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All of us want to be seen, heard and understood. We especially want this from our partners. We want our partners to say, Yes, I am listening. Yes, I get it. Yes, I understand your pain. I’m sorry it hurts, and I am here. We want our partners to be interested in and to care about what’s happening inside our hearts.

Wanting to be seen and heard and understood are basic human needs.

In fact, one of the most common complaints relationship therapist Rebecca Wong, LCSW, hears from her clients is that they don’t feel this from their partners — even though it’s powerful and vital for healthy relationships. “Feeling seen, heard and understood leads to deeper intimacy and relational growth.”



When we don’t have this, we feel rejected and like we don’t matter, which can fracture our relationship over time, she said.

There’s a pervasive (inaccurate) belief that understanding our partners means that we must agree with them. But as Wong said, “you can totally disagree.” Instead, understanding simply means listening to our partners fully and intently. It means absorbing what they’re saying. It means saying to your partner, “I think I’m understanding you.

But let me check: What you are saying is…” It means staying with this process “until your partner has no need to further clarify their perspective, because they know you get it. Even if you don’t agree, you get it.”

Below, Wong shared suggestions on how we can “get it” and better understand our partners.

Be Fully Present :

When your partner is talking, you don’t need to do anything, said Wong, the founder of the research-based practice Connectfulness. You don’t need to try to fix the situation or make things better. “Your only role is to be another being for your partner to share their human experience with.”

Understand First :

“Seek first to understand, then to be understood,” Wong said. Try not to formulate your responses as you’re listening to your partner. This only keeps you from deeply digesting what they’re saying, and hinders true understanding. “When your partner feels understood, they will naturally reciprocate with curiosity about what you think and feel and you’ll have an opening to share your perspective.”

Avoid Complaints and Defensiveness :

“[Defensiveness and complaints] are toxic relationship patterns that prevent you from really connecting intimately,” Wong said. When someone critiques and complains, they inadvertently put their partner on the defensive, she said. It communicates to your partner that “it’s not me, it’s you.”

“So the trick there is to take some responsibility, even a small iota, a weensy tidbit — ‘I can see your point, I did say that I would…I need to…” It’s also helpful to tell your partner how you’re feeling and what you need. (More on that below.)

Manage Your Own Stuff :

Interestingly, understanding our partners also involves understanding ourselves. “It’s hard to manage all the stuff that bubbles up and gets in the way of simply listening when you have a ton of feelings and needs prickling at you,” Wong said.

That’s why it’s important to slow down and spend some time connecting to your own feelings and needs. Wong suggested being honest with your partner when you need to do that: “I want to understand you but I need to sit with myself first, can you give me __ time?” “That will feel better to your partner than not being understood.”

To tune into your feelings and needs, pay attention to your bodily sensations. This helps you identify what’s happening to you internally, so you can then share it with your partner, she said. For instance, you might consider: “Does the hair on the back of your neck or arms prickle up? Is your heart racing? Do you feel flushed? Can you mindfully slow down your breath? What do you need to feel calmer, soothed and more secure?”



Understanding Our Partners 3equires :


patience on our part. It requires that we pause and don’t interrupt our partner or start formulating responses in our minds. It requires us to turn our full attention toward them. This isn’t easy. And it takes practice. But it also gives our partners a beautiful gift: the gift of being seen for who they are and what they need.


Also Read Here

How To Build Your Emotional Strength For Better Living : http://www.dailyguide.com.ng/2017/05/how-to-build-your-emotional-strength.html?m=1

Point of correction please, Nobody is a dullard. Those you think were not up to the task then might have discovered a lot and be better by now.

Between then and now, a lot would have happened and they might have gone farther than you.

See Here

Vital Tips To Getting The Best Out Of Yourself : http://www.dailyguide.com.ng/2017/06/vital-tips-to-getting-best-of-yourself.html?m=1

You need to learn control. This isn't sensible

How To Build Your Emotional Strength For Better Living : http://www.dailyguide.com.ng/2017/05/how-to-build-your-emotional-strength.html?m=1

I think you need to seat her down an talk to her or get someone older. She is too young to have had several breakups. Lesbianism isn't even an alternative.

You can read here

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At some point in life, we must have invested some in certain things just to earn a living from them but on the contrary they sometimes don't go the way we plan.


Attaining success in career is one thing everybody wants to achieve, nobody wants to be a failure in what he or she does but there are certain secrets you have got to be exposed to.


