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Romance / 2021 Sweet Merry Christmas Wishes For Girlfriend by Damianbes20(m): 9:37am On Dec 24, 2021
Here are some heartwarming Merry Christmas wishes for 2021 to send your loved ones, family, and friends. Send them a greeting card with these cute merry Xmas messages.

1. As we celebrate this Christmas holiday, let everything that is dead in your life resurrect again.
2. Merry Christmas to you my dear friend, may all your heart desires be granted unto you this season.
3. May you live to see the end of this year and cross over to the next year. Merry Xmas my good friend and happy new year in advance.
4. Wishing you and your family Sound health, peace of mind, success, and blessings in this holiday and in the new year to come. Merry Christmas and happy new year
5. This Christmas wishes list is specially made for you. May this holiday bring you new inspiration and joy. Read more...
Romance / Include These Six Things In Your Dating Profile To Make It Stand Out by Damianbes20(m): 5:54am On Oct 26, 2021
Writing a good dating profile goes beyond describing your looks, age, occupation, or whatever. Your dating biography can either create a good impression about you or ruin your chances of getting a real-life date.

A good dating profile must have at least these 6 attributes I'm about to mention. So, when next you create a dating profile on any dating app, don't forget to include these six important things in your bio. Continue reading...
Romance / What Do You Understand By The Term "Love Bombing?" by Damianbes20(m): 5:40am On Oct 26, 2021
Love bombing is a new form of manipulation that involves an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It’s easy to get caught up in such a situation, and it’s even easier to be manipulated into a clingy and uncomfortable relationship with them. For most, it’s hard to recognize their partner’s love bombing as they are constantly caught between an immense amount of love and attention and the love bomber’s subtle manipulation.

In your own words, what do you understand by the term "love bombing?
Romance / If You Notice These 17 Signs From A Girl, She Likes U But Don't Want To Tell U by Damianbes20(m): 9:48pm On Jul 30, 2021
Girls can be somehow mysterious when it comes to love. Not only that, but I have come to realize that the moment you tell a girl that you like her, she starts pulling away. It doesn't mean she has lost interest in the friendship. But, she just wants you to chase her.

Does your crush seem to be too hard to get? Here are the 17 signs she likes you but doesn't want to tell you.

1. She feels shy around you.
2. Her friends like you
3. She motivates you
4. She laughs at your jokes
5. She enjoys your company
6. She calls you
7. She easily forgives you whenever you offend her
8. She easily gets jealous
9. She smiles at you
10. She enjoys having a long conversation with you (whether online or one on one conversation) Read more...

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Romance / Here's What To Text A Girl You Like In The Morning by Damianbes20(m): 9:19am On Apr 27, 2021
Use any of these romantic good morning texts for her to make her miss and fall deeply in love with you.

Your girlfriend may not ask you to send her some love notes in the morning, but you can surprise her with these text messages and make her happy.

Here's what to text a girl you like in the morning.

1. You're super hot this morning
2. You look more beautiful every morning
3. A day spent without you will be so boring
4. I love the way you smile at me.
5. I nearly didn't wake up last night because I was carried away by your kisses in my dream
6. You're like a fallen Angel this morning.
7. Even without makeup you still look cute.
8. Wake up, my sweet, and behold the beauty of the morning.
9. I feel like emptying my bank account for you this morning.
10. Smile at me, my love that I may have a perfect day.
11. I woke up this morning thinking about you. I miss you, babe.
12. I sent kisses and hugs your way this morning.
13. I wish to wake up every morning beside you on my bed
14. If you know you didn't dream about me, please go back to your sleep.
15. I pray you will be the only medicine that will heal me when I fall sick.
16. Even without seeing you I still feel your presence. Good morning, babe.
17. Good morning to the perfect girl in my life.
18. The morning DEW and the lovely morning HUE are the umbrella of my love for you.
19. I can't help to stop falling in love with you. I'm crazy about you.
20. The only thing I want from you this morning is for you to hold my hands and look at my eyes and say "I love you." It makes me feel better.

