₦airaland Forum

You guys should stop toying with this man, if he's going to be treated then get on with it...
Hope deferred makes the heart sick...

Ask NEPA and Etisalat how the name change worked out for them.. even kids of yesterday call them Nepa

Toscarel:
Its "Add"
Are all these dullard's supporters equally dullards ?
By the way thats not the question, before the change era we were promised a lot including steady electric supply and now we are in the next level era and you are helping with excuses
Zombie

Please tell him, cos it seems once any complains about things that are not working in Nigeria some people will just start bringing up past administration, if you are not improving on the past administration's errors then why are you there?

Mk12:
You are only on 3000+ now and you are dreaming of 9000?

And this poster was asking me how many MW were generated before 2015, as if we should just fold our hands and encourage complacency from our leaders, when other countries are advancing.. were these not the issues Buhari promised to tackle during his campaign?

kitone:
So how much have we generated in the last 16 yrs before 2015.?sometimes just think before you type

kitone:
So how much have we generated in the last 16 yrs before 2015.?sometimes just think before you type

Dear thinker, even if it was zero MW... Nigeria deserves better... Jonathan was equally guilty...

rosebowl01:
Stupid woman on image laundering mission. You claim they’re labeled as “violent and hostile”, so is that not true of their men? Are those farmers they’ve killed and whose families they’ve disposed of their lands fictions? Who will “label” those farmers and villagers as victims now? Stupid government ruling over mostly dumb and hypocritical people. Not surprised.

Just leave her to be talking, until they come for her or her family her narrative will change... Was she expecting the girls to attack her

kYjelly2:
Lol, the girls are not even smiling, what happened?

Only in the second pic one managed to crack a mini smile

Shooo

It's high time...


But how about the ebola carriers that can come in via land? Oh poor man head na garawa abi?

Flier:
She is just like that police spokeswoman during GEJ government
I forgot her name
This one is refusing to learn from the past

She likes ranting about PDP and praising any little insignificant thing APC does,
When it comes to issues that doesn't speak well of Nigeria or this administration she won't make piim, like the way Nigerians are being killed daily both nationally and internationally, the way cars and other properties were sold in NASS, the level of insecurity, the blatant abuse of power by the millitary and politicians etc
Isn't it high time we left party politics behind and really worked to develop Nigeria...

Please can someone put a gag on this Hanty?

Both APC and PDP loot, so ma you do not have a point

Dagger79:
One of these days i will trek to china. i hate nonsense

Let me know when you are ready mk I send you message go that side

Wow... Na the tailor do himself o, when you for jejely give the woman pikin the cloth con even add pieces join, you wan teach her sense..
Now he has been taught a lesson... And a body that has been misflogged cannot be unflogged


You really never know people's true nature until they wield power or have money... Soldiers in Nigeria always abuse power

bayulll011:
Nice comment there.
been awhile av seen a lady with Sense here in the forum,
the western world already solve the problem of hunger and africa don't not understand the important of food.
average african is not healthy and lacking one nutrition or another,nigerian generally is an unusual country,a country with loads of plenty arable land,with 80% youthful youth that can work and some unfortunate less than 9% holding us to penury,what a shame.

True, when food the most basic human need of man is available then productivity and innovation will flow...
we are a long way from solving hunger in Nigeria (not even hidden hunger yet). Not with the level of nepotism, greed and corruption in the country.. you can imagine local governments buying inferior farm machineries or embezzling the money... Where are the roads or railways connecting farming communities to industrial areas...
Even in dispensing soft loans and grants for agro-allied businesses there's still magomago..
After harvest how many other new foods do we process and export? When you go to all local markets you see fruits and vegetables rot and thrown away daily

davodyguy:
I pray there's a technology soon that would allow us shoot our screen and the bullet would hit online idiots like you.

Why would you post such stupid image in the name of promoting your gadamn site?

now that's so gangster mehn
But what they do is really wrong.. there's a section on Nairaland to ply their trade not shove it down everyone's throat

Toscarel:
Another actress, this one no get ribs nih?

She confirmed that she has removed two from both sides cos to they have no function

meditator:
How many MW did your hero, Drunkard added to what he met before him and his party were sent parking ?

