Romance › Re: My Opinion: "Trendy" Ladies Make Better Wives Than "Churchy" Ladies by Cutehector(op): 8:20pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
maestro299: Oga Cutehector don come again oooo... In a kind of way your arguments could be partially right, after all there are many 'spirikoko' women out there who are nothing but confirmed hypocrites and daughters of Satan, but that dosen't really infer that the so-called 'worldly' ladies are better. In the end, I believe knowing the woman's basic character, who she really is as a person, an individual, churchy or otherwise, is more important. Generalizations aren't trustworthy. nice on bro. Dats the more reason I actually put forth this online so others can relay their own opinions on the subject matter but sadly enough, some group of Nigerians are so daft that they skip the message to criticize the author.. |
Romance › Re: My Opinion: "Trendy" Ladies Make Better Wives Than "Churchy" Ladies by Cutehector(op): 8:08pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: If A President's Wife Is Called 'first Lady' What About A President's Husband? by Cutehector(m): 8:04pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: My Opinion: "Trendy" Ladies Make Better Wives Than "Churchy" Ladies by Cutehector(op): 8:00pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
ChessEnthusiast: One thing I've noticed, there js a lot of hypocrites in here. They only post to look good while they act the opposite in real life. don't be surprised that those insulting you are actually worse that you might think. they are the one you still see rocking oloshos. lol.. some of them don't even have any idea they are married to oloshos or gat oloshos as girlfriends.. Well, I won't blame them. |
Politics › Re: If A President's Wife Is Called 'first Lady' What About A President's Husband? by Cutehector(m): 7:55pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Ask Ellen Johnson Sirleaf! |
Romance › Re: My Opinion: "Trendy" Ladies Make Better Wives Than "Churchy" Ladies by Cutehector(op): 7:51pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
ChessEnthusiast: The op only aired his opinion and see hawks coming for him. @op...stand your ground. Everything you wrote up there is nothing but the truth. I roll with trendy ladies. My work is too hectic for me to roll boring churchy lady who knows nothing but fellowship, church, daddy, mummy, etc don't mind them. After putting a disclaimer :My opinion.. which was the first thing I put as the topic, some idiots were still so dumb to think It applies to all guys. You just know stvpid people when dey display their ignorance online. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Fresh Nationwide Stanbic IBTC Graduate Trainee Recruitment Program by Cutehector(m): 7:45pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
esthete: How can I reschedule mine have anoda stuff dat day  lol what stuff? U can have someone fill in ur data for you |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Fresh Nationwide Stanbic IBTC Graduate Trainee Recruitment Program by Cutehector(m): 7:39pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Mchew.... I detest bank jobs... |
Romance › Re: Lying About Being Single by Cutehector(m): 7:22pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
He is super right... |
Romance › Re: My Opinion: "Trendy" Ladies Make Better Wives Than "Churchy" Ladies by Cutehector(op): 7:20pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: My Opinion: "Trendy" Ladies Make Better Wives Than "Churchy" Ladies by Cutehector(op): 7:19pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
somez: Op, ill give u an olosho to marry i'll glady marry her bro.. |
Romance › Re: 11 Pictures Of Nigerian Girls Exposing Themselves by Cutehector(m): 7:17pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: 11 Pictures Of Nigerian Girls Exposing Themselves by Cutehector(m): 7:14pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: That Awkward Moment When... by Cutehector(m): 7:11pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
 Ah feel u bro  |
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12th hmm |
Romance › My Opinion: "Trendy" Ladies Make Better Wives Than "Churchy" Ladies by Cutehector(op): 6:54pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
I was Just chilling out with my Goons in the evening, just jisting about random stuff, we were just outside our gate when a group of ladies living in the same lodge with us walked outstide past us, you know when a group of ladies walk past a gathering of guys, the previous discussion changes immediately and is fixated on those ladies.
So one of my guys asked me, Hector oh boy na u dey carry all these babes abi, cuz earlier on, two of them were in my room so he probably thought I had something ulterior with them, my response to ma guy was Godforbid I told him naaah, cuz I know the kind of girls I roll with. So he now reminded me about one Churchy (by Churchy, I mean one who frequents fellowships like her life depended on it) girl who stayed opposite my room, that if I'm not into the girls who walked past us, then I should make a pass at the Churchy gurl...
