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Romance / Re: Upload Your Pix Here Lets See How Handsome Or Pretty You Are by damselabi(f): 2:17pm On Dec 03, 2014
idris4r83:
babe u 2 much o. How are u doing?
fyn tank u
Romance / Re: Upload Your Pix Here Lets See How Handsome Or Pretty You Are by damselabi(f): 8:33am On Dec 03, 2014
Janeify:
lol...seriously, I'm not hyping ...that's the truth, you look good
Tank u dear
Romance / Re: Upload Your Pix Here Lets See How Handsome Or Pretty You Are by damselabi(f): 7:44am On Dec 03, 2014
Janeify:
you try plenty sef...where were you during miss nairaland contest?
grin...dats hyping o

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Romance / Re: Upload Your Pix Here Lets See How Handsome Or Pretty You Are by damselabi(f): 7:36am On Dec 03, 2014
samuelzion:


very beautiful..woow
thank u
Romance / Re: Upload Your Pix Here Lets See How Handsome Or Pretty You Are by damselabi(f): 6:52am On Dec 03, 2014
I try small

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Romance / Re: If U Can't Answer This Questions, Then We Can't Go Into Marriage by damselabi(f): 6:55pm On Nov 27, 2014
kakakoshina:
1. Why do you love me?
2. Why do you want to spend the rest of your life with me?
3. Will you do your best to keep the romance alive?
4. Will you grow with me, and not away from me?
5. Will you stick through the rough times?
6. Are u willing to loss some battle in order to keep Peace?
7. Can you promise to put us ahead of everything else?
8. Will you be a great parent?
9. Will you be sure to remind me how much you love me regularly?
10. Can you promise to do all you can to keep that spark alive?
11. Will u support me when I can't carry myself?
12. Will you promise to continue to pursue your personal goals and dreams?
13. Will u not allow yourself to let Go?
14. Can you promise me that if my time is cut short, you’ll continue to live on for the both of us?

hehehe. ...den she ll ansa in affirmation n u get married n discover d shocker of ur lyf.Wot r u expecting her to say....

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Romance / Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by damselabi(f): 6:39pm On Nov 27, 2014
sunshine111:



Your reply is way too general, Im a nice girl, I know, I dont do drugs, party, drinks, clubs, I love God and im a christian, But im also assertive, confident bold, intelligent, pretty, very ambition, I have big dreams, and i work to achieve them, being nice doesnt mean you dont have a will , it just means that you have a whole lot of sense and are very cautious[color=#770077][/color]
My sis I get ur point at least we ve somtins in common...bt hw can dey just put all d blame on us lyk we were d ones dat killed Jesus, kinda annoying.Only trying to say dia r nice girls too bt dey get her still take her 4 granted she moves on wit her lyf den dey start complaining.
Romance / Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by damselabi(f): 8:13am On Nov 27, 2014
ATOB:


Damselabi.
Thats what I would like to discuss with you.
Is that okay?
Sure.... it is
Romance / Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by damselabi(f): 7:41am On Nov 27, 2014
[quote author=ATOB post=28382069]

You would like to know him?
I would like to know you too.[/quotelol....R u one of dem?
Romance / Re: Is Love At First Sight Real? by damselabi(f): 4:08am On Nov 27, 2014
Mercelina:
Is it actually possible to fall in love with a person right from the moment you set your eyes on him/ her? Continue reading and comment from ur view abt love at first sight.
http://www.inspiredesther.com/2014/05/love-at-first-sight-how-true-is-that.html?m=1
Dias no such tin as love at 1st sight its attraction...dats y u assume to b in luv n wen d person opens dia mouth u pick race.
Romance / Re: How Many Boyfriends Can A Girl Have?? by damselabi(f): 4:04am On Nov 27, 2014
Dear ladies,somtyms am ashamed to call some ppl women.more dan one bf on top wetin...Money, brazillian hair or wot, after getting dat wot else dey kip straffing us n u claim u ve seen Maga wtout considering consequences.Den we later complain of looking 4 a hubby. its high tym we start respecting ourselves n stop trading our bodies 4 personal gain...haba

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Romance / Re: How Many Boyfriends Can A Girl Have?? by damselabi(f): 3:55am On Nov 27, 2014
DrGroove:
Boyfriends.. As many as she can handle and give them number. ..One main Oga and some magas and mugus. No be only guys waka come,girls were also informed. Men have proven to us that monogamous relationships ain't possible,only foolish girls put all their hearts in one man.If main Oga disappoints, the no 2 automatically becomes Main man.....
N if d No2 disappoints d trend continues ,N dey all kip straffing her.. u tink guys r dumb? Its high tym we ladies start respecting our body n stop feeding it to evry tom, dick n harry Indis part of d world a polygamous lady is a LovePeddler

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Romance / Re: How Many Boyfriends Can A Girl Have?? by damselabi(f): 3:50am On Nov 27, 2014
saintvc:
if guys can have 6(girlfriend, backup,spare tyre and plan b) , why cant girls
Cos in dis part of d world having more dan one as a ladt makes u a LovePeddler .
Romance / Re: Ladies Tell Me Why You Don't Like Nice Guys... Ladies ONLY. Guys Read! by damselabi(f): 3:43am On Nov 27, 2014
ATOB:
Ladies not only dislike nice guys.
They dont want you to be honest.
They dont want you to be a lover boy.
They dont like you to be open minded.
They dont like dull boys.

