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How many of una dey wear una cultural attire? Let her dress him how she want, small minded pple. Jeans and shirt na ur culturE? Abii suit n tie na ur culture, wear agada and aso' oke everywhere make I see na. Or better still dress like those Itsekiri dancers wen vector carry come him headies kingkong pErformance na. Over sabi na him dey kill monkEy.

SSpeter:
I know this might not be totally right but at least it will make me feel great. Egbon wants to get married in march and automatically I will become the best Man. But I don't want him to get married to her. It is not because of her but the dad.

It all started back in 1998 my dad was having a court case with our supposed in-law over our house. The house was sold to my dad by the late late brother of our supposed in-law. That was even before my dad got married. We have lived in that house for more than 10yrs. My siblings and I were born there. After the death of the brother in 1998 he dragged my dad to court saying his brother was only a benefactor and does not have the legal right to sell the building and their late father made him the executor of His properties according to the late father's will. My parents were partners in business and their office was located at the ground floor of the building where we lived. Their goods were also stored there (plumbing equipment).

Prior to joining the plumbing business, my dad was into commercial inter-state transport services after suffering heavy losses he auctioned what was left and joined my mum in the plumbing business. A year later he was in court with our supposed in-law. The legal battle started in December. Egbon travelled with an aunt of mine who had won a visa lottery the previous year. My sisters were older than the guys. they were already in boarding school. I was the king of the house. My dad suffered many embarrassment at the hands of our supposed in-law. He dragged the case for some years money meant for business ended up in legal battles. My dad had to borrow to pay suppliers. He couldn't not order for new materials anymore and the business eventually collapsed. Extended families gave their support until 2003 when a lagos high court handed our supposed in-law victory

My dad wanted to appeal the judgement but his lawyer told him to get an apartment with whatever he has left. Although my parents thought they hid everything from us. Perhaps my sisters didn't notice because they were not always home but I saw my mum cry severally. I saw the fears in my dad eyes. I listened to their whispering at night I knew we were doomed. Our supposed In-law sold the house to a bank. The bank gave two weeks to evacuate. But before the notice expired they brought sledge hammer and started destroying the building with our properties in it. My dad tried to protest but he was beaten and arrested. For the first time I saw our "Supposed In-law" that day ordering the boys to destroy everything. My dad was later released days after. I went to live with my cousins. My sisters also went to live with my other cousins.

In 2006 I wrote a mail to Egbon I narrated all that happened to him and he vowed he was going to ensure that they payed for it dearly. Few years later, I got admission into the university my parents embraced christ; But I still feel bitter. How time flies, my sisters are both married and it's just me preparing for the life of a bachelor; Until recently my brother told me his plans of getting married, I noticed it because he has visited us more than usual last year and had extensive discussions with my parents. But whenever He came back He still promised my dad that he will never forget all that happened. My dad told him that was in the past but I know what my brother was capable of doing as regards family.

He brought his supposed girl friend (I believe that is all she will ever be) to the house last christmas everyone welcomed her but immediately I set my eyes on her, she looked like the man that was giving orders to tear down our house. I asked her for her surname, when she said ****US, I knew she was the daughter of our long time enemy. When they left, my mum and dad begged me that I shouldn't say anything. That they have forgiven him. She invited my parents and I during the new year but I declined. I have also told my brother I can't be his best man. He thought am joking cos it was via mail. My brother had assured me severally whenever I told him what became of us after then that incident and he told me "I will give up anything to deal with the Man that messed with my family". I guess I will have to tell him the whole truth. But my parents keep calling me every single day to beg. "Saying I should not bring him misery. That they were happy he decided to bring home a cool headed lady".....But I just can't let it go. Unless my brother and I will decide not to be brothers anymore because I will never go to his house if he marries her. I will never associate myself with him or anything that has to do with him.

I have finished typing the truth I want to send the mail to him...I don't know why I am hesitating (I guess my parents will forgive me sooner or later) but he has to know the truth!!!!....i can't dine with my enemy!.....I don't want to see her dad face again....never...I hope am doing the right thing....i think I am.....perhaps I am...

