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FruitfulRay:
My dear fellow fruitful mother, its right for us to do all we can but mostly it is God, and as you have rightly said, lets evangelize as Jesus has commanded us to go into the world, but you need to ask yourself why do you want to evangelize, is it for the main purpose of people turning from their evil ways and knowing a God who loves us or because you want a baby and by preaching, God owes you. This is a wrong thinking, because if you evangelize and no baby, after a period of time, it will only lead to disappointment, bitterness and depression.

The truth is we do not need to do anything to move God, all we need is to believe on the name of Jesus and know that He will give us, because He has already given us ALL THINGS FREELY. Is baby part of ALL THINGS? yes. God does not owe us anything because He has given his only begotten son, that whosoever believes on His name shall be saved.

Ephesians 2: 8-10 says "For it is by grace you have been saved through faith, and this not from yourselves; it is the gift of God, not by works, so that no one can boast. 1For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance as our way of life.… "

You can also say it is by grace I will get pregnant through faith, and not of my self, it is a gift from God, so that you can not boast about it. Many mama's here were at the verge of given up when they saw their miracles, there are people who do not know Christ half as much as we know, but they get marry to successful men, have successful careers and have children when they do not expect, maybe after several abortions self. But who are we to judge, so my sister, please evangelize as much as you can, but with the mindset of even if a baby does not come I will still preach the word of God, but I know my redeemer liveth and He will bless me with Children.

Lets remember the 3 hebrew boys who they wanted to throw in the fire, they told the king, we know that our God will save us, BUT EVEN IF HE DOES NOT, we will not bow to Baal. That should be our attitude, I know God has already blessed me before the foundation of the world, and even if I don't see it in my life time, I will keep prasing, preaching and honouring His name because He is faithful.

God keep and help us, and even when you feel tired to pray, I feel tired too some days my dear, just say thank you Jesus, and that is enough. He knows you, He is a loving father and He hears us.

Please keep the faith my sister, God bless us all...

Mordia, I get what you are saying am only trying to tie it to evangelism. Do for God too don't just sit and ask. Be passionate about His passion and you'll see Him in action. Wisdom is profitable to direct

I must get a bfp thus year by fire by force. By bitterness therapy, by bacterial load protocol, by garlic insertion/chewing, by prayer and fasting, through evangelism etc.

Come to think of it instead of only regularly asking God to give us. What if we take out time to evenagelise and bring men to Christ and thereby hold God and remind him we have a soul for him therefore he owes us our babies too.
Cos I just thought of looking for where to hold God on a standstill.
As for me I have taken to evangelism even when i discovered recently that am having difficulty in praying I release my spirit through evangelism.

I dey chew garlic
I dey drink bitter leaf
I dey manage dey pray small small
I also dey evangelise

Satan can go to hell and burn to ashes. Who cares

DonaTee:
who space help. Frm 4mths begin dey knacker like knack-out even ur doctor go giv u torch wey u go use d see road during d do

Kikikiki
I like you jor

happymummy:
I support 100%, spacing ko spacing ni
this year as our God liveth we all gtc shall testify in Jesus name amen

Spacing dey bring money? Kikiki
Amen o our testimony shall abound

Loisemm:
see mouth...
10 indeed


I will also do the little or no spacing stuff. Where the time again? But make the first child(ren) begin dey come first sha. Cos mind fit change

Mind change go where na my mind get emself?
Abeg leave my beauriful mouth where e dey o lol

Sometimes I sit-down prepare with all the garnishing my testimony of how I struggled and struggled till I finally got pregnant. I stand in front of my dressing mirror carry cloth for hand as baby and gisting with myself. Sometimes I wear big dress stuff it as pregnancy do all the pregnancy stunts alone and finally breakdown in tears asking when I will stop acting and start living it in reality.

Recently I met a man of God he stays in Lagos, I'm based in Benin who placed me on prayers after the third day I dreamt that me and dh killed a bird that was coming to harm us by the side of our house. When I woke up the next morning I saw a dead bird by our bedroom window.
I still dey pray sha o, make d bird no just die make i testify follow cos I have been adjusting and readjusting my testimony till e go fully come be complete one

