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benedictnsi:
I never read am ooooo hope say I will not be tempted to yarb her...... Cos my eyes hates iraanu

Monalisa185:
hehehehe... I'm sure she was playing too...calm down...

benedictnsi:
Guy happy new month jor..... Wetin be you plans for today, this week and this month

bestdeals0:
Chai. Dis ur story make sense oo. Jus remembered wen I was a kid worrying my mum for food everyitine

benedictnsi:
Which bane be dat and how e take answer my query Abi na early morning highness

ministeriallist:
Jehovah's Witnesses are just too good when it comes to understanding and obeying Bible teaching. They are just fantastic. Even there kids are very knowledgeable - small children preaching the word of God. You need to listen to there message - direct and accurate bible teaching. No prejudice

kossyablaze:
Some people like Cutehector would like to compare their respective kitties.

OLAADEGBU:
Does that mean one can speak in tongues and yet not be saved?

benedictnsi:
Guy which school you d (don) go

gretblue:
With unbeliever but when the Unbeliever like dangote or Atiku give you job,you rush to take the employment. Double standard.

cassyrooy:
Make i say End Time GF?

In other news.

End Time FTC

ogorkojo:
I don't know about that yet, but am still watching

bestdeals0:
Time time [color=#006600][/color]

bestdeals0:
Stowie

kagorba3:
Right now I'm confused and frustrated at the same time still I don't wanna make lifetime mistakes.


Here is my plight...There's is a young man seriously in love with me but I'm far from liking him let alone love him yet he wouldn't stop, this his relenting spirit kinda attracted me to him but still I can't find a place in my heart to accommodate him, everything about him just irritate me, he laughs uncontrollably over my not so funny jokes, from the look of things he seems so happy and settled with me yet I'm at the opposite end, whenever we have a date I do keep an eye on my wrist watch and keep wishing time flies so fast.

But I discover he is serious and focused and sound to interact and have a meaningful convo with but his physical looks is just a big turn off, I really wanna give birth to lovely kids not some "oputu poyoyo" please y'all should not tell me to look beyond looks cos these things do come into play...I'm saying this cos my mouth no good oh, anyday we have any misunderstanding I might mistakenly yab away his future.

I have been postponing giving him a yes hoping for someone presentable to show these signs of seriousness but no way, now he has fix March for the main thing, all my thoughts now is how can I maneuver my way and make all my kids take after my beauty instead of his and it's my baby girl I'm so scared for cos most baby girls take over their dad.

Note: he's not rich oh just a struggling guy before y'all will conclude I'm into his money, the only thing is he acts different from the rest that will just act so sex starved, any focus girl wants a focused guy too but to tell y'all the truth I'm still in doubt since I don't feel a thing for him and he seem not to be bothered which I'm certain he will after the main thing.

Please to the lovely ladies that once said yes to a not so presentable guy(I mean a man with bending shaped head, undefined complexion and petit in nature ) how is the journey so far

bestdeals0:
Lol. Oya, story time.....

bestdeals0:
Lol, am not feeling sleepy too o. Slept very well this afternoon. Will just be reading nairaland headlines till sleep carry me.

holyFRED:
Please read bear with me, read to the end and give me your advice(s). I seriously need them

We started dating in January and sincerely, she's one of the best I've met in life.
She filled a spot in my life. I loved her personality and her attitude to life; always cool, lively, positive and she's extremely sincere.

All through my life, I've dated just two ladies and they are both virgins(i could bet my life on this) and i don't know if i should consider this a blessing or otherwise but I still left them as I met them cos of some personal reasons.

We've been dating but not until last two months when I noticed that rather than for her to love me, she was being obsessed with me.

She never asked me for a penny throughout our relationship and even when I try to give to her voluntarily, she would refuse and tell me not to make her get used to putting her needs on me.
She was just 'too sincere' for me to handle.

Fast forward to why am writing this;
Last two months[while we were still together], she called me as usual and we chatted for long before she spoilt my mood.
She asked me if I would mind bonding our love through BLOOD CONVENANT to which I gave a fat NO to. I was shocked to my marrows but she started giving me silly reasons like 'I am scared of losing you','I love you so much',e.t.c and i didn't even mention that I'm just 22(far from marriage) and she's 21.

I decided to break up with her a week after that particular call but since then, she always calls or texts me to tell me of how wicked I am,how I made her loose,how I took advantage of her sincerity and genuine love and all those kinda stuffs angry women say.

My question is this: was I too 'harsh' on her with my decision?
Am I in anyway guilty of selfishness,heart break or any love related crime?

Did I in anyway take advantage of her?
And if I am/have been wrong in anyway,how do I right it?

Romancelanders,please help me
Thanks for reading

bestdeals0:
Lol, ur head dey dere oo. Gudnyt dear

bettercreature:
Stop it right there,dont destroy what God has joined together
@OP,you shouldnt judge him with that maybe he was saying that just to assure you that he really loves you but i will advice you to stay safe dont take oat in any case

bestdeals0:
I dey enter keke to ur house. Lemme know if u re a priest. Seriously, am wowed to hear that from u. But belive me, it's not easy cos we are all human. Thanks to God for keyboard cos I alwys keep mysef busy on it to avoid staying idle

mizquote:
aww.
good luck in becoming a loving guy.

bestdeals0:
Are u for real? keep it up dear. God will bless u with a wonderful wife.

mizquote:
kpele.
hope u re not that kinda man?

espionagesavvy:
Dear Cynthia
I caught my husband of five years sniffing the panties of my 15 years niece. I don't know if I should confront him or let the issue lie.
I also think he bought my niece a new blackberry phone because the day I insisted on making my niece tell me where she got the phone, he became too overprotective of her and we almost fought over the issue.

My niece recently lost her father, making my sister a widow who let go of her children to stay with her relatives, that is how my niece came to stay with me,
On the 26th of November 2015, I saw him at the backyard next to the heap of clothes my niece brought out to wash, he picked up a pant, my niece's pant and sniffed it, I almost screamed where I was.
Also I keep noticing the look they exchange, very flirtatious.

Lastly my niece is acting like she is his wife, she dishes his food even before the children's food, doesn't knock before opening the door of our bedroom, and the most disturbing is, she asks my husband where he is going when he wants to go out as if she is his wife, my husband is 37 and this girl is 15, I suggested to my husband that we send her off to a boarding school, he rejected the idea and even got angry with me saying it will affect the girl psychologically, as if I want to dump her in a boarding house and run away. I want to confront my husband but I have no evidence, and for my niece I respect my eldest sister so much that I don't know what to do, I feel like an outsider in my own home.

P.S. My husband is a banker and also a pastor at our church.

I sincerely need your advice.
Thank you.

Sad depressed housewife in Ikeja

Alonzo4g:
What if she does?