Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

JoshuaKay:


Ain't really looking for a saint, just wished there could be someone that'll be really honest with u.

JoshuaKay:
At first there was this gal I was so close to back in sec sch, so much intimacy btw us that ppl think we were actually dating. But u know what? We were just close friends.
Sincerely urs, it's not as if I didn't wish we could take it beyond friendship level but two things restrained me;
1. She was very religious n holiness was all over her.
2. I didn't want to lose my friendship with her in case she'd say NO.
But surprisingly, less than a yr after finishing sec sch, she gave birth to a baby boy. I was like "could this be true? could this be d same gal I know in sch or someone else?
I was so disappointed and at d same time regretted dat I never told her my real feelings for her.
Well, life must continue. We remained just casual friends afterwards n I moved on with d promise never to mk d same mistake again in my life.
Finally, I met this gentle beautiful girl at one of d combined church programs we used to have in my diocese n I didn't waste much time to approach her even though it took me a lot of courage to do so. We talked n I really feel good during our conversation but I wasn't able to get her contact number. It took a whole yr b4 we were able to meet again. I was so excited to see her n she was surprised I could still remember n recognise her. From there things got mutual btw us n we started dating(distant relationship).
As time goes on, we knw more abt each other n even knw each other's friends n families. I blvd our love grows younger as days grow older or so to say because of some level of commitment we both showed toward d relationship.
We agreed to maintain a plutonic relationship for d mean time n we maintained this for almost 2yrs.
But things changed when she started a pre-degree program in LAUTECH last yr. Universities nationwide were still on strike but she moved to sch since October last yr all in d name of attending tutorials. As God would have it, I was also given admission to study a 4yr course in UNIBEN dat same October but decided to keep it from her in order to make it a surprise for her when strikes are over.
Unfortunately, as d yr was running to an end so was d communication btw us going to its end. Later she uploaded a picture of her with her new bf on whatsapp n she wrote notes expressing her love 4 him on her status. At this point, I was really heartbroken. I confronted her n she couldn't deny it, some of our close friends tried to settle dis issue btw us but I asked her to do three things that would enable me to be sure of my position with her even though I knew she wouldn't do it.
1. She should upload a picture of my humble self as her dp.
2. She should write on her status stating how much she loved me
3. She should see me anytime she's back from sch.
As presumed, she couldn't do any of them and that confirmed our breakup.
Since then we stopped communicating n I've deleted her number. Until sometime in June when I received this call from a strange number n guess who? It was my ex. Why did she call? She called to warn/advice me on d type of gals I'd be going out with in sch. I was just like 'who r u advice me on something like that and how on earth did u even know that I am in sch since I didn't tell her I got an admission'?
Just early last last month one of my friends from home called to tell me dat my ex had been pregnant. I didn't want to blv at first but not later than 2wks after d news, I saw pictures of her and her newborn baby on facebook.
I called one of her friends to ascertain this n everything I've been told n seen were true. I was so nonplussed.
These experiences have now left me with only one conclusion that:
There's no SAINT GIRL anywhere.

VickyyB:
We understand that some ladies double date; but most times, it's all about dating a rich man with the aim of extorting cash from him while having a boyfriend she love so much.

Ladies, Can you date two guys you love at a go with the same motive?

killjoy:


u so happen to be one of d pipl who still ve courtesy nt to always respond to evey comment. wen i land in ur papas compund with my chopper to ask for ur hand, im sure u wud nt mind me even bein a monkey (not as though im one). btw, dont quote me again.

killjoy:


u so happen to be one of d pipl who still ve courtesy nt to always respond to evey comment. wen i land in ur papas compund with my chopper to ask for ur hand, im sure u wud nt mind me even bein a monkey (not as though im one). btw, dont quote me again.

ColinAdua:



YES!!! Tyler Perry's movies are one of the life scripts I use. The major script is the Holy Scriptures (The Bible) which is not crazy about marriage today, but crazy about Christian EVANGELISM (1 Corinthians 7 : 8, 26, 38. Mark 16 : 15 -18)

I like Tyler Perry's movies because they are mirrors, they are reflections of marriages in our societies today. They exposes the ills and challenges in marriages in our societies today, to get us fully aware, equip and prepared, if we after all wants to tow that uncertain unnecessary path.

Tyler Perry himself is not married at 45, despite being one of the richest African American movie director and producer.

I wish I had watched "Temptation: Confession of a marriage counselor" by 2003, ten years before it was produced and released. I would have been properly prepared when I found myself in almost the same situation like Brice, 10 years before.

