₦airaland Forum

episode 5
The way season 8 has been going. I'm praying not to see rubbish.

etrange:
Lol... I feel this guy really wants to fight dirty. He just knows he can't beat Tonto to it given her celebrity status and online presence. So he'd rather portray himself as the calm gentle ex who has moved. The strategy is to fight her in secret and let her come online (her comfort zone) to rant thus making her come off as the unforgiving bitter one. He knew the first post here would be fighting a shark in the ocean.

I could be totally wrong.

Don't mind the manipulative narcissistic coward.

Laeroy:
UPDATE......

So Because he dropped 2,000 naira for dinner, he began to tell me the story of my life, I said it! he was expecting that I assist him when the house was dry, ranting in front of his sister that if he said he doesn't have money the he meant it but for me I'll have money and pretend like I don't, I replied telling him that he isn't the only one who knows how to mortgage his Salary leaving us to feed on the crumbs that comes from laundry ,infact I said right in front of his sister that he is so wicked and heartless that he brought her and the kids without having proper plans for us expecting me to cover up his financial struggles, I told him point blank that he cant dictate how I manage my finances too, that I can equally use up all my finances too and fold my hands that I have nothing, Oga I reiterated not everybody can be as cold and insensitive as you are, u mortgage all your salary, and always go about with almost empty wallets so that we can see u have no money, he replied asking if he should use all his money for feeding? I said set some aside for feeding, the money from laundry isn't enough....Na so he enter room begin dey iron clothes wey customer wan collect tomorrow....


N.B: Wetin even pain me pass be say he wan paint to his sister say na only him get and dey do everything for the house , say me I no dey do anything, immediately I begin dey list everything I get for the house, say if I go comot here today na so so so and so be my own, i am not leaving here empty handed, make their brother no think say na only am get everything wey dey dat house....IF I NO REPLY AM, SHE GO DEY WITH THE MENTALITY SAY NA HER BROTHER GET EVERYTHING WEY DEY The HOUSE...Na Im make am vex enter room to dey iron clothes.......rubbish and ingredient...


TO BE CONTINUED

Good that he gave you money.
keep asking. He is the one that brought his sister. He has to provide for her upkeep.


He shouldn't be demeaning and erasing your contributions in the home to his sister. That's very wrong. All because you told him you don't have enough money to feed you all, and you're not lying about that. I'm glad that anytime he tries to paint a false narrative to his sister you stand up for yourself and set the story straight. Keep doing that.

chasers:
Thanks Boss, very helpful..

Thanks Dear.. Noted.

If you do make an IG page and a YouTube channel. Please tell us the name? So I can follow.


Your pics will be very well suited for IG

You guys joke too much on this forum.
Everything must be turned into a joke.
You don't even care if it's at the persons expense. Your likes and mentions must be gotten.

paulnewplay:
Many foolish nd senseless comments on a serious matter. NL should afford a facility for blocking useless nd irrelevant comments.

Honestly.
They don't know when to crack jokes, nor when to post their "savage" comments. They just display foolishness on any thread on FP. They don't know what it means to stay silent if they don't have anything useful to say.

Go tHE HosPiTAl NairaLaND iS NoT a HOspITal.
I wonder if op told them he came to nairaland to ask thinking this was a hospital.
Zero sense.

Seuñ has refused to give us a block button on this forum. I really don't know why.

eyinjuege

My post has long been modified so your response to it doesn't apply anymore. You can read my current post and respond to that if you wish to.

I agree with you op. I like the way you identified this as problem and are trying to nip it in the bud before it becomes a big issue.
I like that. Your husband refuses for your relatives to live with you but he wants to sneak in his

Talk to your husband that you can't shoulder all the
bills for feeding on your own and he has to step in. He has no excuse nor reason not to and don't allow him to give you one.

I'm being blunt about it, it will cause problems in the family, not that I can't tell her straight to her face that the times her brother refuses to drop feeding allowances then she should be responsible for the upkeep and that of her child,

You don't need to tell her. Tell your husband this. So he'll know that's what you want to do. You should discuss this with him.

. I STILL DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, I wish I could tell her politely that I may not be able to do everything I do for myself and child to them, but how do I without being tagged WICKED AND MERCILESS..

.

If all fails and your husband doesn't listen, Tell her politely. Explain to her politely. If she tags you wicked and merciless. You've tried.
You have to continue your "wickedness". There's nothing wrong with you being "wicked" in that instance. It's better to be "wicked" and have peace of mind than to be a people pleaser and be frustrated and bitter while everyone else is happy.
Especially people who you've seen won't hesitate to maltreat anyone who isn't the same blood with them (that's you) the second they can.

Wish you the best.

This is very disturbing.

if its possible for one to marry his daughter, I will never give you out in marriage,

I really don't think a father should look at his daughter and think of marrying her. That's disturbing in so many ways.

You want us to clap for you that "resisted temptation" When you've already cheated? Kissing IS cheating.

Men doing the bare minimum as usual (this isn't even bare minimum, less than bare minimum) and yet still expecting trophies and praise

If it was a guy (who you suspected to be gay,) or lady you didn't feel sexually attracted to in the least who was falling on you anyhow in the bus wouldn't you Have told him/her to sit well?
If it was a guy (or the above mentioned lady) who grabbed you & attempted, (just attempted) to kiss you, would have gotten lost in the kiss or would you have pushed him/her away immediately he/she attempted to try it and told him/her to leave your room?

So many instances that showed you knew what was going down yet you stayed and allowed it to develop into kissing (where you lost yourself, mtcheeeww)
Now you're praising yourself when you've already cheated.

I ReSisTEd TeMPtaTIoN indeed

Cheater.


I like the way you write though.

