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@omolola. PLS CAN U TOAST ME??

I PRAY SHE KEEPS HER MARRIAGE INTACT

NOLLYWOOD STARS DONT MOSTLY LAST LONG, ITS ONE CASE AFTER ANODA

Hello peeps.
any info about WAEC ??
my cousin Have done the test and forwarded her CREDENTIALS TO 2 DIFFERENT E MAIL ADDYS on 2 different occassions, THE LAST BEING EASTER PERIOD.
is there anyone in this category.
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190 and MMM no go kill me for NL, They are everywhere you go!!

BACK TO BIZ

@POSTER, allow to pass and watch how that proposed union will go

NICE JUDGMENT THOUGH. LETS ALLOW TO PASS AND LEARN THE LESSONS TOT.

I havent seen your profile, but i forsee you are fine from pyschological point of view.

takia

All glory to God.
Dont fail to keep us updated.
it is well

dont get it twisted, 'feeling good' about yourself is quite different from one bragging to be beautiful.
Yes, no created human can be 100% ugly, because we all are beautifully made, but believe ye me, 'beauty pass beauty'(for those who cares so much about it, not me, cos i sure have my basis for assement just like we all).
If you are beautiful, let others tell you that, yet dont be flattered about it or carry it as an anthem.

For me, i am just there sha(anyway, man no need too fine).

Hope this would end the long word-fight between you and top soldier.Conceed the point and always pick up something in any argument.


LESSONS
Even if you are beautiful, dont profess or boast of it too often, let other say it.


AT APOINT IN MY LIFE I LOST THE SP POST IN MY SCHOOL EVEN BEFORE THE INVESTITURE.WHY? BECAUSE I BAOSTED IT WAS MY RIGHT AS THE MOST BRILLIANT AND INTELLIGENT IN MY SET, I EVEN STARTED ATTENDING BOURNVITA BRAIN MATCH WITH MY SENIORS RIGHT FROM SS1,
When the day came I WAS MADE THE ASP, I REVOLTED AND WAS SANCTIONED.i learnt not to blow my own trumpet FROM THEN EVEN WHEN ALL PRAISE ME

you sure have some little work to do, because the background is there.
However, you have to ensure you are in control(not bullying, and being like'i must be the head')
When next she behaves 'heady and stubborn', do sit her down and weigh the consequences of her perceived stuborness, her actions and inactions, drawing points to the merits and demerits there in
that will be a way to conscientise her, at least for a start.

Mind you, at some point the stubborness may come up sligghtly , but ALWAYS TRY TO SUBDUE IT WITH WISE WORDS AND REASON, NOT BEATING OR HARSHNESS. Though, it may be a plus for you at some point, say when she is in defence of your own right in an event. Even at that, applaud her and tell her it is still uncalled for and teach her other ways it cud be doen better.

afterall,'the king of all animals' and the name 'lion' mean the same thing, meaning you proof to her that there are subtle ways to do everything.

the above may not be all round, but will go a long way, ITS EXPERIENCE SPEAKING FOR ME.

fine or no fine,
BEAUTY IS IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER.

Also, when u conceive you are beautiful, most times you may be misleading yourself or leaving in phantom mirage.

from experience too, if you feel and profess you are beautiful too often, you may have to take heed lest you fall, cos pride goeth before a fall.

@KANDIIKANNE, If you are beautiful, then upload your pix, and get accessed by the jury on board and end the word-battle.
me, i no handsome @ ALL, so i no upload mine

@BABE, Nice to know, my pleasure.
k. will check that out.
takia of u

Nice speech sha, nice motivation if i may say and doggedness

but to me AFTER -1 IS STILL AFTER-1.

Anyway, everyone has a past.

No be so

She did not have the so-called ‘normal’ childhood. Her teenage life was truncated. She became pregnant at 17. Much was not expected from the little girl who did not follow the ‘golden rule’ of right upbringing (from secondary school, university and to career), however, against all odds, Genevieve Nnaji has broken, recreated and became the rule for many and is now a success story.

On May 3, 2011, the Nollywood star clocked 31. She marked her birthday in far away London, full of smiles and in company of hip pop star D’Banj, friends and fans. Yes, Genny has many reasons to smile. Out of the lot that passed through Nollywood she has risen to become one of the very few iconic movie figures in Africa. Cable News Network (CNN) even dubbed her Julia Roberts of Africa.

In an interview she granted Treasure Magazine, Genevieve shared the story of her life. The Mbaise, Imo State-born actress didn’t grow up in the East. She is what you call the typical Lagos girl. Speaking on her childhood, she said: “I grew up in Lagos basically; my family is here in Lagos. I went to Methodist Girls High School, Yaba, Lagos. My mum is a teacher and my dad is a retired banker. Okay, I’m from a family of 10, eight kids, mummy and daddy. I left school in 97, went to UNILAG to do Creative Arts (part time); it was difficult keeping up because of doing movies, so I decided to drop and continue with the movie until I’m ready.”

