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Nope this is wrong. She should keep the baby out of her pettyness, I don't think her daughter would like to grow up and see baby pictures of herself with this ridiculous shirt on, posted on the internet.

She can do all the world war she wants with the deadbeat dad, (and she deserves to, deadbeat dads are trash) but keep the baby out of it. She should think of her daughter and how her daughter would feel

And men should never try to be dead beat dads. If these men don't want to have or take care of a child. They need to Wrap it up or have a vasectomy. No excuses,
If the men already failed in that aspect and the baby is here. The men need to step up and take care of the child. No excuse is ever acceptable to abandon a child.

ndy87:
A man who cant take care of his responsibility doesn't deserve respect, how can u put a lady in a family way and then u take off? Who does that?

Such men don't deserve respect at all. Yet some people think they do. No fathers day respect for sperm donors

hahn:
Many men fail to live up to their responsibilities as fathers. If I had a picture of my father I would print a similar shirt and wear it daily

adorable29:
Naaaa. They disappoint every damn time. They seem scared of the large percentage of guys on this platform or don't want their "market and DM value" to reduce so they hide and kiss the ass.sses of nairaland guys and never defend their gender. Instead they even join to condemn based on wife material bullcrap.
I see through them.

Thank you

They do this a lot

It's annoying and pathetic. And the worst part is that the same men they are trying too hard to impress are the first to crucify them

adorable29:
"As a broke college student I told her I’m not ready for anything extra now other than graduating and getting my life together. So it was tough"

You left her to suffer and go through it alone because YOU wanted to get your life together. Your own family not even having any idea for two years goes to show where you placed the baby in your "untogether" life. Typical and selfish. Shebi her own life wasn't worth "getting together" especially as she was the one going to go through the major pains of pregnancy and childbirth. No wonder she treated you that way.

Now you are ready to be in your child's life , it is a good thing and just enjoy the baby you initially abandoned but quit making it seem as though you were the angel and your ex the devil. There are two sides to a story.

I noticed that as well.

Selfish, inconsiderate man child coldly told the poor girl that he is not ready for anything extra,
Just imagine coldly, callously and foolishly calling the child growing in your woman's womb as "anything extra" no wonder she took the baby and ran

He didn't know he was a broke college student when he was fuckiñg raw. When the baby came that's when his stupid head did a reset and he then remembered that he was a broke college student.


And when the selfish pathetic excuse of a man decides that he is ready after the girl has gone through all the work of being pregnant Alone and taking care of the child, he is now acting as if he deserves praises and trying to shade the baby mama


I don't even think he can be a parent. He seems to think that a child is "anything extra" that he can decide to take care of when he chooses to and when he doesn't choose to, he thinks he can just say "I'm not ready for anything extra" and move on with his life. No wonder she didn't allow him see the child. A child needs a stable parent. Not a parent that will be there based on their convenience.


He hasn't even realized how extremely immature he acted., especially as he posted this story to praise himself.
He seems to think what he did was right.

Nonsense.

Offpoint:
wetin carry my name enter there naw? wetin be my own crime there?

Don't be angry I will modify

bentlywills:
True bro... Guys use engagement to hold down girls for regular fvck n later abandon them when he is done
Have seen so many cases
Even after marriage some girls re still single sef

I have to agree with this.
Engagement, marriage. Some guys are just useless.

That's why It pisses me off sometimes when people direct all these rules, regulations and tips for relationships just to women, because at the end of the day, some men are useless too and they need to learn these tips and learn how to stop being useless.

michlins:
All these Kenyan girls that are yet to meet Nigerian guys be forming to know the answer to their single lives.
Bae even after bride price, you can still be single if you meet a Yoruba demon. How much kwanu? Something he can arrange with friends just to chop

Is that so? fada lord

Seahawk:
That’s not even a lie.

I’ve met a ‘responsible’ older guy who told me they used to do this when he was younger. Him and his friends would take turns escorting each other to girls’ families for marriage introduction. The girls would think they are serious and commit to them. But it was all just for sex on the guys’ parts.

Filthy garbage

As much as this is evil, it also shows you the kind of ridiculous evil extremes all these babies pretending to be men can go for sex.

