₦airaland Forum

Pearlyfaze:
Your mum coming is to help with the kids right?.
Except there are other reasons why you want your mum to come, tell her your mum won't come again.
Infact no more visitor from either family.
Make peace from reign in your home.
Marriage is about the two of you and compromising for each other in other for peace to reign and for the home to work.

Next time before you take decision, discuss it with your wife.
From your post, you only informed your wife about your plans of bringing your mum, she was never part of the decision.

Marriage thrives on communication. So communicate with your wife sire.

Share the child care 50-50.

She is here already and she gats more power than you do. So don't even think of Divorce or separation because na your body go tell you.

I sense Rivalry in your home brother.

Whatever is the case, Brother communication is key.

Talk to each other.

Don't just go and take decisions because you think you are the Head of the family and she is the tail. Na Africa this pattern dey work nor be Obodo oyibo.

Peace.

Chineye042:
Hello guys please I’m trying to book for my TB test. Which option should I choose? I am the dependent and my husband is in UK as a student. Thanks

Folabifreeman:
Did my Biometrics yesterday and tracked I this morning and it has arrived DMC.

Is this fast or the normal?

florixi:
I totally disagree with this, your employment letter is confidential. you are not meant to share the details with anyone. Are you saying there are companies that tell people their pay verbally and not in writing? We learn every day.

florixi:
there's no employment letter that will not show your remuneration,[b] if you submit an employment letter that does not show your remuneration is a red flag.[b] The purpose of them asking for employment evidence is just to show that you have been busy and you have something doing since you graduated not to check for your financial strength. after all, you may get a loan or sponsor to finance your study. your work id and reference letter from your employer are better than payslip.

Funnyafricans:
Pls who has done walk in at ikeja TLS today, I want to know how is it like, I'm planning on going for walk in tomorrow. Thanks

solarenergy:
Both IHS and Visa Fee?

solarenergy:
Anybody?

JesChill:
Hello, please how do you send a paid mail..I need directions on how to go about it...

Dahnyhel:
How long does it take to get a response to a paid mail?

justwise:
Does that mean that its acceptable by them?

Yes they do and that is why people get banned, that is why they run a check with the bank.

justwise:
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She doesn't and you know that

Resurgent2016:
@justwise @stenon

I think I can appreciate where both of you are coming from.

In my own view the UK is well aware that to a large extent applicants from Africa may be using "arranged funds" . Less than 1% of Ngr have N500k or more in their acct ( https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/10/just-in-99-4-of-bank-accounts-contain-less-than-n500000-ndic/ ). Move the scale to 4-5m required for typical pof and you can easily tell its a major problem. The story isnt peculiar to Ngr, across sub saharan africa there is deeply entrenched poverty that is driving this migration. I honestly dont think the UK authorities are not ware of this. Same way they give scholarships with a condition that students return home to their country to develop it (but we know how that goes)

That being said though, I think the onus is on those asking the question to be smart about it. If your pof gets depleted, you really dont need to notify us that it is an "arranged fund" knowing this is clearly against the rule. You can state your issue without mentioning irrelevant details that will only serve to possibly implicate you or cause issues for others after you. Its simply "dont ask dont tell"

I recall when Nigeria was put on the "quarantine-in-a-hotel list" and some people here started discussing how to bypass it openly. Within a few days, they entirely stopped visa processing for many applicants. I am not necessarily drawing a connection, but we cannt dismiss that these illegalities discussed openly also filter to them and make life more difficult for others, because no responsible country wants its rules being made a public joke of.

You can do it in private and they let it slip, but once it become a public issue, they are driven to take action and that is where I quite agree with justwise.

Acanubs:
Good news! The second test result is out and it’s negative . God is good . Thank you to all the Gurus here . I was so worried in the morning .

mimilyrics:
Better to wait till her own funds mature to avoid confusion/error. If excluding your funds in her account, she meets the 28-day rule, she can walk-in with you on the 4th but you need to use your own account which also meets the 28-day rule for your own funds.

STENON:
Just allow those that want to travel to go, I did it and I got my visa.

You think UKVI is foolish knowing fully well that you are super- rich and have your full money in your POF but are still giving students 20 hours to work per week and sustain yourself?
You think the UK universities are not wise enough by asking payment in installment even after showing them evidence of having the full money in your account before leaving Nigeria?
If they didn't know the money is arranged, they would have been sending the POF directly to your universities to pay for your tuition fees and then be blocking your POF for monthly sustenance before granting your visa.
Enough said , Have a Good day and Be good to Nigerians

STENON:
Yes, that is not a crime considering the fact that 99% of the people here used the same arranged money

SirWellington:
From all of us in Dubai ��..... We say Happy New year!!! We are one hour into the new year and I must say the year looks beautiful. One love

Awube:
Wow! So are we doomed to black market rate?☹️

Awube:
Please how does that work? Do you have to have an access bank account?

kennykale:
The way a tourist is treated is different from a student. The tourist has to clear on his or her purpose of visit while student has already done so by the visa they hold. I am sure no student will be dragged to the atm or whatever because of funds at the Poe.

olutop:
What is NSF please?

STENON:
Most people tell more lies than truth. What if I don't have Internet banking or Naija atm card with me at the POE.

iykedare:
Is this a joke? �

STENON:
21st of December

Davidson5:
Gm guys,
If I had known ikeja TLS will this so notorious, I would have chose elsewhere. So difficult to get an appointment date

missy24:
The children are from his non married partner, so I married him as a single father… can he still put them as dependents? Or just take them out ?

dexpendable:
For people getting married after visa approval, please do you have to change the marital status on the data Page of the passport or just leave as it is

Lekods04:
Please have you gotten your Visa?

I did biometrics same day( December 10th).

DhammiBB:
My other grey nylon was empty oh as I didn’t see anything inside….


And my visa states Restricted Work for a dependent visa…..

Anyone with the same issue..?