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The worst thing that I hve done was to bleep three sisters, dated the one in the middle, didn't know the stories she was feeding her two sisters with. All of a sudden she brought the younger one to my house and we got connected instantly. When the sister went back to school she was always coming my house and decided not to go back home one night and we stayed up all through the night fighting KARATE then came their eldest sister too, who really wanted to know me, we met at my office cos she came marketing and probably had seen my pix on her sister's phone. Excuse me, are u Damoche? Got connected too. She waited for four solid hours till I closed from work, went to a bar, got high and went home together, U can Imagine when d YAWA BURST!!!!!! Wasn't funny at all!!!!!! They all wanted it dough but we are best of enemies today, Guess wot? I moved out of the area.

Release Al-mustapha!! He has suffered too much.

At that age, JJ is better than Mikel, Rabiu Ibrahim etc we have today, Nice one JJ, at least we'll see his dribbles once again, Abeg where I fit watch that tournament on TV?

I am already out!

an u imagine her post to me today,

Her: I left my friend and took him to a place in maitama. Wen he finished, he started askin me out and pressurizing me cos we've been friends for sometime now. He said its cos he loved me dat was why he became my friend.
Her: He suggested we go to a club or just hang out last nite but i refused using work as excuse. But he said we are spending dis nite and weekend together and no one needs to knw if i mind so much.
Her: Thing here is dat d guy is single and rich but i don't love him though i liked him wen we were just friends but now i think i have to let go of d friendship instead of u.
Mine: Baby, u must be crazy for telling me this,

Sorry guys, I couldn't come online ysday cos I had more pressing matters to attend to in da office, So as we were discussing she talked so much about trust that I just ned to trust that she is scared of loosing me blah blah blah. I made her understand that when there is an iorta of mistrust in a relationship then that r/ship is good as gone, Can u imagine telling me ysnight that the BOSS wanted to see her ysternight? I am to spend a week at her abode, I have to see her face to face to tell her my mind. I am fed up of all this drama. I am to spend some time with her next and I have to be honest with myself here. I will go to her base without telling her I would be coming, She has been sending me all manner of text and her friends are not making things easier for me, This I won't do over the phone cos she needs to convince me beyond any reasonable doubt else I am out! When I get there, The next is give me ur phone, see those things then I am on the next flight to lagos, period!

Guys, I am going to give u a summary of what we discussed in the wee hours of this morning cos we talked about a whole lot of things, And Halleluyah! my HIV test was -ve. This is the most important of all cos my health is the most important. She old me she couldn't sleep cos a whole lot was running through her mind and that she needed to talk to me so as to have her mind and groove back with her man. She initially called me around 7PM just to ask if I have eaten. I have really not been thinking of all that has transpired cos my pointer is tilting to the door to make her go.

When she called me, she talked about so many things but the most important is that she knows what is running through my mind and she is so serious about US that she isn't dating any of these guys physically. I said so, spiritually u are! I ain't a fool to think, To be contd.

I'll keep u guys posted about what she discussed with me for 4 hours on phone this morning,

Thank u frank3.16. That is the way it ought to be, I use to feel I have a near perfect relationship before now, God!

Thank you guys, I really appreciate your response, I don't know if she is acting a script cos I now intend to go visit her without inviting myself, Once I get there and see any more info after the day she convinced me then I am out, cos she has told me so many things now that I am even more confused called me on phone crying and her friends too has been calling, I intend to go for an HIV test today after office hours, Kai, why is this happening to me now, I have to face reality here, My health comes first before anything cos I need to map out a plan of either my exit or correction of abnormalities, We have really gone so far in this relationship with a lot of sacrifices, I am already thinking of a plan B now, I can't even concentrate at the office,

I ain't castigating anybody just airing my mind, pls.

Guys, any of u could be in my shoes and I will give you my advice if it is what I can respond to not insulting you. It is annoying when one seeks meaningful reasoning from matured people and what they end up doing is insult you, Haba! when are we going to change into responsible people instead of insulting others, PLS stop the insult!

She is chatting with me as I write this telling me how much I mean to her and that she is so scared now that she knows that I am not happy and she is scared of loosing me, blah blah blah, I just didn't say anything cos I love her like crazy and she is seriously hurting my feelings, And I keep wondering why she is so hysterical about my leaving her, before she came visiting she was just talking to me about she isn't getting any younger oo and look at someone who wants to settle down, I hear so many crazy things about our ladies in the NAVY which I confirm from one of her friend( Married) since her friend also said the same thing,

My fiancee is an officer in the NAVY and decided to spend her leave with me. She seldom gist me about her boss in the office how the man is fond of her bla bla bla, She told me so many things about this guy that I said there are nice people like that if u are lucky to work with them. In one of those nights we were together, the man sent her a text that he wants to have phone intimacy with her. We use to be so free with our phones that she answers my call anytime I ain't there and I try so hard not to do that to her since I do trust her. Kai, doubts began to set in cos I ended up running thru the text in her phones and saw what I shouldn't even see, love text messages btw herself and her boss and she tells me there isn't anything going btw them

In one of the nights she was making a phone call and she felt probably I was asleep , she was talking to some guy and she didn't know that I was listening to her conversation another on ending her call she said SAME TO U, the guy probably insisted till she told him she cares for him too, I turned to her to see me "I wasn't sleeping" and she told me that it is one of her online friends blah blah blah, What I only told her was to be very careful, but I know it will nvr stop cos her boss is sleeping with her from all indication, so I think and this is making me go crazy, and she is denying the fact.

Is she lying? Nairalanders pls help!

Since you have made up your mind, why bothering us?

Since you have made up your mind, why bothering us?

I once lived in a peaceful plateau state. The arrested military men should be shot if found guilty! Can u imagine? What happened to TO-LOVE AND PROTECT?

@(190),
When we see such information all we need do is share the information,