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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 6:00am On Jun 20, 2018
She's very correct. You can't say you are in relationship with someone who hasn't made his intentions known. You are still single and therefore free to meet people. Meet in people doesn't mean sleeping with them.
Ladies make the mistake of feeling or thinking that they are in a relationship while they are not and then they push serious people away.
Meet other people and make friends, not sleep with all of them.
If you like give him different styles for two but he has not orally decleared his intentions, my sister you are as single and single could be.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by bentlywills(m): 6:01am On Jun 20, 2018
Speakdatruth:
Well, I don't usually do this but I absolutely agree with this lady.

Some girls be like I'm dating someone, we're serious and dude hasn't made his intentions clear neither has he proposed. So you put your life on hold in the name of dating someone that is not dating you in mind. B.S! Until he engages you, you're free like a bird. Even some engagement ring this days are intended for regular fvcking and house wife duties. Use your head.

True bro... Guys use engagement to hold down girls for regular fvck n later abandon them when he is done
Have seen so many cases
Even after marriage some girls re still single sef

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Twoclans(f): 6:07am On Jun 20, 2018
The one that baffles me is when a lady is just dating a guy and she goes all around town calling him her fiance .HOW ? A guy who did not propose or tell your parents anything undecided

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by SoapQueen(f): 6:07am On Jun 20, 2018
Deltayankeeboi:
These failed hoes and gold diggers after wasting their youthful years be giving relationship advice all the time like they know a thing or two about life.

After hoeing all the right men away from your life, now you are coming to give unsolicited advice to them young and naive girls.

I pity any girl that takes advice from hoes serious. I just pity them.


My dear, I stopped listening to advice on social media after Toke Makinwa. Crap!

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by SheikhMuniru(m): 6:11am On Jun 20, 2018
YOUR MUMUS NEEDS SPECIAL ADVISER
Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by srclark: 6:13am On Jun 20, 2018
michlins:
All these Kenyan girls that are yet to meet Nigerian guys be forming to know the answer to their single lives.
Bae even after bride price, you can still be single if you meet a Yoruba demon. How much kwanu? Something he can arrange with friends just to chop
You said it all
Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Speakdatruth: 6:15am On Jun 20, 2018
bentlywills:


True bro... Guys use engagement to hold down girls for regular fvck n later abandon them when he is done
Have seen so many cases
Even after marriage some girls re still single sef
It's disturbing but it's happening out there. I tell sisters around me. Until he is making serious plans or puts you in his house officially don't put your dating life on hold.

Some guys can be wicked, why would you put a ring on a lady to pin her down and keep her away from potential husbands. Imagine giving a girl a ring for 3,4,5,6,7 years and more with no visible plans. I want to believe that any man that gives out a ring to a woman should be ready to make her a wife almost immediately. I just see a lot of dummy girls out there forming engaged and some claiming serious relationship. I'm a guy and it's evil to do.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by srclark: 6:21am On Jun 20, 2018
Twoclans:
The one that baffles me is when a lady is just dating a guy and she goes all around town calling him her fiance .HOW ? A guy who did not propose or tell your parents anything undecided

Single mama spotted
Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by srclark: 6:22am On Jun 20, 2018
Speakdatruth:

It's disturbing but it's happening out there. I tell sisters around me. Until he is making serious plans or puts you in his house officially don't put your dating life on hold.

Some guys can be wicked, why would you put a ring on a lady to pin her down and keep her away from potential husbands. Imagine giving a girl a ring for 3,4,5,6,7 years and more with no visible plans. I want to believe that any man that gives out a ring to a woman should be ready to make her a wife almost immediately. I just see a lot of dummy girls out there forming engaged and some claiming serious relationship. I'm a guy and it's evil to do.
Like you don't know the situation of things in naija

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Nobody: 6:28am On Jun 20, 2018
Deltayankeeboi:
These failed hoes and gold diggers after wasting their youthful years be giving relationship advice all the time like they know a thing or two about life.

After hoeing all the right men away from your life, life is now starting to fvck back at you. Menopause is coming straight for your head at the speed of light, you are withering away. No more age on your side, then you remember to come to the media to give unsolicited advice to them young and naive girls.

I pity girls that who takes takr these twitter hoes serious seriously . I just pity them. When two blind people lead each other, they are sure to fall into a ditch.
Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Seahawk: 6:32am On Jun 20, 2018
Macnnoli4:
This seems to be a response to the large number of uncertain and deceptive relationships nowadays especially when the ladies time is being wasted (and over 30 year old ladies are being made fun of).

Exactly. They waste women’s time. Building relationship and sticking through the so called rough times. Only for them to move onto new women when they have become established to settle down. And then they turn around to mock single women over 30.

