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Politics / Re: NL Monthly Political Debate by damas11111(m): 2:36pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
Following and ready to contribute as needed. Would have loved to debate but schedule no gree. |
Family / Re: Problems In Marriage: We Need To Talk About This by damas11111(m): 7:32pm On Nov 02, 2012 |
I hope the OP or any other person here is not dreaming of a trouble-free marriage! It will be an illusion for anyone to think that there is a marriage without challenges. I believe that no matter how prudent and careful you are at choosing your spouse, there will still be those marital issues that will challenge the success of your marriage. As far as twins (triplets, quadruplets, etc) produced of same womb at the same time have issues and differences, married couples will also continue to experience challenges in their marriage. Basic ingredients needed to ensure that your marriage survives these challenges include: trust, absence of abuse, caring for one another, absence of infidelity, tolerance, patience and perseverance. Also, it is important not to have too high expectations from your spouse. Always be prepared to be disappointed on some issues. This will lessen the effect of such disappointments on you when they occur. And it will help in coming through some of the marital challenges. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Children And Their Parent's unclothedness by damas11111(m): 6:58pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
enitan2002: Hey poster, How old are you? Just curious! |
Politics / Re: 1914 Amalgamation - A Historical Mistake? : Nairaland Political Debate by damas11111(m): 5:35pm On Oct 29, 2012 |
This was a wonderful idea and a very educative debate. Though Katsumoto may have gotten the nod as the winner but I'd give it to Obinoscopic for his efforts that even got many thinking (and believing) that the amalgamation may not have been a mistake afterall. I'll say anyone arguing against the topic is always going to be at a disadvantaged position given what many (or most) Nigerians have considered a "mistake" for many years ago. Kudos to the two for a well laid out defence of their position. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Advice Pls by damas11111(m): 5:56pm On Oct 19, 2012 |
OP, you really need to give him a good break as has been suggested. Leaving separately will provide both of you the opportunity to put things in better perspective. Perhaps things will change thereafter. Continuing to live with him under the same circumstances will likely not change anything especially with the type of in-laws you've got. As the Yoruba adage goes "omo buruku se fe, ana buruku in ko se ni" - meaning you can manage a bad or somewhat irresponsible spouse but you dare not have bad or irresponsible in-laws. In your own case, it seems you have both your spouse and in-laws to be bad! So you really need the breathing space. My 50 kobo! |
Crime / Re: Five Things I Learnt From The Aluu Debacle by damas11111(m): 5:22pm On Oct 17, 2012 |
konfessor: And the people who carried out the gruesome murder? Muslims too? Please use your brain for once! It's an advice. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Five Things I Learnt From The Aluu Debacle by damas11111(m): 4:43pm On Oct 17, 2012 |
davroca16: I was so down and helpless and almost turned psyco when I watched that video I hardly slept and I was boiling with anger.. I've refused to watch the video even with many opportunities to do so. I simply can't bear watching such videos having got the gist of how they were brutally murdered. @OP, I salute your write-up. Unfortunately many Nigerians are used to this type of barbaric acts. It's been there for many years! The only and main difference now is the widespread coverage as a result of social media and technological advancement which now make it easier for news/acts like this to spread very quickly. I wish those boys get real justice. They deserve it indeed. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Lagos Okada Man- Seven Children And A Wife In A 1-room Apartment by damas11111(m): 6:44pm On Oct 16, 2012 |
@OP, it is not face-me-I-face-you. It's actually "face-me-I-slap-you". But what is the joy in overburdening oneself? Na wa for Naija o! |
Family / Re: Which Will You Ask For If You Were To Choose? (pix) by damas11111(m): 6:07pm On Oct 14, 2012 |
Always proud of my princes and princess! |
Travel / Re: Few Nigerians Work As Cabin-Crew On International Airlines? by damas11111(m): 3:00pm On Oct 13, 2012 |
larion: i think i have an insight 2 ds, & its in line with fado's tot.......now has anyone eva tot of wat it takes 2 b a cabin crew member for common dana, arik or aero, it not a position where a fresh grad apply for just like dey do with GTB, access or zenith bank with d hope of "i will learn on d job", i once checked d req for cabin crew for arik n i was like waow! U have various levels n u must b certified by bla bla bla, even d certs have levels too, i checked d fee for a local training institute in ikeja for cabin crew n i saw 250K.... Dont lets 4get dt b4 KLM, alitalia, BA n co will pick a cabin crew dey must have more dan wat dana n aero will demand (more cash right ?) You make a lot of sense there. |
Family / Re: Is Marriage An Achievement? by damas11111(m): 1:58pm On Oct 12, 2012 |
It actually depends on what it means to you. It's a personal thing. If you desire it and think you will be more fulfilled with having children and a loving wife around you, then it is an achievement when you are able to achieve that desire. |
Forum Games / Re: What Are The First Three Words You Saw. by damas11111(m): 5:53pm On Oct 11, 2012 |
Honesty, success, love |
Family / Re: Advise Him: He Got This Mail From His Wife by damas11111(m): 8:08pm On Oct 07, 2012 |
@debrief, too many assumptions in your post. I've said it earlier, debunking her claim in the mail is not my intention. Thanks anyway. |
Politics / Re: Achebe’s Biafra Memoir Stirs Controversy by damas11111(m): 3:15pm On Oct 06, 2012 |
