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What nonsensical statement is this again?

awhybliss:
Abeg anybody birthday that comes to the front page should do giveaway oo... Na data subscription we dey use view your birthday photo shot

Audio wanting.......

Its not a good idea for those governors to do second term. They always perform well in their first terms and turns into wild uncontrollable beasts in their second terms..

sylve11:
You said you're born around the 90s. How come you know about his songs that you almost fell in love with one of his songs?

He's still singing.... He sang that song in year 2000 and something as a Pastor.....can't remember which year exactly

Hbd Pastor Chris.... Aging no good oh...

ghettokid1:
Happy Birthday,
Musician turned Pastor, turned Politician.
This dude is confused though

Please dont be myopic. Nothing wrong in having different gifts/ talents....

Donald Trump is many things, business man, actor now politician at his old age...

Arnold Schwarzenegger was a body builder, actor and later Governor in America...

Where's no 4 and 5?



How would they get a dick?

And balls

jaxxy:
Rubbish was Oshiomole a puppet to anyone? He knows what’s good for democracy bt wants to be a usual selfish politician. I can’t support such mentality. Unless obaseki didn’t perform then that’s a different.

A political stooge is a criminal and should be in jail along with his puppet master. Obaseki refused to be that.

U can help sm1 without breaking the law or constitution by Controlling an elected governor. In civil climes u will rott in jail for that.

Its not a good idea to say another's idea is rubbish.....

Perfect example: Oshiomole is Tinubu's stooge both now and forever./The reason why Tinubu saved his ass when prominent APC including Obaseki rose against him..

Political ignorant people should go back and catch up on stuffs before they make uninformed assertions

jaxxy:
because he refused to be a puppet governor?? Not because he didn’t perform. I will respect obaseki anyday.

Must a Governor be a puppet? I only care about Performance here. Period!

He was a puppet and he was made Governor by being Oshiomoles puppet....
He then wanted to cut the strings but no....Puppet master won't let go....
Off course, his stubborn head got him fighting his master, so he got dumped!

In Naija political scene, you just have to be a political stooge/ puppet to even be considered for any post, high or low....once you try to be your own man, problems start.... Terrible sha but that's it...Except the strong man in that state dies.... The person must continually dance to the masters tune....

Too little too late!

chigoizie7:
Truth most of us must have been embarrassed in the past.


But the topic of this thread never said we should tell our rejection stories.

The topic is about people who have dated a desperate partner either a boy or a girl. The fact that there are more stories from the men doesn’t mean they are lieing or hasn’t been rejected before. I am sure that if a thread of telling rejection stories comes up, you will see men still tell their stories.

You people should stop making every issue about men and women a competition.

You don't understand what someone said and my reaction to it. I really don't care to explain my comments further.... Sorry

I've ignored some mentions. But I'm .replying you because you sound mature...

Peace

Enugupikin:
Curses from one of two fornicators?
Tell me something, such curse may even harm the other half of the fornicator

I see many joke over spiritual things like you..

Ashawo dey town to commit formication with at a price
... Taking advantage by lying and promising heaven and earth knowing fully well say na to chop and clean mouth is another...

Many don chop winch and mammy water, wan clean mouth. For.where?... Sorry is your case

zuby4real10:
She was so desperate to the extent that even if she wants to give or collect something from me she has to kneel small. Always calling me her husband. She is more than 100% nice and submissive.she is the only lady that I have ever see that didn't wait for her man to introduce her to his family. I don't even know how she got my mum's number nd start communicating with her. I single handed sponsored her 3 years NCE education. From the comments I am seen here on nairaland is as if as I am the only man that sponsored a lady's education with out regrets uptil date. My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them. I thinked about the liability of marrying this girl and her family own I run. Uptil now the lady is still waiting and begging for me to come back. She is always asking what she did wrong. I beg I no fit kill myself, love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills.

I don't understand men..
As in, you saw her through school. She reciprocated by being peaceful, submissive etc.. And what did you do

If she returned and dumped your ass, you will say she's a bitch after all you did for her...

