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DonaTee:
leaky booby is not an automatic diagnosis for high prolactin. Its d test dat is definitive.
U don't av to press hard to get it to leak....drs dont press hard lol

d ewedu is prepared by steaming in mildly without potash. But u ll add crayfish I think, den blend it....gulp d damn thing lol
see me talking as if I ve seen ewedu b4. Some1 clarify this recipe b4 she go and cook portty

sugah:
Its not supposed to leak at all.
Since it has reduced, you should try either ewedu therapy with vit b6 (type ewedu therapy in the search column) or eat cabbage.

RipVanWink:
mek i talk the small wey i know,
liquid coming out from boobs [ aka called leaking boobs - either when pressed or normally, if a woman isnt pregnant], is not a good sign, usually symptom of high prolactic, the bromo drug helps to stop it, though maany women complain of nasty side effects, thus not a big favourite for some people, there is another alternative drug...cant remember the name now, more expensive, n less side effects...hope some sabi mama/papa will chime in

alternatively you cud try the ewedu therapy, cabbage, it has been thoroughly discussed here, use the search button
2ndly dh wudnt like this shaa, let him reduce the handling n mouth action on the twin towers, too much causes the brain to switch into milk producing mode thinking an infant is trying to extract sustenance.
some women hv still conceived with the leaky boob.

Thanchu








what you are trying to describe is called precum , similar to the secretions of an aroused female.
precum makes penetration easier if the woman is dry, and also helps to sustain the sperm in thier ourney thru the hostile enviroment of the jaijainna. most males produce it when they r relly very very excited, wch unfortunately ttc hinders....if ur dh has good e,rections and can bear it....engage in extra long pre-intimacy, b4 p,enetration, though the precum isnt super important to making babies.

from your symptoms, i can guess your hormones arent balanced, you can do a cd 3 and cd 21 hormonal test to confirm that, but in the interim, you can start taking herbs or supplements to balance it.
bitter leave therapy, maca, don quai, lemon+honey therapy serrapeptase n the other chinese herbs. eat healthy , eat fruits, gradually cut down and stop all carbs, soft drinks, flours etc

fertility dust to all

pweetymii:
I told one doctor one time that if i press my boo.bs very hard it will bring water.The doctor now asked what are you looking for by pressing the boobs hard?He laughed and said most times wen boobs is pressed very hard,it brings out water.I believed him because wen i did HA,d result for prolactin was normal.So,my advise to u stop pressing @all.Another doctor said wen the breast is squeezed excessively the something something sends a message to the brain to release milk.I not come understand that one.And then wen i told a friend of mine about that pressing and milk thing,she said abegi her own dey bring water too..she is pregnant now.
Minwile,mama that talked about inserting parlodel,i have heard of inserting but never knew there was a gel,pls,come and clear the air,is it the tablet or the gel?
@cherrymum1,thank u for the screen shot of that book even if we not talk,my mind dey tell me say people wen don dey follow the prayers plenty pass those wen request for am!
Happy Sunday my peeps.

Abibaby:
pls mama's I want to try dis bitter leaf stuff,bt I don't understand dis terms cd 1 cd 10,tank u nd must u take the garlic stuff cos I can stand d smell if garlic

BlossomedCherry:
Being a silent reader but I must attribute my bfp to this wonderful group. I read learn n run to try it out. bin ttc for 8months after marriage. well, I created this account to thank every maamas here n all the bitter leaf therapist in the house. it worked for me and it would work with faith and prayers for anyone who can harden her taste bud and try it.

mehn ttc is bad o, trust me I evn had to lie I was preggy wen am not cuz of frustration o. I crossed the thread and did alot of catching up. well I hope am not ranting much o but here is my widd.