Don't allow it to end here. Add your own. Girls come and see ooo.

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Romance / How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You by Damianbes20(m): 12:25pm On Mar 01, 2021
How do you make a guy you like to fall in love with you and start chasing you?

Below are the ways to attract the man of your dream.

1. Be charing:

Men are attracted to what they see. But women tend to be attracted by what they hear.

So, to make a guy fall in love with you, make yourself attractive to him. Put on a nice dress and make him start eyeing you.

2. Be simple:

Guys love simple girls.

You don't have to be super nice to make a man develop feelings for you. A simple act of kindness or respect for him can make him like you. So, be a simple girl with an atome of respect.

Even if you're beautiful, you will never marry yourself. So, be calm and respect yourself especially when you're around men.

3. Be confident:

Men love confident women. Show him you're independent. Being clingy will not attract him.

Calling or texting him everyday will not make him develop feelings for you.

Be confident when you are with him.

Oya! Add your own. What are the ways to make a man fall in love with a woman?
Romance / How To Make Your Crush Fall Madly In Love With You. by Damianbes20(m): 12:00am On Feb 08, 2021
Making your crush fall in love with you isn't difficult as you think. Asking your crush some deep and intimate questions can make them develop interest in you.

Below are the ways you can make your Crush fall deeply in love with you.

1. Be nice to them
2. Establish friendship with them
3. Offer them support in time of needs.
4. Flirt with them
5. Work on developing yourself to become a better person.

Oya, add your own. Don't let it stop here. No insults, please.
Romance / How To Celebrate 2020 New Year's Eve At Home by Damianbes20(m): 6:31pm On Dec 28, 2020
The pandemic has caused a lot of damages all over the world. Many couldn't travel as a result of that. Nevertheless, you can celebrate this year's new year's eve alone in a grand style, without feeling lonely.

1. Dress-up

2. Organize a party at home and invite your friends

3. Prepare a very delicious meal for the party.

4. Have a dance party.

Let it not stop here. Add your own.
Romance / Why Do People Cheat In A Relationship? by Damianbes20(m): 2:30pm On Dec 28, 2020
What do you think makes people to have extra-marital affairs? Share your thought. Very important. If you like, insult me but just drop a comment. Thank you.
Romance / I'm Sorry Messages For Your Girlfriend by Damianbes20(m): 1:51pm On Dec 28, 2020
Have you ever hurt your partner before, more especially your girlfriend? If you've done, you will probably know how difficult it is to win her heart again. Apologizing to someone you love isn't all about saying 'I am sorry' You need to take further action like writing them a nice apology letter. Here are some nice I am sorry letter to your girlfriend if you've hurt her feelings.

1. Hey! baby! I am so sorry about what happened last night. I hope you've forgiven me?

2. My Angel! Sorry for hurting your feelings and taking your love for granted.

3. Baby! I promise not to repeat what I did last time again. Please, forgive.

4. You are the only one I have. If I don't apologize to you what would be my gain? I am sorry baby.

5. My apologies to you, Sweetheart! I promise it won't happen again.

Oya! add your own. Don't allow it to stop here.

Romance / What Should A Girl Do To Become A Good Girlfriend by Damianbes20(m): 4:37pm On Dec 04, 2020
Hi Guys!

Share your opinion with me. What is your advice on what a girl should do or how she should behave to be a good girlfriend. What are the qualities you expect from a woman?

Thanks.
Romance / How To Get A Boyfriend Fast by Damianbes20(m): 4:59pm On Oct 21, 2020
A friend of mine wants to get a boyfriend. Can you help her with some tips?

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Romance / How To Start A Conversation Over The Text by Damianbes20(m): 10:30am On Oct 05, 2020
How do I keep a conversation going over the text?
Romance / Why Do Some Guys Or Girls Play Hard To Get In A Relationship? by Damianbes20(m): 8:16am On Sep 21, 2020
Playing hard to get is a game. If you don't play it very well, you will end up losing a loved one.

