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[b][/b] Just picture the Prodigal Son story in the Bible.
Can you remember how his Father was eagerly waiting for him, that's how God is waiting for you....don't stay away too much because Satan can still use that distance to his advantage against you......

100 million naira just waste by someone ���

Going to church does not guarantee us a place in heaven BUT the important of church is that, its is a place where you fellowship ( build yourself together with other believers, identify your weakness and ask for help, coming together to bring others to the kingdom which is the great commission) together with other brethren because you will agree with me that the journey is not easy when walk alone but together and you can never say you LOVE THE LORD AND NOT FELLOWSHIP WITH OTHER BRETHREN

Hebrews 10:25

Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.

I could remember when my father was so sick, he can barely move, talk, nor eat but here was Mama sarafa, who was a younger sister to my father laughing and even making a loud joke with my father's siblings of how my father dead would look like and how they will blame everything on my mum so they can inherit all my father's property and send my mum out.
I cried that night begging God to save my Father and suddenly i heard the loud cry of my mum in unison with mama Sarafa and her collegues laughing joyfully while my mum cried and yelling that "why are you leaving me with all this load Gbolahan !!! Your kids are still small and many enemies are around, you didn't tell me this is how you will leave me oooo" .
Those and many more were the words of my mum, she couldn't eat for days due to the loss of her dear husband who died leaving her with 6 younger kids in the midst of so many enemies. Mama Sarafa and her collegues make sure they buried my father that day and shared the properties same day and sent my mother packing the next day.
They didn't even stop there, they spread lies about my mum in the community concerning my father's death, they attack my mum and her children spiritually due to many revelation that the Children are gonna be successful in life and due to this, friends who my mum and dad had help in his lifetime deserted us and we were left like a sheep without a sherpard...
These were the last page of the 6 in 1 notebooks that grown up TEMIDERE wrote when Baba asked him to write down so many things he could ever think his #enemies has done against him that he vowed to never forgive nor forget when he was called that Mama sarafa is on the sick bed yelling his name to ask for forgiveness..
Baba breath down after reading all what Temidere has written and he pop this question to Temidire......... INSPITE OF ALL THESE THAT MAMA SARAFA HAD DONE TO YOU, DOES GOD STILL LOVE MAMA SARAFA ??

HOPEFULLY YOU ENCOUNTER GOD TODAY

Galatians 2:20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.

Let me sit and learn

I hope you know human being change when they get more wealth, their real characters shows after gotten what they don't have before and I hope your new wife will remain just as you marry her when she get her hand on a smartphone or register on all social media handles

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To me the guy is just trying to protect his good image in the community he lives, he doesn't want them to know him as someone who brings in woman to sleep over... this is my opinion though and also the idea of been intimate out of wedlock is not okay at all, to some guy since you have yield to his request of sex not at his home but at an hotel in the first instance will surely means you can allow him anywhere and which prove you ........ .... I am so sorry if am rude but sex outside of marriage cannot keep a man, if he love you he will wait

You mean this car here represents Abia state herself?

The match na draw 0,0

There is room for tasting for the wife (the kind of tasting where she is neither full nor hungry) which will keep her till her husband comes. Eating together as a couple do help to gear up romance in marriage and also help the children you will birth not to discriminate but love all

If not 5 then it should be 6

My one and only advice for you is not to build your marriage on a false foundation, imagine a house built on a weak foundation, what do you think will happen,tell your girl the truth,if she's for, she will stay and if she's not,so be it and lastly please you really need to go back to God, only him can help marriage not to crumble

Not because something works for someone means it gonna work for you, you really need to know that ma, what your kids need currently is someone to confide in, someone to share their feelings with but unfortunately they never see, that's what they went to look for outside.
Pls you really need to create time for them, know what they are through, relate with them like a friend not as an angry parent or else they won't be able to share what they are going through with you because they know you gonna react negatively.

And I want to suggest something ma, to make both your wishes and hers to come to pass,call her and promise to enroll her into after school music lessons only on the condition if she did well in her education and if she really did well you must enroll her but the music lesson Will something you gonna use to control her that if she did not do well she will stop the music lesson.
Because on another level,our dream as a child must not be shattered and you really need to pray to God for her and your cousin also, you may think you have a best plan whereas God has a better plan for and I trust God is gonna help you with both of them....
And lastly you need to show her God, when you pray, pray together and study the word together, you will see God is gonna change her...
please just try this and let see if it's gonna work please the way you are treating her currently will have a very negative effect on her in the nearest future.

So sorry ma
But sending your cousin away is not the solution, the friends they make will still come after your daughter, and infact you can't monitor a child over a habit, you only need to teach them how to fight their addiction or bad character.

Another thing is that, parent fail when they think that provision for the physical thing of their child is all a child needs,no ma, children need attention of both parents, you and your husband really need to sit down and talk on how to create time for her,she your only future and the reason why you are working,if she is good, your hard work will pay and if she's bad, your hard work will go down the drain, you really need to create time to ask her what she going through, how you can be of help because this is what she lack and she went out to look for it, please ma, even if it will cost you your job, you really need to do this because she will be emotionally down currently which if persist can lead to another thing and I pray the spirit of the Lord will touch her and your niece and they will be hundreds and thousands for you

If I may ask IS THERE SOMETHING IN YOUR MIND THAT DO BOTHER YOU AND YOU ARE BEEN CARRIED AWAY IN THINKING AND IN A BLINK OF AN EYE, YOU FIND YOURSELF SMOKING ?

if it is like that, you really need to get that things out of your mind, having a girlfriend is not the solution, it will only add another part to your problem..... without getting that off your mind, you can't be free from the problem and if you have problem in getting that out of your mind you need CHRIST, and I can show you how if you are interested it will really help you.,.Weed, girlfriend will not help.... BELIEVE ME