even second world country where the president son uses the national jet to go and watch a game.

That's an impeachable offense.
It can't even happen in south Africa.

In Nigeria, the poverty Capital of the world, that is status.

And you , the citizen of the same country is here hailing it.

Weldone.

highchief1:
na u know.

Because your economy different from my economy.

Isreal has laid siege to gaza.

Blocked out food, water and electricity.

No mercy for even the children and women.

This is what happens when people have poor IQ. They make poor decisions.

Isreal laid a trap and hamas fell in. Poor IQ.
They couldn't even stop to think that maybe israel actually knows.

Now natural selection is happening. The strong destroying the weak. The intelligent destroying the dumb.

[quote author=oyoofong post=126299875][/quote]Shut up.

You deserve to be a citizen of a third world hell-hole. See yeye talk.

Your children would grow up to write IELTS just to japa.

Ordinary G-20 we no dey.,

G-20 that any average asian nation is a member of. Even southafrica is there.

That is how irrelevant Nigeria is.

But jide tinubu is too big for korope.

You and jide dey mad.

highchief1:
what does squander mean.if he doesn’t use presiential jet he will chatter pj.I love them for not being hypocrites abi are u expecting a presidents son to enter bus to kano?

I guess leaders of far richer countries where they fly commercial are hypocrites.

Your banana republic nation is the poverty capital of the world, but you think a president son wasting public money is not being a hypocrite.

Are you serious? How much is your annual salary?

Your country is irrelevant in the comity of nations. Nobody cares if jide tinubu enters korope.
His own father is not in the class of presidents that use bicycles or public train to work.

favor914:
Gringory Obi with his single Gucci loafers he was using to fly private jet upandan during campaigning before the election?

The owners done collect their plane back from the Loser, he has returned to commercial flying? Nonsensical Incoherent Hypocrites.

So you were expecting obi to fly commercial when he was campaigning in three states in one single day?

Did they tell you it was funded by oil money or govt money?

When was the last time tinubu your president flew commercial like other leaders of far richer and powerful countries?

You are too obtuse.
Do this world a service. Don't procreate.

highchief1:
na God do am for them Abeg.no need to hate just pray for your turn

When will it be your turn to squander the national wealth?

Or your papa no like good thing?

Omo jo igbo is a term used in yorubaland to signify an individual with cleanliness, beauty and good-living.

The best looking among them is who they use that term for.

That's who you are calling "third class citizens".

ObidenceNeckpre:
oponu sebi na u igbos una stomach full. cheat beating eleribu people

Ask those touts in Lagos how they identified Igbos and prevented them from voting during the governorship election.

The answer would tell you who belleful and who no belleful.

oyoofong:
It's a privilege,there is nothing wrong. He's enjoying the benefit of his hustling dad.Leave the guy alone.You may do Worst than Seyi if you have the opportunity.

Tell your people in politics in America, canada, or UK to abuse that privilege like that for themselves.

They would be removed from office in a week.

People like you are the reason why racists think black people lack organisation and are of an inferior intelligence, incapable of building a sane society beyond greed and avarice.

Sannisege:
Na this one dey pain igbos. Fourth class citizens.

This guy is from a state where atleast over 3 million children are out of school.

A state where children would rush after the very empty plate you leave in a restaurant.
Av state where poverty is in the very air they breathe.

This is the same Nigga calling the people with possibly the highest HDI in the country as fourth class citizens.

If you have never seen anybody with a negative digit IQ, this is it.

Dchampion65:
If Sowore, Obi, Atiku are opportuned to be in Aso Rock they will also do the same.
I don't see any different in them.

Obi was governor for 8yrs, and his children were not wreckless and shameless.

When we ask you to vote on antecedence, you will say it is big English.

Metalsmith:
Seyi should clear off public and social space. His father was voted on trust.He should maintain a low key life and not prsent his family as uncaring and opportunitstic leader. He should live a life of probity and role model for millions of other struggling youths in the country

Trust?
That is the last thing he won with.

Even his own people don't trust him.
The people that voted for him did so on tribal or religious grounds.

jubrilsmoke:
when i see write up like this i just laugh 😆 so hard .... oga defending this man tinubu makes you look stupid ....

It's always them.

It's how they believe the rest of us are stupid and don't know they are defending him for ethnic reasons.

Always the Yoruba Muslim.

Defending the indefensible.

They have turned tinubu s presidency into a local ethno-religious garbage.

Efewestern:
Not all Yorubas even migrated from Ife. This thing of attaching humans origin to a single source has to stop. Humans don't originate from a single source.

The Igbos are a vast collection of people who merged to form an ethnic nation. Same with the Yorubas, Urhobo, Edo etc.

Looking at an average Igbo and a Yoruba.

How will anybody say they came from the same place?

Do they even look alike?

Even the ibibios that look very similar to igbos won't claim same origin.

They have claimed the proud people of Benin, even when evidence points to the reverse.

As if that was not enough, they are now trying to extend it across the Niger