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Romance / What Are The Best Love Quotes For Her From The Heart? by Damianbes20(m): 10:38pm On Jan 29, 2020
Falling in love is the greatest experience one can ever have. In fact, love can make you do good things you never planned to do. These great feelings can be expressed in words and also with actions. You may be planning to surprise your wife, girlfriend/fiancee with some cute love quotes for her in other to show her how much you love her but cannot find the right words to express your feelings, don’t worry, this post will help you with some ideas. Continue reading...
Romance / Here Are Some Interesting Things To Talk About In A Relationship by Damianbes20(m): 2:19pm On Jan 24, 2020
How do you maintain a conversation? Do you often find yourself running out of things to say to your partner? This post will help you to know how to start a conversation, how to make it interesting and things to say in other not to make your partner bored of you. Continue reading...
Romance / Re: Very Important Relationship Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before Marriage by Damianbes20(m): 10:15am On Jan 20, 2020
Marriage is not a bed of roses, Khalidase83. One of the reasons behind the level of divorce all over the world is as a result of our ability to study our partner properly and have a full understanding of what marriage is all about before moving on to say 'I do'.

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Romance / Very Important Relationship Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before Marriage by Damianbes20(m): 9:34pm On Jan 19, 2020
Marriage, an institution ordained by God is very vital. Every man, woman, animals or even plants cannot do without their opposite. That is why it is very important to be guided properly whenever you have decided to find or choose a life partner.
They are some Relationship Questions you must ask yourself and also be able to provide an answer to those questions before you move into marriage.

Follow me below to those questions:

Relationship Questions to ask yourself




1. Is my intended spouse vindictive?

2. Does he/she delight in other people’s misfortunes?

3. Is he or she excessively proud?

4. Does he/she make sacrifices for me?

5. Can I proudly introduce my spouse-to-be to my friends?

6. Does this person know me?

7. Are we of the same faith?

8. Am I only emotionally attached to this person?

9. Does my intended spouse earn more than me?

10. Is my partner over money conscious?

11. Is one of us solely going to depend on the other?

12. Am I comfortable with my partner’s level of education?

13. How much does my partner know about parenthood?
14. Do I really know my partner?
15. What positive or negative attributes do I perceive in him or her?

16. What personality type does my partner have?

17. Is my intended spouse inflexible or flexible and understanding?

18. How often do I trust people?

19. Is my partner passive, domineering, manipulative or a firm person?

20. Can I spend the rest of my life with this person I am currently dating?

Tough Questions to ask on a date
1. Who is your kind of people?

2. Are you a Morning or Night Bird?

3. What catches your attention the most?

4. What is your personality?

5. Where do you imagine yourself to be in the next 5 years?.

6. Can you tell me about your background?

7. What is your favorite pet?

8. What are the categories of people you wouldn’t like to date?

9. Do you believe in love at first sight?

Conclusion: How & When to ask these questions

It is very necessary to know the right time to ask your partner questions in a relationship. There is always a ‘best’ time to ask your questions. When he or she is tired, upset, busy or sick, it is truly not the right time to ask a question. Your partner may not give you the right answers.

Romance / Cute Love Paragraphs For Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Damianbes20(m): 12:50pm On Jan 03, 2020
Check out my latest post about love paragraphs for your boyfriend or girlfriend. Show your crush some love by drafting a very nice love letter for him or her. Check it out at Powerful Sight.
Nairaland / General / Long Distance Relationship Quotes To Cope With Loneliness by Damianbes20(m): 2:49am On Jan 01, 2020
In Long Distance Relationships, distance means a little when your partner means so much to you. Although long-distance relationship makes one feel lonely, you can...Continue reading...
Nairaland / General / Cute Things To Say To A Friend by Damianbes20(m): 9:45pm On Dec 15, 2019
I have gathered some nice things to say to a friend. Check out my blog post at Powerful Sight.
Romance / How Do You Stop Loving Someone? by Damianbes20(m): 8:42pm On Dec 13, 2019
Is it ever possible for you to stop loving someone you have feelings for. If yes, how is it possible?

Check it out in my blog post at Powerful Sight.
Romance / Do These 9 Things To Please Your Man by Damianbes20(m): 10:40am On Dec 03, 2019
One of the funniest but very important question women ask themselves is "how do I please my man?.