Thunder fall on any guy who falls in this category.
No man who hasn’t made his intentions clear and is actively working towards it deserves a woman’s loyalty. even then, I’d still advice the ladies to be cautious. Many will promise commitment if they feel that's what will get them laid. Can’t be too careful with randy young boys.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Speakdatruth: 6:32am On Jun 20, 2018
srclark:
Like you don't know the situation of things in naija
We can be sincere with it, you see, the fear of being alone/lonely makes many of our girls to be understanding. That's a fact! So if a guy is interested in housing her and thing are not smooth, let him tell her, she will understand but she's just wearing one yeye ring with no visible plans, that's slavery.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Seahawk: 6:34am On Jun 20, 2018
So let’s just agree that men are filthy garbage and move on cool

bentlywills:


True bro... Guys use engagement to hold down girls for regular fvck n later abandon them when he is done
Have seen so many cases
Even after marriage some girls re still single sef
Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Seahawk: 6:36am On Jun 20, 2018
Someone is putting sand in their garri

That’s why they are pissed
Daeylar:
She is right

Laughing at men wanting her head on a pitchfork grin grin
grin

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Why are the men so angry? grin they do it too cheesy
Funny enough those men calling for her head do it too, grin they just don't want the women to do it to them.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Seahawk: 6:39am On Jun 20, 2018
michlins:
All these Kenyan girls that are yet to meet Nigerian guys be forming to know the answer to their single lives.
Bae even after bride price, you can still be single if you meet a Yoruba demon. How much kwanu? Something he can arrange with friends just to chop

That’s not even a lie.

I’ve met a ‘responsible’ older guy who told me they used to do this when he was younger. Him and his friends would take turns escorting each other to girls’ families for marriage introduction. The girls would think they are serious and commit to them. But it was all just for sex on the guys’ parts.

Filthy garbage cool

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by udo2018: 6:39am On Jun 20, 2018
folakemigeh:
She's right, that's why as a girl it's best to start a relationship when you are fully ready, that way you set out to meet guys who are ready too

You can't imagine dating in Sec school or Uni and expect the guy to propose, it happens but it's rare

I'll rather date a serious working class broda who knows his onions and how to fry them..And em em em......no sex before marriage o angry
You're beautiful.
Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by sexdoll: 6:40am On Jun 20, 2018
GossipGirl1:
She's right...

Ladies,,,if a man hasn’t made your relationship OFFICIAL, he doesn’t deserve one second of your loyalty, and you can be damn sure you aren’t getting one second of his either...

Understand that a man who TRULY cares about you will COURT you, and see that you are SO OFFICIAL, he NEEDS to make you OFFICIALLY his.

in other words, EVERY relationship should lead to marriage, right? undecided

Nonsense. lipsrsealed

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Professorcplus(m): 6:41am On Jun 20, 2018
folakemigeh:


You can't imagine dating in Sec school or Uni and expect the guy to propose, it happens but it's rare
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Really does that means dating in Uni can be waste of time?
Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by srclark: 6:46am On Jun 20, 2018
Speakdatruth:

We can be sincere with it, you see, the fear of being alone/lonely makes many of our girls to be understanding. That's a fact! So if a guy is interested in housing her and thing are not smooth, let him tell her, she will understand but she's just wearing one yeye ring with no visible plans, that's slavery.
slavery says who so what is so bad planning with a man ,there is no particular pattern for love and all these these things who said you must marry weeks or months after engaging a lady all these things are rules I don’t know where they came from but not from the Bible or Koran or shrine if she is tired of the engagement she can walk out even marriage you can still walk out so all this woman made rules just to get guys to marry them is sickening
Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by jaxxy(m): 6:48am On Jun 20, 2018
Even when he says it better be sure he means it else ure single. Sm guys talk, say we dating, call them my wife and even propose if u believe dat ure still a learner, its not wat it seems. Actions is wat counts.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by precyb(f): 6:53am On Jun 20, 2018
She is very correct. Most men will pause some girls life all in the name of relationship while they do away match and the girls will be claiming relationship. grin

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Speakdatruth: 6:53am On Jun 20, 2018
srclark:
slavery says who so what is so bad planning with a man ,there is no particular pattern for love and all these these things who said you must marry weeks or months after engaging a lady all these things are rules I don’t know where they came from but not from the Bible or Koran or shrine if she is tired of the engagement she can walk out even marriage you can still walk out so all this woman made rules just to get guys to marry them is sickening
With all this your ranting now, tell me, answer this question. Why would you propose and engage a lady when you're not ready to marry her? Because you don dey annoy me small small.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by sprints1: 6:54am On Jun 20, 2018
so girls have to insurance we must claim now..
Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by chuksanambra: 6:56am On Jun 20, 2018
The actions of the guy, his loyalty and respect are what sensible ladies are after. Some foolish ladies are after a guy impregnating them or putting a ring on their fingers without caring if the guy is suitable or not and whether he's ready to take the relationship to the next level or not.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by dingbang(m): 7:03am On Jun 20, 2018
folakemigeh:
She's right, that's why as a girl it's best to start a relationship when you are fully ready, that way you set out to meet guys who are ready too

