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ZandhaZaraZ:
So, how's your day going?

My day is going fine, and yours?

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol. Alright. I seek your forgiveness on his behalf.

Lol,

The wife looks good and happy
Happy married life to them

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol. The lord will forgive me, for I did not know what I was doing.

I'm good too.

You knew very well, but the lord will forgive and change you regardless

All right

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol. Thank you for understanding.

All I understand is you sticking up for your friend even when he tried me

They shouldn't beat them,

This thread is just full of people focusing on the tribe and not the issue. na wa.

ZandhaZaraZ:
Hehehe. Beautiful. How're you doing today?

Happy sunday.

You obviously didn't go, you've been doingg evil all morning, I wanted you to go do this brotherly spirit can leave you, but unfortunately, oh well.

I'm good you?

Same

haywire07:
ur brain is still in 2014

Why so mean?

ZandhaZaraZ:
Good morning. How was your night?

Good morning how was service?

Gerrard59:
Hilarious thread.


Seeing the pictures, I find it odd that there were no ladies in the pool and few in the party. However, I can understand it. Same people complaining about the absence of ladies will make statements like:

* Them be ashawo.
* This is someone's future wife (even though the men are also future husbands).
* Loss of womanhood and lots more would have sufficed.

It's the same reason majority of Nigerian ladies wear full clothing when visiting the beach. We cannot continue to body and slut shame our ladies, yet complain about their conspicuous absence from events as this.

Thank you jor, don't mind the confused human beings,
They will still look for a way to bash ladies either way.
It's their favourite pastime,
Classic case of damned if you do and damned if you don't.

This country won't let ladies breathe. See guys enjoying themselves, no one is bashing them, let a girl do half of this and watch the wolves descend on this thread,
Yet they say there is no need for gender equality and feminism.

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol, shey it's not sweet ni.

I just received cleansing yesterday evening. Which sins have I committed again?

I think there's no sleep in my eyes.

Nope not sweet, he shouldn't do that again, question people who show me concern. The audacity, He doesn't even know when I'm ill or well but he wants to ask funny questions, he needs to stay in his lane,
I know he's your friend that's why you're trying to smooth things over.

You are always a sinner

Ranchhoddas:
I had an apology in mind when I typed the initial draft of my comment.
Between reading the other comments and watching a football match, it escaped my mind.
I am very sorry for all you've had to endure. I am also sorry for forgetting to include my apology in my previous comment.

I am objective in all my dealings (at least I try to be). I am also not a win-at-all-costs individual.

Same here

There is no argument to win anyway. You say women go through hell. I say it's not as bad as you paint it. . I also say it's not as bad as it was 20 years ago (at least you won't argue with this).

Errrr... You can't say it's not as bad because some women do experience these things, therefore it is as bad for them, that's non debatable and you can't diminish their experience or shut them up because you feel it's not as bad.
Right on the 2nd part.

Perhaps I was wrong to think that women want/need to be protected, that chivalry is something I should aspire to.

Nothing wrong with any of the above at all, and in the spirit of equality, do you mind if a woman feels that way towards others? Men and women? Towards you? Nothing wrong with that at all, just understand that if you want to protect a woman and she says she doesn't want the protection, there's nothing wrong with that also, or maybe she says the protection is going into controlling territory, then you guys can talk about boundaries, nothing wrong with that

I take these lessons with all the humility I can muster.
But I fear that not all women think/feel this way. So I am faced with a new problem:
What do I do when I meet women who are not Deylar and Raggedy? How do I even tell the difference?

Lol, the same way you knew our stand, by talking to them about topics that relate to this. Well if you meet women who are different you relate with them in a way that's beneficial to you both.

ZandhaZaraZ:
Let it remain there. I forgot that's the one he was supposed to stroke his còck at.

I think I'm beginning to feel sleepy.

All right good night,

ZandhaZaraZ:
I've already taken my leave. There's nothing he can throw to beat that.

Lol, change it back it was just a little yab, you don't need to change it

Lol, I know

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol.

If that's how it seems, make I change it back. It's the same person afterall.

No be only if that's how it seems. take your L in peace

ZandhaZaraZ
Chaiii you fall my hand
Them give you small brotherly love you run go change DP
Abeg make I laugh, you've seen that you're not the only one that can talk to someone as a brother , LMAO

ZandhaZaraZ:
That's sweet. It's past 12 already. When are you going to bed?

No be small that's sweet

Go and sleep
I told you to go to church and give your life to christ don't think I've forgotten
Your sins are too much you're on the way to hell

I woke up , I don't even know when I'll go to bed again

I guess I'll force myself to sleep later, why are you awake?

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol. He was probably joking. Don't take it serious.

Hmmmm, defending your brother, all right. I won't take it serious

NwaAmaikpe:


If I Propose To A Lady And She Accepts, Is It Compulsory I Marry Her?