Classicalman: Nwanne m nwoke there is no need for all the hate. Fact remains that the Yorubas were practically the only people that kept our properties for us, took care and handed the rents over to us after d war. Even our so called south south brothers grabbed them in the abandoned property saga. I witnessed these. One good favour deserves another. As for Awo, it is not for me to Judge him, let posterity do that. Achebe remains a man i take on as a mentor. Lets bury our hatchet and fight our common enemy. your type is rare I must say! The guy who calls himself the "onlytruth" is either too myopic or not intelligent enough to acknowledge the simple fact. I am sure many things were wrongly done during the war by all parties involved beginning from declaring a republic within a sovereign state to starving civilians to death. But what's done is done! Any point in sowing seeds of discord and hatred by writing this type of book? To achieve what exactly? Open old wounds so that it can lead to another war with "revenge" as the ultimate goal? I am really confused about the purpose of this book from someone I hold in high esteem. |
Politics / Re: EFCC To Arrest Priests Over Atuche’s N45 Million Tithe by damas11111(m): 7:10pm On Oct 04, 2012 |
9ja_I_hail: Most stupid thing I've heard all year! I'm sure you can do better than this. |
Sports / Re: Tennis US Open 2012.. by damas11111(m): 8:37pm On Sep 05, 2012 |
webmanlag: Likely winnersDjokovic was clearly Lucky on booth occasions as The Fed had match points on each of them. |
Islam for Muslims / Re: 9 Reasons Why Muslims Should Be Proud Of Islam by damas11111(m): 2:09pm On Sep 03, 2012 |
Barakah Lah fii for this write up. May you be rewarded accordingly. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Do You Still Love Nigeria? by damas11111(m): 11:41am On Aug 22, 2012 |
Yes! Cos I don't have a choice. |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Are You In The Mood For Eid Yet? by damas11111(m): 12:50pm On Aug 17, 2012 |
I'm lovin' the atmosphere already. Plus the fact that we have a 3-day holiday here to celebrate it. It's a good opportunity to go out and and fun with family and friends once again. May we witness many more of Ramadhan. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Nigerian Coupled Jailed For Beating Their Kids In The UK by damas11111(m): 3:11pm On Aug 15, 2012 |
eGuerrilla: lol@ the video! PDP (People Deceiving People) are everywhere surely. 90% of Christians are gullible. |
Islam for Muslims / Re: Muslims Working In Brewries by damas11111(m): 7:49am On Aug 15, 2012 |
If you are really strong in your belief of the Deen, do not go. It is surely a temptation by the Shaytan. If you let it pass, Allah will surely open many other Halal means for you and reward your steadfastness. If you honour the test and fail to be selected for the job, you have sinned despite not being successful at your attempt. Remember that "actions shall be judged according to intention". Allahu aalam. |
Politics / Re: Fani-Kayode: Yorubas Won The Civil War For Nigeria by damas11111(m): 3:33pm On Aug 14, 2012 |
LWKMD today. This is not funny at all. E-warriors wan make I laugh die. |
Politics / Re: Fani-Kayode: Yorubas Won The Civil War For Nigeria by damas11111(m): 11:19am On Aug 14, 2012 |
If I may ask, how would Fani-Kayode have known what was "promised" to Awolowo at that time? He was not a key person at that time. I know he would claim to have gotten some insider information from his dead father. This man cannot be taken seriously joor! |
Politics / Re: Fani-Kayode: Yorubas Won The Civil War For Nigeria by damas11111(m): 11:09am On Aug 14, 2012 |
Fani-Kayode is known to run his mouth carelessly. Very shortly he will get his due reply because it's clear that he deliberately had a go at Chief Awolowo. |
Politics / Re: Ijaw-Graduates Give Chevron A 7-day Ultimatum On Employment by damas11111(m): 11:05am On Aug 14, 2012 |
nzenze2: ?? Elaborate please. |
Politics / Re: Ijaw-Graduates Give Chevron A 7-day Ultimatum On Employment by damas11111(m): 11:04am On Aug 14, 2012 |
worldman: i m from the west u can check my profile i m a fresh graduate i did my N.Y.S.C 2010 immediatly i passed out i got a secured job wit ENI AGIP you think say every body na empty fork like u Good luck to you and your employers! |
Politics / Re: Ijaw-Graduates Give Chevron A 7-day Ultimatum On Employment by damas11111(m): 10:53am On Aug 14, 2012 |
worldman: My own point of view i thing dey are taking the right step CNL should employ the qualify once "Qulify once" like you! 5 Likes |
Politics / Re: Ijaw-Graduates Give Chevron A 7-day Ultimatum On Employment by damas11111(m): 10:51am On Aug 14, 2012 |
TalkingBird: I think all International Ooil Companies's (IOC's) should learn from Total E & P Nigeria (TEPNG) the operators of OML-58 amongst others. Recently the symbiotic relationship between Total and a host community came to the fore. On Friday, June 22, 2012 a new Memoranda od Understanding (MoUs)that will last for 5 years was signed between Total and Egi Oil & Gas Families/Communities and Total and Egi Clan. Good idea and development in this regard. But failure to do like Total should not result into threat and blackmail. |
Politics / Re: Ijaw-Graduates Give Chevron A 7-day Ultimatum On Employment by damas11111(m): 10:51am On Aug 14, 2012 |
TalkingBird: I think all International Ooil Companies's (IOC's) should learn from Total E & P Nigeria (TEPNG) the operators of OML-58 amongst others. Recently the symbiotic relationship between Total and a host community came to the fore. On Friday, June 22, 2012 a new Memoranda od Understanding (MoUs)that will last for 5 years was signed between Total and Egi Oil & Gas Families/Communities and Total and Egi Clan. Good idea and development in this regard. But failure to do like Total should not result into threat and blackmail. |
Politics / Re: Ijaw-Graduates Give Chevron A 7-day Ultimatum On Employment by damas11111(m): 10:45am On Aug 14, 2012 |
talk true: They should recruit them and let them work On-shore Just like that? Even Charity organizations have a procedure on recruitment. |
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