Sirmuel1:
They always want to associate with us, yet they call ALL of us scammers and drug dealers just because of the bad eggs living among us.

It's all about our money...
He wants to improve the services he offers us by listening to us, so our money keeps coming in

winterfell007:
Who's that lady in the picture famzing him? He's married ooo!!! Stop famzing

She's equally married

Neurotika:
1. The true picture of what really went down can only be depicted well by the man she fvcked. She certainly has edited the story....trust me the devil is in the details.
2. Her reason for cheating isn't the whole story...ultimately, she had it in her core nature and some things just triggered the monster in there.
3. She might still cheat and she might not. But one thing is certain, she will go on a long break first before doing such and it most likely will be emotional cheating not physical.
4. If you're really ready to stop cheating too, entrench a sacred law - No secrets. And find sophisticated ways to secretly track her in the future to see if she will break the rule. If she breaks it thrice in your marriage lifetime. Get a divorce. The psychological trauma an adulterous woman brings can shorten your lifespan.

And you didn't deem it fit to address his own infidelity?
That's why you guys end up being cheated on cos you think you are smart

harrikoko:
So my wife of 4 years and I decided to confess to each after things went a little sour in our marriage. She told me my friendly taunts that 'babe you're getting old oh, I am sure you aren't getting toasters again' led her to commit adultery. That she actually slept with her old crush who happens to be a lecturer in her former school last year. She told me she was going for a make-up job over the weekend last October, I even gave her money for transport and all. She still used my money to lodge herself and her married lecturer man friend in the hotel and got dicked. She said that was the first time and she regretted it. And that she stopped talking to the man right after the Bleep.

I also told her I had a side chick for about 6 months and had a couple of flings with other girls but quit all after my side chick said she got pregnant and wanted to start blackmailing me. And I later discovered the pregnancy was 'audio' she only just wanted money.

We both felt sorry and forgave each other, but my big question now is, if she dated someone right under my nose and I didn't notice, and she perfectly did it. plus she's this church kinda wifey.

Should I be worried? When she told me I almost fainted as I had always trusted her and could bet my life on it at any shrine she wouldn't do it.

You see your greed and selfishness
You cheated severally with multiple people, without condoms, without thinking of the consequences or even the health and spiritual risks. And all you can talk about is trusting you wife? You should be worried about her trusting you

It's easy to say until landlord comes asking for rent and there are medical bills to pay.
At least the woman should have a source of income.

There are many false myths on social media about vaginas, and one woman has made it her mission to correct them. Dr Jen Gunter has been a practising obstetrician-gynaecologist in the US and Canada for 25 years. She is a fierce advocate for women's health and has been described as Twitter's resident gynaecologist.

Recently she took up arms against claims that putting jade eggs into vaginas supported "hormonal balance, menstrual regulation, and bladder control". Gunter showed that they were not part of any ancient Chinese tradition nor did they have any scientific backing. The claims were taken down.

Gunter's latest book, The Vagina Bible, is a best-seller in several countries. It's full of practical advice, designed to empower women and help them to look after their health. Here are some facts she feels everyone with a vagina should know.


1 - Get the names right

It's important to know your vagina from your vulva
The vagina is inside the body - it's the muscular canal which connects the uterus to the outside world. What you can see from the outside, the part that touches your clothes, is the vulva.

Gunter says it's crucial to know the correct terminology, and not to use euphemisms.

"When you can't say the word vagina or vulva, there is an implication that there's something dirty or shameful about that," says Gunter.

She points out that the medical term "pudenda" which describes the outside of the vulva, comes from the Latin "pudet", which means "it shames".

Gunter thinks using such labels is not only harmful to women on an emotional level, but can have an impact on them medically as well, because patients may not be able to describe exactly what's going on and get the right treatment.

2 - The vagina cleans itself

Gunter has noticed a real shift in women's attitudes over the last 10 years, with many believing they need to use products to modify the smell of their vagina. In North America, up to 57% of women have cleaned vaginally in the past year, with many reporting that they are encouraged to do so by their sexual partner.

But Gunter says there is no need to use anything to clean inside the vagina.

"It is a self-cleaning oven," she says.

She especially warns against using scented douches.

"It's a vagina, not a pina colada," she says. "Douches are like cigarettes for your vagina."

Even water can disrupt the delicate ecosystem, increasing the risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections. Steaming, another trend, is not only unnecessary, but can lead to burns.

The outside, the vulval area, can be cleaned when necessary, with water or a gentle cleanser.

Soap can strip the acid mantle, which acts like a protective waterproofing for the skin. If hormonal changes during the menopause make things dry and uncomfortable then it's fine to use something like coconut or olive oil.

Vaginal cells are replaced every 96 hours - a much faster turnover than other parts of the skin - so it can heal quickly.

3 - Your vagina is like a microbial garden

The vagina contains an army of "good" bacteria which help to keep it healthy.

"The vaginal microbiome is like a garden of all different kinds of bacteria that function together to keep the vaginal ecosystem healthy," says Gunter.

The good bacteria produce substances that create a slightly acidic environment, which stops any "bad" bacteria taking hold, as well as mucus which keeps everything lubricated.