Some women thought that men are too hard to please. Everything you do they must talk. If they don't complain, they will beat you. But how true is that?

Quickly follow me through to the 9 things you should do in other to please your man.

1. Respect Him:

Men don't joke with respect. If you can't give a man the respect due to him, you can never please him.

Respect his privacy, his parents, family and friends.
It takes a loyal woman to please a man.(Read more)
Romance / Cute Good Morning Text To Say To Him by Damianbes20(m): 9:14am On Nov 28, 2019
Check out my latest post on good morning text for him.
Romance / Ways Of Expressing Love by Damianbes20(m): 12:04am On Nov 24, 2019
Here are ways of expressing love to your partner.

If you truly love your partner no matter the type of lover he or she is, here are ways you can express your love to him or her.
Romance / Birthday Gifts For Him by Damianbes20(m): 11:56pm On Nov 23, 2019
Here are the best birthday gifts for him. Your husband, boyfriend or male friend.
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Romance / What Type Of Person Are You In Your Relationship? by Damianbes20(m): 10:01am On Nov 21, 2019
Every relationship has different types of lovers that exist therein. The question now is “what type of lover are you in your relationship?

Everyone has different personalities. That is why, when you meet someone for the first time, you begin to imagine the type of person he or she is. The kind of lover they are?, Their love style? etc. And also, whether you can go into a long term relationship with him or her?

As they are different types of love, so we have different kinds of people that exist in every relationship. For instance, we have the givers, the takers or receivers, the shy lovers, controlling ones, etc.


Not all types of lovers are compatible. Some lovers are too controlling in nature. They either control you or abuse you. Do you really think you will be compatible with them if you are the type of lover that likes to be independent?

Types Of Love

Love can be seen in different spheres- Unconditional love, fake love, true love etc. Also, we have three major types of love, namely; Philia love, Agape love, & Eros love. But am not going to say anything on that. I shall emphasize on the types of people you will likely meet in every relationship.


Types of Lovers In Every Relationship

1. The Givers:


Givers tend to love more. Therefore; they give not just because they have but because they love you.

One thing about givers is that they believe that love cannot exist without giving. They are ever ready to sacrifice their last card just to make you happy. They are the type of lovers everyone would like to have in a relationship.


1. The Receivers Or Takers:



One of the types of lovers you will likely find in most relationships is the receiver. The takers think highly of themselves. They normally see themselves as the most important in the relationship. Therefore; they deserve to be given at all time.

Most of the time, takers are usually the ones that contribute immensely to the relationship. As a result of that, they don’t see anything wrong with them having all the affections.

Some takers also, may not actually be the sole person-in-charge of the relationship. But they receive simply because they have nothing to offer Continue reading..
Nairaland / General / 25 Quotes About Life And Struggles That Will Inspire You by Damianbes20(m): 8:33pm On Nov 12, 2019
Life is full of challenges and struggles. Everyone strives to survive.

The best thing that can help anyone to survive the struggles of life is to get for him/herself inspirational quotes about life and struggles in other to be inspired.

Here are the inspirational quotes about life and struggles that will help you in time of struggles.
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Inspirational quotes about life and struggles:

The following inspirational quotes about struggles in life will help you to cope with hard situations:

“The road to life and achievements is narrow, but with determination you can overcome the struggles of life”

“Life is a learning field, everyone has a different examination/questions to write and answer, therefore don’t copy anyone especially in time of hardship”

“Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.”
–Michael Jordan

“The struggles of life don’t have to stop you, only with determination, faith and patience you can overcome”


“Do not abhor challenges when you are doing the right thing, people challenge you because they want to be like you”
By Benson A. Idahosa

“Life is like an album of photo, you can’t achieve and conquer tough times unless you can imagine it”. Anonymous


“No one has the power to make you unhappy unless you permit it” Anonymous Continue reading...
Nairaland / General / 25 Quotes About Life And Struggles That Will Inspire You by Damianbes20(m): 8:25pm On Nov 12, 2019
Life is full of challenges and struggles. Everyone strives to survive.

The best thing that can help anyone to survive the struggles of life is to get for him/herself inspirational quotes about life and struggles in other to be inspired.