Most guys or girls pretend to be too expensive. They will always want you to chase them before they will finally open up to you why? What do you think are the reasons why some Crush like to be chased before they finally yield to you? I need your answers please. No insult, behave mature.

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Romance / Are You Considering Giving Up On Love? Read This. by Damianbes20(m): 11:47am On Sep 08, 2020
What does it mean to give up on love?

To stop hoping for love means to do away with any possibility of love. It means accepting a life of loneliness, hate, and to remain single only because you believe that true love does not exist.

When you stop hoping for love, you will come to the conclusion that genuine love does not exist, but how true is that?

To give up on love isn’t a great idea. Love is a necessity. That means, no one can ever survive on earth without being touched by the love of others.

That you were searching for love, for several times, but couldn’t find it, does not mean you should stop searching for your soulmate. Or that your relationship didn’t work is not a reason to give up on someone you love.


Love is a great teacher. It teaches you how to relate to people.


What happens when you give up on love?

When you stop hoping for love, you will find it difficult to walk along with others, which will eventually make your life miserable.
For instance, you will find yourself being depressed, lonely, and hating everyone that comes in contact with you. Love ought to be given and equally received.


Signs you’re already giving up on love

1. You’ve concluded that true love does not exist:

Those who have stopped hoping for love has come to the conclusion that true love does not exist. They now prefer to be single to falling in love again. They are simply afraid of experiencing what they had already encountered before.

For instance, someone who had been in a toxic relationship wouldn’t like to have the same experience if he/she is to fall in love again. Therefore, they rather stop searching for love than to end up being disappointed.


2. You simply don’t want to fall in love again:


Another sign you’ve finally given up on love is that you reject every proposal or idea of dating again.


I do hear people saying “I don’t want to date anyone again” I am tired of love”. Why? It is because they are tired of so-called love.


3. Going on a date is an old fashion to you:

Everyone who has given up on love now sees going on a date as an outdated lifestyle.


The truth is that they are tired of meeting the wrong person in the name of searching for love. Those who are ready to fall in love over and over again know the importance of dating in every relationship.


4. You’ve concluded that its not going to work:

Those who have finally made up their mind to give up on someone they love always believe that no amount of effort will ever make their relationship or marriage work again. They have summarized it that they will never be able to find the right person. Some who started with online dating websites have now given up. Why? Because they couldn’t find the right person.

Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Give up on love

1. Love is a great teacher:


No one can ever survive on earth without love. Love teaches us how to relate to others.


For instance, if you don’t have love, you cannot tolerate other people. No wonder the bible said that ‘Love is the summary of the whole law’.


Everyone you meet has something to offer. Everyone that comes into your life came with his/her own lessons to teach you.

So, one major reason why you shouldn’t stop loving someone is that love teaches a great lesson.

When you fall in love, you are giving yourself the opportunity to study other people’s life.

Love is an indicator of happiness, says Legit. In other words, when love departs from your life, you are likely to end up being depressed. Continue reading...

Education / Motivational Quotes For Students by Damianbes20(m): 4:00pm On Aug 06, 2020
Here are some inspirational quotes for Students to get motivated and successful in their exams.

Inspirational quotes for Students.

1. Success does not come overnight, it takes hardwork, persistence and determination to suceed.

2. Never lose hope, all things are possible to them that believe.

3. The best way to succeed is to be success conscious.

4. You can't tell how your tomorrow will be, but you can predict the future by how you are living your life today.
Romance / 6 Signs Your Friend Is Jealous Of You by Damianbes20(m): 10:44am On Jul 17, 2020
How good and honest is that your friend? Is he/she jealous of your success, position or whatever? Find out today. Here are some of the signs of a jealous friend.
Romance / Signs He's A Player And What You Really Need To Do by Damianbes20(m): 10:07am On Jul 07, 2020
Dating a player is like taking a horse to the stream. You can't force it to drink. A player is someone who claims to be in love with you but he's not. He's only doing that for his own selfish interest. Maybe all he wants is to have sex with you and dump you.

Here are the Major signs you're dating a player in disguise.