I quickly did the "tufiakwa" sign and told him I rather marry a girl who's rather bad/naughty than marry a lady who is too too extreme with church/fellowship activities. Then I gave him my reasons
1. Trendy ladies are more submissive that Churchy ladies
when a trendy lady gets married, she tends to drop her previous lifestyle and focuses more on her husband and her family.. while Churchy ladies never change. They are so so preoccupied with activities in church to the extent the don't have time for their family. If it's not one Night vigil, it will be church meeting, from Retreat to Choir practice to Meeting with Diocese. Most times they come back so late at night they forget they have a husband who comes back home feeling tired and needs some help.
2. Churchy Ladies are too too uptight and strict.
When having a discussion with a girl who is fellowship oriented, her discussions will just be about Church. When her husband suggests to her about her lack of dress sense, she links it with the bible. She castigates other ladies who try to look good for themselves and say they are worldly... she doesn't even for one day try to look sexy for her husband, she isn't flexible, she is just too rigid, I believe their sex life when married will just be as boring as anything.
3: Trendy Ladies are more receptive to their in-laws than Churchy ladies.
Yes, she will be so so free with her in-laws and try as much as possible to socialize with each and everyone of them. She really knows what to do and what to say.. but Churchy ladies try so hard, they hardly mingle, all they know is fellowship, meeting, election. Etc..
4. Most Churchy Ladies are worse than trendy ladies.
They think they are too righteous, infact they appear righteous to people but their behaviors in private will shock a bad girl. With a trendy girl, you already know her character, and you are free with her, but the Churchy lady will always be a hypocrite and pretender.
After giving my thoughts on that, my goons somewhat agreed with me and affirmed to my points. I told them I rather end up marrying a "worldly" babe than trying to associate myself with one who is too too extreme with church affairs.
But that not withstanding, I decided to share our discussion online here with y'all ma E-niggas to share one or two about your opinions on either of the two and tell us which of these category of ladies you"d like to end up marrying.
Thanks. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Real Reason Why NPF Recruitment Of 10,000 Personnels Is Taking Too Long by Cutehector(m): 4:16pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
A whole federal government of nigeria/Police Service Commission cannot conduct police recruitment...
I weep for this country. Thank God I didn't even apply. Mchew |
Crime › Re: CCTV Caused Dismissal Of Three Policemen In Lagos Who Followed Fraudster To Bank by Cutehector(m): 4:12pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Supol  |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Can You Accept This From Your Guy As A Suprise Gift On Your Birthday? by Cutehector(m): 11:42am On Oct 14, 2016 |
Obtsubtle, u be woman?  |
Romance › Re: Do Men Prefer Dumb Girls To Smart Ones? by Cutehector(m): 9:41am On Oct 14, 2016 |
trapQ: Sorry na. I'm not always online. so where exactly are u now? Georgia or woji or lag? |
Celebrities › Re: Why Do Some People Not Like To Be Called As Sir? by Cutehector(m): 6:45am On Oct 14, 2016 |
Lol its funny hw we call our president by his name when he isn't nearby buh if we had d opportunity to be in his presence, you go fear series of accolades  |
Romance › Re: Would This Be A Wrong Move To Let Her Go? by Cutehector(m): 6:08am On Oct 14, 2016 |
another statistic... |
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Odiegwu. |
Romance › Re: First Time Sex, Any Tips? by Cutehector(m): 10:07pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
yine: Haha brother... Can't say I feel ur pain cuz am a lady First.. ..u gotta b truthful wen she comes around ➕ if she still wana go ahead. ...u gotta take tynz slow.. ..dnt let d excitement get d Betta part of you cuz u won't last. Understand dat it's not just ur pleasure Bt hers too Get into a very comfortable zone Wia u get to ask and know Wat she really wants but u"v had sex |
Romance › Re: First Time Sex, Any Tips? by Cutehector(m): 9:58pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
RealestG: bruh hector, expect my mention next week!...
