₦airaland Forum

rame18:
I did o, few seconds I comot am

rame18:
For a few seconds.

dingbang:
I wish Jonathan refused handing over to buhari

etebefia:
Yoruba desperation for power in 2023 is making them support everything wrong from buhari.
I have this feeling that after onnoghen, osinbajo will be next.
Something tells me el rufai is seriously warming up to take osinbajo's position after the 2019 election.

earthsync:
See stupid man o. When onnoghen was busy refusing judicial proceedings because he's CJN and going against the same constitution that says no man is above the law where was he

Hope say you get thick skin??

MJBOLT:

the same nairaland where ladies date the likes of dangote,E money,davido etc but will log out to beg for #100 airtime from the boys they call broke n*ggas

Paxie55:
The way poor and lazy guys always make it sound as if asking and having a monetary standard should be abolished.

A woman will offer to give birth, house chores, cook and all that, then contribute at least 40% financial assistant in the relationship.
Then, what is now the work of the said man of the relationship if money is the only thing you can offer.

Ladies, have a job but you see, never lower your standard.
At op, after giving him your all and all to prove that you careless about his money, did he or did he not dump You?

If a guy likes you and wanna get married to You, nothing financially will stop that, that's if he has the money.
So, I'm never listening to the rants of nl lazy broke men.

frozen70:
Only romantic men can stand boldly and toast uniform women

The word intimidation doesn't come near because you get the best out of a woman when you treat her like a lady

MariaLavina:
I want you to share my pains nah How can someone address me as a guy.


How have you been?

I have been good.... Thanks

MariaLavina:
Babe good morning

I don turn babe today, abi?? Good morning

ImaIma1:
Those ladies are air heads and are just interested in their own interests and are not willing to start and grow with a guy. They are looking for finished products.

And a lot of them get into trouble that way. There is nothing wrong with marrying a rich guy but it should not be the main motivation and she should also bring something tangible to the table.

So True.

MariaLavina:

Omoge87:
Dear OP.

I don’t really understand this philosophy myself. I am a Nigerian lady. I currently work, I bought and drive my own car. Have almost completed my MSc which I paid for myself. My point being as a Nigerian lady I have never cared about what material thing a guy has. What girls think a guy can provide for them- they can actually provide for themselves if they work hard.

I have only been in two relationships in my life - but in those relationships I never cared about anything material. When they had a need I would help. When I had need they would offer to help and I would politely decline - if it was monetary - simply cos I don’t want any guy to be saying he did xyz for me. Also I noticed Nigerian men associate helping their girlfriends with sex - so far as they are gifting you and giving you money they expect sex in return and as I am not a prostitute - I decline such things. I would rather ask my parents if I have any monetary needs. I don’t believe boyfriend should become your driver or your bank when courtship and vice versa. When you are husband and wife - then yes I can accept financial assistance from my husband - but not boyfriend. Why should a boyfriend be paying my fees or rent? I just don’t understand it at all. A girl should learn to be self - sufficient - when she has her own she won’t care if a guy has BMW or plenty money. She will rather want someone who is compatible with her vision and life long goals.

Bottom line my philosophy is if a girl works hard she won’t have to rely on a man for anything- she will not care if he has a car or money as her first port of call. She will be interested in - does he have a Job, is he a Christian, family background etc... because she wants someone likeminded and compatible with her also.

I think it is laziness that makes some girls want to live off a man. I just don’t understand it at all. My brain cannot comphrend the thought. There is nothing like having your own independence as a woman. I am not a feminist oooo. I just believe in hard work so you don’t have to rely on anyone or beg anyone for anything in this life.

Your type is rare... Op isn't referring to your type....

MJBOLT:

lefulefu,DanDeeBoss

Lol.. "We can't settle for less" crew dem. Always looking for "maga"....

MJBOLT:

ladies are avoiding this thread

Like plague

Tamarapetty:
Lol, Na Ban gane ku ba

LightQueen:
Wanni iri tambaya kenan

Later joor before Tamarapetty vex for me

Tamarapetty:
DanDeeBoss and LightQueen, biko make una go find hausa thread discuss.

Lol.. Dearie I am sorry ooo... Kiyi hankuri...