Here are the inspirational quotes about life and struggles that will help you in time of struggles.
picture of inspirational quotes about life and struggles
Inspirational quotes about life and struggles:

The following inspirational quotes about struggles in life will help you to cope with hard situations:

“The road to life and achievements is narrow, but with determination you can overcome the struggles of life”

“Life is a learning field, everyone has a different examination/questions to write and answer, therefore don’t copy anyone especially in time of hardship”

“Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.”
–Michael Jordan

“The struggles of life don’t have to stop you, only with determination, faith and patience you can overcome”


“Do not abhor challenges when you are doing the right thing, people challenge you because they want to be like you”
By Benson A. Idahosa

“Life is like an album of photo, you can’t achieve and conquer tough times unless you can imagine it”. Anonymous

picture of inspirational quotes about life and struggles

“No one has the power to make you unhappy unless you permit it” Anonymous Continue reading...
Romance / 54 Cute Words To Say To Your Friend, Wife Or Husband by Damianbes20(m): 12:57pm On Nov 11, 2019
Compliments are very necessary in every friendship. Saying nice things to your friend can go a long way to make them happy. Not only that, but it is capable of giving you a long lasting friendship. In other words, sweet words lifts the soul.


Nice Words To Say To A Friend



#1. If I have everything without you it is useless.

#2. You are such a kind friend no one will ever do without.

#3. Your beauty overwhelms me.

#4. I am highly favoured for having you by my side.

#5. I appreciate our friendship.

#6. You are awesome.

#7. You're wonderfully made.

#8. You are a perfect friend.

9. Your smile lifts my soul.

#10. Each day I see you, life becomes easy for me.

#11. You are the star the world is waiting to shine.

#12. You're such an interesting friend. Continue reading...
Romance / Tips On How To Make Your Ex To Come Back by Damianbes20(m): 1:06pm On Nov 08, 2019
Winning your ex back is not as hard as you think. It only requires some strategies.

Breakups are one of the toughest experience one can have. In fact, when your boyfriend or girlfriend says your relationship is over, it seems like all hope is lost.

After a long time, you begin to remember your past life with your ex. You begin to long for those sweet text messages you do receive before. Not only that, you start checking your phone now and then to see if your ex called or texted you.

When you come online, you always check whether he/she is online. Did he/she texted you? When was the last time he/she was active?.

When your ex posts pictures on facebook or instagram, you quickly check those he/she tagged. You begin to read other people’s comment and replies on your ex post.

I know how you feel. But am here to help you recover your ex.

Read also How to tell if a girl likes you.

So how do you get your ex back?


Do This Things To Make Your Ex Come Back

#1. Give Him/her Space:

The first step to take in other to get your ex back is to give him/her space.

The relationship is over. what do you do? Distance yourself from him/her.

Don’t be in a haste to call or text him/her.

Space is needed at this time.

Make your ex realize that you can live without him/her.

It shows you are independent and that will make your ex to miss you and decide to come back.


#2. Be the Best of Who You can:

Another way to get back your ex is to be the best of who you are.

Don’t fake your life to please anyone. Just be original.

Your past boyfriend/girlfriend may have left because of your fake life.

If that is not really the reason, then don’t worry. Just be yourself. Don’t try to change to another person. Except if you had been living a fake life or a life that displeases him/her, then it is time to make amendment.

Make yourself happy.

Don’t allow the experience to overwhelm you.

When you feel depressed, go out and socialize with friends.


#3. Help hi/her when he/she needs Your Help:

Another way to make your ex come back is to help him/her when he/she needs your help.

Although the relationship is over, but, if you must get him/her back, then you have to assist them when they need your help.

Don’t say ‘ I don’t have anything to do with you again’.

Just do it to show him/her that you value everyone. After all, we were thought to love our enemies. But don’t see him/her as your enemy. It hasn’t gotten to that level.



#4. Hide your Emotions:

What do I mean to hide your emotions?

For instance, a lot of people after break up, do post on the social media how they feel for their ex.

Some even go to the extent of blocking their ex on facebook, instagram, etc. just to show how unhappy they are. It is not advisable.


Don’t let him/her know that you feel bad about how he/she left.

Hide your feelings.

Just pretend as if nothing happened.


#5. Exercise Patience:

Your ex will come back to you but it is only a matter of time.

Just exercise a little patience.

Don’t rush into a new relationship yet. The relationship is not yet over.

