Magnoliaa:


Now why you mentioned in this, I don't know, but if you want me to take you seriously, let me see an equivalent of your response directed to men at various times when they talk down on Nigerian women.


When you've done so, we may have a conversation.

Oh and here is a reference link just to prove my earlier response.

https://www.nairaland.com/6318546/men-better

Magnoliaa:


Now why you mentioned in this, I don't know, but if you want me to take you seriously, let me see an equivalent of your response directed to men at various times when they talk down on Nigerian women.


When you've done so, we may have a conversation.

I have been on this platform for years just as you with several monikers just like this one and veritably I don't contribute much unless there is a reason. I only observe in the background and don't converse much but when I do generate a response or topic here, it's with good purpose nothing more or less. Going through my profile or assuming you get me based on my activity here will only give you the wrong notions about me.

And to be honest, I didn't even know you weren't the one who created the post until I checked throughly. May sound uncomfortable but I examined your profile topics along with some others here and eventually arrived at this link from my browser, thus mistyping you for her in the mention.

Moreover, I'm quite bored at the moment and decided to try create impressions here just to see if anyone can stimulate me via a conversation as I hardly come across someone interesting enough to match my energy in deep conversations.

Based on your kind of topics and replies here, I perceived and theorized you are one who crave deeper interactions and have a curious mind hence after noticing my error mentioning you, decided to leave it that way to see where it goes.

There is no ego, arrogance or delusion behind this message so don't make false assumptions.

Laatly concerning addressing the issue of men who are morally deficient and lack the core principles of a quality man, i did that sometime ago through my other moniker but now I'm older and more evolved.

There is no point trying to persuade others whose personality by default goes against your message as people don't really change and you can't change anyone. Time is precious and I wouldn't want to waste it on something that is so trivial to my existence and goals. My energy is solely focused on myself and those around me who I can connect to physically.

You might be more sensitive and aware to issues like that and try to help those around you improve. You might have goals to better the society and help others develop but honestly I don't have the time to focus on such matters that are of little importance to me as I'm my utmost priority. Let those guys remain as they are, the society is defined by the people in it and can rarely be changed through online motivation.

@ Magnoliaa and Persephone1

I agree with you, a lot of men embody the rigid traits of society's flawed definition of the ideal man. They can be quite inflexible, robotic and even not really self aware but I know you know you have to approach this topic in an open minded way. Although, I can sense you just want to create an emotional relieve for yourself through this post or perhaps try enlighten those who are here.

Quality men aren't always obvious and aren't known for jumping into relationships when the woman in question doesn't possess their core qualities or align with their principles.

Your may be looking for a potential partner who embodies true quality, someone who is similar to you or rather put, someone who complements you and can resonate with you on a deeper level but such man is rare and even if they are standing beside you, they tend to analyze if you're compatible or not and if you aren't, they won't reveal, approach or engage you in a relationship.

Though you might not really accept, they are here in Nigeria but embody a nature which is hidden until they get comfortable with you in their inner circle.

Promisebello:


🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bro you are right
But they are still people that are enjoying in this high cost of living

HI, how do you get your customers?

OliviaThomas:
These are very helpful tips. I myself was looking for an electrician near me not so long ago to solve some of my problems and update the electrical panel in the house. There are many jobs that should only be done by a professional, for your own safety.

Where do you base? Are you in Lagos?

chatinent:
I feel her pain.

Religion today is not helping matters. It, in fact, will make you poorer. And when you get poor, you will start noticing the unfair treatment you'll be given in the same religion because you are poor.

To me, religion is business.

Good evening Bro Chatinent, If you can see this, please help out.

My name is Michael. I am aware we don`t really know each other physically or on this forum but please I do need help and will be thankful if you can support me at the moment.

I am 22, studying with a part-time job and possess a good skill but circumstance made me utterly broke at the moment till the extent I can't purchase food items to eat tomorrow or the next 3 days and those at home aren`t helping matters at all. I will only be receiving money on the 14th from side jobs.

If you find it in your heart Bro Chatinent, please assist me financially for these 4 days.

I`ll be grateful to you concerning this.

Please.

virginprincess:
,you with this virgin stuff.

I expect you to be happy with the post.

Jennyclay:
Lies! Lies! Lies!
I pity the ones who would believe this cooked story.

You're right for observing.

1Sharon:


Well you know you're ruining your chances of your daughter finding a spouse if she's too educated.

I'f you're saying not being educated kepps you far behind. You don't want it in a spouse?

Do you feel a woman highly educated is good or not?

She might be good in terms of commerce but less likely in terms of marriage especially if the man is deficient somewhere or somehow.

We both know this, most educated women are more chaotic in their marriages than the other. They hardly appreciate their husbands cause they are always noticing and dwelling on his lapses everytime. You might say otherwise but this has been a pattern in most marriages and patterns never lie.