One more thing when I start having kids na 1year, 1yr difference. All the time I wait I go use am dey born anyhow e no cocine me at all. I go born full my house I go born like 10 children

phelgmatic:
Mamas I want to die. let God just take my life because I don't know what I'm living for. All my life I have experienced pain and disappointments. I was sickly as a child. Even in adulthood, the same thing. I have never enjoyed hundred percent good health. It's always one issue or the other. How tired my husband must be. Will I blame him if he leaves me for another woman? Since I woke up, I have been having pain in my pelvic region. Managed to go to work and took flagyl. Now the pain is intense. The same pain I always have and PID is diagnosed. My ovulation window o. I have prayed and prayed. Now money kept for something else has to be used to treat me again. I have told God, let me stay without children, no problem but keep this pain and illnesses far from me. I'm not only trying to conceive, I have other health issues as well, breathing, eyes, leg. Only me! Yet I'm thankful but I can't take this pain anymore. Very sharp pain as if someone is using a knife to cut me. It comes and goes. Lemme die and rest. So that my husband and family can rest too. My husband can marry another woman and have kids. Lemme just die

Oh! Don't do this plz
It is difficult very difficult but I assure you by the grace of God it will all I mean everything will end in praise. If you die who go born and take care of the bundle of joy wey God dey take him time create for you ehn? Who? Take it easy dearie

legendsmother:
Hmmmmm TTC can be so draining, the emotional roller-coaster, the thought of you being left out, the feeling of being unable to trully express your self to people close to you, how bout d fact dt u can't even buy PT from close by pharmacies?? It's really a world people who don't experience it would not understand, if d fruit of d womb is d God's reward why den are we still in d waiting room?
All my mum nd sisters call to tell me now is "don't worry God will do ur own oooo"
"Come let's go see one massager"
"Make we go do womb setting"
It is 4days to my 2years anniversary
God where are u?
Is dis d original plan u had for me?
Am I not ur creation?
Lord have mercy
Hmmmm I av so many questions but I pray God's will b done

Hummmmm, I know exactly how you feel it is disheartening and pose so many unanswerable questions. Sometimes I just sit and say I wish I didn't even marry gan, but I encourage myself with this: the race is not for the swift neither the battle for the strong time and chance happeneth to them all.

It shall be well with us all

DonaTee:
its well with u. May d light of God illuminate ur life. Thnk God for ur period. U no spend money d period come. U wont spend money n ur baby will stick.
U av to kip assuring ur husband. Dey feel it too.

Dr Jesus is on ur case. No medical charges involved.


Some pple r looking for primolut n to induce period.

Af means time to try again on a cleansed fresh womb. Its well with u.
Try day time kpekus add lap dance if possible

Daytime kpekus? Which be lap dance kwa? I no know that one o. Explain plz.

Thanks for the encouragement,God bless you real good.

Babydust

[quote author=Deogratia post=50193789][/quote]OK! I'll try not to worry

Thanks momma may God bless you for me

Baby dust

orney:
this is what we face till dat day we get dos two pink lines,' hope' is what we learn not to lose, Cheer up cos dis means another opportunity for you to try again. All is well, u shall testify soon. Baby dust

I'll try and keep hope alive

Thank you mucho my dear God bless you

Baby dust

Story of my life. This time has come again where I have to sit and just watch and pray. AF has come, dh is quiet, I am sad, house boring.


Keep wondering for how long I can continue like this.



Babydust to everyone

Chijiuche:
Dear Fruitful women,

I have been off for sometime..... just to recover.

After 7 weeks of giving my testimonies, i started spotting which graduated to bleeding...

Long and short story ...Had an evacuation.

Second miscarriage and coupled with the fact that EDD for the first miscarriage was supposed to be this week.

Please who knows what can cause failed pregnancy? Doctors are not saying what is making sense to me.

Heya so sorry. The Lord will surely perfect your desires

RipVanWink:
garlic is a powerful anti bacterial agent. but people run away from it cos of the smell
get a meduim lobe of garlic, peel it...use needle to puncture it severally so the juice oozes out, get a rope, wash n sterilize it, use it to tie the garlic [this helps for retrieval later], then insert halfway into vjay --- best done at night, remove in the morning, do this for about a wk..or until you feel better, max 10 to 14days....yes it can run concurrently with the antibiotics therapy

about night work ------ hhhhenhen funny name!!! , i think sugah said if u can abstain, if not use cd, though it just occurd to me that since two of you are taking the treatment, i dont even see any need for the protection or even abstaining, afterall its the same microbes moving back n forth.

am a dh o

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OhMG! I no know say you be dh pardon me please. Thanks for the replies you a Godsent. I'll uwese kakabo (thank you very much) in my dialect. I've saved and will work step by step with each and every write up/advice from you and Sugah by His grace I hope to get my bfp asap.