Of course not,
I'd give you one trick I and most wise men have successfully used countlessly in the past.

Because most women are marriage-centered;
Marriage is such a trophy to them and the promise of marriage is the master key into their 'lunchbox'

Propose to as many as you can,
Conquer them,
Taste it all,
Leave no stone unturned in their field.
And when you've had your full..
Call it off with the golden reason of 'irreconcilable differences'

And top it off with the quote, "a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage".

Thank me later

Chaiii, this is bad

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol.

He really tried me with that comment, what's wrong with asking after me?

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol. Who're you talking about?

Those that were wondering if it's every day I'm not feeling better

ZandhaZaraZ:
Make sure you take care of yourself. They say health is wealth.

Thanks.

some people won't see this one

Ah

Jesuschrist419:
that seun nigga is just too busy

Do you speak for him?,

Lemme grab my popcorn biko

Jesuschrist419:
seun won't reply you

I just wan try

ZandhaZaraZ:
Lol.

How're you doing tonight? I hope you're feeling better now.

Not really, No,

Thanks, you're not like those that won't ask of me and don't even know when I'm sick or well, yet are questioning those that asked of me.
Mmmmmmmmmmmtttttttttttttttttcccccccccccccccchhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwww

I'm not annoyed

Seun:
I’m sorry that you feel this way. For most atheists, the objective is to enlighten religious people rather than to insult them. Christians talk about hating the sin but loving the sinner. In the same way, most atheists dislike religion, but they want the best for religious people.


They are not after you. They are after the unjustified beliefs that prevent you from enjoying your life to the max and allowing others around you to do the same.


They are angry with religion, which confiscates your time and money, dictates what you can and cannot do in your life, makes you intolerant, and offers only worthless promises in exchange for all your painful sacrifices.

Since you're around , hopefully you'll reply this meñtion,

In the spirit of fairness, Why don't we on Fridays have threads on Islam where "the objective is to enlighten religious people rather than to insult them"
Rather we have threads basically just speaking on Islam. Nothing special. Just as if it were a discussion between Muslims, (which it usually is)

However on Sundays we have threads where the objective is to question the Christain faith, to question the principles of christainity, to enlighten them.
Why is the same not applicable to Islam, Or am I wrong?


I hope I won't be banned

ZandhaZaraZ:
I will flatten his head like Christianity levelled his father's destiny. I will flog him so hard he won't know which Bible verses to quote.

This is why you need Jesus in your life to save you from your evil ways make sure you go to church tomorrow and give your life to christ

Ranchhoddas:
@Raggedyann
I have read and re-read your comments and I am not exactly sure how to respond.

I have typed and deleted several times in a bid to get my thoughts across to no avail.

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You have painted a grim picture which is not the reality for many as far as I can see.
I'm sure sure that your brother and father would have something different to say if they were interviewed and in any case, whatever they did was done out of love and the best of intentions (This is important).

Also, for any progress to be made in your quest to attain equality, you still need the male folk.
If most men were as misogynistic as you all love to paint them, the progress you have made would have been stymied don't you think.
I still maintain that the dominance of the male gender is evolutionary and the purpose of this evolution cannot be to the woman's detriment.

A Nairalander Coolusername once argued that the perceived weakness of the female is actually strength.

Now that I think about it, maybe he was onto something that day.
I'll look for that thread and show you, perhaps you'd see things his way.

Here:

https://www.nairaland.com/4031922/why-there-more-atheistHere

You're doing to Raggedyann exactly what was described in this post

ZandhaZaraZ:
2) Men who respect women, but believe they're feeble creatures that need "protection", hence demand that these women understand their "good intentions" and shouldn't see it in a bad light. But when the women themselves tell you that you're wrong, that they're not feeble, that they don't need "protection", that they want no discrimination, that their posession of vagìnas and boobies shouldn't be used in accessing their roles and value, then you must agree with them and let them be, otherwise you DESERVE any hatred directed at you for insisting on imposing on them things they HATE to be told about themselves.

elbaraj001:
As a prophet..i foresee that your wife shall give birth to 4 galz..in your quest to find a boy she will give birth to a gal again...let me check clearly...okay...you will still want try fr the last time...and she will surprise you by giving you another last female child.
.that is my prophesy...

He doesn't deserve a wife neither does he deserve a female child. He clearly doesn't respect the female gender so giving him a female child will be disastrous for that child, you don't use children to punish adults, it backfires spectacularly and ends up damaging the children. No child deserves to be born to parents who don't want him/her and for the sake of the female child I pray he gets his wish and never has a female child.

However, with his mentality he is not even capable of raising a male child, he will raise them to be trash, while hiding under the mantra of "men can get away with it" so for now he doesn't need a wife nor a child, he needs to better himself first.