This is what they like;

They like bad boys who feign decency. They start to convince themselve he is cool.
They like you to pretend.
They like you to lie.
They like tongue twisters.
They dont like you to tell them sexual things. They like you to pretend you dont like it.
They like you to be an angel in disguise.
They dont like you to kiss them the first time they visit.
They like you to pretend you dont know anything about the hole between their legs.

I really dont know if im making sense because its confusing thinking about them.
Focus on your goals and what you want to make out of life.
Women are ultimately secondary trust me.


Disclaimer; What I wrote up there doesnt apply to all girls before they bite me.
Tank God u said nt all...bt seriously who wuld lyk a dull guy....Bt if u see a guy wit the oda attributes I wuld lyk to knw him, cos I was abt saying guys don't like gud girls eida they take u 4 granted.
Romance / Re: I'll Love To Be Married By July 2015 But I Don't Even Have A Girlfriend by damselabi(f): 6:03am On Nov 25, 2014
endie44:
My brother cousin, who is my age mate, got married yesterday to his amazing love.

Naturally everyone started telling me that they know my turn is coming soon, at least by next year.. and you i just say yes ooo! Na so na! Meanwhile i dont even have a babe. How will i get one. luv her unconditionally and vice versa Date her and ask her to be my partner for eternity

The problems is that i dont even know how to woo a lady...O Lord God, Please come to my aid. I look to you for Mercy, Grace, Love n Favour for I'm really troubled about this and i need your advice convince a lady to be
Stop giving urself a tym frame 4 marriage, its a lyf tym tin.Try starting as friends, get to knw each oda 1st.A serious girl knws wot she wants doesn't nid to b sweet talked N pls make sure u r sincere urself.
Romance / Re: Women And Money: Any Hope For Broke Guys? by damselabi(f): 5:51am On Nov 25, 2014
Drahmah:

In a world where money is given so much importance, and the value of everything is measured in terms of it, it becomes difficult for those who lack or don't have enough of it (money) to matter in the scheme of things.

Everything in the world today has a price tag including love. I remember back in the days, it was totally different. I mean, love was difficult to find, but it wasn't because of money, rather it was largely based on emotions and people's ability to connect. If you were born before the new millennium, then, you understand what I'm saying. Then, spending money was not an issue in relationships because it wasn't the foundation on which it was built. If you spent money, it was solely because you wanted to, not because you needed to.

I remember the first relationship I had; I didn't spend a dime on this girl (who was supposedly the hottest in college at the time). The only time I spent on her was when I got her a gift (a set of earrings) which I did without breaking a sweat. She didn't ask me for nothing...not even $1. And this wasn't the case with me alone, but with every of my friend at the time. You may argue that this happened because we were all still very young, but how many younger men today (both in and outta college) can boastfully say they're in a relationship where they don't have to spend to keep the girl around? How many young girls today even want to date boys within their age circle? Things have completely changed, and with each passing moment, getting worse. Young women no longer date people of their age circle because they believe that most of them aren't financially stable enough to take care of them...but you look at it all critically, and you realize that The responsibilities that come with having a girl these days, even makes it more difficult for financially impoverished guys to find the courage to ask a girl out. You have to buy her weaves (which she changes every 2 or 3 weeks), take her shopping as often as every once in a month, irrespective of how much you earn, buy her toiletries and stuff, sometimes, you she even wants you to pay her rent/feed her. It's almost like you have to take full responsibility of the girls' upkeep...

And one begins to wonder---where do broke guys look to for love in a world such as ours? Does this trend mean they don't get to date or get married? Or do they have to wait till they make money before they get some loving? I mean, what happened to dating because you actually have real feelings for someone? I think It's crazy really, guys. Please, share your thoughts and experiences with me---do broke guys ever date? Ladies, would/have you dated any broke guys?



Source: www.elcrema.com/2014/11/11/women-and-money-any-hope-for-broke-guys/
A broke guy won't remain broke 4eva...Lazy is wot shudnt b condoned.

