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immortalcrown:
Tell your sister the truth about her child's situation. Are you waiting for a child to die before you will reveal the truth to your sister? Whatever you try to protect your sister from now will happen to her multiple times if her child dies in your mother's care. It is better you say the truth now to save the child.

Ok thanks

Please I know my title sound disrespectful but when I get to the point of the story you will then understand the reason why I have said so. I had never seen a wicked person like her she is wicked to her husband , some of her children , in our community people don't even talk to her because of her wickedness everybody hates her she doesn't even have friend and she is now wicked to her only grandchild for now. It happened that my elder sister the second born lost her fiance 2 years ago he left her with a 3 years old daughter and a 5 months pregnancy unfortunately she lost the pregnancy on hearing her fiance demise. Life in Lagos has been rough for her and daughter as she is a fashion designer but she hasn't been making a lot of money because she had vacated from the house she was living with her fiance and moved far away in a cheapest place to survive with her daughter so she doesn't have much customers there that's why she has made the decision this holiday to bring her 5 years old daughter to stay with us to enabling her to go back to Lagos to hustle hard . The day she left the village I saw her giving my mum 25k and I didn't asked her abything of how much she will be sending monthly but the way I knows my mum she must have told her to be sending a certain amount every year. So far my niece is here it has been from one insult to another , beating and depriving her from foods also before my sister left she begged my mum to not bard her hair because the girl had beautiful thick and long her so my sister had spoken to a girl next door to be making my niece hair and she will be paying her by transfer which she has agreed and my mum also agreed but after my sister left she barb the girl hair claiming that everybody in the village hates her and she wouldn't allow them to touch her grandchild hair because they will steal her glory that part is understandable but abusing the small child is just a big no. The poor child is now afraid of my mum that she cannot even approached her nor ask her for foods when she is angry because of the insult and beating is just too much on her. When my mum she is on the phone to my sister she always nice to her lting that the girl is fine and she is eating a lot which is a big lie I wish I could tell my sister the truth but I don't want to add more stress to the one she already got. I hate having a mother like her because she had put me in so much difficult situations before it was my dad, my other sister now my niece I am just tired of her nonsense do you thinks I should report her to my sister or I should continue to keep quiet. Which is one is better please

MatrixReloaded:
Get rid of your sister. YOu will pave way for your own sons.

How?

Nice2023:
Advice her to do IVF.


Discuss that privately with her.

Money will be the issue here, my brother in law is not very rich.

solmusdesigns:
Take consolation in the fact that Your Brother in law was also not a virgin before marrying your sister and he damage other women

It's karma

Hmmm I don't think it's karma nor did he damaged other women, he is innocent and he has fallen victim of a wrong woman.

My elder sister had three abortions before marriage she been married for 5 years without children , her husband is a good man who takes good care of her and my family but I pity him for him to not know the truth about my sister's abortions which my mum had forced her to have the third one almost killed and damaged her womb. As a man myself I will not be happy marrying a woman who has a dark secret but she is my sister my blood I can't expose her just like that. I am also scared that karma will visit me if I keep quiet , what pain me the most is despite my elder sister womb is damaged because of abortions ,my mum still hasn't learn and she is doing the same thing to our last born if the same thing happens to her , another inmocent young man will be victim and marry her without knowing she is damaged. We couldn't tell him the truth in the beginning because my mum thinks she is a demigod nobody has the power to confront her even my dad was scared of her so we didn't had the courage to speak up. I am an adult now I do respect her but she cannot manipulate me like before. My question is do you guys thinks this secret should be hidden from my brother in law or he must know the real truth about the woman he married. Which one is better

Good question me dad 99k mum 1k whether she like it or not that 's final

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Guderian:
Daboy18
Igbo family right?

Yoruba

ahnie:
Sister wey don scatter... probably a mobile walking POS for yahoo boiz.

I heard rumours that she is dating a yahoo boys at only 16 years she has a Iphone 12 pro max and expensive clothes and hair my mum doesn't care

dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

Hmmm beating my mum never i cannot try that , not even in my dream sorry this your advice is not good

My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

I asked him what will he do if I marry a woman he doesn't like . He said he doesn't have a problem with that but my mum will have a problem with it. I asked him why, he said If he doesn't like the woman and I love her . I can go ahead and marry her because my happiness matter he will accept her but if my mum doesn't like her and I marry her against her wish. I will not enjoy the marriage my wife will suffer the consequences. He gave me an example of my mum and his mum he said do you know why your mum and grandmother have the greatest bond I said no he said it is because my mother was his mother favourite from the beginning that's why my grandmother is free to come over and stay in the house as long as she want and there will no be no fight between them. But if she didn't like her from the beginning he don't think he would have married her because he didn't want her to suffer. He told me again if you marry a girl that your mother doesn't like she will become her worst enemy and she will never visit your house and your wife will have no peace knowing that her mother in law hates her so much. Your children will never bond with their grandmother. I ask him when I'm ready for marriage should I ask her to find me a woman of her choice so they will be no problem. He said she or he doesn't have the right to choose a wife for me they can only direct me with the type of woman i should marry so I will not marry the wrong one. He said if I ever find one I should consider my mum decision first not his . Is my dad right or wrong? Sorry I don't know how to explain this better I hope you will understand me better and give me good advice ?