Getting the best out of what you do is equal to trying to do better than others in that same field of yours, and which to do so, requires you to go the unusual way that is not opened to everyone.

Weather you want to attain success in your career as a

• Business Owner

•. Footballer

• Musician

• Writer

• Blogger etc, there are certain secrets you need to know and in few lines below, I will be giving out 5 of them which will help you attain success in your career.


1. Futuristic Goal Setting :


If you must be successful in your career, you must learn to make futuristic goal setting.

What I mean by this is that it is important for you to write down if possible what you hope to achieve. You must be able to put down what you hope to achieve in your career.

Do you know that what keeps a driver moving and in the right direction is not the fuel nor the steering but the assurance of where he is heading for.

If you do not have a plan of what you want to achieve, you might just keep moving without bearing and sooner or latter, you will get kicked out of the lane.


2. Self Confidence :


Attaining success in career requires you to carry a great confidence in yourself and in what you do.

Whatsoever career you might find yourself is always having some certain level of competition and when you lack confidence, the going gets tough for you.


It is important that you do not doubt your ability. The greatest encouragement or morah you can ever get to move high in life is not the one give but someone else but the one you give yourself.


3. Being Unique :


Uniqueness is one of the distinguishing factors that separates those that are making success career wise from those who are struggling to get up.

It is important that you come out with your own style and brand. You should not always do things the way others does.

You should be able to figure out the difference you can make. The features that can distinguish you from every other person.


Until you try a thing in another way, you can not get a difference result. Try to make a difference in your market. Dare to stand out. Dare to be Unique.


4. Persistence :


The importance of continuity or persistence can not be overemphasized.

Rome they say was not built in a day. You must learn to keep on even when things are not palatable.

You must understand that there is always a rough past behind a sweet present. Never give up, don't quit yet. Stay in the game and give every opportunity your best shot and you will see that your success is just around.


5. Involve God :


Who can get the best out of life without involving the creator of the heaven and earth ? Nobody.


It is crucial that you bring God the most supreme being in to your career as he is the all knowing and faithful God.


He has helped lot of people attain success in career so your won't be the first. To you things might seem difficult but to him it is a piece of paper.

A talk with God on your knees can turn your struggle to ease.


Source : www.dailyguide.com.ng/2017/06/5-secrets-to-success-in-career.html?m=1

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Ummnnn, God should just help all jambites.

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Making you way up the ladder of greatness in life is not always an easy one. Getting the best for yourself always requires you to go the extra mile.

The journey of making a difference in life is not usually for the fearful or coward. It is a journey for the brave and go getters.



Actualising a pursuit in life requires you to eradicate some limiting questions often suggested by the lazy and fearful part of you. Take it or you leave it, everybody has that lazy and cowardice part of him or her that always want to ask the questions below :

» Can I Do It ?

» Am I Not Too Young/Old ?

» What If I fail ?


It takes a determined and purposeful mind to shun this questions and move on based on believe.

There is none of the now movers and shakers of the world that did not face obstacles while coming up in life but one thing they held unto was the greatness they foresaw.

Briefly in this post, I will be discussing these three limiting questions and why you should never allow them.

1. Can I Do It ? :

The short sentence " can in do it " is a proposed foundation to failure. The adverse effect of doubt on an idea or pursuit in life can not be overemphasized.

How far and high you will go in life is dependent on how much you believe in yourself. No matter the challenges you face in life,doubting your ability is the greatest form of discouragement you can ever get.

You should always tell your self that

" If others Can, then I also Can! "

You are as good, great, blessed and gifted just like every other persons who can make. If they can do it, you can do better.

Someone failed is not your problem, it doesn't mean you will too. Just get the persons mistake and do your best to avoid it.


2. Am I Not Too Young /Old ? :

If you are not too young/old to bring up an idea, set in for a quest or get on a pursuit, then you are not too young or old to act on what you have done.

Who says you are too young or old?

There is no age limit to success in life, infact everyone is striving daily to meet up with carrer success.

No matter your age, it can always be used to your advantage if you know how to play your cards well.

Never hold age as an excuse for stagnacy. People who are younger than you are are making impacts and pursuing destiny and purpose, why then sit you here to complain about age ?



3. What If I Fail ? :


Why not learn to be optimistic instead of concluding wrongly on what is yet to happen.