Wait patiently for your him/her, he/she will surely come back.

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Romance / How To Forget Your Ex Boyfriend Or Girlfriend by Damianbes20(m): 9:19pm On Nov 03, 2019
It is not always easy to forget an ex. The old memories you shared together will always be remembered.

Most of the time, when a relationship is over, some ex become to arrogant to their partner, and most of the time they...continue reading

Dating And Meet-up Zone / Signs your ex will stil come back by Damianbes20(m): 9:44pm On Oct 23, 2019
Here are signs your ex boyfriend or girlfriend may return even after breaking up with you.
signs your ex will eventually come back

Will Ex Ever Come Back? 8 Signs Your Ex Will Eventually Come Back

#1. Your Ex Calls You Often:

If your ex starts calling you after a while of breaking up, he/she will eventually come back.

They initiate conversation and often respond quickly especially when you are chatting with him/her on the social media.


#2. They Look for a way to meet you Again:

If you notice your ex asking you questions like; where are you now? Are you less busy now? etc. He/she is looking for an opportunity to meet you again and he/she will eventually come back.

Continue reading...

Romance / The Best Happy Birthday Gifts For Him by Damianbes20(m): 3:57pm On Oct 10, 2019
What are the best birthday gifts for a man? My female friend wants to know.

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Romance / Is He/she Your Soulmate? How To Know You Have Finally Found Your Soulmate by Damianbes20(m): 4:58pm On Oct 02, 2019
What does Soulmate really mean?

A soulmate is someone you feel comfortable with.

Someone you share your feelings, Your burden, and love with.

He/she is that man or woman who understands you far better than others.

Although, many a times, we end up with fake lovers. But they are many ways to identify a fake lover.


6 Signs that shows you have found your soulmate.




1. You feel happy and comfortable with each Other:

When you have finally found your soulmate, you will always be happy being around him/her.

Because you have been connected emotionally and even spiritually, you feel relaxed when you are together.

Your soulmate makes you feel comfortable. They are the source of your joy and happiness.



2. He/she is your Strength:

Your life partner seems to be your strength.

He/she is always there for you in times of hardship and struggles.

Instead of being drained as a result of toxic relationship, he/she energizes you.

They become the source of your pride in the relationship or friendship. Continue Reading...

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Religion / Re: God's Love For Humanity- God Loves You by Damianbes20(m): 3:56pm On Oct 02, 2019
That's true

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Religion / God's Love For Humanity- God Loves You by Damianbes20(m): 3:44pm On Oct 02, 2019
How will you describe God's love for man?

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Romance / 10 Differences Between Love And Crush by Damianbes20(m): 12:39pm On Sep 06, 2019
Crush is defined as a short termed feelings for someone. It is all about liking someone base on their physical appearance. It is never a real feelings. Whereas,

Love is a deep affection for something or someone. Love is everlasting and not short termed like infatuation.

A crush may last for some years but not everlasting. You need to keep your crush interested just to sustain the feelings. And also, a crush can turn into love. It normally takes time for that to happen if the feelings are properly nurtured. Continue reading...
Romance / Relationship, Dating And Friendship Site that will help your relationship by Damianbes20(m): 8:01pm On Aug 09, 2019
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Romance / How To Tell If A Guy Likes You by Damianbes20(m): 12:35pm On Jul 12, 2019
Some guys are too hard to understand when it comes to love right? Do you think there is any magic you need on how to tell if a guy likes you?

Most of the time, it is hard to know whether someone likes you especially when you have not known each other.

Some guys are too shy to express their feelings or approach a girl they admire. He rather prefer starring at you afar, or spend the whole day thinking about you. Some guys can be silly when they like a particular girl. Some go to the extent of wanting to know everything about her at a time.

A girl once complained to her friends about a particular guy on facebook, who sent her a friend request which she accepted. After two weeks of becoming friends on facebook, they began to chat.

After a week, the guy began to ask her so many questions about herself which she found so irritating but decided to answer some and ignored the rest.

On the day she celebrated her birthday, the guy took out his time to design one of her facebook pictures and posted it on her timeline with an inscription “Happy Birthday Angel”. Not only that, the guy had been disturbing her ever since they became friends on facebook.

From the short story above, it is very clear that the guy likes her but she was not sensitive enough to notice that.

