I had the greatest shock of my life last week, which I never still believe why it happened to me. To cut the story short,I had a fiancee which we have been planning on getting married. In The course of time have been so familiar with her mum and siblings and we were just about preparing for our introduction. Due to the nature of my work I live in lagos and she stays at Ibadan, have been so faithful to her(you all know what am talking about).

On the 16th of aug, (saturday), I told her I was going to come around on the 19th. (Wednesday). when I got to Ibadan on wednesday, I checked-in in a guest house closer to her house. I was so happy been around her again, because I believed since her mum knows me, mehn, I thought I owned her. (That was the best mistake have ever made),Later in the night she was called by her brother to come over, so she decided to go and attend to her brother leaving me with her phone. Seriously,when she left I was just staring at the phone for some minutes and later I decided to check out for some more lovely pictures of my ironical wife. As time goes by I then decided to glance through her chats (wasn't intentional but didn't know what springed that up in me) Her recent chats was laced accordingly to how recent the chats has been. My chats with her was first,then I opened the 2nd chat(what I saw was crazy).

My so called ironical fiancee have been cheating on me. The chats was like my gf initiated the chat with him. She went to his place on Monday and they had sex. This is the lady I want to marry o,seriously I feel love doesn't truely exist. Its just a name not an ACT anymore. I got annoyed and asked her out of my room because if I should see her I could inflicts my annoyance on her(she might end up in hospital).

Now,what can I do? she's been begging me not to tell her elder brother .The mum hasn't heard anything about what transpired, even her siblings and have decided to let them know, so that they would know the kind of daughter they are living with(Packaged-slut). Is that the right decision? Or should I just delete every contacts I have with her? What can I do? Her mum do call me sometimes, now its so obvious am breaking up the relationship! But do I have to tell her mum or siblings who can understand how I really feel about it! Please, can you share me some advice or perspectives! I will appreciate it.

hmm I'm glad you found out yourself you weren't told.

To be frank these are the type of girls we have now, I wouldn't advice you to go on with the marriage but trust me the next girl could be worse.

Anyway let her conscience make her tell her family, whenever they ask you what transpired tell them to ask their daughter.

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issylarry:
I had the greatest shock of my life last week,which I never still believe why it happened to me. To cut the story short,I had a fiancee which we have been planning on getting married. In The course of time have been so familiar with her mum and siblings and we were just about preparing for our introduction. Due to the nature of my work I live in lagos and she stays at Ibadan,have been so faithful to her(you all know what am talking about).On the 16th of aug,(saturday).I told her I was going to come around on the 19th.(Wednesday).when I got to Ibadan on wednesday,I checked-in in a guest house closer to her house. I was so happy been around her again,cause I believed since her mum knows me,mehn,I tought I owned her.(That was the best mistake have ever made),Later in the night she was called by her brother to come over,so she decided to go and attend to her brother leaving me with her phone. Seriously,when she left I was just staring at the phone for some minutes and later I decided to check out for some more lovely pictures of my ironical wife. As time goes by I then decided to glance through her chats(wasn't intentional but didn't know what springed that up in me)Her recent chats was laced accordingly to how recent the chats has been. My chats with her was first,then I opened the 2nd chat(what I saw was crazy).My so called ironical fiancee have been cheating on me. The chats was like my gf initiated the chat with him. She went to his place on Monday and they had sex. This is the lady I want to marry o,seriously I feel love doesn't truely exist .Its just a name not an ACT anymore. I got annoyed and asked her out of my room because if I should see her I could inflicts my annoyance on her(she might end up in hospital). Now,what can I do?she's been begging me not to tell her elder brother .The mum hasn't heard anything about what transpired,even her siblings and have decided to let them know,so that they would know the kind of daughter they are living with(Packaged-slut).is that the right decision?or should I just delete every contacts I have with her?what can I do?her mum do call me sometimes,now its so obvious am breaking up the relationship!but do I have to tell her mum or siblings who can understand how I really feel about it!please,can you share me some advices or perspectives!I will appreciate it.

.. Love is beautiful... Hehehehahahahahahahamuahahahahaahehe.

*in Chris Brown's voice*, this bitches ain't loyal.

. .... Anyways Her reason for cheating maybe your 'cause'.... Maybe she do fight for your attention when you were away.. Maybe

Buh which anyway, nigga she ain't worth yhu. There ain't no action to take than to whirl her off yhur life.

Long distance relationship is not for me.

It's just a waste of time.

she doesent deserve you,any girl that cheats on her man before marriage wld do DAT after,she ain't worth it,dia better girls out there,DAT I am sure

Its good dat u found out dat she isn't d type of woman u need to marry...

So leave her and move on..

Bro the honest truth is that you have to tell the parent in order for them not to blame you and finally leave her period becuz she will still cheat after u guys get married.

The babe no try at all

These days, Poles and Holes aiint loyal at all aswear

Gosh! Now I've come 2understand that after dropping my cane in a nice position some silly students might come play with it carelessly

#TeamCelibate

Forgive her but do not marry her for your peace of mind. You don't want to be conducting paternity test every time your wife gives birth.

She is only acting remorseful because you caught her and not because she truly felt bad. I'd advice to dump her àss and when her mother asks why, you should tell her the truth. Cos a girl like that would lie to her parents about why you broke up.

The annoying thing is that she continued to contact the guy after cheating. That shows she would gladly cheat over and over again.

@ OP, it is not easy to be in a relationship in this busy world,whether near or distant.
For the sake of posterity,quietly explain to her mom that you can not continue. Tell her the truth because you do not know tomorrow because you might cross paths and it might not be pleasant. I am telling you from personal experience. A cultist who oppressed me during my first year in the University at the hostels,was posted to serve in my LGA. I saw him and related with my hood rats that I have seen the guy who made my first year on campus to be a living hell. I pitied the guy when they were through with him. They really bloodied him and he had to redeployment to another state. If he had known that his Corpers lodge will be in my girlfriend's street,he would have thought twice before confiscating my mattress ! Stay safe!

Tell her mom n her siblings d bitter truth,and then move ahead wit ur life...she can continue her relationship wit her sex mate. some gals can dey fall their hands shall

I did not read the post but I can say that planning is everything

You should bang another guy's girl too in revenge.
'em biitches ain't loyal no more

I still don't understand why there can't be no privacy in relationships... I always say cheat but never get caught


Love?


Hehe

.... I no support her buh issylarry how long were u guys apart.

misspicy:
.... I no support her buh Op how long were u guys apart.

Just 2 months

bqlekan:
I still don't understand why there can't be no privacy in relationships... I always say cheat but never get caught


Love?


Hehe

Lolz,na ladies go suffer am pass o!

issylarry:

Just 2 months

How was d communication btwn u two within dat period?