Like I don't understand it... She went through school, must have received other peoples proposals but she must have loved you and stuck with you and then you left her high and dry..

Like what do men really want again

Some common sense nor common again sha

zionmde:
u sound so bitter
not good for ur health

I'm not bitter, just pissed off..... This semse of entitlement some guys have like he wants to do a lady a favour to date her cos of her age...

You should all get off your high horse and man up joor.... As if any lady must just accept every Tom Dick or Harry just like that.... The arrogance gets me anytime I spot one..

Mindlog:
I am not shocked, it is part of what I encounter almost on a daily basis. The daughters should be provided with psychological interventions if not....

The man needs to undergo psychiatric assessment because he is well qualified to be incarcerated at the prison section of a psychiatric hospital if Nigeria has such.

Incest and the covering up going on in families is better imagined.

Obviously a psycho

..he said they were happy

And yet they still reported him to family

Even after another wife Haba!

Decimus:
Why do most of you ladies always put YImu or Yinmu infront of that YIM?

Shrugs....

So what do you think should be there

NLReposter:
They said he died of heart attck

Now it's covid?

Imagine?

Which news should we believe now?

He died of heart attack or corona virus? Seems the latter is more glamorous these days

adewumiopeyemi:
And why must you conclude like that you haven’t see me before this is a faceless forum you don’t just have to conclude like that
I will rather fight for love other than beg for love that is the fact

You typed that you begged her and because she was 30... You had to mention her age..like wtf! I'm not surprised she refused you....

I got your description Ba?

The sanctions imposed against you no reach

Where Kim Jong woreva his name is self

Mykel51:
Someone you haven't met, look at how you are insulting him... Nawa !

Read his quote... Annoying!

luminouz:
Haba...what did he do to deserve this na?

Una get quarrel before ni?

The guy just pissed me off jare

ravensckar:
Honestly, when I read one-sided write ups like these, I feel appalled. Ain't there two sides to a coin any more? The so-called 'desperation' from ladies may not always be what you think. It could be a way of saying their own mind is made up. They have no more time to waste.

Now, let me shock you with my own story. When I met the lady I'm married to today, she told me straight up that she's not in for any long term relationship. She's almost done with school and that if the relationship won't lead to marriage, I should jejely excuse her. Me being the 'guyman' that I was then, I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I sha played along with the intent to chop until I'm full. Now, therein lies my confusion; the said lady in question was everything I wanted in a woman (beautiful, educated, well behaved, God-fearing and highly industrious). But I have just one problem; I wasn't ready for marriage. Money no dey, even the job I was doing then, salary was around 70K.


She sha encouraged me that we should pull our resources together and that we'll survive. Long story cut short, I decided to give it a shot. After all, person wey dey ground no get anywhere to fall to. We got married in less than 4 months of dating. When I mean married, I mean a proper and elaborate wedding. Brethrens, today we're still together. Yes, she's not perfect just like I'm not as well, but we are still happily married.

It was later I understood the reason for her 'desperation'. She had wasted too much time dating some Bleep boys, hence, she felt she has no more time to waste. To her, if it's not going to lead to marriage, then, she shouldn't even venture into it. What we guys see as 'desperation' to some ladies, it's called making up their mind.

Mature mind and best comment here so far....

Not these Bleep boys... When guys too get older, no sane girl will take you serious anymore cause they'd think something is wrong with you that you've been single for so long.... Many are on a long thing.......

The kind curse some guys don collect on a chop and clean mouth mission with blatant lies is still worrying them till tomorrow...

adewumiopeyemi:
Just look at me begging a girl of 30years to date me and she is doing yanga imagine ��

You thought she will just fall just because you think she's old and should be desperate to date you? Beg some more.... She must have seen through your begging... Did you prostrate?

Awww come on! Let me guess...You must be shirt, fugly and low bank account type looking for a beautiful, rich and above 30 to take advantage of... Na wa for you oh... Radarada

sassysure:
What I'm reading here make it look like ladies are the only desperate ones.