Nevertheless, they are 13 Signs that shows a guy really like you without your consent. You may see it as something strange or silly without knowing that he admires you.

Want to know how to tell if a guy likes you? Here we go!

How to Tell If a Guy Likes You #1: He Makes sacrifices for you
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He makes sacrifices for you

Guys love to sacrifice for their loved ones. They will try all their best to make you happy.

If your boyfriend often sacrifice his time, interest or resources just to make you happy, he really likes you.
READ ALSO Signs of immaturity in your relationship.

I could remember what happened in those days in my secondary school, when we were writing our exams, a guy stood up and said to the teacher, “Sir! please I want to ease myself”.

The teacher permitted him and he went out. After one hour, when the exam was over, he came back. When his friends asked him why he stayed so long and even missed the examination? He told them that he went to see his girlfriend who was sick. That he promised to get her some drugs today. That he had to sacrifice his exam in other to save her life”.

The guy was foolish right? That is to tell you the extent guys can go for their loved ones.

#2: He likes to know everything about you
picture of a guy questioning his girlfriend in other to know everything about her. Sign of how to tell if a guy likes you
He will like to know everything about you

Curiosity is natural in every man. When a guy begin to develop interest in you, he will like to know everything about you. He will like to know about your family, interest, likes and dislikes, hobbies, etc.

Most of the time, these questions become irritating especially if you are not sensitive as a woman.

#3: He helps or assist you always:
Picture of a guy helping his girlfriend. Another sign of how to tell if a guy likes you
He will assist or help you

When a man likes you, he supports you. Anytime he sees you in a difficult situation, he will always come to help you out. It is a sign that shows he likes you.

If he is your co-worker, he will always come around to know the areas he can assist you. He will probably ask you questions like-Can I help you?, is there anyway I can assist you? If he does this often, he likes you.
Continue reading...

Romance / How do we express love? by Damianbes20(m): 6:38am On Jul 03, 2019
What is the best way to express love?
Romance / What are the mistakes we make in new relationships? by Damianbes20(m): 12:09am On Jun 26, 2019
What are the costly mistakes people make in a new relationship?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / 7 Things That Can Destroy Your Relationship Without Remedy. by Damianbes20(m): 10:21am On Jun 22, 2019
Relationship is one of the major things that bonds every individual together. It is something we cannot do without.

Being in a loving relationship is everyone's priority but they are factors that can militate against your healthy relationship.

Do you know that they are certain things that are capable of destroying your relationships without your consent? Everyone wants to have a healthy relationship with the right person. No one wants to be in a toxic relationship but how can this happen if you can't figure out certain things that can ruin your relationship and cause you to loose your partner.

Here are the 7 Things that can destroy your Relationship without any Remedy.



1. Lack of Commitment:

Most people start a relationship without any sign of commitment at all. Relationship is for mature men and women. Those who are emotionally mature to handle certain issues when they arise.





2. Lack of Trust:

Trust is very prominent in every Relationship. Lack of it yields no result in a relationship.
If you are the type that finds it difficult to trust people, your relationship will definitely fail.

No Relationship can survive without trust





3. Lack of Time:

There is this saying that goes like this "Whatever you give your time will surely return to you". Having a better Relationship requires time from the both parties.

Time is very essential in our day to day activities. The more you give your relationship your time, the more it develops to its climax.






4. Pride:

Many are too arrogant to admit to their mistakes. You feel too important in the relationship, therefore; there is no need of apologizing when you are wrong.

They are different signs of pride in a relationship. Here are the signs of pride in your relationship

Pride has destroyed many healthy relationships. Many have lost a loving partner because of pride.

Learn how to humble yourself before your partner. Let the word "Am sorry" never depart from you whenever you do something wrong. Humble yourself and save your loving relationship.






5. Unnecessary expectations:

Everyone has needs and wants. We all have what attracts us, not only that, but we all expect our loved ones to be loyal to us.

When this expectations of loyalty and perfection gets out of hand it becomes something else.

Don't expect your partner to be perfect. He/she must make mistakes. There is no perfect human-being on earth. Don't expect your partner to know everything at a time.

A lady who is dating a shy guy should know that it will take time for him to open. Ladies consider this signs while dating a shy guy.