@ all I know we shall all testify in no time
Baby dust to ya'all

Gratitude again to you RipVanWink may our good Lord continue to bless and increase you on every side especially your brain

RipVanWink:
u might be scaring urself unnecessarily, if u insist u can go for hvs to check for infections.
2ndly you can try sugahs antibiotics protocol, scrol back u will see it, u n ur dh shud take it.

look into the garlic insertion therapy.


@all,this position is good for retroverted uterus. adding a pillow under the womans pelvic area makes this position more intense, n lets the swimmers go deeper [edited]
una too like kpekus o

Thanks momma,
I've saved the Sis Sugah antibiotic protocol but I don't know what's garlic insertion plz enlighten me a bit about it and can it run concurrently with the antibiotic protocol? Abeg no vex another question can we keep doing our night work during the treatment?

Thank you honeybooboo u a hero

Hello mommas,
I haff resumed o.

I want to ask for your advice. I have been ttcing for the past two years done tests, meds, scan the only remaining option is ivf. My tubes are open, eggs viable, infection free, everything dey well according to gynaes.
As I was praying something struck me my temperature can boil water, I sweat like noman's business, I have this unending tickling sensation in my throat and one time in my growing days I had this horrible movement behind my back.
A few days ago I went to check for infection again it was negative but something tells me I'm experiencing staph and according to my research the above are most of staph symptoms. My greatest fear is I have been with these symptoms since my early teen age for over 12years nobody to help or treat cos the woman I grew with cared less about my health. The scary part is I heard staph cannot be cured and it is a major source of infertility. I have paid and paid money to be well nothing seems to be working.
Mamas please has anyoneexperienced and was able cure herself from this kind wahala? In case any please what did you use, how much and how long?

Infertility is eating deep that I practically don't know who I truly am anymore.

Replies please save a desperate woman

Mtchew this yeye thing don spoil my new phone gruesomely ehn

Its a shame that the fulani herdsmen are taking the lives of men nd women in their own aboad! And the so-called president goes about touring the world leaving the lives of his fellow country men at stake. Keeping mute over cases of murder.
I fear for this nation cos these herdsmen are everywhere cripping round d whole nigeria in d name of grazing.
I feel pained each time I see posts about their killings.
I have a feeling the mute treatment is a silent revenge to the southerners.


Its a pity

Agbada serving nigerian men since 1914
Spaghetti hand serving naija babes since 1914

santori:
oga shey you know road to maiduguri, dem full there

Maiduguri too far
Make em go d muslim thread go dey fight there
When dem bomb u I go jst dey look

ramdris:
This took me back memory lane.... Can't forget those moment when me and my old friends used to sit under the tress to gulp beer...

50% of those that will read my post will check out my pics to confirm my age..

Lol! @ age thing u really knw NLers

I no watch d video bt I was watching via ur coments until dat buharist com spoil my view

Mentcee:
Bleep the idiott called Buhari.

Shuuuuuu
Buhari again?
Plz go to politics joor
Allow me enjoy my day wtout remembering dat man

BTT:
Apples don't fall far from their trees.

Other fruits fall 10miles from their tree bah?

Yeshua!!!

Being a corps member is sweet o
They can misbehave ehn
Do anytin anyhow
Pregnant all d village girls nd run away

Sweet nysc

Sistem007:
Hahaha
..and now I hear they want to decrease it to 14.5k. Hmmm

Ha they shld nt kii corpers 4 us o
Na Buhari time everything dey go back
This country is regressing
God forbid
Tufiakwa

Wetin consine me?
If she allows him to curse her vajeje like she did to LIB I will jst laff like I laffed previously

UIA04:
If Tania was my sister I will advice her not to go back to wizkid. Imagine a man that can insult a woman older than he is calling her stinky pu*sy publicly, I wonder what he would have said about his sex life with Tania behind her. Tania should move on like that his ex girlfriend she should marry a better person. She seems like a good girl, and the only sane thing in wizkids messed up life that's why, he is trying to get her back.
Love isn't everything.




@op Tania isnt Lola omotayo sister

Lol!
Op you've been caught
Misinforming me is punishable by d law
U don fiuq up #inokon'svoice

Her nose big o
Her lips na ear to ear


She has got d right combination of things

This is what Buhari has caused
Tree don represent car jst like:
5ltr jerrycan dey represent GeePee tank 4 tap dat year

Sijo01:
Chaiiiii, I'm becoming too predictable by you o

Working on both days and will be free at the close of work (1-2pm) at most if no distractions.

Stalkers!
I knew you wld be here too
Can I com nd collect d stuff?
GOD'S NOT DEAD 2?