Education › Re: Ishaq Oloyede: JAMB Made ₦400 Million From Change Of Birth Dates In One Year by Cutehector(m): 6:28am On Mar 09, 2021 |
This nonsense has to stop..
Imagine a 46year old man claiming 1996 in the bank. |
Politics › Re: CDHR: FG's Shoot-On-sight Order Is Useless If Soldiers Do not March Into Forests by Cutehector(m): 6:07am On Mar 08, 2021 |
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TV/Movies › What's The First TV Channel That Comes To Mind When You Grab The TV Remote? by Cutehector(op): 9:36pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Omo, the captioned is clear enough. So what's that one tv station that Gets you addicted?  It's ROK channel 168 for me. I like it because i like to see Efe Irele's face. She is my celebrity crush. So what's yours?
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Romance › Re: She Replied After 2 Weeks ( Pictures) by Cutehector(m): 3:37pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Zzor: why would I be then fvck off.. |
Romance › Re: She Replied After 2 Weeks ( Pictures) by Cutehector(m): 3:11pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Zzor: Why asking if she's still in Lagos? what is your motive jealous |
Nairaland General › Re: Why Is The Average Nigerian Always Angry? by Cutehector(m): 1:32pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Poverty.. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: We Are Hiring Relationship Managers For A Financial Institution by Cutehector(m): 1:21pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
500k? |
Family › Re: How To Avoid Gas Accidents And Explosion At Home by Cutehector(m): 1:00pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Zzor: Thats so canal of you,Christ is waiting for you the dick is also waiting for that ass on ya dp. |
Family › Re: How To Avoid Gas Accidents And Explosion At Home by Cutehector(m): 12:52pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Zzor: You testimony is in my church, claim it now and do the needful no o..it will be in my bed .. With you in it... Unclad |
Family › Re: How To Avoid Gas Accidents And Explosion At Home by Cutehector(m): 12:46pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Zzor: Change your life and come to Christ,follow my GO on YouTube on Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and watch the transformation you shall experience this sheeple... |
Family › Re: How To Avoid Gas Accidents And Explosion At Home by Cutehector(m): 12:42pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Zzor: go and eat shit dingbang seems like you have eaten alot of it ..naah cant join you in your penury.. |
Family › Re: How To Avoid Gas Accidents And Explosion At Home by Cutehector(m): 12:41pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Zzor: I don't have shame anymore fûck off |
Family › Re: Childless For 9 Years: Help! I'm Losing My Mind To Depression! by Cutehector(m): 12:40pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Lmao..this story is as fake as zzor. |
Family › Re: How To Avoid Gas Accidents And Explosion At Home by Cutehector(m): 12:38pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
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Family › Re: How To Avoid Gas Accidents And Explosion At Home by Cutehector(m): 12:31pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Zzor: small boy like you sef have started inviting girls to your house yaff started ya madness again abi. I go troll you for this forum o |
Family › Re: How To Avoid Gas Accidents And Explosion At Home by Cutehector(m): 11:50am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Very educative. That is how i invited one babe to my house to cook for me and she went to turn on the gas cooker knobs and forgot to turn it off.. |
Romance › Re: She Replied After 2 Weeks ( Pictures) by Cutehector(m): 11:44am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Ginaz: I don't stay in lag. I'm fully deltan. Warri blood. no wonder  |
Romance › Re: Can You Be A Third Wife by Cutehector(m): 11:09am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Michelle55: Do whatever that rocks your boat sis, at the end of the day it's your decision and you should be able to bear the brunt if it goes south.
There's no need seeking public validation over something you've already made up your mind to do, the choice and consequences is solely yours to bear.
As for your question: nope, I can't even be a side chick not to talk of a third wife. When it comes to my man I'm a selfish bitch and I'm unapologetic about it. Being an only child makes it easier for me to own toys for a long time and never give nor share them with anyone, so I can't possibly nurture the thoughts of sharing my man. He's mine and mine alone, the thought of sharing him with the kids sef is unnerving not to talk of a strange woman. Mba, not gonna happen. wahala |
Family › Re: Depression In My Life by Cutehector(m): 10:54am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Take up your cross and follow me. |
Romance › Re: She Replied After 2 Weeks ( Pictures) by Cutehector(m): 10:49am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Ginaz: This your rumor loud. Na lindaikeji you say hear am? 