What if you fail is not the right question to start a pursuit with. Remember that the power of thoughts and words has a lot to do on ones pursuit.


Even when resources are not available and challenges keeps on peeping at you, you should never consider failure as the end product. Nothing good ever comes easy.

It is all likened to the time of harmatan when you hardly see what is ahead. You don't quit going out do you? NO. So is this.

Reaching your pursuit in life is a gradual process as your believe and conviction for an higher position is tested.

Never let anything weigh you down, stay focused and positively life will dance to your tune soonest.

source : http://www.dailyguide.com.ng/2017/05/3-success-limiting-questions-you-should.html?m=1

I want to believe you were able to catch some vital points in my recently published article on the Advice To Jambites (read it here if not » www.dailyguide.com.ng/2017/05/a-note-of-advice-and-motivation-to-all.html?m=1 )

Certainly I expect you to wonder at my topic this time around "Maintaining A Positive Mind In A Time Like This" because I have decided to come with something needful to you in this admission expecting period.

Yes, and that is the time I am talking about.

The point is that in a time like this when everybody is expecting admission, there will be various rumors and facts concerning the criteria for admission that might want to get you discouraged or disturbed over some shortcomings you have either in your 0level or Jamb result.

I have been monitoring various treads in here and I could see people give their perspective on other peoples Utme scores and Grades which I must confess has made a lot of people loose hope or get into doubt.

I am not saying the truth shouldn't be said but there are some assumptions that kills the mind.

I will be talking to everybody individually in this post and I will want you all to hold it very firm.

There a great need for you to maintain a positive mind in a time like this despite whatsoever score you might have. Even if you are combining results and yet scored below 200 but above 180, you are not the first to meet yourself in such position.

There are people who had it like that and secured admission last year which I am a witness of.

It is necessary that you use the BOB tactics Rather than Doubt or lament.

By BOB, I mean Based On Believe.

One of the things that triggered me to put up this post was a guy who scored 176 and yet categorically told me that he will be admitted in LASU because his score is close to 180 and his course is less competitive.

It sounded ridiculous to me but I carried on with him in thesame believe. That doesn't mean he won't make preparations for an alternative which is poly anyway.

The point is that you must stay positive. If know you have a low jamb score, go for a change of institution or course that you know will help you secure admission.

Don't just sit down thinking, there is always an hidden solution to every solution. So get up and find it.

Change your course where necessary or change the institution if need and hope that all will be well. One thing you should know is that favour breaks protocols.

Maintain a good and positive mind and watch things go smooth.

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Permit me to give kudos to all 2017 jambites in here. I want to believe we all worked hard, went on sleepless night and relentless reading just to get the best out of the exam.

Weather you had a good mark or not, one prevailing fact remains that there is a zeal in you not to remain the way you are. There is a passion for moving ahead, an hunger for a new level and that was why you counted it worthy to opt-in for the exam.

Coming out with a low jamb score is not a guarantee or an affirmation that you won't be admitted this year. The issue is how informed you will be.

Maybe you have noticed that myschool has given an assumed cutoff mark for some schools and if you take a critical look, most of them will work in your favour.

Take off the retarding mindset that you can not go to a polytechnic. Are they for animals?

Some years ago when I got admission in to the polytechnic, some of my friends where like, awon omo poly.

My dear, I knew what I wanted and I pursued it, by the time I was done with my two years, some of my friends where still at home and I didn't stop, I went for my degree.

Now Bsc and Nd is standing. Your two years can not be a waste. Nail pride and what people will say and pursue something instead of cry about a low mark. Crying doesn't solve issues, it complicates it.

To all those who scored high in the exam I say weldone but never relent in getting updated.

Maybe I should hint you on this, I have a boy who scored 246 in the just concluded exam which you will agree with me is a meaningful score and on the high side but may I let you know that by the time we checked the cutoff mark for his course in the school he picked, he was not just up to it.

So the point is, pause the jubilation and ask the following critical question?

» What is my schools cutoff mark ?

» What is the cutoff for my course ?

» Do I need a change of course/institution.

Many student get disappointed even with their high jamb score. Its not that the school is wicked but because the student was overwhelmed by the score he/she had.

May I also point out this that it is possible to secure admission into a school you did not pick in jamb, many of us don't know this.

There are schools that brings out supplementary admission that your 180 will enter. I would have dwelt on this but that will be latter in this post.