God nature is the best,be please with what God gave u,either 5 minute, 10 minute, 30 minute, 1 hour . Be satisfy with that,though i still don't believe that's cause of their death

Romanoff:
Your mother is your sister's love-vendor.

Simple. Unless you have a source of income to take your sister away from your mum, you mum will succeed in ruining what's left of her life.

I am only 20 and jobless

duro4chang:
You actually did the right thing. But something within me is telling me that you have offended your mother before. Perhaps, you yourself is not upright and you are trying to correct another person. But then you have played your own role as a brother. If the thing backfire in future you will be able to justify yourself and make your mama see the reason why you took drastic action against the girl. Just forget what your mum did and move on.

I did not offended her at all my mum valued her daughters more than her sons

My little sister of 16 years came home with a iPhone 12 Pro max I asked her where did she get the phone from, she said it is her phone I asked her where did she get the money or who gave her the phone she said none of my business so I slapped her and seize her phone while I was waiting for my parents to come home. Only for my mum to cursed me so bad she told me I have no right to questions my sister about the phone and the day I will lay my hand on her again she will threw me out of the house my dad didn't say anything because he wear the wrapper my mum wear the trousers he just shooked his head and went inside the house. I am hurt by my mum words but I know one day i will make her happy and she will change her mind about me . did I do anything wrong for wanting to know where my sister who is a minor got the expensive phone from?

Sorry I created this account because I have been following this forum as a guest. Something has been bothering me. I am a boy of 18 yers last year I travelled from ekiti to Abuja to visit my uncle it was my first time to go to Abuja , I was very excited and couldn’t wait to see the place myself because I was getting jealous of my parents and older siblings talking about the place after visiting my uncle. My uncle was aware of my arrival because he paid for my transport fare. On my way to his place we was chatting via Facebook messenger he told me that he was busy at work and he will be home late but his wife and kids are at home they will take care of me . After a long journey i
Arrive safely to his house it was around 7 in the evening , I knocked and a man came a security guy , I introduced myself but the guy refuse to allow me to go inside. He locked me out, i taught maybe I was in the wrong house but when I took my diary to check the address again and it was correct , I just don’t know why he refuse to allow me inside , I don’t know if it was his wife who told him not to , I was confuse , I was tired , hungry my last meal was 2 in the afternoon and desperately needed to use toilet my head was spinning and hurting me bad . My phone was dead low battery and I couldn’t call my uncle to inform him of what was happening , I was in tears because I didn’t know what else to do , in a big city like Abuja and the only people I knows abandon me. Because it was dark and people were not passing around , i desperately needed toilet I had to pee outside there compound and I sat there with my luggage for almost long time then the guy came again and opened the door and ask me to follow him. He took me inside the house where my uncle’s wife and another wife I didn’t know who she was were watching tv , I greeted them and his wife said why I can’t I phone her to let her know that I was outside , I explained that my battery was dead but she wasn’t interested , she then asked her maid to show me the room and the bathroom so I could have my bath. I was very angry my entire body was shaking , I wanted to ask her if I could eat first but I was shy to ask and I went and had my bath and all I could think of was foods. I taught after my bath I will go downstairs and my food will be ready of which I went downstairs to eat and my uncle was also back , I greeted him then he went to have his bath while the maid was preparing food for me , I taught it was for both of us but I was wrong, few mins later his wife told me to go sleep because I had a long tiring day I should rest. I obeyed but deep in me I was like how could this woman be this wicked , first of al she locked me outside for 2 hours and again she deprived me of food , i was in tears again I am a boy but I very emotional, I cry anytime I am pained . I went to bed angry something I never did before even taught my parents are not rich but we never sleep angry. I cried a lot that night I soaked my pillow with tears and I just couldn’t wait for sun to come so I could eat. In the morning I woke up very early but I had to wait for my cousins to wake so we could all eat together and we had a great breakfast together with both parents but what I noticed for one week I had spend with them is his wife only treated me well when my uncle was around and when is not around is hell. She wouldn’t let me eat in the same table with her kids or touched her children PlayStation games , she will keep my cousins away from me , I will be all alone but I have never told my uncle anything because I don’t want to cause problems. Till now I have also never had told my parents about what his wife did to me. My mum is a no nonsense woman if I told her she would have go all the way to Abuja to fight her so I decided to keep it to myself. The issue on ground is my mum want my 14 years old little sister to go and live with my uncle so my uncle could train her but I don’t like the idea because his wife will abuse her the same way she did with me , mine was only for a week it was hell and what about my sister who will be with them for years , I am scared that She will die of anger and I will not see her again but I don’t know how to tell my mum not to send her because if I said what happened to me there , it will cause a lot of trouble because my mum will revenge . I just don’t know what to tell her or should I let her go and wait for her to speak for herself when she will start abusing her. What should I do please