I started bitterleaf juice and garlic for 2 good months none stop even through my period and ovulation 2glasses everyday. the 1st week was hell cuz I purge tire but who cares, all for baby abi? I reduced it to jex 1cup when purging persisted and I felt better. dh will complain I don too dey smell garlic, I tell am for wia I only drink dix bitter leaf for my general health o. e no even knw say na ttc, he isnt bothered cuz no be him wear d shoes n besides its not over 1year n I kuku lie say I bin carry belle wey comot. I started cutting the garlics into bits and swallowed like tablets n his complains stopped. I was even doing garlic insertion.
after the 2month, I only drank bitterleaf juice from the begining of my next cycle dats cd1-3 then I stopped. I started Letrozole on Cd5-9 with fervent prayers and always liking all this twin pictures on facebook with prophetic declarations.
I forgot to add, within those months on the juice, I only ate draw soup. okra o ogbono o am good and dh was like watz up with u n dix okra n I will tell him itz simply my favorite. though I cook other soups for him. I heard consumption of okra n fufu during ovulation can result to twin births. me wey no dey eat fufu, turn am like competition btwn me and dh within those 2months n the 3rd month I added letrozole.
During the almighty O from calculation no EWCM so I kinda counted myself out while I prayed.
The only symptom I noticed was always angry at every little thing dh does. ranging from not kissing me gudnyt to not telling me am beautiful. he just pisses me off. approaching my af day, I was so moody and scared to even test, be like say stripe test sabi drag d period come close cuz itz mostly shows up after testing. I was on serious prayers and rebuking oct 5 thats d witch day. stair clear till 9months I kept commanding. dh noticed how quiet I was on d 4th n asked kilode. I tld him am expecting my period the next day n I dont want it. An idea came to me to gbansh cuz I dey tek am know wen e won start. I do feel so dry n my vvvv go dey itch me one kind. That night I tld dh after dix nyt na till 6days o come lets do d do n he hurried errrmmmmm....

To my surprise, I stil had very whitish d n so creamy. I made a silent prayer of thanks atlst af no go show tmro. 5th passed and notin, I carry myself go Menstrual calculator babycenter and they tell me say expected af na 8th. I jex weak.

started googling if letrozole can increase my cycle length and all. I became so scared to test when 7-10th passed. wat if I get bfn n then this late period chai I don do myself. I bought provera the next day and 6 hpt. Fear no gree me wait for first morning urine o. so I wee wee on the stick and omg!!!!!! thick thick thick bfp. screamed cried smiled all in all. My bori no gree me I call dh n screamed we are pregnant. he smiled n said is it we? I tell am yes naw. I used up my remaining 5 and bot extra sef still bfp.

I waited for a week to pass, then I went for scan and omg! 3gestational sac where found. cant wait to clock to 13weeks so I cld go hear their heartbeats.


The good Lord who did it for me will surely visit everyone here. I pray for more teammates here o cuz am team June for supernatural birth.
So sorry for my long story book just begging anyone who can try the bitterleaf to do it. loads of love.


sprinkling sticky sweet frangrance baby dust on everyone.

napa:
Good day to all the fruitful mothers, my libido for sex is very low, I've tried the tiger nuts and dates recipe but it didn't work for me meanwhile i read somewhere that there's an hausa herb that helps(Kayan Mata). I want to know if anyone here has tried it and also if it is safe for ttc. Please assist a fellow sister to restore her marriage.

iphanyiuma:
Collect his phone and hide it keep Ur t.v,dvd all electronic device inside the house
Nd do nt nt keep orange at home too
It can be dreal nd use too......
Lol..

Swaggkentro1:
These are one of the steps to follow 1. talk with him and let him see every reason to stop it cos he is an adult so you can't force him to stop, only him can make such decision by himself. 2. Tell him to make a decision that will be like an oath, is either through Bible, tell him to take his Bible and make the decision that the power from above that was with the Holy Bible should judge him if he continues in such act again and I know once he made this decision from the first day he will think twice cos anytime he will have the feeling again, he will immediately remember the oath he took sometimes back. this will always help and tell him that if he will make the decision it should be something big and huge, something like if he indulge in such act again, let him die or let God strick him with madness and he will lick the Bible. FINAL

onuwaje:
Tokunbo Ajayi
NTA NEWS!


RIP

Datazone:
Whilst I'm an Itsekiri, my understanding of the language is not solid. I hereby summon Onuwaje to help you. I hope he he helps otherwise....