6. Unfaithfulness:

Not being faithful in a relationship is worse than break up. Why do you start what you cannot finish. They are many things you shouldn't do in a new Relationship no matter the type of Relationship it is.

Running around from one man or lady to the other without been caught is not a sign of smartness but it will definitely ruin your relationship.







7.Dishonesty:

Everyone loves a partner who is honest. Honesty is the best policy they said.
Not being straight forward is capable of destroying your relationship or friendship. Your partner will begin to see you as one who is not trustworthy.

The worst thing that can happen to anyone is to loose trust in the sight of his/her friends or loved ones.



CONCLUSION:

Every good Relationship is capable of being destroyed at any time. Be mindful of the things you do and those you share your relationship life with. It is not a bad thing to tell your friends about your relationship but it must have a limit.

Lay aside anything that will stand as an obstacle to your loving relationship. They are people who are waiting for you to end the relationship that they may come in. Don't take your partner for granted. Value what you have (your partner) and enjoy your relationship.

Romance / 10 Signs That Shows It Is Time To End A Relationship. by Damianbes20(m): 12:59pm On Jun 21, 2019
Toxic Relationships drains. It is better to end a relationship that makes no positive impact in your life than to remain in a cage (wrong relationship) with a toxic partner.

To end a friendship or relationship does not necessarily mean you are not capable of sustaining it, rather it is a way of setting yourself free from a wrong partner.

Many go into relationship only to find out that they are with the wrong person. They are signs that shows you are with the wrong person in a relationship.

It is better to end a Relationship at the initial stage than to end up in divorce after marriage. See also five reasons why people make the wrong choice in marriage. The fact is that you are the driver of your life. You determine who stays and who goes out.

Here are the signs that shows it is time to end your relationship.


1. There is lots of criticism from your partner:

One who truly love you will not criticize you, rather he/she will correct you in a loving manner. If your relationship is full of criticism then it is high time you put an end to it.

You ought to enjoy your relationship with your partner and not endure it. Relationship is not an avenue for criticism.





2. Constant quarrels and arguments:

Every relationship has its own challenges. The difference between your relationship and that of your friend is how you handle certain things.
If your relationship is full of quarrels and arguments, it may be a clear sign that shows you and your partner are not compatible.





3. He/she abuses you often:

A partner who abuses you in a relationship will do same when you get married. Be it sexual abuse, mental or any form of abuse, it is totally wrong.

Anyone who claims to love you but does not respect you nor your privacy is not worthy to be with you. Therefore, cut sure relationship and move on with your life.




4. Constant cheating in the relationship:

A partner who is not faithful in a relationship stage will never be faithful in marriage. Remember, marriage is for better for worse. Can you endure it if you should come back one day and see your husband or wife with another person on your matrimonial bed?




5. You are being taken for granted:

A good partner will always value his/her partner. You can never please anyone who takes you for granted. If your partner often take you for granted, discuss it with him/her. If he/she refuse to listen to you then go on and end the relationship.






6. You feel drained whenever you are with your partner:

A loving relationship ought to energize you and not drain you. If you always feel tired or not happy when and after being with your partner, it shows you are not compatible. It may be because of his/her attitude that makes you unhappy whenever you are together.
If you can't cope with it any longer then go on and end the relationship.





7. He/she does not value your opinion:

You are so important as your partner is. If he/she does not value or accept your advice then you are with the wrong person.
Any person or partner who look down on you will never make a good marriage.




8. You don't love him/her anymore:

You cannot remain in a relationship with someone you don't have feelings for anymore. When your love for someone departs, your spirit cannot walk together with him/her anymore.





9. The relationship is not balanced:

One person is benefiting from the relationship whereas the other is not. Such relationship is called "Parasitic relationship".

Every relationship ought to be balanced and not one sided. Even if you don't have anything to offer, contribute immensely for the success of the relationship.





10. You have totally become an option to him/her:

Those who make you an option are those who don't know your worth. You cannot make your partner your priority but you are an option to him/her. It is not wise.

If you are not important to him/her in the relationship, then put an end to it.




CONCLUSION:

Figure out what you cannot tolerate if you should get married to your partner. If you find those displeasing things in your partner and you know you cannot cope with it, then end the relationship. Never forget that no one is perfect not even you yourself. But your joy and happiness is the ultimate. Therefore; cut off any relationship that will take away your joy.

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