1. He lies too much:

Players are liers. They will flatter you with words. He will make you believe that you are the only person in his life. When you come online, he will always be the first to text you and start pouring his emotions on you. All these are signs he's a player. Continue reading...
Romance / Are You Dating A Controlling Boyfriend? by Damianbes20(m): 9:15am On Jun 24, 2020
Dating a controlling boyfriend is like a hell in a cage. Some boyfriends can be controlling in nature. But nevertheless, here are the signs of a controlling boyfriend...
Romance / Interest Questions To Ask Your Crush by Damianbes20(m): 1:21pm On Jun 18, 2020
Looking for questions to ask your crush? Here are some interesting things to ask him/her in other to get to know them.

Interesting Questions to ask your Crush

What is your dream in life?

1. Have you ever experienced a heartbreak (disappointment) before?

2. How do you cope with stress?

3. What is your ambition in life?

It is very vital to know whether your crush has an ambition or not. Would you like to end up marrying someone without a goal or dream? Such a person can never go far in life. In other words, ask them about their ambition.

4. Who is your best friend?

5 What is the worst thing you can never let go of (forgive)?

6. Who would you like to stay behind you when you fail sick?

Flirty Questions to ask someone you have feelings for.

7. Do you mind if I call you my darling?

8. What’s your first impression about me?

9. Have you ever dated anyone before?

10. How did you breakup with your Ex?

11. Do you still love your Ex?

12. How would you describe love in one word?

13. What is your nickname?

14. What turns you on and off in people?

15. Have you ever kissed anyone before?

16. What do you value most in a relationship?

17. What can make you end a relationship?

18. Do you have a pet name? or do you mind if I give you one?

19. If you are to change my name, what will you call me?

20. Do you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend?

21. What makes you look so attractive?

22. What is your name?

23. Where did you grew-up?

Let it not stop here. Oya, add your own...
Romance / Reasons Why I Love You by Damianbes20(m): 10:53am On May 22, 2020
Here are the reasons why I love you

1. I love you because you’re cute
2. I love you because you’re responsible
3. Because there is none like you
4. You have the best smile ever reasons why I love you]continue reading...
Romance / Re: 10 Ways To Be Happy In A Relationship -romance. by Damianbes20(m): 8:01pm On May 07, 2020
You're welcome Agbolahan1991.
Romance / 10 Ways To Be Happy In A Relationship -romance. by Damianbes20(m): 10:32am On May 07, 2020
How do you make yourself happy in a Relationship?

Maintaining a Healthy and Happy Relationship is everyone's priority. No one would like to be tired down with a toxic partner.
Happiness is one of the most important things everyone cherishes. We all want to be in a Relationship with a partner who makes us happy at all time.
What does a Happy & Healthy Relationship look like?

Every Healthy and Happy Relationship involves Respect, trust, honesty, open communication between the two lovers (partner), forgiving each other's weaknesses and having fun together.


Characteristics of a Healthy and Happy Relationship


Honest Communication
• Trust
• Forgiveness
• Mutual love
• Respect and
• Having fun together.


1. Honest Communication:

Every Healthy and Happy Relationship involves an honest communication from both partners.
An honest communication entails telling your partner the truth no matter how hard the situation may be. It will help you to build trust in your Relationship.

2. Trust:

Another characteristics of a Happy and strong Relationship is trust. Every Relationship that lacks trust will never last long.

3. Forgiveness:

What makes a Relationship healthy is the ability of the both partners to forgive each other when something goes wrong. When you're in a Healthy and happy Relationship, you will always find a way to pardon your partner when he/she offends you.

4. Mutual Love:
Every couple in a Happy Relationship experiences mutual love from each other. Their love is often reciprocated and never unrequited love.

5. Respect:

Every couple in a healthy and happy relationship respects each other. They see themselves as equal partner and therefore deserve each other's respect and loyalty.

6. Having fun together:

Happiness never departs from a healthy and strong Relationship. The couples do things together, socialize together and have fun together.
How do you build a Healthy and Happy Relationship?