Next is the fact that you all need to go get the screening procedures of your schools. I have a number of them but let me say for FUOYE.

Taking last year for example, some of them where invited and asked so questions in form of an interview. This might sound easy or look cheap but may I let you know that a wrong response can cost you a year.

In the area of change of institution, please care must be taken. If it will require you to take a brochure, please do. Select a course that won't conflict you jamb subject combination and 0'level result.

For institutions, patience is required also. Ask if those of you who chose one university can now choose two so as to increase your chances.

PROPOSED JAMB MODEL FOR SCREENING OF RECOMMENDED CANDIDATES

1. Screening of candidates shall be for ONLY candidates recommended for admissions.

2. No written examination to be conducted.

3. Verification of Course Requirements (O’ levels or A’ levels).

4. Verification of valid JAMB results by checking:
i. Online Result Slip
ii. Printout
iii. Photo Album
v. Checklist
vi. Biometrics

5. Institutions are free to source from other Course(s) to compensate for SHORTFALL in any of the criteria.

Admission might seem like its going to be hard this year but you need not to be afraid, just do what you need to do and be sure that your admission will be certain.

Also do not forget to put all things in the hands of God. You should know by now that Gods favour can break every existing protocol irrespective of who made it.

May I also use this opportunity to invite all those who are interested to this years annual Jambites Forum Tagged

" The 2017 Jambite Guides Summit "

What Do We Do At This Summit is Discuss :

• Solution To Low Jamb Score. • How To Secure Admission In To A School You Didn't Pick In Jamb. • All you need to know about higher Institution. • Preparation Tips For University/Polytechnic Screenings. • Schools And Their Admission Requirements. • Change Of Course And Institution Guides. • Top Institution Money Making Tips. • One on One Career Guides. Etc.


The 2017 Jambite Guide Summit will be coming up on the 10th of June,2017 in Ikorodu, Lagos. Text " INFO " to 09090771556 to know more about the seminar if you are interested in attending.


You only paying a Reg fee of 500naira only at the venue, others are free.

Blogs are the most powerful marketing tool you can use to attract leads and new customers, as well as increase visibility in your marketplace or niche.

But what makes one blog successful and another unsuccessful?


Some bloggers may be writing well, posting relevant and valuable content on a regular basis, but they aren’t getting their one time visitors back.

Most times we want to quit when we see great traffic today and tomorrow it all goes down.

Do you know that there are times that we boost posts on facebook, guestpost on top site and get backlinks on a particular post and after visitors reads that post, they click the back button and forget your blog.

I don't want to discuss the reason for this but the solution but maybe I should brief you on some reasons. Do you know that some blogs are difficult to navigate, making it nearly impossible for readers to find important information. Some look good, but they don’t have frequent or relevant posts.

Most ones with good contents and designs are even not excluded from this problem.

In my few years of experience in the blogging field, I have come to realise that if you visitors gets to come on your site as a result of one post, it is not a guarantee that they will come back.

To this effect, I have taken time to create this course which I am giving free now on how to make your one time visitor keep coming back.

Sit back, relax and enjoy as I bring you to the light of this great secret.

To start with on the secret to making your blog visitors come back is;



Content :


The first essential component to a successful blog is content. It is often said that “content is king” because it is the critical element that will make or break your blog.

Always write with your readers in mind. If your posts are not interesting to the people you’re writing for, then they’re not going to come back. They’re not going to subscribe. And they’re not going to buy your products or services. Your content is where you have the opportunity to really penetrate your niche market and dominate.

When developing content, keep in mind the three E’s of content wnhich are to

• Educate,

• Entertain and

• Engage.


The two primary reasons people use the web are to find solutions to their problems and to be entertained.

Knowing your niche fully well, you need to be able to educate your visitors on what brought them to you.

For people to visit your health or education blog, you need to know that they need your health or educational advice and tips which you must not slack at.

Entertaining is very important, don't be surprised that visitors won't come back if you are too serious in your article. There are funny things you can't put within articles that makes the smile a little before you fire on again.


Also is engagement important, you need to learn to engage your readers. Don't just write but be sure you are communicating to people. Get them involved even as you write.




Design :


Since we said content is king, then design is queen.

Strong blog design involves a number of layout and usability factors. Design issues can greatly affect how readers experience your blog.

Is it easy to use and understand?

