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tommie1:
I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.

There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.

However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.

That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".

I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".

A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.

As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.

At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.

While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.

However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.

I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.

And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.

I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.

And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.

What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be?

DSC7:
I understand but gradually am loosing strength..not that am hungry but deep inside no Joy...

TeemahBeddings0:
If she carry belle have eyes go open.

Let her enjoy that flutters and tingling down there

punisha:
OP heed to this advice. forcing her to do ur biddings will only make her hate u d more. keep her close. that way u can be d big bro she runs to. more like reverse psychology.

peter6441:
Before fight go start

Let me state it this way

God use the car to save his life....

SmellingAnus:
When your so called true love is tested , only then you will realize that LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH

1Sharon:
That quote applies to you too

1Sharon:
LOL..it would be hilarious if I go through ur post history and see you were one of those that insulted her

Ikillbrokehoes:
Lolz see this one, you just registered 2014 and you are making mouth? what about me that have been on this forum since 2007? oh or it's because I deactivated my old moniker right?
don't let this my moniker deceive you, I've been on this forum since the days of idowuogbo, 190théclown and the rest, so know your mate

Ishilove:
It's the truth. A friend died of cancer last month, and even though I hadn't chatted with her in a very long time, I suddenly found myself thinking of her one day. Three days later she died.

SeunOshewaWife:
Sharaap there.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Perhaps, you might be new to Nairaland, you don't know what's happening.

Ikillbrokehoes:
I don't believe bro, that girl is very jobless, she has another moniker named warrgidanairalâ, check the moniker yourself. all her topics are about penis.

Ikillbrokehoes:
I only eat barbecued chicken, Oya go and make it.

Ikillbrokehoes:
You see how jobless that girl can be, she creates account for fun trolling men on here, maybe she forgot to switch to her zor moniker

very jobless attention seeking girl.

Inspiration007:
They should just sell Nigeria in Naira to Dangote, and share the money to everyone

GamalNasser:
Lemme ask our able minister of Banditry affair shark Gumi..he is in a better position to know this

Ikillbrokehoes:
Abeg getttout!