Sir I have no hero, any president who selflessly improves the plight of Nigerians without bias and favouritism is who counts... None of the presidents since 1999 is without flaws

True..
Food security is when everyone has reliable access (physical, geographical and financial) to sufficient quality nutritious food at all times..
Massive increase in food production doesn't translate to food security.. ( there are pre & post-harvest losses, factors impeding food processing and preservation, roads from farms to markets/processing plants are bad or non-existent )
Giving a bunch of children school children food doesn't translate to food security...
Having some people doing well in agriculture doesn't translate to food security
High rate of unemployment...
What percentage of the population afford highly nutritious food daily
Let's not even talk about the killer herdsmen/bandits destroying farms

Toscarel:
Very true, they don't have boundaries

Some politicians lie shamelessly... With this deepfake, they now have a way to deny their words that are caught on camera

It's good they told him... At this age and time Buhari is happily telling Nigerians that by 2023 we'll be generating 11,000MW,

Toscarel:
But buhari is the past administration now, let's see who he would blame

He just might blame his former self

She must blame someone or something...
How many people sincerely take responsibility for their actions
Adam say na Eve,
Eve say na serpent,
rapist say na devil
Buhari say na past administration

gentlesmithugo:
call me on fone,let me tell u all u need to no about august meeting

Say it here

Whoeppme:
Mike knack now ooh, no go regret later ooh... Take example from your Yankee blood kaffy ooh.

Ur wife look like deeper life Yankee branch sha

No o na Jand branch

Nice

Not like some people that will go to BBN and start sleeping around forgetting they have a wife at home

Storms ke




How did he storm NBA hq? Person wey go mellow like bolor when he's there

Jeff's sis is fine o

Local government financial autonomy will cause huge problems because people will practically start killing each other to become HPMs, Treasurers and LG chairmen... Who provides true oversight function?
There still won't be capital projects at the local level just as the constituency funds given to legislators do nothing

Partnerbiz3:
She isn't bad.
Black is golden.

Enough meat for the man too

Wish her well. We all deserve to be happy!

May happiness locate you today! Amen!



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Jacinthe:
I think singles in Africa need to be sensitized about psychiatric illnesses such as bipolar disorder, psychopathy and narcissism. That's the only way to spot subtle signs of them whilst dating, and flee accordingly.

For one, I've found that narcissism plays out in more Nigerians than we want to admit, yet no one says anything till they get hitched to one, and then start seeing very strange and depression–inducing displays.

But I digress.

.....
Honestly don't know what to advise as per a husband who is either a psychopath or a narcissist,especially for such a new marriage. Hope you find helpful insights from strong men and women here, op.

Wishing you and your home the very best.

Spot on

ozonechrome:
He's a narcissist.

You better run. He's doing all that to control you.
That's emotional abuse and it will certainly get worse.

As you'll be longing for his good mood. That way he abuses and controls you while you keep waiting and hoping it gets better.

It's sad she ignored the signs before they got married... I ended my engagement due to this same control, mind games,verbal and emotional abuse

goodgirl2409:
My husband has really changed. He is so unemotional and revengeful.
I will cook for him severally and he won’t eat. I will serve him food and he won’t eat. I will ask him what I have done and he won’t respond. Every time he gives me the silent treatment.

I feel so pained because I expected more from this marriage but barely 1 year after, he doesn’t seem to love me anymore. Sometimes 1 month will pass, no sex. He would go out and won’t bother to tell me where he is going.



He would come back very late and would just ignore me like I don’t exist.
Although he drops money for me to run the house and communicates strictly with me, it make no sense to me.
I am tired. Is this how marriage is? Is this how men are or am I just suffering?

I don’t have anyone to beg to talk to him,and I was told reporting him to any of his family members is not good. things are getting worse everyday. People who have married for many years and are succeeding please help me. What am I not doing right?

UPDATE.
I want to add that it is not sexual incompatibility.
When he is in his happy mood, I would even be tired of his endless gist. S-x will be very great. He is kind and caring. Such a wonderful man. In fact an angel. He would even wash my underwear’s and clothes.

But when his mood start which is his mood most of the time, he won’t talk to you, he won’t eat. I will finish cooking, he will go outside and buy another food and come and cook. He won’t come back on time. I will ask him what is it, he would not respond. He always feels everything I do to annoy him, i do it on purpose. I am a peace loving person. Everyone around that knows the story
always say that he has a problem.

Op here's the link to download a book u should read... It might help you... The book is "Why does he do that" by Lundy Bancroft.. it will help you make more sense... Please read this book it will change your life and let you know if you are being abused or not...

https://www.pdfdrive.com/bancroft-l-2002-why-does-he-do-that-inside-the-e17780661.html

donbachi:
Op..in one sentence just tell me wetin sultry here na..dis is blackmail and u wont get away with it.

Wetin u bin dey expect to see? oh ok you bin don carry vaseline drop for corner just incase?