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Toks2008:
I decide to drop this after reading a condescending post about a mother of 3 that just got married to a popular fuji artiste and i implore everyone to read this with an open mind.

Polygamy may not be appropriate for everyone but it remains a viable option for certain groups. Polygamy in Islam is a norm and there is no part in the Bible that forbids it or tags it a sin but rather it is Permissible just as GOD permits Divorce.

The concept of Polygamy is not about Men having many wives but it is geared towards ensuring that every lady who wants to get married can easily have a husband thereby curbing the act of sexual immorality.

Sometimes what may seem inappropriate may be an ideal option and talking about polygamy, i will strongly advise the following group of ladies to give it a thorough consideration.

1. THE WIDOW/DIVORCEE: Except a lady is still very young at the time she lost her husband or got divorced and she has no kids then she just might be fortunate to easily get a single guy who would love to marry her but as we know, many widows and divorcees are usually with kids and of age which makes them more appealing to married men rather than single guys who would prefer to go for young never married ladies. So If you are in this group, stop bothering your head hoping for a single guy except you just want to be toyed with. Consider marrying a married man who is willing to love and care for you.

2. THE NEVER MARRIED LADIES IN THEIR 40s: Many ladies in this group usually have this hope that there just might be one single guy who will be willing to settle down with them AND YES it is very possible just that the chances of this happening is very low. Most guys usually get married in their 30s and except they see a divorcee or a widower then they just might be lucky but unfortunately, even the widower or divorcee will still most likely prefer to go for far younger ladies which makes it even more difficult to come across single guys. My candid advise for this group of ladies is to get a responsible man to settle with regardless of his marital status.

3. THE NEVER MARRIED SINGLE MUMS: I have so many single mums as friends and the common mind-set they still have is that there is one single guy out there who will gladly marry them and some of them have remained celibate for years because according to them, they don't want to marry a married man and they are scared of single guys.... I think it just doesn't make any sense to continue hoping for one single guy to leave millions of ladies without kids to marry you. In most cases, this set of ladies get used by single men who just want to catch cruise with them. If you belong to this group please consider settling down with one responsible married man and avoid getting used by fvk boys in the name of looking for a single guy to marry.

4. THE IMPATIENT MONEY LOVERS/GOLD PICKERS: I honestly see nothing wrong in wanting a made guy after all, everyone has the right to make a choice but the problem i have with this set of ladies is when they put so much demand on a young progressive guy to provide what he can't. Wealth is progressive and except a man is very lucky to make huge money in his early age, I strongly believe that the best bet is for such a lady to look for one rich married man to marry because in most cases, it is men who are married and advanced in age that will be able to provide the type of life style this group of ladies desire .

5. THE UNLUCKY ONES: This group of ladies cut across all ages. They are just unlucky with single guys. They have tried many relationships with single men but they are just so unfortunate and they are totally fed up. My advice to them is to consider polygamy as there are many married men out there who will be willing to marry them and make them happy for as long as they live. It just doesn't make any sense to settle for a jerk just because you want a single man for yourself when there are super responsible married men ready to treat you like a queen.

6.THE SUGAR BABIES: This group of ladies are usually very young and to them, it is ok to date married men or sugar daddies who can take care of them but when it comes to marriage, it is a taboo for them to marry such men. I honestly do not understand how a lady will be having sexual relationship with a married man, enjoy the lavish lifestyle he provides but will find it difficult to marry same man and the worst twist is that in most cases, even after this set of ladies get married, they still linger in the relationship with their sugar daddies. No be juju be dat?


Make i stop here

Apt

Mercychen:
Don't blame the old man.

The man prolly developed that poor dress Sense from years of depriving himself just to enable him train you guys to the level you are and give you the best. So now it has become a part of him and will be difficult to part with.

You said your last born is still in school. I'm sure pospy is still having that sense of self-denial to see her through her education. So he doesn't see your offer of new clothes as priority or the need to be fashionable for now.