This is why wiping inside with an antibacterial wipe is not good - it's important to keep the balance of bacteria. Similarly, Gunter advises against using a hairdryer to dry the vulva: the skin is meant to be moist there.

4 - Pubic hair is there for a reason

Gunter has noticed a growing trend for women to remove all of their pubic hair. This is helping to make pubic lice homeless, but there are also risks to genital depilation.

"When you wax or shave or sugar, you are causing microscopic trauma to the skin," says Gunter. "We see cuts, abrasions, infections from pubic hair removal as well."

She advises making sure the hair removal practitioner doesn't double-dip the wooden sticks into the wax, which could spread bacteria between clients.

If shaving, use a clean razor, prep the skin appropriately and go in the direction of hair growth, to avoid increasing the risk of ingrown hairs, which can get infected.

Above all, Gunter wants people to make an informed choice.

"Pubic hair has a function, it is probably a mechanical barrier and protection for the skin," she says.

"It may also have a role in sexual functioning because each pubic hair is attached to a nerve ending - that's why it hurts to remove it."

5 - Getting older can affect the vagina

After years of having periods and maybe children, the ovaries stop producing eggs and menstruation stops. The amount of hormones in the body which keep women fertile drops dramatically - and low levels of oestrogen, in particular, affect the vagina and vulva.

These tissues, which were once kept moist with mucus, can atrophy, and the resulting dryness can cause pain during sex because of a lack of lubrication.

This might sound depressing, but Gunter says most women can get help with this from their doctor. And some manage well with over-the-counter lubricants.

"I think it's really important for women to know about that," she says. "You don't have to suffer."

There is a myth (borne out of poor research) that having sex will help to keep things in working order but the micro trauma to the vaginal tissues can leave them vulnerable to infection.



https://www.bbc.com/news/health-50289607


Lalasticlala

Happy birthday to your cute baby lalasticlala and may she grow up to be a snake smasher like her snake aficionado dad

Kvngfrosh:
Hustle ooo make yr child nr go vomit garri fr class

lol
Abeg wetin he go dey vomit for class when your hustle don pay?

Hustle o, make you nor do throwback picture with ex wey just born for Davido

donbachi:
"guru maraji road?...na e make na...if not dem for no die.

No it's Lagos Ibadan expressway, close to the Ibadan axis

Wow

RIP to the little girl.
The way some women beat kids without sympathy is appalling and alarming



It's quite unfortunate that men believe they can unite the children they have from different women...
There'll always be bad blood somewhere

Congrats

When she sees the video of the ceremony in 10years time how would she feel?.


At least it made her happy

RIP

Please who is an hypeman

paix:
Nah Nah Nah. First thing first. Recite, and senatorial seat is yours for keeps.

Lol

Do these fans hold monthly meeting or collect monthly dues to gift their celebs abi kilonpe

paix:
Can you recite the national anthem? Let's see how patriotic you are.

No, let him be a senator for free and not collect any salary or benefit ... Now that's patriotism

computergeek:
Lol... You did not add mental health fees.


I'll keep saying it, everyone living in Lagos should keep a part of their earnings aside to take care of their mental health. Let's remove the inherent anger everybody there seems to foster and focus on the traffic. Traffic takes a new meaning in Lag.

I visited Lagos for two weeks during my NYSC and I've never gone back. How can someone leave her home at 4:30 am for an 8:00am job only to return at 10:00pm when they close at 6:00?

This instance you described is good.
Some get home 12. Some leave home 4 and get to work 9am

So Omatsola (39) is older than tuoyo (23) with 16years

This one go still first many spirikokos marry.

alizma:

There will always be other better alternatives. They are just crying to protect their personal interest.

There have always been other alternatives but they are considered riskier than this. And remember that how they invest is highly regulated so they will not say they lost pensioners money due to bad investment

LadySarah:


Nl never dissapoints

I'm telling you

RIP

Any need for probe?

They did the do and got preggo. The nuns should just confess and save the resources that would be expended investigating

His brother got the message and that's what counts...



But chaii it's funny lol

ednut1:
they would have to review the mandate

I hope so. But they should still be allowed a seat at the OMO table

Nobody should come & shout PDP or APC o

It's an individual something

Nice one


Morale here being: Don't destroy all you've toiled for over 2-30 minutes gratification.... And boy do those lecturers toil...

He said the students who were caught at the junction of the main campus with a mini coffin, red clothe and axes where on their way to an initiation ceremony.

Lol

ednut1:
either they leave as it is to be graduadully wiped by inflation or they find alternatives like real estate, capital projects financing, farming etc

Their investments are strictly monitored to be as low risk as possible so that pensioners funds will not be lost in one fell swoop.

So even if they are to invest in these sectors you mentioned, I don't think they can invest more than 30%.

Insurance companies offering annuity to pensioners are also under investment scrutiny

Do your research and come up with a solution.

Then help her by gently offering the solution to the lady.

Telling her she has mouth and body odour without coming up with the solution is just plain insult

So what happens to the pension funds?

If they are not allowed to invest in such low risk options?

How are PFAs going to cope?