You just challenged me to make sure something happens  lwkmd.. I need proof, not some feeble tales. I"ll bet 5k, Dat nothing will happen.. on my terms.. u send me proof.. deal? |
Family › Re: Is Anything Wrong With Me? by Cutehector(m): 9:50pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
U fail to determine what kind of ladies the boyfriend u have are attracted to.
Btw, how did u meet your ex boyfriend, did u throw urself at him or he was the one who begged for your time |
Romance › Re: First Time Sex, Any Tips? by Cutehector(m): 9:46pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
RealestG: lol. Buh i kinda believe in myself, cuz i've read stuff, i'm very good at talking dirty, most girls i've met never believed when i told them i'm a V oboy if u like put shitt insyd ur mouth be talking dirty, I said u won't do shii.. simple! |
Romance › Re: He Made Love To Me Like A Real F*cking Man by Cutehector(m): 9:44pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
saphhire: [s]Love is relative. It could mean sex to some; kissing to others and a whole lot of pre-intimacy to yet others. But, the one thing that stays true to all these three is that love, my dear friend, is an art. When you’re in bed with a woman; what you’re primarily doing to her is making love; making her feel things she may or may not have felt before. You instill in her feelings, no matter how momentary, or everlasting they might be.
So how do you take a woman to your bed, and not have sex but make love to her, instead?
You start by taking her out—to a fancy place. Treat her like a queen. Open the champagne, pour her a glass, pull the chair out for her; hold the door. Ask her what her tastes and preferences are. Look into her eyes. Smile at her.
Take her hand. Go for a drive. Ask her what she wants to do. Let her tell you what she wants to do. Let her be and let her in. Take her home. Offer her a beverage; water, maybe. Play some soft music. Ask her if she’s comfortable. Touch her arm lightly. Lean in while you talk to her. Ask her questions about herself. Notice how she laughs or smiles at something you say. Hold her gaze. Lean in a bit more. Touch her cheek. Tell her she’s beautiful. Kiss her softly; yes, on her lips. Don’t make it hard. Keep it soft. Linger. Pull away a little. Let her see you. Let her lean in. Kiss her again. Let your lips linger. Take the lead and let her follow. Pull her close; hold her by the waist. Don’t force the touch; let it come naturally. Let her come closer. Notice her body language. Notice how she moves. Hold her in your arms; gently. Trail a finger down her back. Feel the fabric of her dress on your skin. Run your fingers through her hair. Trail a finger along her jawline; hold her chin up to yours.
Then, take her by the hand. Light a fire—in the room and in her. Take your time. Linger. Kiss her more; passionately, now. Let her know she is wanted. Let her know you want her. Right there, right then. Let her want you back. Right there, right then. Slowly undo her dress, like your sculpting a statue; like you’re teaching her to break free. Notice how her body shifts right into your arms. Let her unbutton your shirt; let her take her time. Never stop kissing her. Linger on her lips. Take her hands in yours and let your fingers entwine. Gently stroke the nape of her neck; gently kiss her neck. Carry her in your arms and lead her to the bedroom. You can make love in any part of the house; but it should always start in the bedroom. Lay her down on your bed. Admire her in that moment; like you’re grateful she’s with you. Let her know you feel lucky to be with her right then. Don’t hesitate—not for a second; not for a minute. Let her know you’re sure of this; of yourself. Let her know what you want to make her feel, And then, make her feel all of it. With every move and every touch, don’t leave her eyes or her lips. Treat her. Really treat her—to the time of her life. Make it about her.[/s]
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Romance › Re: First Time Sex, Any Tips? by Cutehector(m): 9:39pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
Lmao! I have a strong feeling nothing will happen when she comes over to see u.  |
Romance › Re: Can You Walk Naked because Of This Amount by Cutehector(m): 9:31pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
Naaah, can't do it.. people will upload videos of me and will go viral over the Internet.. and we talkn abt over a billion people gettn access to it.
So naaah! |
Romance › Re: Hurey!!!!! Badest Guy In Naija by Cutehector(m): 9:25pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
Lol allow me to buy u beer bro.. |
Romance › Re: What Should My Boyfriend Do? by Cutehector(m): 11:21am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Shuuuooo! Dem no dey beg person to keep his job due to dis current economic crisis. If he like make he form badoo.. |