Have u ever seen a desperate guy who want to marry a lady by fire by force?
He is that lady's everyday nightmare.
Sometimes, u have to involve the elders to stop him from harassing you.

The worst is that they are very manipulative.

If they happen to be from the same village with you, all worst.

They will try to manipulate your parents through their family and friends, when they see that your family is the struggling type, they will introduce money.
Some are so arrogant they will go straight to your people with their elders without consulting you or even proposing first not to talk of u accepting their proposal.

As a young maiden, I saw it all. Some came to my school, sometimes especially during Christmas when u go home, u will wonder if father Christmas visited your house.
Is it gifts, they don't take rejection easily.

I had lots of suitors. If they were 10( trust me, I got more than that), 7 were very shocked I said no, then 5 started aggressive wooing using all manner of manipulations.

Most babes around me experience the same thing. It's worst when you enter higher institution. Get admission to study medicine, pharmacy or nursing and they will break your father's gate. U will get call from abroad( both genuine and fake abroaders )tire.

Most well to do men from my tribe don't accept rejection easily. It is a knockout on his image and they have this huge ego. And if you are wooing a girl for marriage, most times, your peers and family are aware of that.
So its a kind of challange and a hurdle they must cross by any means possible. What ladies dont know is that when such men finally nail you, you are simply a trophy at that particular moment to be discarded for another one.
When you say no,mean it and move on.

You're 100 percent correct dearie...

Most guys spewing nonsense here, I'm certain have been rejected/ embarrassed severely by ladies and even small girls. They will hide behind phones to be typing and forming Rambo on NL

Any lady, educated and established cannot beg a guy oh... I have never and can never do such.... Because she knows her worth and quite okay in her skin.. Only lazya be needy people can do the clingy thingy

Hilarious really!

bonnyhope:
All what you have said is Nollywood

Men look for those women that will give them peace of mind not those who studied medical courses as stated in ur script

Peace of mind ko.. Rest of heart ni.... All these men that's looking for ladies with present/ future wife who is financially okay and can help their ministry?

iamyemiakins:
Have you ever dated someone who desperately wanted to get married when you were not ready?



How was the experience?

Well, back in school, a guy even suggested we should just go to the registry.. Only the both of us.... Like wtf! Probably for the coochie,.... Guys can promise anything once they are desperate..

Another one I hate is when you keep refusing, a grown ass man prostrating to beg and just made me feel terrible at the level of desperation.. Almost said yes out of pity

ProphetofOdin:
Yes. it was a terrible experience and she even tried to trap me with a pregnancy. But I was just not ready for all that.

But you were ready to chook prick and get her pregnant

SATANIIST:
i thought they said their god is suppose to heal them na
na only god go punish these pastors , imams and babalawos

So who or what's going to punish you

Oh...I see your moniker..

..Satan will punish you.... Good thing for God to punish His people because He is merciful and will abundantly pardon them

but I no sorry your case oh because mercy no dey your oga dictionary as your own punishment don start already, following Gods creation

Newcreature2020:
Question? why aren't the market place or malls having these same rules? Now it's obvious the fight is against the church

Exactly.... All stores, hawkers, market places have no such obstacles as rules... Idiots making stupid rules

daveP:
Stop twisting scriptures to suit any MoGs inadequacies and doctrines. The Bible isn't a Scale you adjust to fit anything you want. Its The Standard.

If they fall, correct them with respect or make a cry out loud so people don't blindly take up such and end up being prey for wolves in sheep's clothing.





Its a pity Many churches are doing away with Bible Study and Sunday School these days. Lets return to our first love and do away with all these infallibility stance that leads to damnation and error. (2 Pet. 3:14-18)

No one is above correction. Aquila and Priscilla took Apollos asides and he heeded correction and adjusted his teachings. (Acts.18:24-28)
Can we be like that, and in love too?


Whats the essence of defending wrong and miss eternal life?


This is both for MoGs and believers alike, and how to face doctrinals issues preached in error. And also how to face those that bring heresies and guise it as Scriptural and From God.


Beware!!!


Happy Sunday!!

Good points