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Owliver:
no am not mad. are you? besides we've settled the matter.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Shey the guy suppose stand as the girl dey scatter him properties?

Na to beat the devil Comot for her body na! [/color]

JeffreyJamez:
..of course everyone will blame the guy na .....rubbish, he no beat her well sef.. mchew..

Destroy my property, I go destroy your destiny.

Owliver:
because your husband begs for what he paid for doesnt mean others will beg. you callme a wife beater lol. i forgive you for that

efonat:
[size=30pt]ode!!!![/size]

Sayelabola:
But wait my sister, a married man has right to his wife full loyalty and everything that belongs to her, remember?

Sex starvation has never solve any issue between a couple, and it never has a good ending as well, because sex is a marital food.

Starvation of sex among married couple is like denying oneself from air, water and food...who can survive it?

It is better for a man to devote himself to practicing celibacy and not married than to be married, wife is around healthy but denies her husband sex.

I agree that this is usually as a result of marital issues or problem between the couple, they can as well settle their scores through other means but not through sex starvation or denial.

May God help our ladies.

ANANABA000:
Why would a woman deny her husband sex?
Isn't it part of the marriage contract?
Doesn't she have blood and hormones flowing in her veins?

My take is that if she isn't getting it outside the home then it shouldn't be hard to open her kind for her man.

Besides, let's hear hubby's side of the story otherwise your Sister brought this on herself.
By the way, nice "pair" she's got there.

Hades2016:
I am so silly lol

josite:
the man is too nice.jus this dis.they didnt tell ur sister ,she is there to supply him with good sex?

bastien:
some lady are just wicked, maybe u have jam yet, after devil fear women!

xtervaganza:
they both deserve each other. Don't get me wrong, I'm married and I won't cheat on my wife.


But this woman is a devil herself. She left her hubby and kids for days to go sleep with another man


And she lied about a job trip. A job she had lost since march


They are both senseless and evil

damogul:
The pathological report does not have to say that specifically. As long as it attributed cause of death to water In the head then medically speaking the only water in the head issue is known as dilutional hyponatremia.

bastien:
lol, I'm not saying beating her is right, maybe the man have anger issue thou, but don't u think she must have been denying him sex frequently? Ooh u didn't thought about that....


What will make a house wife to be tired? Is it because of the plate, cloth n water she fetched? Or because she was bored? And what happened to the busy man, why is he not tired?


I'm not a Christian either, but I know the Bible speak very well of submission and faithfulness.

Let the man get a second wife, since the first has failed to do one of her primary duties as a wife

damogul:
My dear I am sure u do not know more than the pathologist does. It is clearly stated WATER IN THE HEAD. Not not any fluid but WATER. cerebral oedema is general but specicically her pathologist stated dilutional hyponatremia as cause of her death. Perhaps you need to look that up before you tag me a fraud or a hypocrite.

CopyLearner:
how did the lover contribute to her death? The husband is a violent man. They said they didn't attribute her death to violent marks on her body. She must have received other beatings prior to the day of death. But this autopsy does attribute her death to head injury. Remember he pushed her aside and went to bed. She go don knack her head, causing the leakage in her head.

mukhcech:
Many people dont know that some womenn can turn a seeminly gentle man to a beast. Women know this fact.

HaneefahRN:
What is cerebral oedema? Causes and complications

What is cerebral oedema? Causes and complications .


Let me break it down for you cos you are sounding very ridiculous with your obvious hypocrisy. I will do your daughters a favour of not wishing them this kind of situation where they will judged and slut- shamed by people who have no knowledge of what really happened and even blamed for their deaths. And this isn't about being emotional but being reasonable and not hypocritical


If you had read the write-up with an open mind. You would see the facts laid out.

What I could deduce from the write up was.

She died as a result of respiratory seizure. I want to believe what they meant by 'water in the head' is cerebral oedema which can be caused by trauma.


So its, head injuries which lead to cerebral oedema (water in the head) which lead to respiratory seizure and finally her death.



It is that simple. Her death could very much have been as a result of domestic violence.

Let the police and all involved continue their investigations.

lebrotin:
Can you go ahead and hold the man responsible...typical mentality from obinrin abeyin to

xtervaganza:
if anything, this proves and in a way vindicates the man .


The woman was sleeping with the man when she lied when she told her hubby work took her to abuja. A job she had left since march



I no pity the woman again jare



Na oloshi sef

oshaosha2014:
She chose to marry him in the first place so she's gonna have to carry her cross. And if the situation becomes unbearable or life threatening, then it is my prerogative to remove her from that situation for a while, and not outrightly removal from her marriage. I don't want no prostitute as sister, so she will eventually go back to her marriage and face her life with her hubby.

bastien:
well your post was one sided, it is only a wicked wife that will deny her hubby sex when she is not doing any work. I'm very sure she be house wife!


Why didn't u think the supposed lady is getting fuckedddd outside? Why won't she feel the urge to have sex with her hubby, when she agreed to marry him she didn't notice his powerful sexual urge? If it was to be the man not touching her, or denying her sex... U will be the first to point finger at the man, accusing him of having sexual affairs outside.


If you find the one submissive offensive, they ask God to take it away from the Bible.

Many men are monsters. They wait till marriage before showing their true colour. For some, they learnt it from their father, for others, they feel being a monster is synonymous to being a man.

At the end of the day, they chose the woman when they can as well choose to marry a man.

woblow1:
Many woman can turned a complete gentleman into a big monster after getting married to them, it takes a lot of discipline and determination for a man not to beat them, majority of them are not a wife material, the funny thing is that they will behave normal with you till you marry them before they will started showing you the true colour, we only blamed the men,but women also need to know how to respect and submit to the husband

Hades2016:
nice talk brother , I don't know the reason why a woman will deny her husband from doing the thing

greatjoey:
The husband went a bit far though. But your sister ain't any free of the blame. How would you refuse your husband sex except in some exceptional cases. Sex means so much to a man when he needs it I am sure, this did not happen at the first denial. It must have been recurrent. Address the issue from the root by advising your sister to make herself available to her husband when he knocks.

victorazy:
Pity your generation.
I don't beat women because I always get the best but don't expect every man to be gentle.
She instigated the beat.
What was her reason for denying the man what he paid for? No reason.

For insulting me, I will foregive you because you don't really know me.

bastien:
no reason to deny him sex, u don't know how it feels when the one u love deny you, money, sex or car key etc.




Don't side the lady, she is totally wrong, she should be submissive and make her hubby happy, even if it makes her sad, like I said before, sometimes both couples won't have the urge at a particular time.... If her hubby started denying her monthly allowance, I wonder what shw will become.