You can't imagine dating in Sec school or Uni and expect the guy to propose, it happens but it's rare

I'll rather date a serious working class broda who knows his onions and how to fry them..And em em em......no sex before marriage o angry
lol this no sex before marriage thing should be analysed in toto before taking a conclusion on it. Which ever party is for it should be able to welcome any consequences that arises from the engagement of such practise. In English, I mean, if she says no sex before marriage and they both end up getting married, and they finally have sex and the sex life is awkward, she should not cry foul but accept It like that.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Platony(m): 7:03am On Jun 20, 2018
GIRLS......

Der own cheating na "Follow Come".

If u lyk engage dem wit ring wey Big lyk Ring rd for Benin,

Dem go stil cheat.

Marry dem put for house,..

God epp u DNA for ur children no kill u.

cool cool

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Daeylar(f): 7:14am On Jun 20, 2018
bentlywills:


True bro... Guys use engagement to hold down girls for regular fvck n later abandon them when he is done
Have seen so many cases
Even after marriage some girls re still single sef

I have to agree with this.
Engagement, marriage. Some guys are just useless.

That's why It pisses me off sometimes when people direct all these rules, regulations and tips for relationships just to women, because at the end of the day, some men are useless too and they need to learn these tips and learn how to stop being useless.

michlins:
All these Kenyan girls that are yet to meet Nigerian guys be forming to know the answer to their single lives.
Bae even after bride price, you can still be single if you meet a Yoruba demon. How much kwanu? Something he can arrange with friends just to chop

Is that so? shocked fada lord shocked

Seahawk:


That’s not even a lie.

I’ve met a ‘responsible’ older guy who told me they used to do this when he was younger. Him and his friends would take turns escorting each other to girls’ families for marriage introduction. The girls would think they are serious and commit to them. But it was all just for sex on the guys’ parts.

Filthy garbage cool

shocked shocked sad

As much as this is evil, it also shows you the kind of ridiculous evil extremes all these babies pretending to be men can go for sex.

Seahawk:


Exactly. They waste women’s time. Building relationship and sticking through the so called rough times. Only for them to move onto new women when they have become established to settle down. And then they turn around to mock single women over 30.

Thunder fall on any guy who falls in this category.
No man who hasn’t made his intentions clear and is actively working towards it deserves a woman’s loyalty. even then, I’d still advice the ladies to be cautious. Many will promise commitment if they feel that's what will get them laid. Can’t be too careful with randy young boys.



This part in brown, This is why I'm not a fan of team build a man. Or building with a man

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Tonytonex(m): 7:16am On Jun 20, 2018
But she is right na. why calling for ha hed The same thing I've been telling one girl like that. It's either one is married or single.

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by kelvic1(m): 7:16am On Jun 20, 2018
folakemigeh:
She's right, that's why as a girl it's best to start a relationship when you are fully ready, that way you set out to meet guys who are ready too

You can't imagine dating in Sec school or Uni and expect the guy to propose, it happens but it's rare

I'll rather date a serious working class broda who knows his onions and how to fry them..And em em em......no sex before marriage o angry
You are absolutely right. There are chances of meeting guys who are ready when a lady is ready.

What i find it difficult to understand is a guy proposing to a lady when he is not ready. I term as 'wicked', a guy who knows he is not ready to settle down in the next 2,3,4 years etc proposing to a lady

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by Twoclans(f): 7:17am On Jun 20, 2018
srclark:
Single mama spotted

You are truly an expert in spotting ,I just hope you know how to spot the important things in life. wink

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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by kelvic1(m): 7:21am On Jun 20, 2018
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Re: "Until That Man Has Claimed You As His Own You Are Single" - Twitter User by eph12(m): 7:23am On Jun 20, 2018
Mynd44:
I agree with her though.

Until you both agree that you aredating exclusively, until you both declare that you are together, why should one person be in a relationshil and the other one acting single?

You see a lot of people these days dating people who are not dating them back. Weird but it is true. You like someone and you start keeping yourself or stop meeting other people yet youvand thatvperson are not official yet.

Guys bashing her probably thought she was referring to marriage.

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