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Amis:
Abi...is one word we Nigerians use alot

Alot to write about today. And it is the first day of september, Happy New Month! To My beloved Friends here on Nl

It's neither wrong. But if she insist he do that, then it's so wrong. But if He willingly wants to help her, I dont see it worng. I can do as well. If my wife to be can wash my pants why can't I show same? But not the one on stain.

Hmmm... I'm not amaze. Nigerian police, you try to be their friends, you enter trouble by your self. You don't want to be their friends or associate with them, they'll tag you as lawless citizen. Police or lopo, whatever they're known for, I could simply say they are body of uncultured institue. When you make an agbero as Dpo who was once a street boy, smoking weed, what He does is to pick and requit bloody civilants who works with criminas and can't, differentiate laws from crime, yet they try to make the Nigeria citizens believe the police is your friend. I'll pray the wind of change extend to law enforcement body of Her nation. Amen.

freshbear:
Gosh!dis write up just xtrayed me.sometimes I wonder y am not really out going. At home with Wifey, we talk mono syllabus wise even if I try to b a chatterbox I get frustrated.
Sometimes I feel for Wifey having to put up with my silence. Shit is I really want to chat but end up saying it within me.guess dats d way am wired.
So many things I want to write or say but words n how to go abt it fail me.how wish one can communicate telepathically it will lessen d pressure on introverts. My view though.

but now you know, you can possiblely change it

Rukkydelta:
Boring ? I don't think am a boring person

wow... That's awesome

midasbliss:
Lol... I was indoor Sha... mama indoor.. lol

Glee to read such Midasbliss. Do have a refreshed evening.

whitestar01:
My awesome recommendation is ok I guess, at least it will add more power to ur elbow.

Thanks. You're wonderful Man.

midasbliss:
Lol @probe... nope...

In tone of a Holy man of God, receive the anointing not to miss Sunday service again Midasbliss. I believe an 'amen' will resound back. Mean while, how're you enjoying the sunday? I know you're indoor

Homorlayor20:
my own introversion is something else,very extraordinary,shyness has deprived of gr8 opportunities

Wow... Friend, you alone can change that. you've to in other to obtain great opportunities ahead of you. Just pray you definately come across someone like me, Shyness will run out of you under 48 hours. Don't ask how, the how is called; change in Goverment

midasbliss:
Lol... Bread just arrived your doorstep sire...

I see, clap! Clap!! Bravura. I'm beginning to think you're more like Nig politicians ba . You drop it and took it, I didn't see it at my door step Madam Midasbliss, any way, I may consider writting to federal govt to probe you under my watch. Pray I don't lol... So were you in church today? MIDaBliSs

midasbliss:
Lol...Fine tnx...
hope you good

wow... that's awesome. It a privilege yes. I'm wonderfulLy vibrant. Just that your absent on nl was something else. Now you're back, where is the bread you bought? Abi you have ate all alone?

whitestar01:
op this ur copy n past or research is highly recommendable, well done.U really invade my privacy, but..........

Happy Sunday! Really?? Wow... But you do own me a surpris package for this right?

midasbliss:
oh wow oh wow

la la la... It makes you oh oh oh. Happy Sunday! Midasbliss. Longest time. I learnt you're back from school. How're you today?

Rukkydelta:
I'm so much in love with people that have the introvert personality

That's nice. But there has to be a mix up, if you tend not to have an introvert as spouse. But if you do have introvert, menh Boring home it may be. No fun, cha... For you good don't.

Lol... Yes, when I was in primary 5, she was the class assistance prefect while I was the prefect . You know guys, if they are the best in class, they'll try to oppress the subordinate. She beat me 3times count down Lol... It would have been five times count down, but thank to God, I was able to ran twice to avoid excessive shame. When I recall those days in my memory, oh my God... I just wish it were now. I wouldn't have fight neither will she beat me, but I will use slap to correct the missing tissue in her head.

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See as dem tanda dey rush the full dosage of story! lol

lol... You caught me right. Happy Sunday! And a bless day to you. Wow, nice write up! Kudos and a wonderful message you tend to have taught those who are involved in sexual chatting and masturbating. Well I'm not into such. What I only learnt from your story is not to be a player rather, which I'm so proud of my self that I don't play games. I'm a man of; one man one babe or rather, one man one woman. Just as your write up, I do prefer making friends till I could fill some blank space in my heart. Do have a wonderful day! But were you in church today?

Aisha95:
#Endorsed.

Bravo... That's how we roll. Atlest not to a permanent site yet

FruityLass:
Copy and paste...............e no dey tire u?

Atleast I strike the main string

INTROVERT:
what's up with all this introvert threads every 5 seconds.

lol... May be because I tend to intrude ur privacy today. Any more question?

Along years, I've learnt much from introvert persons, most of my siblings are introvert, same with my mine friends. Being an average extrovert, I got mix up with them, so sometimes I act like an introvert too. That aside. few years back, I got piss off towards introvert. Yes, because they're patience in public to take poo from bully, and they're all good enough to fix things perfectly, they read people carefully and I can say they're uniquely superb. If you've the right ones that may influence you positively. I went in research why they behave the way they do. Yes, this may blow ur mind, introvert are my best pals so far, yes I meant that. Cos I discover they are people of class, attitude, embodiment of knowledge, great thinkers, encompass with great Ideas.