Let the old man be. He became so for your sakes. That's the sacrifice of a father.

Best response.

I saw Utomi's name and I know it's DOA.

Discussion is predictable: help source for loan

While he's afraid to kill judiciously, the people he governs are quick to kill extrajudicially in the name of religion

Congratulations. The family of short people

RIP bro. The country did not only disappoint you but kill you

I am suspicious of this sudden call for state police at this time. They know that the South has been clamoring for state police which often they will reject. Now they want to use it as bait to smuggle VAT amendment into the Constitution. Conspiracy theory 1

They will use southern goats to fight their war

It seems like this guy wants to trap her back to murder her

Don't do bad thing o

History555:
The sad thing about benin expressway and bypass is there are 67 checkpoints manned by army, police, immigration, custom, anti cult, frsc, navy yet herdsmen kidnaps people on daily basis. What is the essence of having 67 checkpoints

Count it well it's over 150 checkpoints. Checkpoint every kilometer

How come an Islamic country erect a statue?

I did not have the patience to read through. Is he planning to sue the media that defamed him?

From IDP to sultanate. People should be careful how they accept IDP camps in their states. Some of these camps are expansionist strategies.

I heard this for years........is payment is naira? They have made nonsense of the money as it has no value again

What clear direction? The man has settled with a cow to continue to rule after he is gone

[quote author= post=103605902]You Mean this ?



Can someone please help some of us to translate this to English.

We know Oluwa means God/Jesus.

Is Oluwaburna the same thing as God is Burna?
Or that one just dey call himself anything,
Cos nothing wey all dis celebritiesno fit do?

Someone should help us with the below, biko.....




Oh, that is a beautiful name then.
Thanks and God bless you so much.
We do appreciate this.[/quote]Oluwapamperinayo - God pampers in joy

WoundedLamb:
I'm sure I missed something. Someone should please educate me. Is it that one could be too old to be educated now? What becomes the fate of the so-called over-aged students?

Go back and read it well. If you are overaged you bring someone to sign the undertaking for you.

Chloraseptic:
All this back and forth because the killer is a female..

The way the police was even stressing how beautiful she's sums it up..

For the last time females are more dangerous and strong and evil hearted than male..

I mean how can you explain some Teenage girls going off to meet a guy they are meeting for the first time in a hotel from Benin to far away Abuja.. Most adult guys can't do it let alone teenage guys

I thought I was the only person who is terrified by young girls who embarked on this venture

OssyMalik:
Are there no CCTV footage to know if some other people gained entrance to the apartment where they both lodged?

The girl should be beaten mercilessly to name her accomplices. She’s not alone in the murder


Which kind wahala be this sef?

If the CCTV is missing, we can hire detective Fash of infamous ENSARS to help us

One common trend, THEY SLEPT AND DIDN'T WAKE UP

You want take style sample women. Bad guy

This man want to disgrace himself. Pesin say e nor want comot na crime again?

Nigeria gradually winding down

Write articles and share it on social media platforms. Comment on political events with clear views not being in the middle. Be consistent in your writing . Gradually you will be known and will get followers who share your thoughts. With time you may be given opportunity in mainstream media.

Hadiza is blue blood. From missing billion to insubordination. The case is closed. Ameachi cannot disgrace the princess of the North.

He will talk go front, talk go back...... Just juggling with words making no sense

With this Dangote may possibly control all the ports in Nigeria........

The young man is trying to free himself from the grip of the woman. It’s the woman molesting the guy

CandyOps:
It's like you want your brothers to go COMPLETELY MAD abi??

You already have proof that medications work to an extent on your younger brother abi? Which other solution do you seek alert from what works already??!

The moment you carry that man into a spiritual home is the moment his madness will go into gear 4.

And deep down inside you, you already know the source of the problem. IT IS HEREDITARY! A.K.A in your blood.