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Romance / Re: Friendship With One Nairaland Babe Is Enough For Me. But Who? by damselabi(f): 5:43am On Nov 25, 2014
ireneony:
post your pix, make we access you
hehehe. ..wot does pix ve to do wit been friends.
Romance / Testing Ur Bf by damselabi(f): 1:42pm On Nov 23, 2014
Hey peeps, wuld lyk to knw if its a gud tin to test ur bf.Proberbly pretend to b anoda girl.Whats ur take on dis.
Romance / Re: I Need Real Emotions!! by damselabi(f): 7:59am On Nov 23, 2014
Ikebesupa:
I am honestly wondering why some good lads finds it difficult to atleast get a decent girl for relationship. I am not talking about guys here, but i am talking about my humble self. Everyday i kept on asking this very question.... Is it that hard these days to get a girl? I have been single for a while and truly in need of a girl i can call mine. Please get in touch as i am pretty much single and ready to mingle
Hehehe I tot only girls worry abt dat...Its nt entirely our fault bt u start showing a guy love n he starts taking u 4 granted.Bt am sure if u r decent urself, it shudnt b dat hard.
Education / Re: Most Difficult Universities To Make First-Class In Nigeria? by damselabi(f): 9:24pm On Nov 03, 2014
Profcamsey:
who is this mumu? Come taste eksu, u go know say God no get brother. Reppin my skul.
U r so onpoint even if u achieve d 1st class dey ll magically put u in a 4.48 gp.
Education / Re: Most Difficult Universities To Make First-Class In Nigeria? by damselabi(f): 9:23pm On Nov 03, 2014
Profcamsey:
who is this mumu? Come taste eksu, u go know say God no get brother. Reppin my skul.
U r so onpoint even if u achieve d 1st class dey ll magically put u in a 4.48 gp.
Romance / Re: Most Nigerian Girls Are Bad Kissers by damselabi(f): 6:30pm On Nov 01, 2014
kendrick93:
trust me when i say i'm a gud kisser.. don't mean to brag but most naija girls i hav cum across don't live up to my standard
Tank god u said d ones u ve met cos am sure u ve nt kissed up to1% of Nigerian girls.

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Romance / Re: Power Of A Woman by damselabi(f): 1:58pm On Oct 26, 2014
ERCROSS:


Sister..
U r wrong abt that...
The devil was able to tamed Eve first because she knows she was weaker and softer in mind and heart..

And as for the topic..
Truly..
Women are great ...
U r rong...he gave her 1st cos he knw he cud get to adam tru her.Dats y if a home is peaceful check d kinda woman dia n if its d oda way round ask her too.


Romance / Power Of A Woman by damselabi(f): 1:23pm On Oct 26, 2014
One of the saddest & most disappointing facts of
life is
how powerful women are yet they don't know it.
If
women knew how powerful & influential they are
& if they
used their great power & influence, this world
would be a
better place. My sisters just imagine; a man will
cross
oceans, climb mountains, cross boarders, walk
miles,
fight battles, work for decade, spend every
penny, brave
the night & risk his life & everything to be with a
woman.
The Devil's target was the fall of Adam. But the
Devil
attacked Eve first not because she was weaker,
but
because the Devil knew that Eve had the
strongest
influence on Adam. Ladies the influence you have
on
yours marriage & husband is enormous. But the
Devil
wants you to live as hopeless, defeated &
powerless
victims. But God wants you to know that you
have the
power to build your men & bless your marriages.
No Devil
in hell can stand against a praying virtuous
woman. "The
wise woman builds her house, But the foolish
tears it
down with her own hands." Proverbs 14:1. -
Hpy Sunday
Romance / Re: Do I Have The Right To Collect My Phone Gift Back From My Ex? by damselabi(f): 1:15pm On Oct 26, 2014
jidestroud:
I guess i have to count my loss then. cry cry cry
And i really did loved her cry cry cry cry
life goes on!!! undecided
and ofcos, no more phone giving undecided
N d good guy turns bad cos of 1 persons stupidity.Painful bt it dosent mean u shudnt do d needful in ur coming relationships just b careful.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Drop Ur Bb Pin You Might Just Be Lucky To Meet Your Life Partner by damselabi(f): 8:15am On Oct 24, 2014
Hmmmm
Romance / Re: Ladies, How Much Love Do You Have by damselabi(f): 9:30am On Oct 06, 2014
And after struggling wit him he has money n feels u r no longer gud enuf, starts finding faults dat wasn't dia b4.So don't blame d babes dat decide nt to struggle wit ant man.
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Experience Love At First Sight? by damselabi(f): 3:41am On Oct 04, 2014
Dias no such tin as love at 1st sight...its eida attraction or lust.Cos its somtin dat catches ppls attention in anoda person n dats nt Love.Cos at dat point in tym if dat tin was taken away ur supposed luv fades.
Romance / Re: What Do Boys Gain In A Relationship Without Sex? by damselabi(f): 1:14pm On Sep 23, 2014
Its nt only a guy dat spends in a relationship u might say he spends more.Tell dis to d girls who go into relationship 4 d money cos unless he's Dangotes son ion kia.If he's nt comfortable let him take a walk.

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Romance / Re: Letter To All Women by damselabi(f): 10:13am On Sep 18, 2014
Dahmum: Thanks for d time spnt on post dis OP
Uw
Romance / Re: Letter To All Women by damselabi(f): 10:13am On Sep 18, 2014
computerboy: They won't read this now. If it's about flashing green light to guys, you'll see them.

That's why am developing laparotomyphobia (the fear of marrying Nigerian women) wink
Hehehe....so wia wuld u marry frm
Romance / Re: Dating Without Sex Is It Not Possible? by damselabi(f): 5:04pm On Sep 14, 2014
manmade: my beautiful sis ,the rule is still the same from biblical time till date; To whom much is given much is .......
So u r indirectly paying 4 d sex.

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