MVP of this match
Lucas Moura

Lordjb:
here, my prediction before the match

Over 7 hrs ago. So so many Seers. Congrats.

Tastemoney:
Tottenham is heading for Madrid.... 2:3 correct score

So many seers these days

Goooooooooooooo spurs

Last minute goal
Congratulations

This thread is too calm
All the useless people who call women oloshos. Whores, farm tool, hoe e.t.c are nowhere to be found now.
All the people who say men can cheat but women can't because women are more EmOTioNal while for men it's just about sex and they still love their wives are no where to be found now.

Op no even reason his wife at all. He is looking for advice on how to get over sidechick.
Smh

I just hope you won't give your poor wife diseases. Since you've decided to turn yourself to community dick.

I hope she finds out and runs away from you and her so called friend.

Seun:
To enjoy this final season, you should get used to not understanding things. The writers don't care anymore. The 'answer': she was on a canoe.

Not only this season..
G.O.T stopped making sense since season 7
And from what I'm reading it carried over to season 8

Why must she be labelled?
Can't people mind their business?
She didn't sleep with you, she didn't collect money from you, she didn't use your vagina neither did the man use your dick, but you're on social media asking stupid questions. Looking for who to give stupid labels to.

Raydos:
Full-time scoreline will be like

Liverpool 4-0 Barcelona

You saw the future.

Raydos:
Full-time scoreline will be like

Liverpool 4-0 Barcelona

If you're right sha. it will be epic.

This is shocking tbh

Buharifanatic:
Sansa fans are also like her


If u help them, they will still backstab u



If you meet any1 that is a Sansa fan, give the person space

Adaego5:
Help! I Am In A Serious Dilemma!!

Please what does it mean when a man tells his woman that he is not connected to her?

What do you think it means?

What's that saying again?
"If you have to ask, you already know?"

You already know the answer to your question, no need to hope that we'll tell you something different

I was in courtship with this guy late 2017, we were working towards getting married. we broke up sometime in 2018. Since then, it's been difficult for me to love again. I really loved him and could go extreme for him.

He has tried going into other relationships same as me but non worked. So we decided to give us a shot once more, I was happy and felt whole again.....

He is very principled. Now he is saying that he doesn't feel that connection between us. He said I am everything, intelligent, smart, beautiful, hardworking, a graduate, Godfearing with good home upbringing, from a god background, tall infact taller than every girl he has come across but he just doesn't feel that connection between us. When it comes to qualities, I am better than every girl he has met. He went ahead to tell me of a girl who he felt that connection with but she broke his heart. I am shattered and devastated once more.

Its easy to say move on, but easier said than done. It took me months to move on, i was only able to by trying to hate him. One of the reasons why I really loved him was because he never tried taking advantage of me as I am a virgin.

He never for one day talked me into it unlike some other guys I have met.I have been so good to him, he confessed that no girl has loved and treated him like I did. I have been trying to understand this whole connection thing.... Where am I going wrong. I am not a boring person, there is no boring moment with me. Most guys I have met always tell me that I am priceless and some keep coming back but I find it hard to like them.
I only keep remembering the beautiful memories we shared.
I am so devastated..... I really wanted us to work things out ..

I'm guessing you want to vent by this post.
It's all right, you'll be fine.
He's told you that he doesn't feel a connection, let him go. You'll find better.

cr7lomo:
Just tell us that u are marketing urself for a husband on this forum

This is another angle

She's right.

She's right.
A lot of Nigerians are very guilty of this.
They don't know how to mind their business and leave a person in peace.
They love to police the lifestyle and behavior of others.
They love to tell people how to react, what to say if you should react at all and when you should react, how long you should react, and when you should stop reacting.
Kings and Queens of telling someone to ignore, telling you to "let it go na","forgive na" "ignore him na" "be mature"

They just love to silence people.

KingLennon:
Gather here if you thought the king married a man at first reading

Same.. I thought the guy was gay, that was what made me interested in this thread.

martineverest:
psychologically,the man is actually guilty according to allegations laid against him to his ex.he is feeling arrogant,proud and chauvinistic. those are typical attitude of a wife batterers..I pity other ladies that will marry this man

I agree with you on that.
No other lady should marry this man, for their own good. This is a man that had refused to care for his son, yet tried to drag Tonto to court as if she has done anything wrong and was soundly disgraced and exposed for the dead beat absentee father that he is. Someone that refuses to care for his child cannot care for anyone else.

I haven't paid attention to the other accusations Tonto has leveled against him so I don't even know what they are.

daddytime:
To do her a favour I suppose...lol

I was so confused

ikhileomotayo:
That was a silly statement from him. It means marrying an already pregnant lady to drive away her shame. Arrant nonsense

Real nonsense. Thanks.

Mk93:
To save her from the shame of babymamahood

Thanks.

What does it mean to honour a woman with marriage?

Stop babying fully grown men.
Men are responsible for their actions.
He cheated because he wanted to cheat. The end.

Some ladies have forgotten that there are women out there who are ready to take care of their men.

Same way this lady has forgotten that there are men ready to take care of these women. If the man leaves another man will step up to the plate.

Exactly, they need rights.
If the police really don't want prostitutes. face the men who pay for prostitutes.
If there is no business, No one will need to tell these ladies to stop. No demand, no supply
Stop harassing and assaulting women under the excuse of stopping prostitution.

But misogyny will not allow this country to function well.

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Basher8583:
Are you a prostitue? How e dey pain you. Were you there when they were being raped?
If a woman does not have respect for her body then why should anybody have respect for her. If at all it happend why not just call it free sex. What is raping a prostitute? Is that in thier dictionary since they lack dignity. Police this police that. When theives come to you house no just call police oh.
Mumu.

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Nonsense rapist.