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I don't know why this commentator is just rubbing it in that we are losing to Madagascar.

Wow

cococandy:
They live in a society that condones and pats them on the back

I'm beyond shocked at this point.
The bullshit I've seen since yesterday, I really can't believe it.

They are fuçking bold
These rapists and their apologists are not hiding or trying to be sly, they are coming out in full force typing trash without shame.

I don't even know where to start from with cancelling comments and cursing out these rapists and their apologists.
Their comments are just too many.

You're right.
The society is really messed up,.
Saddening and maddening.
I'm beyond incensed

You guys are too bold.
You rapists are too bold.
What's happening for fuçks sakes.
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Jayslicky:
Nonsense and gibberish, if a person tries to rape you and you can't scream or fight such person without been threatened with a weapon then it is obvious you wanted it except you were drugged.

Xda59:
And not one of the over 30 victims could scream, fight or go to the police. This is more than just coincidence. This morally bankrupt celebrities without integrity think we all are fools. If you were not overpowered, held at gun point or drugged then forcefully penetrated, then that is no rape period!

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What kind of stupid comment is this? So if she wasn't married then it's more likely that she cooked it up?
The authenticity of her story is now based on her marital status and not on the story itself?
What kind of sexist patriarchy bs is that? Tying every single thing that concerns a woman to her marital status or lack of it.
If this idiot doesn't have anything useful to say she should shut her mouth. What nonsense.
She and that her stupid husband that makes rape jokes.


Ps

The number of rapists and their apologists that have crawled out from their gutters to type nonsense ever since this story broke is truly shocking.
You rapists are really bold.

It is your duty to protect her honour. It is your duty to not to gossip about her with those people but fight for her to be respected and never stop loving her because of other people's opinions her.

BE THE MAN AND PROTECT YOUR WOMAN AGAINST ALL ODDS

Damn straight. Love this. Especially the part above. You married you're wife the way she was.m, don't let anyone even think it's acceptable to disrespect her for whatever bullshit reasons they have.

Nigerian self styled bitter feminist?
Self styled?

I had to check for her Twitter account to see if she actually called herself "bitter feminist" and the account is deleted.
All these unnecessarily dramatic headlines. Just to encourage fights, feminist bashing and detract from her message. Mtcheww

Moving on.
She is just being honest.
She went through a period where she didn't want kids, got married, wanted a child had one and realised her first feelings were the true feelings, she doesn't actually want kids.
I've seen where parents admitted that they regret having kids, but that doesn't change the fact that the child is here and needs to be treated well. Which is why I love that she admitted that she chose to bring her child into this world and will do right by him.
Also love that she didn't have anymore kids especially to please her husband or save the marriage. She knew what she wanted and stuck to it.

She is doing right by her child, it's respectable.

KanwuliaExtra:


You were reading my mind.
After saving the “virginity” kwa, the man go impregnate the woman every year and between the big stomach and ever-lactating breasstz, wives #2-#10 plus LGBT concubines will keep the husband busy on many business trips ke!

I am so happy I ENJOYED both “dry and wet HUMPING” before I got married o. I don’t do “the enigma of male mystique” either. I pick my partners very well. #1 rule is: KEEP YOUR BIBLE OR QURAN OUT OF MY BEDROOM!

Every married woman or man knows how to take care of business IN and OUT of the bedroom.

But SANCTIMONIOUS PRUDES will never see joy, peace and happiness in any relationship because they live in the spiritual world. When they become PERPETUAL FAILURES in ALL relationships, they start body-shaming others who are getting all the action they keep missing.

See the one that followed her husband to the movie theater ke. When the girls started talking about “different roads to MECCA and JERUSALEM”, the WOMAN started to write thesis on “feminine mystique”. DID YOU READ HER HUSBAND COMPLAINING?

The man would have been saying to himself. . . . Daaaaaaaang!!!! Which kain BUUUUUUUUSH woman I go marry so? ? ?

OMG My ribs

Different roads to Mecca and Jerusalem?? Lmfao


This part in bold. LOL

It's those betting over 2.5 that caused this goal.
Well.
Time to focus on the men.

Angelfrost:
That's what happens when supporters' clubs are poorly funded... Just imagine. Within the same continent, and we can't even mobilize fans/supporters to cheer the teams.

AryaSand:
You should gav seen the one DRC and Uganda played in. All the people there were not more than 300. You know North Africans hate other Africans with Dark skin.

It's quite sad.

Nigeria, Burundi. Yet Almost no one there.

Even Egypt. Couldn't they come out to support? I really hope @ bold isn't the reason

Stadium so empty.
Damn.

barackodam:
Isn't it working so far?

If they were singing for Germany, yeah. It's working. If it's for Nigeria? Not so much.

All we are saying, give us a Goal.

Who are these people in the crowd?
They are cracking me up.

Shukusheka:
They are not supporting us, they are opposing Germany who they see as a big rival.

They are opposing Germany.
Which basically means they are supporting us.
They are supporting us. They are opposing Germany

Did the crowd boo the penalty decision?

Do we finally have a crowd supporting us?

Penalty
Chaii

If it's a penalty

Team independent women. / Team women are gold-diggers won't like this.

virgoquin:
Even you talk true if your wife is the one contributing everything financially to your marriage will you be comfortable
As for the emboldened so you mean that if I provide for my family financially and otherwise my husband must get ready to submit himself to me

Please ask him Also ask if it means both husband and wife must submit to each other if both contribute to the finances in the home?
Typical Nigerian man.
Always looking for who will submit to them. Smh.
Ask them to submit in return as they love to preach and they'll act like you've said something evil to them, but they'll be looking for who should submit to them.

KanwuliaExtra:
I did not click on the original thread o. Twa!!
I only saw the title and it was an instant TURN OFF! I just waka pass jeje. I was NOT interested.