Does it build trust with readers?

Is it easy to navigate?

Does it look good?

The aesthetic elements also help people feel confident about working with you.  They may like your content, but

does it look professional?

Does it represent you well? 

Do you make it easy for readers to hire or buy something from you?

One of the things to keep in mind when you’re designing your blog is it must be well-branded and it should be memorable. Make sure when people land on your site, it doesn’t look like every other blog.  Just about every blogging platform has templates.

  If you use a standard template, that’s OK, but take a few minutes and customize the look and feel by using your brand colors and logo, at minimum.

Adding a custom-designed banner on your blog will help set it apart as well. Make sure to include the name of your blog and a tagline.  Remember that every day someone new lands on your blog. 

When they land on your blog, are they going to know what it’s about?  Are they going to know if it’s what they’re looking for?  Make sure you have a tagline that tells people what the blog is about—what they can expect to learn about your subject.



Make Them Journey With You :


This is one of the most important of this tips. At the end of every post or article, it is important that you tell your visitors that there are more loaded and informative articles on your homepage that they must see before they go.

Now this is so easy and effective. Sometimes visitors gets not on your homepage but on one of your articles. So to make the see what you have got and not make them go away just like that, suggest the see your homepage. Doing this get them engaged for some time again on your blog.



Bank Them :


This is a vital point you need to learn. You must be able to bank your visitors and this means tying them down.

To do this, you need to get a good fb page, twitter page and email list. Look here, you don't need much. If you take full advantage of this few ones, they are yours forever.

After every post, suggest that they subscribe to your daily email, you can use popups. Also give your facebook fan page for them to follow and likwise twitter.

If you can successfully do this before they logout, definitely anything you post, as far as it gets on your fb fan page will still bring them back.


Get An App :


Like seriously, this work like magic. Visitors might just stumble on your blog through google and after getting what they want, they go out.

This can stop if you get an app. All you need to do is suggest that they download your app to get steady update from you. It won't cost them anything and be sure that immediately they download it, they are yours.

There are lots and lots of ways to keep your traffic coming back, infact these ones are just the short version of the course due to the fact that this is facebook.

Having gotten all this, I suppose you will be wondering, how do we even get the traffic before we talk about making them come back.

I am not getting much but 7k steady daily pageviews isn't a bad one. I won't want to hype you by saying you will get that in a day but within the space of two weeks you should boast of 2k to 2,500 steady daily traffic.

The ways to getting traffic are hard to those who haven't gotten the secret but to those who knows it, it is little work and much returns.

Note : little work and not No work. You have to work it out.

I will be giving out my just concluded course titled " The Professional Traffic Guide "

Here I discussed how you can generate sure and real traffic to your blog. Atleast and I repeat atleast 2k to 3k in two weeks after reading this article.

If you know how much your traffic will earn for you, you won't mind spending 10k on this course but it is just 3,000 naira only.

First 15 people will get it for 1,500.

The course is just like a one on one chat. You read like you are seeing me. Its practical. My experience and the experience of other top bloggers are included.

You are looking for adsense without traffic, who will click it?

People want to advertise on your blog but you can't show them your blog stats because its not encouraging.

If you want to get the course on " The Professional Traffic Guide " drop your number and I will inbox you on how to pay and get it delivered to you.

Please if aren't interested, don't comment your number.

For those who need my material on " The Master Content Writer " which teach you on how to write quality and mind blowing articles yourself inbox me.

Happy sunday.

Seriously I know you must have read a lot of articles about making money online but have you ever come across any that shows interest in

• Teaching you the various types of online businesses

• How to start without stress

• Guides you daily on issues you face and

• Always ready to give assistant.

I will not only be showing you how to the numerous ways of making money online but I will be following you up even as you do yours.

Making over 100,000 naira a month isn't too hard, infact its small compared to what others earn online.

I won't want to boast about my financial status but I can tell you online business pays a lot.

If you are interested in learning this, just drop your mail and let me reach you for discussion.

Starting up a football viewing center is one of the few money making businesses we have got today.

Have you ever come to realize how much those viewing centers gain on every match days. Sometimes there are over 15 matches in a week and showing all is just like somebody's monthly salary.

You can record over 150 viewers on every match day if you are ontop of your game and imagine how much you will be making if you fix a match for 100naira.