Maintaining a happy Relationship isn't easy at all. It requires a lot of effort, commitment and compromise in other to achieve that.
The following tips will help you to build a happy and loving Relationship:

1. Be willing to Compromise:
No Relationship is a bed of roses. Crisis and misunderstanding must arise, but be willing to compromise.
Maintaining a happy Relationship requires you to give up certain things or pleasures to keep the Relationship moving. In other words, no Relationship can be healthy, loving and happy without the couples learning to give up on certain things or certain pleasures.

2. Have fun together:
Every couple in a happy Relationship does things together.
When it is time to socialize they do it together. It will not only help you to be intimate with your partner but it will also make your Relationship enjoyable.
You may decide to crack some jokes for your partner. Tease him/her and tell them some interesting stories to make them happy.

3. Be willing to forgive each other:

Forgiveness is very important in every Relationship. To remain happy in a Relationship, you must learn to forgive your partner's flaws. Bear in mind that no one is perfect not even you yourself.
Unforgiveness can never make you happy in a Relationship. Therefore, learn to let go of the past. Always forgive your partner no matter how difficult it may be to you.

4. Be Committed and Loyal to your Partner:
Commitment is an important factor in every sound and happy Relationship.
Don't leave the relationship to your partner. Take part and contribute immensely to its progress. Don't let the relationship be one-sided or your love unrequited. Show some commitment and respect to your partner.

5. Good Communication is the key:

Maintaining a healthy and happy Relationship requires good communication skills.
An open and honest communication in a relationship can be hard especially when you're trying to discuss a difficult issue.
When misunderstanding arises, don't go to the bed angry. Allow yourself to heal first and then go to your partner. Discuss the matter and settle the disputes.

Also, try and be open to your partner. Don't keep everything to yourself. He/she may not know what is going on in your mind. That is
For instance, your partner may offend you without knowing it. The question now is 'how will they know that they have offended you if you don't open up and tell them? So, try and open up to your partner on certain things.

6. Give your Relationship some space:

For every couple and Relationship to remain fresh and happy, there must be an occasional distancing.
Don't make your Relationship so boring by calling or checking on your partner every now and then. Give them some space to miss you.

7. Love each other:

Love is very prominent in every Relationship.
To maintain a healthy and happy relationship, you must learn to love each other.
When I talk of loving each other, I mean accepting your partner as they are without trying to change them for your own good.
Love each other. Express your love by giving each other gifts. Make your partner feel special and loved. Also, you may even decide to send them some sweet text messages.

8. Be satisfied with your partner:
You can never have a happy relationship if you are not satisfied with your partner. You will only be moving from one relationship to another looking for the perfect man or woman. In other words, to build a happy and strong Relationship, you must first of all be satisfied with your partner.

9. Be determined to be happy:

Having a loving and happy relationship starts from you. You are the driver of your soul. In other words, you have the ability to choose to remain happy in your Relationship or not. All lies within your power.
Be determined to live a happy life no matter the circumstances surrounding you.

10. Understand your Partner:


I can never forget to say something about understanding. Understanding matters a lot in every relationship.
In other for you to be happy in a Relationship, you must try and understand the type of person your partner is. Who does he/she react when they are angry? What is their personality? Etc.
So, try and study your partner. Know their strength and weaknesses and be ready to face each one accordingly.

Read also, how to build trust in a relationship

Conclusion:

Everyone in a toxic Relationship will tell you what it looks like when you are not enjoying your Relationship. Every now and then, crisis. No rest of mind or happiness at all.
Building a healthy, strong and happy relationship can be done by anyone. You don't just wake up one day and find yourself happily married to your partner.
You need to put some efforts in other to have a happy relationship. Give it your time, effort and resources and see a new turnaround in your Relationship. Also, apply the tips discussed above and you will see yourself being happy again in your Relationship.
Romance / Full Explanation Of The Term "Platonic Friendship" by Damianbes20(m): 2:08pm On May 05, 2020
A Platonic friendship is the type of friendship that is strictly non-sexual. It is a friendship that lacks Romance and sex.

