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eddyland: My annoyance with most men is dat they are too weak, and doze are d types dat mostly reason with dier d**k. Real men reason with dier brains nd neva tek d reasoning or direction of dier d**k in dealin wit gels. A real man too have no time 4 fake gels. Dier ar so many important tins dat shuld be in a real man's head dan wastin his time with doz bitches dt exhibit such. Many men Bleep's up in d name of hunting unda skirt pleasure nd turn themsevs rags nd bufoons to one nasty,uncultured nd uncivilized bitch. Stop stoopin too low, cos most of dem neva worth is. As a man jst knw u ar d boss.

Les: if ol d men in this world are like me, ol this will never happen because non of them move me cos I get too hardly emotionally attached... She flirt, I flirt, let's see who gets mad first. I cheat, i laugh, she cheats, i kick her a$s outta ma door.. Notin moves me cos i owe nobody!

Finestlex: yeah i know.. in the church though.

Finestlex: yeah i know.. in the church though.

Finestlex: to the best of my knowledge, the word "relationship" is for adults. has to do with two parties with mutual feelings right? strings are attached. if you know what i mean. there might not be sex kicking off but finishing touches comes around as time goes on. if you feel you're not strongly believed in relationship cos of sex or romance involved, check google wherever you are, there must be a convent school around.. or don't go into relationships at all

manmade: u need to add this ; 4 .expect no financial commitment from the guy either as a gift or otherwise.

cidieschat: Very possible if only we will also not spend a dine on u. Dating without money.

maysimsimple: I dont know if i'm obliged to comment here. But anyway, from my own point of view. I dont believe i have come across a girl whom doesnt have a boyfriend! but the issue , the said boyfriend might not be the intimate type. Pardon me, let me leave it for the ladies .....

AfricanApple: yeah u live with dem and always with them 24hours u never can tell what's gonna happen tomorrow

AfricanApple: u have been so deceived. they packed themselves well that u couldn't see anything

AfricanApple: have u ever come across a godfearing person

Daughterzion: Hello there it's kul meeting you

omotayo9177: u r welcome. R u on bbm or whatsapp

latino2swt: playing 'the storm is over' by R Kelly ryt na. It seem lyk i myself was d prb. I misunderstood issues. Truly, i can now see d sunshine. Shout out 2 my ....

latino2swt: This is a true life story...
Not from/about a friend, a brother or a classmate but about myself and my life.

There is this girl(a Nairalander) I love with everything within, outside and around me. We are from the same State but different Local Government Area. I and her elder sister attended the same school. I met her during the December vacation of 2010/2011 academic session. After much persuasion, persistence and with the help of my good friend who was close to her, she granted me audience. We talked and became casual friends thereafter.
Febuary 2011, I proposed but her reaction though pre-assumed did not go well with me. As a man, i gathered courage and launched yet but another failed attempt same month. March same year saw hat-trick of proposal turned down again. My senior on detecting my mood inquired to know what's up. Wholeheartedly, I told him everything. Contrary to what I assumed would be his reaction he laughed and said, 'kid bro, in life good things comes in a challenging way and don't try to prove a point that to be a man is a day's job'. I agreed within me to make a final attempt. I did, this time 'please talk something else' was the reply. Was that really my final attempt? NO! I called daily for six more months telling her that same old story and receiveing that same old feedback.
October 2011, I found my joy. Anytime my phone beeped, I smiled because she was always the one. My life was never the same again. It was then I confirmed that patience though bitter comes with a sweet fruit. Sincerely, I was uplifted physically, morally, emotionally, academically and health-wise. My life was never the same.
Unfortunately, what I have been seeing in Nollywood movies happened in September 2012. Without any quarrel or attempted quarrel, things fell apart. Though it torn me apart, I remained focused. I considered it a battle I must win or die trying. Why? Because I couldn't imagine myself telling another person other than Mm...n YES I DO in the altar when it's time.
I fought with all available means to refix my ever-valued relationship. People were insulted along the way. I can still remember I kept a very good friend at arm's length for telling me that 'while waiting for the desireable, there is nothing wrong moving on with the availables till the desireable is available'. I only forgave him in April 2013 when we(I and my Precious) found out that we were made for each other.
Life was worth living again but recently(last week to be precise), I sensed something better imagined than experience may happen. She doesn't call nor text again. I can observe a slight deviation from the way we used to speak on phone. Our latest 2go conversation ended this way:
Latino: Precious, I love u passionately
Mm..n: thanks but i don't have time for love matter now.

I sincerely love her, this she knows. Since our first meeting in 2010, no matter how intelligent, good-looking, nice, caring, loving etc a girl is, my inner man always tell me 'Yours is 100% better'.


Nairaland n Nairalanders, I strongly believe ur kind words, advice and encouragement can save my relationship. She is one of us(an active nairalander). She will certainly see/read this, Please let her see reasons to leave the part-time friends stuff and embrace reality.

Please LET IT BE BECAUSE OF U, LET IT NOT BE BECAUSE OF U.
Let it be because of u my joy is complete.
Let it not be because of u it move from bad to worst.

I believe in the power of your words even as I remain focus in the words of an English author Alan Alexander Milne, 'Rivers know this: there is no hurry, we shall get there some day'

Thanks my fellow ever-caring Nairalanders...