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This is horrible, if the police had to pay ransom to kidnappers, what hope is there for civilians ... Hmmmm...

overdrive:
She looks dry and dehydrated.

Choii u is mean

fringz11:
They kept it open
Since last year

Oh ok

Sandypearl:
As long as there is no domestic violence, woman you need to pray,most times do midnight prayers naked if possible for your marriage to work.There is a strange woman attending to him that wants to break your home.Be creative too in your marriage to spice it up.

There's already domestic violence... What he's doing is emotional abuse... There might be another woman and there might be no one... See ehn a lot of undiagnosed narcissistic and bipolar people are roaming free in this country

daddytime:
Glad you could figure out the tell tale signs.

Na huge emotional and mental abuse to keep you forever on the back foot and guilt tripping

Sir it was horrible, I was reading a story on dailymailuk about coercive control and I was so shocked cos it was as if this lady was living my life... I was so shocked, I had to start reviewing all his past actions and words and noticed they were not just isolated events but had a pattern.... Irrespective of the years I had put into making the courtship and his biz work, I was more than happy to end the relationship. I'd rather lose that than bring kids into an emotionally toxic environment.
If the OP is honest with herself , there must have been tell tale signs before they married like you stated but she may have overlooked them as mood swings

daddytime:
Lol

Marriage na school wey nobody don ever graduate from.

Will touch on this topic tomorrow. I feel so sorry for op.

She's been blackmailed and having her mind/head messed with deliberately by a narcissist.

It's a mind game.

You are so right about it being a mindgame sir...
I ended my courtship with a narcissist because I later discovered I was a victim of gaslighting, projecting etc... Infact the whole shebang from a narcissist playbook.. God help the OP sir, it's really unfortunate that they are already married.

platinum131:
This incessant killings by security operatives is really getting out of control...does this mean one will will leave one's house everyday out of fear? The government needs to address this issue.....
sigh...its quite unfortunate..life is hard enough in this country already ...to now add this fear of bullets to it.

Very sad indeed

toprealman:
even Huffington Post.....those ones claim the price money is 30M....lol

But the price money is 30 million naira and other gifts+trips worth 30mil... Making it all 60M

chibuike65:
I read the news from the sun this morning, someone inside met must give the information out to the sun, but what I see there standard can not be jeopardized because of someone's self interest, she haveto face the consequences of her actions embarking on leave without proper authorization not to talk of romping on live TV, this is not Nigerian police

That's what she forgot and she's representing a minority, black women... She bleeped up big time

It’s hard to see how can she argue that she hasn’t brought the force into disrepute.”

The Met said she was on unpaid leave granted “for an unrelated ­reason” before being refused permission to appear on the show.

A Met spokesman said last night: “The Met is aware that the officer has since appeared on the show without authority. The Directorate of Professional Standards has been informed and will be carrying out an investigation into the circumstances.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/9709140/met-police-romp-nigerian-big-brother/

The article didn't defame her character, she did... She forgot what she had at stake... She wasn't given permission to go, and if she had wanted the Met to support her she should have been extremely well behaved

Duggedised12:
We run on of the most expensive government in the world with nothing to show for it.

We might never have... They work for only 8months, don't work at all on Fridays... collect one biggest salaries in an undeveloped nation

These people are just plain greedy....

Even those items that were sold at paltry sums were over inflated when they were bought...
Meanwhile what is wrong with these items being reused by the incoming politicians...
This is a government that knows it's in over its head in debt... (who knows weda Nigeria never borrow money from spirit world sef) .. they will now go spend 5million for new refrigerator and 3mil for computers
These politicians are a serious burden on the Nigeria... Shame on you

It's so shameful that this man actually lived through Buhari's millitary and civilian regime and is lying unabashedly... A senator slapped a nursing mother and you all kept mute..
there's so much unrest and insecurity etc and you are talking about previous administration... well newsflash Buhari's is the previous administration

selemo:
The north believes in Northern presidential agenda not party agenda. A northern man must always be in aso-rock...

Gabadaya... That's the truth..

kettykin:
They will tell you south east are loosers forgetting that if not for the south east and south south voting pattern and insistence on power shift in 2019 Obasanjo would never have smelt the position

Yes nau, even Shehu Garba is just saying that to make Jagaban relax that he has the support of presidency for 2023... Fat chance

If you are a Nigerian living on foreign soil please always be well behaved, cos your government might not fight for you the way American government does for her citizens

Ahmeduana:
I like your sense of humor, are you really a female? Because I was expecting a angry backlash from my comment from the females polices!

I am o

Hbd and many happy returns of the day

Ahmeduana:
Her pot must have been over-sweeten with sweetener!

The backy and shagalow she threw finally paid off

tfash96:
One pics she gat slippers boob another it's standing properly.. I'm confused

Power of anti-gravity wonder bra... Can you imagine planting ugu without the sticks to lift them up?

Emoneyzsnrgf:
The only platform with the most bitter set of people

Nairaland ain't got nothing on Twitter

simonlee:
To all those sisters who refused to do Olosho work...

Let's wait and see

You are the senior liar... If at this age Baba you can't speak the unbiased truth, hell dey do press-up wait you

Presidency shouldn't be about federal character... but if we are even talking federal character what happened to South East? (bashers I'm not an easterners just a Nigerian)

Nigeria should be ruled by patriotic, unbiased, free & forward thinking individuals... Even if he's from the most insignificant tribe

1shortblackboy:
no na

Talk true o, you know say once African see animal, na the taste dem dey imagine next... They be like choiii oboy see meat/fish this one go make brain for pepper soup or Egusi soup
Dem nor care weda na viper or cuttlefish

Damfostopper:
elephant is faster than humans forget their size.... you can't outrun them......


just because they are herbivores doesn't mean they won't kill other animals

Abi o, leave him .. he should wait to see what being smashed under the foot feels like.. every animal has a flight-or-fight response when they sense danger

1shortblackboy:
What kind of half hazard report is this one. Where is d location mbok

You want to go and hack the poor elephant bah?

Blame on the highness



Blame it on the ah-ah-ah-ah-ah-alcohol

This is good news..but 3 days too short nau .

seniorgozman:
I am talking out of experience, just that it will cause problem in the guy's family, but at the long run you will be vindicated.

She'll be vindicated in the long run only if she doesn't repay hatred with hatred. Only love, humility, patience and understanding can help her o.. Cos at the end of the day it's that her hatred that will take centre stage not his mother's own

seniorgozman:
I will advice you hate back, you don't have any business with your boyfriend's mother. It's left for your boyfriend to decide what he wants. Please don't make anyone feel so important in your life.

Sorry but this can't work especially if it's in Nigeria, that woman can fabricate every imaginable fabrication on her head to cause the her son to leave her... Mind you she might not be important in her life but she's important in her son's life and will be the grandma of the future kids