nneejima:
Good evening my beloved E sisters, please make una torchlight my matter :my Bil just finished his ssce dz yr. He didn't make his jamb dz year so hubby said he should come & stay with us, i didn't accept it initially but I don't have alternative since dh is d 1st child & i don't need mil wrath. Dz boy has been a torn on my flesh since his arrival. He z 18,he neither wash plate nor sweep house. He ll lay on bed from morning till evening when he hears dh voice he ll rush to carry book, d worst is dt the only evening i usually spend wt dh after work, he ll come & stay in our room telling dh one story or the other. If he needs anything he ll go straight to his brother wtout telling me. Didn't i mentioned dt he also wears dh undies & keep it for me to wash . Am just mad mamas. Dh now feel dt am nagging, dt i don't like his brother. He ll go to my pot & collect food at the end he won't finish it & he doesn't care to cover d remainant.. Please wt do i do

pweetymii:
Hmm,this marriage of a thing na really school wen person dey learn everyday.
I know we would be quick to say she should take her as her younger brother but God knows,no younger brother of mine wud eat and leave plate for me to wash dat is where the talk of background comes in.About an hour ago,i was telling a teen of mine that i want to paste a sign on my wall"thank you for eating,but please,kindly wash your plate".An established woman on TV sometime ago said she had a similar stuff on her wall,that sometimes even her husband wash his plates after eating.Without been told,courtesy demands that he does some things in the house but it seems he has not been "properly trained" at home.So,for me,i will stylishly be sending him errands sweetly like"bros,abeg just help me brush this parlor"and wen he finishes wud say"ah,the parlor look different,and psyche him,"bros,abeg help me wash those plate"e.t.c before he go turn my errand man,he not go know.
Then the issue of him asking for money from Dh,make it an issue less issue as far as he has satisfied your needs before they will start peddling that you do not want him to take care of his younger ones.
His wearing your Dh boxers is a no-no!i grew up in a house where we did not even share clothes not talk of undies,my Dh brother was doing that at a time,i did not say anything,I changed the location of where i keep his undies and was now giving him on request till bro come learn how to dey wash his.
When he comes into the bedroom to talk to dh,jokingly tell him dis is our bedroom and he could walk in and see the unexpected(in this case,na dh supposed draw his attention to that).
In all,wisdom is a principal thing,stop talking to dh,to us na talk,to them na nag,if these tips do not work,ignore him as if he is not existing not with aggressiveness but with charm,bad character does not hide itself for long,he will soon do something to ur dh wen go open his eyes and wen that happens,don't gloat like i told u so(u will be tempted to)just let it pass and keep ur peace.He will not be with u forever.
My 2 cents oh.

RipVanWink:
@nnejinmma, i tire for the kind men being raised these days o, its really mind boggling, the other day, twas one dh that saw nothing wrong in his momo coming to stay with them permanently ontop ttc wahala!

now its ur dh sharing undies with an adolescent.., and allowing the boy to enter your bedroom at will!...hmmm na real waoh.

my dw tried something similar...i wasnt even around and her younger sister came, and they left 2 free rms in the house and decided to be sleeping in our matrimonial room/bed with her 2yr old daughter, omo na sharp sharp i caution her when she was gisting me, matrimonial bed/room is solely meant for husband n wife...no other person, she saw the error of her ways and apologised and adjusted accordingly.

back to ur matter, this one strong o. as in the boy reports to his mom if you send him on errands!!!...dayum..it appears this is an inter tribal marriage?.
i think your only option is to gently and calmly call your dh and explain these issues to him, i bet he will be reasonable and also see the error of his ways . dont nag o, choose a good day when he is in a good mood,..maybe after some good strong sweet kpekus

BELLOQ:
Fvine the lord is your strength, really understood hw you felt.May his soul rest in peace.Our testimonies re loading.Hv soaked my pillow with tears this past months especially this month my period came after 3weeks late with so many pregnancy symptoms. My hope was dashed .But i still believe God will hear my prayer and rescue me from this annoying questions people re beginning to bug me with.

nneejima:
please ma can i speak with you, i don't know how to pm, can I have ur number

pweetymii:
Ha sis!which doctor placed you on clomid for 8 straight months abi na typographical error?its not good oh.Like @rip van wink said clomid should be stopped after 3 attempts and then as per fluid coming out,my Dr once told me fluid does come if the body has taken what it can so,there is no cause for alarm.But,if u insists,try to ease yourself before the show and then place a pillow under ur butt after the deed to raise ur hips up.
@all,pls,wen our doctors give us prescription drug,we should try to Google and get more information to avoid causing more harm to our system.

pweetymii:
Ha sis!which doctor placed you on clomid for 8 straight months abi na typographical error?its not good oh.Like @rip van wink said clomid should be stopped after 3 attempts and then as per fluid coming out,my Dr once told me fluid does come if the body has taken what it can so,there is no cause for alarm.But,if u insists,try to ease yourself before the show and then place a pillow under ur butt after the deed to raise ur hips up.
@all,pls,wen our doctors give us prescription drug,we should try to Google and get more information to avoid causing more harm to our system.