That is not all, she grew up with strong Catholic background, a church she claimed impacted conscience into her, and it was that conscience the made her take a stand against abortion when she became pregnant as a teenager. Speaking on her child and pregnancy, she said: “Yes, I have a child. I was pretty young though. What happened? What I learnt was that no matter how much I try to control myself and be preserved and everything, sh*t still happens to me. So, I think what is meant to be will be.

You can only try to avoid it or prolong it, but it will be. The truth is, if it hadn’t happened I won’t be here now, because it had a way of shifting my life. So, it is like falling to one side and trying to make the best out of it. I probably would not be here. It happened and the best I did was not to dwell on it. It affected me in a way, but I didn’t dwell on it. I just felt it was not about the downfall, but how to pick up yourself that makes you a strong person, and not everybody would understand. And there is this thing I keep telling myself; life is once. So, life starts and ends with you. You live once, try to make the best of it. Don’t let people discourage you, people are going to talk, they are going to judge, but truth is, people who talk the most are those who do the worse. If you are not important, people won’t talk about you. Be yourself, be happy.”

The pregnancy was seven months gone before Genny’s Catholic mum discovered it. Genny said, “She couldn’t believe it, ‘how can she be pregnant when she was very careful’.” A test confirmed it, her parents were disappointed but stood their ground against abortion. “I didn’t feel anything. I didn’t even know till I was about four months. It was there, but I was still in shock. I didn’t believe it. The only time I actually believed it was when I saw it in a scan. Seven months! And I saw it’s in there and I said, “Okay, it’s true!” I was like, “Oh, it’s like some disease, ” I think I was pretty much hard on myself then than my parents or people. I was harder on myself, really. My parents reacted the way any parent would react – disappointed. I didn’t know. My mother discovered it for me. I didn’t know anything really. She discovered it for me and it was too late, we couldn’t do anything and we’re Catholics and I’m glad I didn’t do anything funny really.”

Speaking further, she said: “Getting rid of the pregnancy was an alternative then, but it was too late, because not until I was four months before we discovered it and so it was not what we could do, and my dad was like, ‘it’s a child for Christ’s sake. God knows why he wants to bring that child into life”. We are Catholics and it’s just that conscience, you do wrong once and doing another would not make the first right. So, you either correct your mistake by doing the right thing. If I was pregnant, and then have an abortion, it would have been like murder after fornication! So, that was basically wrong.

“I’m sure everywoman knows the feeling of pregnancy, but for the young girl – it is difficult for me to say now, because I have grown much older – but I know at that time it was, let me see, Anyway, I’d just wake up every morning hoping to wake up from a dream, but you know it doesn’t happen so. It’s more like giving me hope that ‘no, it wasn’t, ’ I was like looking forward to sleeping and waking up, then it wasn’t getting any better anyway.”

Were her parents at fault? No, Genny took responsibility, “Mine had nothing to do with it, it was a different case entirely, which I wouldn’t want to go into. My parents did their jobs and I did my own job of listening and everything. My parents were fantastic. I got the best of home training. It’s none of my parents’ fault. I was close to mum and Dad and they told me everything I needed to know, okay. But what happened had to happen, somehow. So, I didn’t think it had to do with my parents, although some people could suffer from not getting enough education from their parents, but I think my mum did her part as a mother. Yes, she did.”

On the lesson life taught her, she said: “Like I said before, I have learnt that life is the way you live it. It is not about theory, no lecturer can tell you what life is. Life is what you make of it. Life is what you want it to be, basically. For somebody like me, if I say I want this now and I work towards it, nothing is going to keep me away from that, I’m going to get it. Even if it means me drawing up my account, I want that, and I’m happy. I always think of today and not tomorrow. It is not like, ‘Oh, my children in the future, ’ whatever I do right now, I believe I’ll dig into it. Yes, I will try to be considerate later, but life is too short, you go now and whatever you’ve achieved other people will enjoy it.

“I think it is doing what you love doing, that’s what life is basically all about. Be happy; whatever you do let it be worth doing well. Don’t do things because other people expect you to do it. Please yourself, but don’t be selfish about it. You know it’s not like when you enjoy killing; that’s not what I mean. Whatever your direction, if your father wants you to be a doctor and you want to be a musician, follow your dreams! At the end of the day, if you have a gift for it, (go for it).”

All in all, Genny has come of age and done well for herself. She is a role model, not just to teeming aspiring actresses but to those who had a truncated/pause in the journey of their dreams, but are trying to pick up the pieces. And as icing on the cake, the beautiful actress is on the verge of inking a document that would see her pair with a Hollywood star in a multi-million naira movie. Happy birthday to Africa’s queen of the tube

@Babe, be ni , i am.

You may think it is hard to do, but i bet you when you see someone so nice caring and in-charge, you surely would give up some and he gives up some too.
It will be fun, it wont be automatic, but down into it, YOU'D SEE YOU HAVE SUB CONCIOUSLY GIVEN UP That stubborness.