What would Jesus Do? That's all I have to say.

mascot87:
If the guy is not ready to cheat on the babe then this shouldn't be a problem to him. Simple

even if he's not gonna cheat, the fear she has put in him, will prevent him from being honest over the smallest of things, for fear of what she might do. Plus what you don't know can't hurt you, he can cheat n not tell her. What if she is now the one to cheat, what will she do to her self, blow the place up? HypocriSy with a large side of paranoia, that's all I see. You might even be scared of shaking or friendly hugging her sister sef.

Me I still dey 90's I no fit evolve rick 2000 sef!

Better tell him the truth in a fatherly way! If you try sugar coating it, he will go anD try it with his pair, plus teach your child to knock on the door before he enters any room, as parents you can never be too careful, Nanny martha may have taken em up stairs yes, but that don't stop you from locking your door.

[quote author=grad2012 post=41689496]Seriously I can't believe she's saying dat.well if she can't wait let her go cos dis one she is telling u that she will get it some where else, she sounds like a gal without self control and she might end up cheating on you.[/quoteWho knows if she get belle, she wan pin am on u, or she has one STD. Heed!

jauntty:
[size=16pt]Why are most Kenyans always beefing Nigerians and sounding like broken records?!!

Scamming isn't peculiar to Nigerian men, so she should suck-it-up

Hey, atleast she admitted we are more romantic... I wuld have liked her post if she didn't drag ALL Nigerian men to this.
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At least we are better than the European and Asian men that traffic them for prostitution! He gave you the best feeling in the world that's why they never say the end game!

Illuminati no dey sell again oooo!

She go soon get endorSement!

So the mal ware is more like an OS-napper (kidnapper). Holds you at ransom To make payment on bit coin which is untraceable. That's really creative. Gates or Zukerburg should employ whoever made that stuff.

stabilizer:
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Sorry bro, thought you are from the street buh since u ain't which means you've got no idea on wat street entails so pls do not say abt street

Oga stabilizer, no tell me what to n what not to say! You don't know me, but it didn't stop u from talking at me now did it? Plus sef, na u start quote.

TonyeBarcanista:
Tutu is a gay activist

whatever! Tell me the difference btw a gay, a lier, a thief, a fornicator. An adulterer, a gossip, a drunkard and a killer, etc if you die, na the same hell una go meet, don't act like one of those sins aren't yours, fix ur self first!

TonyeBarcanista:
That won't happen in this life nor in after life

Am sure Desmond Tutu said same!

stabilizer:
So how did you connect your 2go with nairaland bros

I tell you say I foLlow for street? Or u see me for 2go?

TonyeBarcanista:
A very useless man and his useless homo daughter

I wonder what you will Do if your child Becomes gay!

It has been confirMed that the street Didn't vote! No internet, no insta only 2go.

x6blade:
imagine if Bolu and Imade become music stars and later fall in love The irony

Very possible, kids nowadays don't fighT their parents battles.

otijah:
B4 dat time davido nd wizzy baba don reign finish

Boluwtife nd Imade fit done dey run the show be den na.

"Anybody that create fake thread, that person will do motor accident" in Emmanuella's voice

It is well!

This year is gone be a good year! Beef here and there, cow dan suffer.

The song no fit pass bout woman! It is well!

The guy think say na Naira bet when him dey predict or him be that prediction Octopus.

Do you have any idea what it takes for one to apologies for a wrong probably done to them? He is the bigger man, if he really went to apologies.

It is weLl!

They are entertainer aren't they? Why we no go wan amusement from feuding forever and neck tearing. E consign me!

It is well!

It is well!

Is she trying to be famous or something?

Long gist, I dey write exam about am nE? We should be careful who we sleep with! At least the Sophie fine but has a shady character. Imagine the chick be like Weird MC with that character. You go just kill yourself.

Damn! Mind blowing

Where this one come from