What I am dragging is that the “madam bukky” opened another thread to ask the mod/s why the original “copy and paste” thread was deleted. They did not even BOTHER to reply. Small wonder HE was not banned. If na me, hiaaaaaaahn! I for dey register 50 IDs to post on NL ke!


I only found the second thread yesterday when I was searching for other topics HE had started in the past. Just to make sure the ID was for real. I never really followed HIS threads. I love diverse topics.


I was draaaagggging the thread because some respectable female and MALE posters tried to make her see reason. For whiaaaaa! She kept arguing pointlessly. I ask myself: Is this a human or spambot or pyguru cutting and pasting all these rubbish threads. Come to find out the “Bukky ID” has been in existence for at least 5 years. I was shocked.


When I saw this thread, I was like: Finally, something good to read. Only to find the same “cut and paste” brain-killer!

Read for yourself. This cannot be a female for sure. Arguing BLINDLY.


https://www.nairaland.com/5222572/reason-why-thread-marital-rape


The screenshot below convinced me I was dealing with a dangerous, first-grade misogynist. Kai!!!!

Nowwww I understand your reason for dragging better.. Much better.

"He he his" lol.

I've seen the thread. That's what made me know there was a marital rape thread that was deleted. Didn't meet it.

I understand better now.

Funny enough I like the fact that you left to follow your dreams and did things the way you wanted, especially despite the fact that your mum and the lecturers were trying to tell you not to. You took life on your own terms.

You call it had I known. But I think you would have been more upset thinking what could have been if I had followed my photography dreams.

I also like the fact that you knew and went for what you wanted. Did it. Knew when to walk away, and Took any problems that may arise due to your decisions in stride
E.g. you took a decision to follow photography and you did. Realized that it wouldn't work out and you returned to school, then when you mum told you she wouldn't pay for your schooling, you didn't bother about that and took it in stride also.

I like that.

I see nothing for you to regret over here. Absolutely nothing.


Forget about when anyone is graduating. You'll soon graduate. In the next 10 years it wouldn't be about when anyone graduated, but how well you were able to use your time after graduation. Focus on that.

desvi:
my brain can not fathom what she would have done
but the question alone has cracked me up
I am sitting here smiling like a rétardo

LOL!!!

desvi:
you are killing me with laughter

That marital rape thread along with the title must have been really offensive
Kanwuliaextra has been dragging that thread and she only read the title. Imagine what she would have done if she read the thread.

I didn't see thread nor title. I really missed.

Love this .

He needs to pay her more.
In fact everything he has in this world needs to be divided in half and she given half of it.

doitforyou:
Yea. I am happy just saw it too. It's funny you are happy, women were not allowed to play football it was not considered lady like.

Lmao chai

cutiereborn:
See drama! Chasers, there is a button called "mute".
You should use it often when you encounter people who want to feel important

If only Seun could give nl a block button.
A simple block button and you won't even see such not to talk of bothering yourself to mute them. Just block and move on.


Chasers come back this thread is made up of a lot of people. Same way some people hate your posts is the same way some appreciate it, focus on those who appreciate and ignore the rest. If you can't ignore, report (Since you seem like the peaceful gentle type) and move on.

However if you really do want to stay away and feel that's best for you. You'll be missed, I enjoyed your posts.

spongeisback:
Exactly! Whenever Africans bring up culture and religion just know they're about to infringe on someone's right. If a woman wants to have sex let her have sex, if she doesn't let her don't. No need to shame anyone for their choice after all you won't bear the consequences with them.

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! this should be framed.

Love this.

KanwuliaExtra:
Ok. Let NL be the judge.
I can NEVER subscribe to such blogs written by Debra McLeod for MANY REASONS.

#1. I am an authority in my own sexuality, relationship and emotional health. I don’t need her blogs or from ANY relationship/marriage coach.
Dat Na for those wey need “help”!

I know you very well ke, like I know MOST old posters. From the title of their threads, you can figure out what types of messages they send.
Na dis kind of “wayo” topics dem go see you.
Especially with your philosophical affiliation with some of the OP’s peculiar topics relating to male-female relationships.

The reason this thread was deleted.

https://www.nairaland.com/5222572/reason-why-thread-marital-rape


I am glad most can see through the real intentions and messages of some threads and those who post them.

Not everyone is an illiterate on NL.

I wish the OP will be more direct in his/her messages. No need for “politics”.

If she want virginity and love-letters, fine. Men like you are available. Make una nor venture near my gate.

Shikena!

Op I'd rather be single.

I want both. Where I give a damn about him and he does the same for me. Although it's said to be best to go where you're wanted. I wouldn't like being in a relationship where I don't really care for you and I'm just there because you like me.

Seems like a waste of my time.

And I can't like a man that doesn't like me. Not to talk of actually 'loving' a guy like that, Never ; so the 2nd scenario doesn't even apply at all.

otokx:
They are white

Quite unfair

AryaSand:
We wrestle not against Flesh and Blood. Lol

lol
But the trickery of flesh and blood over powered us

Livefreeordieha:
we were sabotaged psychologically and emotionally.. It was all I could deduce.. It was first ever match I had to watch because of my brother and trust me I feel bad about it..

It was sad, we really can't do much about it.

To hell with France, the referee and that stupid biased commentator.

France isn't even ashamed. Celebrating that sham of a goal.

Let me just get the SM handles of the referee and that commentator.

Commentator against us, referee against us.

Na wa

Stupid goal.

Mamatoppy:
Knew all these before posting.I want them to bash me so that I can bash them. Please recommend one for me.

I love your strength

Drag that man. Men need to learn that they don't get to run away from their responsibilities just because they aren't the ones pregnant.


Wish you a safe delivery and a healthy baby
Mods fp please