The word platonic love was first used by Plato.

Anyone can be in an intimate and affectionate friendship or relationship without engaging in sexual activities.

A friendship is said to be platonic if the two friends are just friends. No form of romance is found in the relationship.

Although, at some points, they may have some kind of sexual feelings or attraction (as human-being), but they have vowed to keep the friendship platonic.

It can also be defined as a non-sexual but intimate and affectionate friendship. It can also be described as a relationship that is purely spiritual and not physical (canal).

Here are the two ways to make a platonic friendship work

How to make a Platonic Friendship Work

1. Set boundaries:
2. Support each other
3. Respect your privacy
4. Love each other

Romance / How To Start Loving Yourself Again by Damianbes20(m): 12:29am On Apr 21, 2020
Loving yourself isn't an easy task. Self-love is self-worth.

Most times, we focus on others and deliberately neglect ourselves. It is not good. We must learn to value and have confidence in our-self.

The problem now is "How do you love yourself?

Read also, how to stop loving someone.

One thing about love is that you can never love others if you can't love yourself first. In other words, loving others requires us to love our-self first. So, you cannot fully express your love to others without first of all knowing how to love yourself.

Here are the various ways to learn to start loving yourself and believing in who you are. Read the full article at Powerful Sight
Romance / Best Friendship Quotes That Will Improve Your Friendship by Damianbes20(m): 9:07pm On Apr 15, 2020
Friendship is the most common Relationship everyone cannot live without. So far as life is concerned, friendship will continue to exist. Here are the best friendship quotes that will inspire you and take your friendship to another level. Continue reading...

Romance / How To Handle A Jealous Lover In A Relationship by Damianbes20(m): 6:15pm On Mar 28, 2020
Are you often jealous in a relationship? Or is your partner the type that often gets angry whenever he/she sees you talking with the opposite sex. It is a sign of jealousy in a relationship.

Jealousy kills a healthy relationship. Although couples get jealous out of love for each other. But when it is over done, it becomes unhealthy to the Relationship.

Here are the various ways to deal with jealousy in a Relationship. Continue reading...
Romance / Best Definitions Of Love By Different Scholars by Damianbes20(m): 7:21pm On Mar 10, 2020
What is Love?

Everyone talks about love. Starting from adults, teenagers and even Children. The pertinent question now is, what is Love all about?

I have compiled some list of definitions of love. You it out in my post titled " 20 Definitions of love by different Scholars and Dictionaries".
Romance / The Best Definitions Of Love You Really Need To Know About. by Damianbes20(m): 9:38am On Feb 11, 2020
Love! Love!! Love!!! What is Love? How do you define Love?

Love is an intense feelings of affection for someone or something. But is that all?

They are numerous definitions of Love according to different scholars.

According to Ben Hecht "Love is a hole in the heart"
Plato defined love as "A grave mental disease
John Ford defined love as " a desperate madness" etc.

Read the full article at Powerful Sight for more definitions of what Love is all about.
Romance / Important Questions To Ask Your Crush by Damianbes20(m): 12:34am On Feb 10, 2020
Having a crush can be so Amazing. How do you make your Crush realize how you feel about him/her? Powerful Sight, has an answer to this- Questions to ask Your Crush. Check it out.
Romance / Dating Advice On The Different Types Of People You Shouldn't Date In Your Life by Damianbes20(m): 2:43pm On Feb 08, 2020
Dating is a tricky business. It takes a lot of ideas and strategies to succeed in it.

Who are you dating right now? Is he/she the right person to date? The main aim of this article is to help you know the different types of people you should avoid dating if you must have a successful relationship. Continue reading...
Romance / Interesting Facts About Valentine's Day You Don't Really Know About. by Damianbes20(m): 8:00pm On Feb 04, 2020
Valentine's day is around the corner. Maybe you are set for the upcoming Lovers day. You really want to surprise your partner.

Today am going to share with you some interesting facts about Valentine's day no one told you about. Continue Reading...

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