Hello!! You mean to say you went through school and the words 'genetics' never sunk into your head?!

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You see religion and superstition is really killing African growth. How can a fully grown university educated man seek health solutions from any other place outside a health facility??

And before u start quoting me, just know I also have a cousin who is mentally unstable and suffers from schizophrenia too.

My neighbor had a burst vein in his head from High BP complications and his illiterate mom rushed him to a spiritual home where he went into coma during their spiritual razzmatazz.

Before her head correct it's too late. Nigga was DOA by the time they got to the hospital.

In fact, I believe any religious home that takes on the role of a healthcare provider should be sued and probably even shut down.

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Here is how the scientific process works:

- You encounter a problem.
- You make guesses/assumptions to what the solution could be & ask questions to the cause of the prob.
- You make guesses using the answers you got. Called a hypothesis. This guess should be something testable. Meaning anyone can replicate the tests.
- Make a prediction from the answers you get
- Now you run some tests on that hypothesis (usually trial and errors while noting what works)
- You come up with more hypothesis
- You know what works to an extent (in your case, drugs) which leads you to making a clearer prediction.

- you test again till you come up with a theory of how to go about such issues in future...

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Now, over the thousands of years mankind and modern humans have literally done almost all these testing for us and we only have to improve on it. But NO! Not an African man.

An African man will encounter a problem and instead of following the scientific step, he will immediately say to himself, "I need to talk to God about this" or worse, "it looks spiritual. I can't do anything about it if God doesn't do anything about it"

... And just in that moment, all the creative ideas and potential discoveries that could have been made will be cut short!

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You see, when we cry over the dangers of superstition in Africa and how it is underdeveloping us Christians and other religious folks will rather put the devil on you by calling Atheist or Apethists (people who don't care about deities) devil worshipers than see reasons with us.

I mean, just imagine what an adult who passed through the 4 walls of a classroom is saying. It's deeper than just getting school knowledge and I don't blame anyone because it is a result of hundreds of years of torture and slavery by the white people who brought on this scam called religion to us

(Don't mistake religion for spirituality or spiritism)

Africans pls plssss stop bowing to the ducking skies and learn to use your heads

The damaging effects of religion is not just found in our healthcare system. It's everywhere. Most especially in our minds. Slavery ducked us up real good. But then we keep ducking ourselves everyday by choosing to remain in the slavery

It's like what Kanye West said in an interview on TMZ that went viral. "400 years of slavery seemed like a choice"

Sorry I'm coming off as harsh but pls I beg you in the name of anything you believe in, DO NOT STEP ONE FOOT into ANY religious home. Well, except you want to dump your bro there for the worse.

And the funny thing is this:

When you let a super-religious person in on the TRUTH about their bullshit they'll always go through these stages:

1. Denial or Ridicule (they deny it or Ridicule it/you)

2. Rejection [they reject it entirely and will become violent towards the source of the information (you) ]

3. Acceptance (they finally begin to see reason)

Which explains why I don't like having a religious convo with anyone. I just listen and nod or zone you off.

And the reason is because I hate being the bearer of bad news. And I hate being at the receiving end of the 3 stages of accepting the truth I listed above.

It's also one of the reasons why the bearer of bad news in the olden days were usually put to death by the King.

Anyone who loses a loved one also passes through those 3 stages before accepting the truth.

First, you ridicule the info.
Then you react violent to oppose it.
Later, acceptance dwells in.

It also explains why most superstitious folks HATE atheist (or rather dispise the people/persons who first told them God don't exist)

And another reason is because it goes against everything you've ever known from birth. In other words, the person is saying you're stewpid.

And no one likes being stewpid

100% correct

triple996:
bcus it's was produced in kaduna??. If to say na 4 kanu's backyard now we 4 don hear word.


You are in pains simply because it was produced in kaduna. Where is d one you produced 4rm your backyard.

What is the joy in producing it in kaduna when it will be used against kaduna south indigenes