₦airaland Forum

chukzyfcbb:
what happened to reflex action. I mean the moment our body senses fire burning our skin or we feel electric shock. our body respond with the speed of light to that effect. this was the basis of reflex action that was taught then at sec school, I don't believe this tho. someone should explain better

My thuts exactly! So painful! Rest in peace!

Happy bday ma'am! Wishing u many more years in sound health! Being a minister b4 50 is a great accomplishment, well done ma! More power 2 ur elbow!

Dis Borno wud have been a nice place but 4 boko are ram! D governor is really doing his best, despite d security challenges. Dere is truly no excuse 4 failure.

Dats my General speaking! No Biafra or Biafra!

Happy Birthday Sir! Wishing u many more years in sound health. God bless u!

Op, I will advice u don't allow ur employer get d msg. U're even lucky he is fuelling it, some won't even do dat. If dat is d sacrifice u have a make 2 keep ur job, till u get anoda one, den so be it. Remember all these meetings are 2wards d growth & devt of d coy. It is also 2 ensure d payment of ur salary.

When u leave, dis act of kindness is what u will be remembered 4. As employees, we shudnt always be looking 4 what 2 take, but also how we can contribute 2 show some appreciatn 2 some individuals who decided 2 take d risks we cudnt.

If I were in ur shoes, I won't see it as taking advantage, but my own contributn 2 d company.

I know some places where d staff come 2 work on Saturdays, yet no overtime payment & dey work with so much gladness of heart.

May God give u d wisdom 2 make d right choice, cos I can imagine his expression or how he will feel d moment he gets d msg, u automatically enter his black book.
It is well!

RIP 2 d camels o! But I need 2 eat camel meat, I have neva eaten it b4 & dat means I need 2 go 2 Jigawa 2 enjoy dat meat. Chai! Nywys, I will go or where do dey sell camel meat in lag?

I think u want 2 be a lecturer, if dats d case, go 4 a course in d education line. U might even own a skool in d future.

My telemundo has suffered o! Chaiiiii! Dis my gen shud now be prepared 4 servicing ASAP!

Jona is still a drunkard! How can he expect Sherrif 2 step down, like he is asking him 2 step down 4rm a stair case. Jona sef, he shud better stop drinking d nonsense he drinks.

Kondomatic:
The reason I quoted you in the first place was because you said that the court's ruling wrong without trying to find out why the court ruled in his favour.

Let's assume for 18secs that the children are with her.

where will she take them to?

what does she do?

What's the relationship between her and the children like?

Court considers so many things before granting custody of the children to either of them, things like financial and emotional stability.

The age of the children and who among the parents have proven to be a better parent.

Also, culture forms the laws of a land. This sometimes influences court's decision.
In Nigeria, the man owns the child by default.

The scenario you painted up above is applicable to both sides.

I have a friend who stopped talking to his mother because of what he made his father pass through.

Of all the six children the woman has, only one returns her greeting till today.

And I read a story recently where a woman left her children in a car and went to Bleep her lover.

The two children suffocated before she returned.

First, I didn't state d court ruling was wrong, 4rm my statement, I was only surprised, I thut it will be d mother.
Fine, I understand those consideratns, but being with a father who is setting a legacy of battery is not very good @ all. But like u mentned, she probably doesn't have a house of her own.
Dats y I asked, under what circumstances can custody be with d mother? I just need d info, it can come handy one day.
Dere are a lot of scenarios, but if one will be objective, we have more bad step mother's dan step father's. Like I stated earlier, women are emotional, express love unlike men. I am not saying men aren't caring, but wen anoda woman gets in d picture, it's a different story entirely. D attentn shifts, it's now left 4 d woman 2 show d children d kind of love d father used 2. It's actually complicated, but I believe a child is safer with d mother if she has d means 2 take care of d child.

Kondomatic:
We are talking about the two parents not another woman.


The woman may eventually get married and by your logic, I don't believe another man can love and stand for a child better than the real father.