CHELSEA'S PROBLEM IS NOT COACH OR PLAYER OR IBRAHIMOVIC

CHELSEA'S PROBLEM IS SPIRITUAL!!!

@babe
you just have to give up some things, FRIENDSHIP/DATING IS DIFFERENT FROM MARRIAGE!!!
Except he accepts you have your way everytime, and perhaps make some mistakes cos we cant be right all the time.\
Anyway, success when you wana go there

@baby boy.
the line i spelt is just what is obtainable here. Modearation is the key, hers is getting excessive.
You may be in anoda world but reality is reality, not same measures apply to all nations.

IF A MERCY JOHNSON HAS PLANNED TO QUIT ACTING AFTER HER MARRIAGE TO A PRINCE BY AUGUST, Then you should know what that means, She cant do those thrases again, and it would have been pre-agreed too.

WHEN U GIVE BIETH, PLEASWE YOU MAY TELL YOU PRETTY DAUGHTER TO GO IN TO ACTING AND TOLL TONTO'S OR WHOSOEVERS LINE,

If u noticed i dont like commenting on a PARTICULAR thread more than 5-6 TIME

Please suit your self, but learn to pick something in the course of any argument because i surely picked something from your, but sorry, it is not 100% americana here Mr NY.

was the agrrement that youd foot her bills
if yes, she demanded here rite.
if no, then she was dumb, itrust my mopols, they would shoot her, cos our environment dont condone nonsenses, and is sensitive to a fault

my advise , is you try and reach an agreement in any case
but why not source locally than online?

lol, you can say that again,

if i cud survive it ,yes u cud,
i used to be
she used to be
but today, love has driven them all out, though i stopped when i started being a man and seeing the realities of life

GOOD LUCK !!!

NAIJA ACTRESS AND THEIR LOVE STORIES WONT STOP COMING IN,



Some months back, sultry Actress Fathia Balogun officially announced that she’s walking down the aisles come May 21,2011.Many looked forward to the date after her engagement to Ade,a US based Nigerian took place in January 2011.
But to our dismay, the marriage didn’t hold on the said date.
According to our sources, what led to the cancellation of the wedding was based on the fact that,Fathia discovered that Ade is still married to a white woman.
Reports further reveals that Ade and the white lady also have a child together. The white woman was said to have threatened to sue Ade over what she considered bigamy.
In bid to confirm the story, Fathia waved the question aside stating that May 21 wedding was only a provisional date.
Fathia was married to veteran actor Saheed Balogun before their marriage crashed.

@SA godess, nice response

dont mind the reactors, guess they are 'ugly' so it struck them bad

deep within, u know it is painful to be told the truth,
if you refer my post as nonsense,then please do clarify or debunk my claims.

its just too good to hear people respond when they feel hit
But DO RESPOND RATHER THAN REACT

If u dont know the difference between the 2 afore mentioned, CONSULT YOUR DICTIONARY


We like, , we want, , give us, it is better, , we prefer,



PLEASE WHAT DO YOU LADIES HAVE TO OFFER TOO!!!!!

I wont abuse anyone cos its not in my nature and no one can say i have done so to him /her in the platform

By all indications, is this real

[b]to me marrying her would have been the best gift[/b]read more at

http://www.nigeriafilms.com/content.asp?menu=1&ContentTypeID=0&hot=1

@Baby me
Well said, so dont ever cast your bet for anyone you arent sure of.

TONTO was not born 1985
If she was born then, you may also believe that STANLERY OKORO OF GREEN EAGLES is really under -21

LMAO!!!!!

@baby boy,
exactly the issue with us, BORROWED ACTS, WITHOUT CORRESPONDING SUPPORT IN TERMS OF NORMS AND VALUES.

African(Nigerian )values and norms do not permit same sir. NOT EVEN ON THE SCREENS. She seriies of scandals trailing INI EDO andd Genny, and ask why KATE doesnt have much of that

Religiously, it is not permitted too, in play /act or in reality.

MY QUESTION IS MUST SHE BE THE ONE TO PLAY THOSE ROLES MOST TIMES>?? i BET YOU IT WAS COS OF THE HUGE PAY AFTER SERIES OF REJECTIONS

When i was in the industry(I was in blood money And some other movies by NEK VIDEO LINKS), such roles were not patronised, but today, it is all over the place nd has been the cause of so many issues peculiar with the family.

my question to you is, CAN U JUST KISS ANYONE IN ACT, IF YOUR SPIRIT DOESNT ACCEPT THAT PERSON??

OUR VALUES AND NORMS ARE PART OF OUR CULTURE, LETS JEALOUSLY GUARD THEM

to the typical african man, ONCE YOU CAN KISS ANYONE AND PLAY ODD ROLES IN MOVIES, Then in reality you MAY DO SAME, evertyhing being equal.