Maybe you have been considering starting a viewing center or you are beginning to gain interest in it as a result of this post, then sit back and ready the necessary things you need to start up.


IMPORTANT THINGS TO GET FOR YOUR FOOTBALL VIEWING CENTER

» A good Space

» Televisions

» Marker Board

» Dstv Decoder

» Chairs or Benches

» Generator and

» Subscription Fee.


Yes, that's all.

Having this things in other is a guarantee that you are good to go.

You can observe you compound if the is space for you to use. It is not a must you get a shop or rent an apartment, you can start somewhere.

Ask your friends who has free space in their house if you can use it. Get a shed and set it up.

After this you need to sort for how to get benches or chairs. If you are financially buoyant, you can meet a capenter to make yours for you. And if you don't have enough, you can get benches around and return them after the match.

Next to this, you need a television set. You might not start showing two matches together due to financial constraints. You can use your home TV set and start up something.
The total subscription sum of the bouquet that covers all the league will cost you about N30.000 monthly or less, but it’s worth it. People always look for places where they could watch matches.

As the DSTV and it subscription, you might need to get it if you don't have at home. Do the subscription and kick off.

Your generating set is also important. if you have a good one you use at home, you can also use it. This is to cover up for power failure.

Please I want to know if there is anybody here who knows about Real Estate investment in Nigeria.

I heard the business is making lots of money and can be started either with or without capital. Who has any idea about it ?

I have heard people say education education but is it that important?

We have people who did not go to school and yet they are making it.

Some of those to influencers in the world are drop out.

I can get into the movie or music industry and make it.

There are businesses I can start and earn a lot.

Must I Go To School To Make It ?

Goodday all webmasters in the house,I run a Blog on

How TOs | Motivation | Business Tips

I want you to review the blog.

Drop your comments, you can also go through some of my articles there.

The link is

www.dailyguide.com.ng

Business is one of the things we do here and enlightening you for greatness is what we take pleasure in.

I ought to sight an example of how I got mny first pay on OLX but I will keep that till I will be discussing "How to make money on OLX" but for now, let's talk konga.

I have always raised the flag that there are hundreds of ways to make money but only if you are smart and ready to take the risk.

Konga.com is not a strange word in your ears, infact, it is one of Nigeria’s largest online mall but it doesn't just stop at this, it also has something greater that it offers and that is what we want to discuss.

Do you believe you can earn a living from konga sales ?

Oya come, leeme show you.

Konga connects entrepreneurs, manufacturers, and business owners to their target market online. It has revolutionized the landscape of trade in Nigeria today. Since opening up Konga Marketplace to small- and medium-size businesses via its SellerHQ marketplace in 2014, more than 10,000 traders have registered on the site.


This is an opportunity for business owners or people with something tangible to offer to reach their target market without a heavy marketing budget, as a matter of fact, free of charge!


All you need to do is Create your own shop on Konga.com and start selling.... Now Follow This Link To See How To Create Your Own Shop And How To Sell...
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May I start by saying it is the joy of many bloggers and web owners to see their traffic running into hundreds of thousands or even millions on daily basis which is possible but requires commitment.

So many newbies who are just getting into the system are kind of finding it difficult to get traffic on there blog or website.

Don't be frustrated to quit because quitters never wins. If seun had quited in the early days of nairaland or if makinde had quitted in the early days of naijaloaded, you might not be hearing about them today.

Me discussing backlinks is because it is one of the surest ways to get traffic this days.

Back links also help to attract search engine optimization, that is google and other search engines will be able to optimize your blog/site.

I will be dealing with How To Build Solid Backlinks For Your Blog/Website this evening by 7pm. Its going to be a total free webiner on my facebook group.

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To be a success is not a child's play. There are prices that needs to be paid in order to be successful. Climbing the ladder to the peak of one's career requires a lot of seriousness, diligence, attention and focus.

To be successful means the ability to achieve one's aims and goals in life. It goes beyond having high grades or participating in class. Academic excellence entails taking the extra mile to achieve the set goals, avoiding any distractions and being on the tracks till one get to the finishing line. Those who are successful in their careers do not jump down from the Heavens neither do they have bigger heads and wider brains. Students can also be like their mentors only if they can follow the steps and pathways to achieving success.