That is by way, real mothers dump babies by the roadside and inside wells sometimes and another woman picks them up and cares for them more than the real mother.

By giving those instances, u're going extreme. I'm referring 2 a divorce situation. We both know d responsibility 4 raising a child is largely on d part of d woman. Children are mostly attached 2 deir mother's dan father's. Of course, deir are bad step father's, but dey aren't as rampant as bad step mother's.
Picture dis scenario, a woman remarries with a child 4rm a previous marriage, even if d man doesn't want 2 take responsibility, d woman will most likely go out of her way 2 make sure d child get what he deserves.
But in d case of step mother's, it's different. D father drops money 4 instance & d woman will not use it 4 d children, cos she doesn't want dem 2 be better dan her's. Dese cases are very common.
Men are not created 2 be emotional, so dey just provide. But provision goes beyond just availability, dere is also d requirement of satisfaction, which d women are created 4. 2 ensure d children are adequately catered 4, based on d provision of d father.
D man will just drop money, thinking d child is fine, d mother has done d needful, where as, d child is starving thinking d father is mean. It goes on like dat. I had a cousin who went thru he'll 4rm her step mum, despite all d money her father had. Dis things are real.

Kondomatic:
Why is it bad if it goes to the father and good if it goes to the mother?

Cos I don't believe anoda woman can take care of a child better dan one's mother.

Lawyers, pls enlighten me. So custody of a child legally goes 2 d father? I thut it shud be d mother & d father having un-hindered access. Dats bad o! So under what circumstances can custody get 2 d mother?

Falz! Pls d respect I have 4 u, don't let it diminish. Issues like dis are sensitive, dats y comedians hardly use them 2 joke. We shud respect ppl even when we joke.

So happy 4 Emma Stone!

Thank God! I can only imagine. But one thing i've observed with children, wen dey harm demselves, dey don't cry, but wen sumone harms dem, dey will so cry.
Wow! This is indeed a miracle! Congrats!

nickishire:
I dont think her husband has changed at all. He is just playing nice just to get her back.

How do u mean "changed"? He isn't so bad 4 a wife who truly loves her husband 2 abandon like dat. Dey were tough times agreed, but no justificatn 4 cheating. Sincerely, Chiviz has no right 2 do dat, except d man is neva going 2 return 4rm jail, which I doubt.

Trust naija CEO's dey'll be forming dey're d busiest in d world. Nice one!

Pls sumone shud help me with dat Odunlade's pic of "Is ur brain paining u". Dats my only comment.

chiefolododo:
Big dad's pleasure

I neva thut it was dat straight 4ward. I was thinking d dot dere meant multiplicatn. Sumtyms in life, we take things 2 seriously & be thinking more dan necessary.
Thanks once again.

chiefolododo:
Use the smaller number to divide the bigger one and approximate the answer to the nearest whole number

Thanks!

Hello ppl! Kindly help profer solution 2 dis seemingly difficult math. Thanks!

God can still heal her. Pls don't give up, d same God dat raised Lazarus after 4days of death, how much more one dat is still alive. Pls prayers can move mountain.

Carry a mattress 2 d living room & sleep with him. If mohammad will not go 2 d mountain, den d mountain will come 2 him.

Happy Birthday Omo Sexy!

Happy bday 2 dem!

Thank God 4 d successful completion of the 21 days of prayer & fasting. All we need do now is just 2 keep appreciating God 4 answers & engage more in Kingdom Advancement Prayers.

We also need 2 be very sensitive, so we don't loose out of God's blessings. Let's not entertain any form of doubt, do not challenge God by asking "why has He not answered since", now God will observe our actns & see if we truly qualify 4 dose things we're asking of Him. Remember, Papa has said, "what we do, or don't do doesn't change God" He is d I am dat I am.

Welcome 2 ur season of testimonies. Papa has declared dat in d next 7 weeks, testimonies will be gushing out.

Our case is different, because we're redeemed of d Lord & as covenant children, what affects others will not affect us. Amen! Remain Blessed!

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