Very soon, your eyes will open and you will know that marriage is no JOKE, by then we will know who is a joke between you and me. You will come back here to find consolation in this thread, and if you are sincere and truthful to yourself, you will tell me "I envy you, I wish I can be strong like you"

A lot of my pro-marriage friends with all these unrealistic, unmet, unfulfilled marriage bliss fantasies, usually come back after arguing with me to tell me "Colin I envy you. I wish I can be like you"

Am an old man and I used to be a Christian Marriage counselor, especially in the area of sexual maladjustment/incompatibility. Most people I counseled do not even know that am not married.

I heal marriages. I have been in the forefront. I know the problems of marriages. They are three;
1) Selfishness,
2) Frustrations due to unmet expectations(selfishness),
3) Unwillingness by couples, to bend down, sacrifice and working on their marriages(this is the worst caused by selfishness).

These three problems, are very difficult for a lot of people both Christians and unbelievers to work on. That's why marriage is not worth it today.

People are too selfish today (even the so called born agains) to bend down and work on their marriages, so am better off the way I am. A single.

So, from the experiences of people I counsel, my Bible and my personal target/aim in life, I have come to the realization that marriage doesn't worth it.

Believe me, it doesn't!!

God bless you. [

killjoy:


lmao.... ohhhh u suddenly don't wanna
exchange words ryt... Dats wot happens wen u bite more dan u can chew.

killjoy:


ur funny. trying to get under my skin. ur tokin lyk gals usually do - without logic, full of sentiment n atimes senseless

killjoy:


mtcheeewwww. u tink everyone is lyk u who is controlled by erratic emotions Abi. very funny. I knw wot I want n I knw wot I don't want. wish u cud say dsame

100Cents:


Bro, I regret missing the first opportunity.

I think there is always a 2nd chance..

bosun11:



hmmm..u nailed it..thanks

bosun11:


explain your defination of materialistic because that is 1 of the odd points i find in that list

bosun11:



when you finally get married and you do all this, any man that treats you less should be HANGED !!!

princeozzilly:
1. She must be God-fearing
2. She must not be materialistic
3. She must show signs of being a good home maker
4. She must show signs of discipline
5. She must always be sensitive to your needs
6. She must not be crafty or being too smart
7. She must be humble and obey the man
8. Even if she is the rich one, she must be submissive (forget about all these feminist rubbish) a woman cannot make a home without a man.
9. She must not disclose her man's short-comings to a third party, not even parents.
10. She must always be cheerful.

If you are a Woman, score yourself over 10 and let's see if you are a good wife material.

holatin:
hmmmmmm introduce me to one

holatin:
how many Ve you met ?

bosun11:
DAMSELABI : Am waiting for your comment about this topic ooo

holatin:
are u new in d world we are today ?

holatin:
any woman that has all thing is either a jinn/gene/spirit or husband don suffer am

moneymaker24:


And what becomes of me when it's opened?? Left with been heart broken I guess?? Can my heart really take that?

I still think diversification at this point will save me from that when it eventually happens. What do u think?

ATOB:


Beautiful name.
Been a while.

Jamieb:
Was talking on phone yesterday with my ''chickee'' (pron chai-key) when she said I must give her a Yoruba name cos her friend is Yoruba. I know some that I can readily give but I told her I must first consult IFA (oracle) and here I am now. Shez not Yoruba and I am not too but we both speak it. I already chose Tomilewa but you can help further. Thanks to all the Ifas in the house who will help out.

AgapeCharis:
sounds sweet. What's d meaningU schooled in France abi?

moneymaker24:
Hmmmmm.

Watching this video (downloaded now so I could show to my female friends) has sorta changed my mentality thinking with conviction.

All these while, I have always been sincere in a relationship but as it seems now, am changing it.

Only God knows how many more guys my girlfriend's got.

One would have said 'Well, guys don't usually call her often so there's a decency she isn't cheating'.... but watching through the video, some made mention of telling the guys not to call because they are with their uncle. Hmmmmm, HOW NICE!

And to think that I was gonna take a girl home soon?? OMO I no do till further notice!!!!

misreal:
if I don't marry you call me bascard.. [

bosun11:
DAMSELABI : GOD BLESS YOU NOW AND FOREVER...SAY AMEN......

AgapeCharis:
Plenty single girls?? Abeg na earth u dey abi na Jupiter??

Yes! There r stl single ladies but they are very very very very few

In most cases...u either take someone's bae or u ensure u r d highest stakeholder

Psalmwise:
sister a beg is dat agege bread on d shelve behind u....I