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Acidosis:
One of the greatest gift you can give yourself as a man is to marry a woman that is m a d l y and hopelessly in love with you.

Little effort >>>>> massive result. Never settle for less.

Not true, unless you at least like her. You can marry someone who loves you, but the mere sight of her pisses u off. Of course the love will gradually disappear and you'd have been better off marrying someone YOU love!

polite2:
This is so deep. But the truth is she has long gone. Yeah emotionally and all that she ever had for you. I won't advise divorce...but bro detache yourself from her as far as possible and ve ur peace

HOW??
That's the question he asked!

Tokskob2008:
Since you have asked all the necessary questions and all her response showed that you ain't at fault just free her abeg. Your unnecessary attachment might be repulsing her so just let her be, when she nitice you hardly even look her side she will be the one to come over and ask you what's up that's if she hasn't been doing something extra outside.

Easier said than done, when she has managed to get into his head

Namaster:
Just take a look at the kind of WATERY pieces of advice that men give to a man being emotionally abused, FREQUENTLY denied, merely TOLERATED and being generally treated like an annoying PEST by his wife.

OP, take note:

Your wife is FUCCCKING somebody else. She does NOT like you anymore. She's NOT attracted to you. She NO LONGER respects you.

Also the fact you constantly HUMILIATE, DEBASE and BELITTLE yourself by soliciting and accepting PITY sex from a woman that ABSOLUTELY hates your guts is NOT helping you. Makes her even more DISGUSTED with you.

Imagine your wife NOT allowing you to caress or even touch her sensually when you have sex. She just removes her clothes and lies STILL like a log of wood and ONLY lets you put your dick in her vagina because it's her duty.

Dude, that's how BROTHEL prostitutes do their jobs. Not a WIFE!

I bet OP has not received BJs from his wife in years.

OP, Your Course of Action:

End the marriage this night!

Don't try to NEGOTIATE. Don't bargain.

Don't believe her even if she says she'll CHANGE. She won't. Her attraction to you is DEAD! No changing that now.

Your wife thinks having sex with you is an ANNOYANCE. She REJECTS cuddling with you because she thinks it might lead to sex.

You have been reduced to a NUISANCE in your own marriage!

END it!

Sex is a BIG part of marriage. Women love sex. Men love sex. If a wife does NOT like having sex with her husband, it's because she's find someone else she likes having sex with. And she thinks her new intimacy gadget is BETTER than her husband.

DIVORCE and find someone else to have sex with.

LEAVE this woman!

Wish I could give you a million likes. EXCEPT the part where you said she's fucking someone else. This is not necessarily true. Just that she detests the hubby - probably because, one way or another, she got a bad deal in marrying him

Odua4life:
Bleep kamala Harris... Its Trump all the way. Blacks are not racist. Trump we want

Beats me why a Nigerian will support Trump.
He called us shithole and was the ONLY one to oppose NOI for WTO!
Harris is OURS - her only child (niece) is married to a Nigerian. And Gov. Walz declared Aug 13 Igbo Day in Minnesota.
Harris will win barring some huge event. She has everyone else including youths and minorities.
Trump only has white males, anti-abortions, and evangelicals.

Krismas, another "covid vaccine death"

Good one actually 🤣😅

Note: he hasn't been sentenced to anything UNTIL a jury trial. In Ruskies he'd have since disappeared into Putin's gulag and may never be heard from aga7n!

hyperflex:
Long story short its best not to fall into scam than believe the banks or police would help you. You have a better chance reporting to VDM sef.

Not only that, in trying to recover the money you are SURE to lose more money PLUS probably get scammed on top.
Scammers know that once someone is scammed they are easy to scam a second time by telling them you'd recover their loss

FRANCISTOWN:
This made me remember the words of my father.
He'd say "Don't be in a rush to help someone who is going thru suffering and agony because most of the times, they deserve it."

Nigeria helped those idiots but they turn our to be unrepentant mofolistic ungrateful bastards.
No be their fault sha. Na 9ja I blame.

Did your dad really say that, or you just made it up? Because I've been thinking same general thing since I was a child without being able to actually articulate it words.
It's like you're working against the universe and instead of being rewarded with gratitude you'd be punished

StillDtruth:
You are the one longating it. I and others have pointed out that it is sex and i have presented how it is and you.have queried it to the point you had.nothing valid to.say which is why you changed post.

Which clearly means you.could not find anything wrong with it because it is The Law, "There is no valid argument against the Truth"

So, you are just longating this talk because of your denial, by trying to find how you can reargue seeing how all your former.arguments have bee fallted!.

As i told your Dna brother, Truth remains the Truth.whether.you.like it or not so deal with it.

😅Funny guy. Typing nonsense🤣😂

Tsarbomba:
I think pursuing happiness is a multifaceted journey that involves self-discovery, goal-setting, and fostering meaningful connections. It is an ongoing process that can lead to a more fulfilling and enriched life.

Nope, happiness is simply a result of the the feeling we get when dopamine or serotonin is released in our brain (serotonin being more long-lasting). It is as simple as that. If you do everything you said but your brain refuses to release those chemicals, you won't be happy. A mad man, on the other hand, can be deliriously happy despite outward circumstances because, for whatever reason (maybe genetic), his brain is flooded with those chemicals

StillDtruth:
Funny guy. Change of post means you could not answer the issue, so.you created your own exam, so, think b4 speaking.

You know you're typing nonsense just to prolong the thread.
I hope you now KNOW without a doubt that biblical forbidden fruit was NOT sex at all. It was exactly what it says - knowledge of good and evil, self-awareness, innocence. It is impossible to sin if you're not self-aware.
You've learnt enough. Now run along

There's no such thing as pursuing happiness. Unless induced by drugs, happiness is a byproduct that you simply become aware of as you're living your life

advanceDNA:
I don't know why the guy is so desperate... How can he even claim God hates women

He doesn't know how to drive home his points with valid premise and similar narratives...He just thinks his claims are true because some other sexually biased pple like him also supports the narrative....then he juxtapose unrelated points



I mean....he's accusing me of refusing the truth
Like seriously....is it no longer truth that Adam and eve disobeyed God....since when did that bcome a lie?

See, because "eating the forbidden fruit" in popular culture refers to sex (see below), he rushed to create thread without thinking it through.

advanceDNA:
Lol....why did God destroy annais and saphira his wife for lying.... for ordinary lie??

Why did God cause the ground to open to kill millions of Israelites in the wilderness for idol worship ??...

Why did God curse michah's womb and make her baren just because she despised David for dancing like a commoner in the open??.. StillDtruth

See I don't know why u think you are an expert of what punishment God chose to dish out...

Right, and why did God hate and want to punish Esau right from moment of birth for absolutely no reason we can see??!

StillDtruth:
Now you have changed post and repeating yourself.

Funny guy. Next time think things through b4 rushing to create a thread

Easy. All my friends are wealthy

DrAda:
I don't know how we can do that if you doubt who I am

I don't doubt you at all. It's just NL. I'm 100% certain u r a Paediatrician hence my subsequent steps

StillDtruth:
Read well, they were already like God.

The only thing they did not have was "knowing good and evil"

See below. And if one tree is fucking, what is the other tree, shitting? Also how were they to "increase and multiply" without sex? ETC, ETC

DrAda:
Well, I understand. Do take care

Not so fast. We ought get together as two high achievers

DrAda:
Interesting. Are you alluding to the fact that I am not who I claim to be?

You called it a "fact"?
You sound very authentic but this is NAIRALAND -
a forum of wonderful transformations!
How's biz? You in Lagos?

In Naija loan apps don't need all this. They just call all your contacts and come and carry your stuff