DonaTee:
its well with u. May d light of God illuminate ur life. Thnk God for ur period. U no spend money d period come. U wont spend money n ur baby will stick.
U av to kip assuring ur husband. Dey feel it too.

Dr Jesus is on ur case. No medical charges involved.


Some pple r looking for primolut n to induce period.

Af means time to try again on a cleansed fresh womb. Its well with u.
Try day time kpekus add lap dance if possible

FinestPINACLE:
dear try Letrozole too also known as femara. it induces ovulation and doesnt cuz cm driness like clomid. little or no side effects.

mummykyrti:
good afternoon everyone, I've been viewing as a guest but decided to join, I read the thread from 1-98 but cudnt continue again..I got married august this year and I've been trying sinx den. just that my period kips changing btwn 27-31 days..its oh so confusing. I duno if it means I have irregular period??

Perculiar:
I will suggest you treat infection for you and your partner. I had same experience people told me is normal but after treating infection everything stays inside no drop comes out. though DH can do snake in the monkey shadow styles sha, it also helps

mumAwesom:
My people join me in thanking God for adding another beautiful year to my life, though i would have love to celebrate this day with my children, but God knows best, in all i give Him praise for preserving my life in good health, peace of mind and joy. He makes a way for me where there seems to be no way.

Loisemm:
Monwojuoluwa ,sorry for the loss. God will replenish your womb soonest.
Keep looking up.


Mamas , how many of you would not mind your mother Inlaw who just retired and is not sick or needing medical attention come and live with you and hubby permanently?!
My friend's mother Inlaw is planning to do this. My friend is not comfortable with it at all but has resigned her mind to it.
The mother Inlaw often visits them and spends weeks and months with them even though she does not get along with the wife. The wife told me the mama never wanted her first son to marry and would have preferred him having more children outside wedlock instead of marrying. Her hubby already had a child before marriage. They have children of theirs now.

Sincerely, I can't undastand the rationale behind a mother moving into her son's house without invitation or permission. Is it fair?

Note -she has a married daughter o. Is it not better for her to live with her daughter if her and her daughter in-law dont get along? This lady now has strong cause to believe the mama is out to break her home. Would she now be receptive to her coming to live with them permanently?

pweetymii:
Good morning and longest time my peeps.Eyin iya mii ati daddy mii,owo mi loke...shey ko wale abi ko duro soke?anyways,mo loyal gan...i missed u all but i av bin really busy but nevertheless i was praying for us all.
Congratulations to all that got their bfps,wishing you all a sweet 9months.
@newbies,u are all welcome wish u all a sweet and fruitful stay.
@4realwoman,thanks for the mention,ayam back,may the Lord answer us all soon in Jesus name.For your question,i will go with Miraclebabys' reply.All the time i have done tvs,i have always been asked if i had stopped flowing..so,i think even if they use a condom,no technician would want to have a stained sheet.
@chijiuche,sorry bout ur loss,may God compensate you with the one that would give u lasting joy soon.
@monwojuoluwa,welcome back,God will shine his light on your face soon and give you an everlasting joy.
@mama fvine you are welcome back,your peeps missed u oh...
shout out to all that have bin keeping the thread busy@Donatee et al,may God answer us all speedily.
@loisemm our bfp recorder,God will do it soon..
@curvilicious and Janix2, my Benin sisters wo'ye..how prep for omon'obas installment..the excitement in the air is so much,i am so enjoying the rich cultural heritage of the binis'.
@all,even though i did not mention your names,i see you and i hear you,and i know God in his infinite mercy would look down on us.Like i always say,ttc should not take our swag,it should not become our way of life.Come to think of it,after all our efforts and worries,it is only God that gives at the appointed time.Our children will be our children,we would bear children that will be pacesetters,generation changers infact,think of everything good and it will be so..
As for me,in the last weeks,i have been getting my groove back,enjoying do do like tomorrow not dey,no more bicycle ride and raised hips,i just need to make myself happy afterall,who worry epp?
abeg,make i rest for now...have a fruitful day y'all..
#confessionbringsconception"