You tell me, Why would a man want to invite chaos into his life with his own hands? Is the woman worth the trouble after all?

1Sharon:


Would you want your daughter to be less educated?

Most likely. An education to the senior level and a profitable skill/trade will be a good decision the way I see it. Wouldn't want to be a willing party to her marital chaos.

You might not understand what I'm insinuating but you needn't bother yourself to.

1Sharon:


Well you know you're ruining your chances of your daughter finding a spouse if she's too educated.

I'f you're saying not being educated kepps you far behind. You don't want it in a spouse?

Do you feel a woman highly educated is good or not?

For others maybe yes but for marriage stability and longi
etivity, I personally would prefer a less educated lady. No offense.

1Sharon:
I've seen some men state they do not want to marry highly educated women because they feel she'll butt heads with them and be too opinionated. So instead they feel lowly educated women make better spouses and opt for them instead.

Now when these men have daughters, they wouldn't want her to have little to no academic education, they'd want her to make the most she can of herself. They might even call her lazy or unambitious if she decides not to pursue further or higher education.

Now these type of men are encouraging and moulding their own daughters to be the kind of women they would have never picked for a spouse.

So is this hypocrisy or nature?

For men like this, if women that are highly educated are a turn-off and have already priced themselves out of the market:

Why do you encourage your own daughters to be exactly like them?

There could be a lot of reasons for that but a major one is that the life of an average lady is very complicated and bleeped up. Remember it is a man's world.

We want to have our peace of mind thus our marriage with less educated women. We also wouldn't like our daughters to be far behind at this time of the world that we are. With the way things are tough now, it wouldn't be a good idea to raise a daughter who isn't capable of at least fending for herself. Thus, we empower our daughters.

Hypocritical you say?

We humans, male or female are all hypocritical in one way or another. Your feelings can't change this dear. If you want people to act according to your thoughts, feelings or imagination, you're living in a fool's paradise.

Shocking

Sunnyshinylight:
Shame to you for ever,

What's in sex that has eaten you up so deep, why did you allow such feeling take over your entire life to an extent you begin to masturbate.

The question is what's special about sex

Shame on you also. Don`t you know that it is also called masturbation when you, your boyfriend/husband stimulate your organs with yours or their hands during sexual intercourse?

I have always known eros love never was like agape love. It is selfish and possesive in nature.

Reason why I never dated nor been heartbroken before.

Love emotion isn`t enough in relationships, understanding is everything - the actual reason our fore-fathers had better marriages than us.

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!!! *You Live MUCH more Longer*


I noticed most single men tends to live much longer unlike their married Counterparts.

Not true.

luminouz:


Alaye, who send you all this talk bayi?? Why all the shalaye?

We never quote f monikers here. It's our RULE!!!

I hissed when I read your comment.

Iyaebe:
let me whisper this to you:my boyfriend is a hard core redpiller but loves me silly,we avoid each other like a plague on this forum

Words are always cheap, actions aren`t. I don`t need to know anything about your boyfriend nor you.

Just be very careful of what you read on the internet. There is sorrow in knowing some things.

Iyaebe:
See how this place is scanty,evidence that most redpillers don’t live a responsible life.Most of them are in clubs and various joints

Continual visiting of this thread and absorbing its messages might mess your mind up being a lady who is going to be under a man.

You would have a brain full with knowledge which may make you resent your spouse`s leadership and be stuck vehemently trying to make him improve.

The account is valid but you still have to authenticate it at the bank to enable full usage.

doggedfighter:


We're very inquisitive as a people.
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add insentitive to it.

BoredBerry:
Millions of women have...
Men can too

What do you mean millions?

It is very good to judge a lady by her past unless you would love to have major future problems with her.

kollinzgee:

Says who?.. Nairaland statistics..

Try researching, you have a phone.

kollinzgee:
I am not claiming to know it all or saying spirituality doesn't exist,but trust me I have many male friends who are pure virgins some in their 20s some in their 30s but most of these people are yet to be where they really want to be in life infact some of them still come to beg me for financial assistance once In a while,I remained a virgin till 24 before finally loosing it now I still have sex and masturbate too but I am still who i am and not begging to survive not like I am where I truly want to be in life but I have come to realise I live in the poverty capital of the world where your chances of making are slim unless you are 'do or die' hustler.
I am saying this because I expect virgins to rule the world and become examples of success since their destinies and glory are intact since they don't have sex,but unfortunately in reality it's not what I am seeing.

Eat this.

The most inspiring message I have read so far this year. Like play, like play most of us are just NPCs in our day to day life especially in Nigeria here.

You imagine people voting for the same leaders who put them in unbearable suffering or some others tolerating toxic partners in order to feel high among society or to prove a useless point.

Sha sense is not too common. Where are the mods?

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