Seahawk:
Exactly. They waste women’s time. Building relationship and sticking through the so called rough times. Only for them to move onto new women when they have become established to settle down. And then they turn around to mock single women over 30.

Thunder fall on any guy who falls in this category.
No man who hasn’t made his intentions clear and is actively working towards it deserves a woman’s loyalty. even then, I’d still advice the ladies to be cautious. Many will promise commitment if they feel that's what will get them laid. Can’t be too careful with randy young boys.

This part in brown, This is why I'm not a fan of team build a man. Or building with a man

She is right

Laughing at men wanting her head on a pitchfork


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Why are the men so angry? they do it too
Funny enough those men calling for her head do it. they just don't want the women to do it to them.

The story may be fake. Even if it isn't
I don't have strength for the cheap and not cheap talk. That's for immature misogynistic babies.

This comment is to address some bs in the comments
If she slept with him on the first date and he doesn't want to marry her because of that
and so

As far as I'm concerned. For him to judge her like that and then condemn her for that, It's to her benefit, she just dodged an immature, hypocritical misogynistic baby and she should be ecstatic. He is not the only man in the world, If he doesn't want to marry her someone else will.

sleeping with someone on the first date is not the end of life, it doesn't have to lead to marriage
Those that did 1 year rule. 2 weeks rule, 3 month rule and it didn't lead to marriage didn't die. So why should she care if hers didn't lead to marriage? Did you guys even consider if she wanted marriage? Or if she wanted to marry him?

And for those saying he disrespected her and trying to blame it on the first date bs, Someone who will disrespect will you will disrespect because the person has no respect.
She should even be happy that he showed his colours now she can move on and find someone better.

xreal:
@ topic


Which one be 'Final'? use Full Time instead.

The thing tire me


They want to close Egypt chapter

Egypt and Saudi, I don't even know who will win,


But I think it's a straight win for Egypt.

Good bye Egypt

TheSuperNerd:
Awwwwwn.. That is sweet of you. So despite not having much flair for soccer, you are still here because of the Super Eagles and of course, Africa as a whole. Nice one.

Hoping Egypt wins to continue what Senegal achieved earlier today. Enjoy the game ma'am.

Thank you

Egypt is trying their best sha.
I will, and you too

Salah scores


Egypt 1

YES !!!! Penalty for Egypt.


They keep pushing salah down

But why?

Why na?

I can't stop laughing this is savagery

kid23:



The Egyptians you see today you shall see no more.

If you know you know

Russia shey they want to do 5:0 again

Abeg Russia this is not Saudia Arabia

Have mercy

Egypt the first team to go home

And an African team for that matter.

Sha I know that Russian strikers are good.

My heart has finished breaking completely


Africa why!!

Egypt

Oh my Gosh

This spirit of own goal in African teams

That's so nice

The Egyptian goal keeper is defending a lot but he is doing so, so well

I knew Russia has great strikers but what is happening to them?

Sha Egypt is making me proud


Why are the Russians following salah like this

TheSuperNerd:
Daeylar of GOT fame loves football too?

Lol,
Not really but i enjoy it when I have a team to root for

So I'm watching this world cup to support Nigeria, and was advised that I need to watch all teams to enjoy it more

So here I am, and I'm also rooting for all African teams

I've been looking for this thread.

Let's go Egypt

Is it the same person that was cursing and abusing his twin brother that is making noise?

Congrats to senegal

They made africa proud

We must do attachee by force

banqalee:
Yes!!! Yes!!! Yes!!
1:2 Correct score won
Under 3.5 won
Away straight win won
Away/Draw won.
All my tickets won!!!!!

You must have seen vision,

Did you speak to the pig?

Senegal's keeper is a keeper abeg,

I hope our 19 year old goal keeper is taking notes

banqalee:
just won my 1:2 prediction ooooo

Serious winning

Free kick against Senegal.

Poland header gets it into the goal,

Senegal 2 Poland 1

See as they ran to separate these 2,

What happened, and why is the Senegalese so angry?

It happened so fast.

omusiliyu:
Let Man U fans catch you. You're shading their world best goalie

Senegal's defence and their goal keeper are so strong.

Go Senegal!!!!!!