I never born... You nko? Hope you're fine. Happy Sunday . me never born too.. Yeah i'm good.. Still in lagos? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Mask-wearing Ends Before The Rapture - Joseph Prince by Cutehector(m): 9:53am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Oh Gosh.. What kind of false interpretation is this.. This is the reason why i hate church. |
Romance › Re: She Replied After 2 Weeks ( Pictures) by Cutehector(m): 8:49am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Ginaz: Good old days but old habits should be put behind. How are you? Longest time.  fine o.. I hear say you don born twins  |
Romance › Re: She Replied After 2 Weeks ( Pictures) by Cutehector(m): 5:37am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Ginaz: Sighs!! Where dem dey carry all this trouble makers from ? No energy for this stupid banter. Suit yourself. At my age, it would be an embarrassment to exchange words with a kid. e shock you  when you used to find trouble in this forum in those days, you dinor know ba  |
Romance › Re: Don't Feel Love Anymore by Cutehector(m): 5:29am On Mar 07, 2021 |
I am in that same shoes too.. |
Politics › Re: She Doesn’t Want To See Me Again by Cutehector(m): 5:27am On Mar 07, 2021 |
Mchew |
Family › Re: Please I Need Help Before Its Too Late!!! by Cutehector(m): 9:24pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
Donspicey: Boss i have dated a talkative and drama queen bfr it wasn't funny.. Anything that would give me headache is a turn off...
Most of the babes i hv dated are those that toasted me or those that showed interest but to toast na war... well you dont want to date a quiet babe.. House will look like a grave yard.. Damn. |
Family › Re: Please I Need Help Before Its Too Late!!! by Cutehector(m): 9:16pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
Me i am just like you but you see, i rather marry a talkative/drama queen. |
Culture › Re: Suri Tribeswomen Of Ethiopia Who Wear Large Lip Plate To Determine Worth In Cows by Cutehector(m): 7:18pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
Disgusting |
Family › Re: Mother Of Two Dies During Sex Romp With Lover In Adamawa by Cutehector(m): 11:10am On Mar 06, 2021 |
She had asthma |
Autos › Re: Why You Should Look Underneath Before Purchasing A Car by Cutehector(m): 9:58am On Mar 06, 2021 |
Legedez benz till i buy tear rubber. |
Pets › Re: Meet My Latest Girl, Lady Shasha by Cutehector(m): 9:30pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
All these ekuke dog sef |
Romance › Re: Do I remove This Baby? by Cutehector(m): 6:16pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
tommie1: I have an issue bugging me and I need some serious advise because I have been very indecisive so far.
There is a lady I'm seeing. She came to my place a few weeks ago and we had sex, first with condoms and later without condoms.
However, I gave her some money to get postinor when she left for her place the next morning.
That morning, I asked if she got the drug when she called to say she had arrived home and she said "yes".
I called her again that evening to ask if she had taken it and she said "yes".
A few weeks later, she called to say she is pregnant.
As I later found out, at least according to what she said, she took the drug the next day after arriving at her home and not on that day she told me she took it. She gave some flimsy excuse as to why she did it but it does not matter anymore at this point.
At this moment, we are considering removing the baby.
While I have been very indecisive, she has agreed to go with whatever decision I take and has spoken to a doctor who will do it this Friday.
However, I am unsure as of this moment if I want to go on with this because even though I am done with uni, I do not think I have gotten to that point where I can shoulder more responsibilities.
I am self employed and somewhat financially okay but not in a way that I can take care of three people, particularly a baby. I was okay as of 2019 until COVID came and turned my life upside down last year.
And believe me, I was really glad I was not married as of last year because I went through hell. Serious hell. The lockdown finished me.
I am slowly recovering (very slowly) and still trying to figure my way out through life and rebuilding what I lost but I am afraid that having the burden of a woman and baby at this point may derail me.
And I really do not know who to turn to when I am unable to provide for the both of them.
What do you guys think? Do I go on with this or just let the baby be? it is her personal problem as she failed to heed to your instructions, whatever reactions that ensued after is for her to accept. Even God punished Moses after he disobeyed God. Please be firm. |