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chomytex:
Well said

alright dear

Midehi:
you, naaaaah...comon dont say that

I dnt wana see lol...

I remember when we used to write letters and wait for people to call us on our home phone, I remember a time when people actually got excited when they received mail, when the idea of having a cell phone wasn’t as life changing as it’s become today, those were the good old days. Now the world has evolved, internet has come into the equation and the social media has come to stay. Many people won't deny the fact that the social media plays its part on modern day relationships so I would try to be brief and highlight some real life problems social media plays on relationships and marriages..

1. Jealousy: “I think social media causes more insecurities between couples. For example seeing someone else in a picture with your significant other. Its easy for jealously to arise. Also too many distractions between couples. They pay more attention to what they don’t have instead of being grateful for what they do have. The most important thing we can give one another is our time. The one thing we can’t get back is time so be careful because life is short. Never be too proud because you will wind up losing something because of ego. People make relationships too hard now days, they worry about what others think or too many obstacles to overcome. I believe if you love someone nothing can come between”


2. The Return of the ex

With apps like “Whatsapp”, “Snapchat”, “Viber” and many more, it’s not too hard to get in touch with anyone if you really want to. This is when people are tempted, if they’re weak enough, to make certain mistakes that they regret later. People will only be tempted to do something if they knew they had the power to do it, this is what separates the good people from the bad. This happened with me personally with my ex. So one fine day, we were out having lunch and the battery ran out on my phone, so I asked if I could use hers. She hesitated a little and then gave it to me, I noticed the hesitation on her face and I just had to know why she did that. After the call, while the phone was still in my hands and her eyes on her phone, she received a message on “Whatsapp”. What do you know, it’s her ex who apparently “broke her into pieces” saying “How are you doing today, love?”.

3; A doorway to cheating and lying.
Like I said, power works both ways, bad people use it for bad purposes, good people use it to make others happy.Social media and technology makes it easy for bad people to cheat on someone, because there’s always something they can do to hide their steps. Everyone eventually gets caught in the end, but the price to pay is months of heartache and a lot of developed insecurities that take a lot of time to go away.


4: Finding Salvation elsewhere.
with the amount of social media and sex/dating hook up sites, so easy for people to cheat on their partners, whether online or more. People who are in rships tend to be in between 15-20 sites, and when u ask them, they say it was just chat, but when you advertise your last std check its obvious it was more. So much more I could say, I think social media impacts relationships. Some people tend to turn to their online friends instead of reality.”


5. The spy paranoia
Partners now tend to become more or less monitoring spirits on their partner. They check all their posts, comments and other online activity to see what they'v been doing and when the other partner finds out, they get furious and freaked out hence causing a lot of problems on the relationship.


I"d end with 5 points... Feel free to air ur opinions and comments on this piece.



Cc; lalasticlala

chomytex:
No

alright....




Well, for me, I think d problem lies in d marriage itself.. When they get married, reality sets in, they gota pay bills, look after d children, and there is d job dat takes much of the daddy and mummy time...

So all these just adds up and there comes a lot of things running through d man's mind...

chomytex:
If its a thread for female ish...u wil give ur own quota..now it concerns guys u dnt wanna talk...neva said u are cunny tho.

ok befor I wana comment on it, I'd like to ask a personal question, I hope u dnt mind..

R u in a relationship wit a guy ryt nw?

Will he tk delegates wit him along?

chomytex:
Lol..talk jhur..cunny nigerian men.

wat mks u feel I"m cunny

Naaaaah.

chiibekee:
u too like play play.

I'm playful lol..

chomytex:
Of course nt nah...to hear ur opinion.

my opinion is nw for sale

chomytex:
Only here to read comments..cutehector u are needed here

to entertain u ryt?

chiibekee:
bugati

jeep

LadyBoss1:
She got a bf u know imagine she told me he might propose next
She wan marry before me hehe see my life

ur d one dats dulling na... Its her life right now...

LadyBoss1:
She has finished in july
Now shes looking for work aparently its hard to find work .. Its who u know most times dat help
Brb
My boys r playing

link me na

LadyBoss1:
No karashika is unemployed
I like d song tho catchy
Man like hector how udey

hahaha, am fine.. Ur sister neva finish school yet?

LadyBoss1:
Wetin
Havent u heard im a witch lol a good one tho

karashika

Brown47:
@bold
is the almighty different from the son?

no, he is one with the son... I and my father are one.. There is no other answer bera dan dis...

Na oil well dem dey drill or what? Nonsense..people just siphoning money here and there

Its good dat u found out dat she isn't d type of woman u need to marry...

So leave her and move on..

Hmmm..

Things like this do not happen in reality.

Time heals.. Am sure she will get ova it.. There is nothn much to say..

Brown47:
@bolded
1.But you fail to remember this: the father is greater than i am.

2.So therefor, if christ is in me, and I am in christ, doesn't it make me one with him?

Yes he is in you,but are'nt you two distinc individuals. That means even thus the father dwells in the son, and son in the father they are two distinct beings. Just like the way you two are different even thu he's in you.

of course na.. Abi ur papa na ur mate?

No be him born u? Lol


He is greater dan u.


But the almighty has already entrusted his son to rule his people for eva.. He has gvn him all authority in heavn and on earth... Wateva his father wills, so he also wills too...

Jozzy4:
Lol @ ur last line ; my brother , actually the Bible ENCOURAGE US TO Use our brain , thinking ability ( Proverb 2:11)

Honestly , I appreciate your input but you omit the main point .

According to john 1:1 , the word was God , abi ?

That simply means ' the Word God was WITH God" , is that not clearly 2 Gods emphasis on " WITH" ?

u dnt understand.. There are entirely two diferent statements altogether yet linking to each other


Jesus has made it simple for us to understand yet human beings in there "wisdom" will neva want to understand...

MemphisDepay:
abeg gimme fine answers joor

alright a channel handbag

A smile

A hug


A kiss

leXHansplaCE:
@cutehector most defnitely... Yet not every1 knows of this

yh right... They think walkin naked around d house is a bit weird... But its not...

missbronze:
Y

cuz we reason alike...

The word was with God, and the word was God...



Who is the word? Jesus .. That's right


I and my father are one... Said by christ right...


Dat means, d father dwells in the son and the son dwells in the father...


So therefor, if christ is in me, and I am in christ, doesn't it make me one with him?


Op? Dnt read d bible with ur human intellect ok.. U won't grasp the true message

True

Who wan gree marry dem in d first place