Below Are 10 Pathways To Academic Excellence

1. Have at least 80% class attendance: Truancy should be done away with. Lectures should be taken with seriousness. 100% class attendance should be recorded, when this 100 percent attendance might not be possible due to illness or other unavoidable excuses, class attendance should not be less than 80%. High class attendance allows students to flow with what is being taught which will have a positive effect on academic performance.

2. Know yourself:. Discover when, where and how best you assimilate when reading and make use of it. Do not walk in other people’s shoes nor be a copy-cat. If you are the type that assimilates well during the day, plan your time and make your day free and less strenuous. Do not join others that play all through the day. You never can say if they make use of their nights. If you assimilate well at night, sleep during the day so that you will be wide awake at night.

3. Establish a good study habit:. Notes and assignments should not be left till the following day. Assignments should be done on the day it is given. Students should see that they do not sleep without reading what they are being taught for the day. Related reading materials and textbooks should be coupled with notes. Students should read before coming to class and after each lecture. Notes should not be piled up till when examination or test is near. Crash reading is not a technique for successful students.

4. Utilize the libraries and research centers for more knowledge and information. The books, textbooks, journals and other related academic materials in the libraries should be utilized. More materials can also be sought online, Google is your friend.

5. Conducive reading environment should be used for study:. School and public libraries should be the abode of students. A quiet environment free of any form of distraction should be used for study. By this, less time will be spent on reading coupled with high assimilation rate due to lack of distraction.

6. Time management:. Time is an important factor in one's life. It is essential and waits for no man. We all have 24 hours in a day. The successful ones also have the same hours available to them. Students must plan their day and manage their time. To achieve a fulfilled day, the activities in the day must be planned and strictly followed. Twenty-four hours time table can be drafted with the day's activities clearly outlined. Time should be allocated to study, siesta, assignment and for other activities like house chores.

7. Proper notes should be taken in class: Good and neat notes should be taken in class. The areas where the teachers lay emphasis on should also be noted. Students should write notes when given and should pay rapt attention in class so as not to miss important information. The habit of collecting notes from friends should be frowned upon.

When absent, notes should be copied from the serious students and not from the back-benchers who might not hear the teacher correctly. The notes should be neat so as to increase the thirst to read. Students tend not to enjoy reading when notes are tattered and rough. Students with incomplete, rough notes always prefer making copies of neat ones. A student on the path of success should not be in the circles of those that read copied notes.

8. Procrastination should be avoided: Procrastination, they say is the thief of time. Lazy students postpone what should be done till later. They procrastinate coming to classes, note writing and reading.

They prefer doing other things that waste time and spend no or little time on reading. Such students are those that crash-read without having time to rest and perform less in examination. This group of students always takes coffees and other drugs that prevent sleeping when its exam time. These drugs expose them to physical and mental stress before, during and after the examination.

9. >Have a good relationship with teachers: Teachers help in the achievement of one's career. Students should have a good rapport with their teachers. They give advice, share experiences and guide students. Students should be free to meet their teachers for clarity when facing any difficulty in studies.

10. Set realistic goals and work towards it: Goals should be set at the beginning of a new term or session. Desired grades in each course should be written and worked towards. The goals should be realistic. It is not enough to set the goals. They should be followed up diligently. Midnight candles should be burned if necessary to achieve the set goals.

11. Do not be a back-bencher: Serious students are always seen in the front seats where there is full concentration and no distraction. Back-benchers are labeled by the teachers as the unserious ones and trouble makers. A good student sitting at the back will be implicated by the unserious ones. Teachers focus and pay more attention to those sitting at the front.

If you are sitting at the front, a teacher can easily discover that you don’t understand what he/she is teaching by mere looking at your countenance. Students sitting at the front have access to first hand information and points made by the teachers. They also make good notes and tend to do well in examinations.

12. Class participation: You should ask questions in areas that confuse you. Students should not be shy of making contributions. It is better to say the wrong thing and to be corrected than keeping quiet thinking it is right.

It is believed that anything said in public cannot be forgotten. A student working towards success should be bold to ask questions, answer questions and make contributions in class. These boost his/her morale, destroy timidity, enhance learning and enable a good teacher-student relationship.

Students should always go to the class with open minds and readiness to learn new things.

13. Make worthy friends: The brilliant and hardworking students should be your close friends. Any friend that does not add any values to life have lesser goals and aims should be avoided. You should make friends with people that have same goals and values with you. It is important not to miss it when it comes to the choice of friends because the choice of friend can make or destroy one's future.

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