Now Here Are 10
Myths of Introvert:
#1 : Introverts don’t like to talk. This is not true. Introverts just
don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small
talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are
interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.
Myth #2 : Introverts are shy. Shyness has nothing to do with
being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to
interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you
want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.
Myth #3 : Introverts are rude. Introverts often don’t see a
reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries.
They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately,
this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a
lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.
Myth #4 : Introverts don’t like people. On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends
they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you
probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their
respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.
Myth #5 : Introverts don’t like to go out in public. Nonsense. Introverts just don’t
like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready
to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging
is absolutely crucial for Introverts.
Myth #6 : Introverts always want to be alone. Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own
thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have
problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get
incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their
discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.
Myth #7 : Introverts are weird. Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t
make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.
Myth #8 : Introverts are aloof nerds.
Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying
close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention
to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner
world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.
Myth #9 : Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.
Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If
there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to
the neurotransmitte r called Dopamine. Introverts and
Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just
look it up.
Myth #10 : Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.
A world without Introverts would be a world with few
scientists, musicians, artists, poets, filmmakers, doctors,
mathematicians, writers, and
philosophers. That being said, there are still plenty of
techniques an Extrovert can learn
in order to interact with Introverts. (Yes, I reversed these
two terms on purpose to show
you how biased our society is.) Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament
and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study
(Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ. Are you an introvert/ extrovert?
Which of the above don't you agree with?

Least before I forget let's invite some guest: Midasliss,
Cc:Lalasticlala, Introvert, Ladyf. Be my guest for the weekend.

delectablegyal:
I'm in a relationship with a guy whom I love so much and I think he loves me too. He doesn't have a stable job yet but he buys me stuffs. surprisingly he doesn't have much but whenever he has money he spends it on me. We have been dating for about 4years now. He introduced me to his family and friends as the lady he wants to marry.
But my problem with him is that he gets angry unnecessarily, he doesn't apologize even when he is at fault, I always apologize. When he is angry, he doesn't pick my calls or respond to my chat. He always speak harsh words to me. He traveled since on Friday but has refused to pick my call. He said I should let him be but I can't because I love him so much. His phones are all off. Pls I need your advice on how to deal with his attitude towards me.

Cc: Lalasticlala, u r not sure. Farano darling, kindly help me move this thread to front page.

wow... When I read things like this, I feel convinced love is still real, and I can see your high level of commitment to your relationship. But one thing is certain, you can't change a man, but you can only influence him positively that could impact values to who he's, and what they do.
A hot tempered man starts fights and gets into all form of trouble
(Proverbs 29:22) . You can't change him, you just have to live with who He's for the rest of your life. I was in such situation some years back, trying to change a lady with high tempered. Wow., it wasn't easy, but to cut it short I couldn't . Anger men or women are not patience enough to give someone another opportunity. Nevertheless, keep doing what you can and pray for him too. Anger is of the devil that's just the simple truth. Cheer! Do have a lovely weekend. Ohoh...

I'm in need of it. Thanks so much. Here is my email: Dajugba@yahoo.com

She asked a question, and most of you here tend to induce her with bad thought. I'm not a lady, but I've learnt from my mum aswell. What has happened has happened. In as much no lady or woman wants to share her man with any ladies.
(1). Be Patience with your husband and her. You already have children for him as well, but if you feel cheated emotionaly, or embarrassed then tell him you can't cope with his taken action, then take a walk. Orless it with all lead to commotion, and the children may as well not be happy with dad, if they grow up seeing mum not happy with dad.
(2). Be friendly to her ( your mate). Because that's the only way a polygamous home can stand, if you still want ur husband. when men get emotional attached with another lady when their spouse is far, you may hardly stop them from loving another one when He is devoted to her. You being friendly to her will equally make her to include you in other necessary decision that may arise up in the family.
(3) Be guided in wisdom when taking decision. There's always a bit jealousy in such home, and at the other hand, it also rely on your husband if he wants her to see you as the first, don't try to manipulate her, sorry if I use the word manipulate, if she gets to know, she could make the union inconvenient for you to stay as well . Cheer.

Wow... sad to read such. But really, you shouldn't let the challenges of life deprived you for seeing another day. The best thing to do is to take it to the Lord in prayers! In as much you feel depressed, sad, disappointed, delayed to obtain what you want or left alone. You've to extricate every thought of such. Taking your life won't solve your problem, it won't free you either. What you try to run away from is always ahead to re-occur then why not surmount it either?. Learn from every rigorous moment in life. Life is always wonderful because every thing is govern by nature and it temporal. Season comes and things fade away. I believe you've read much from everyone why you need to stay alive, and be free to enjoy the gift of life you've. But if you still insist on such. Hmmm... Ensure you write a will of who to inherit your asset if any is avialable. You can also request for my name, if you lack any. Cheer my Friend.

BrightEye:
Ebe like say u wan use this method catch person wey don offend u on nairaland abi? Don't worry, the person go soon comment his personal details.

Ohoh... Far from what you think. I've been on Nl for long, and I've never had any time to offend anyone

BrightEye:

What's your fb user name?

A Wonderful Day to everyone. Happy Sunday! Distinguished Ladies, Honorable men, and Gentle men. If it be you are in, let's make good friends here. Drop your facebook user name and get wonderful rare persons like I, as friends. If possible upload your picture here also.

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