₦airaland Forum

wetrlr:
But he's her husband?

so that's a justification for domestic violence? If you're a brute why you no go marry donkey or goat,you marry person pikin dey begin suffer am

Birds of a feather

immortalcrown:
I keep saying that an average Nigerian is evil and stupid.

He was probably depending on her for survival. Yet he was toxic. Even the woman's condition didn't soften his heart.

So, violence against one's spouse is not a problem?

both the aggressor and the person typing are both psychopaths

You sure say one Yoruba preek no dey log into broda nnamdis wife cookies while broda nnamdi is in prison?

See topic of discussion for Monday afternoon on nairaland.smh

PerfectStranger:
Most elderly men think they're always right every time.
They always want to win every time using their age to emotionally gas light the young ones.

Sallah slap

true.i get that but that's not a justification to raise your hands on an elderly man.thats a bit too much

One nuisance gone.more like his group to go

fyzaila:
Who is too bitter if i may ask? Because i am a woman and can stand such lack of empathy.

haaa so you're a woman.that even makes you a danger to your daughters and toxic to your daughter inlaws if not you will show small empathy

Anashe:
I've had oby/gyn patients (pregnant women) with complete hair loss, loss of dentition, temporary blindness, paralysis, partial stroke, postpartum psychosis, etc. I think they need to start raising the awareness in Nigeria because of the things I'm reading here from supposedly educated people. Plus women need to start knowing the potential risks involved before having kids with nonentities. Dear God! I don't have the strength for Nairaland.

I think there are too many maniacs here on nairaland.i thought it's lack of education but many are demented and irritatingly ignorant.before wedding I think a lot of men need to be schooled by what child birth entails and the fact that every woman has their own peculiar experience unique to them.while some have it easy and straightforward some others come with complications.however if you see man wey dey sociopathic before wedding e no dey hard to know, just know say that one Na sorry excuse of a man.carry your shoe and japa

fyzaila:
You're right, feeling ontop nothing

go and heal you are too bitter.no be woman be Naija problem

When you are on the streets of nigeria,I don't care the state or city,you must understand that there are a lot of demented maniacs and violent people who are just waiting for a trigger to unleash their rage and violence so I cannot stress it enough to MIND YOUR BUISNESS AND FOCUS ON WHEREVER IT IS YOU ARE GOING.only a handful of people are sane,face your own issues before then carry wetin no consain you put for your head.avoid Street and roadside people that includes beggars many of them are psychopaths,poverty has made them schizophrenic.they feel no remorse for being wicked and unreasonable

Abdul05:


She is just unfortunate...in other word..she is not lucky..

It is inevitable..it happens in every marriage...

Almost inevitably again especially when it reaches the level or time when both she and her husband get tired of the marriage .

That urgly day will surely come in every marriage..you must Control us then .

sociopath don drop quote tufiaaaa


I pity who marry this one.

I cannot love who didn't love her own life so go and explain to God why you didn't use the brain he gave you that you had to love a violent marriage than your own life.the only people I pity and send my love to are her innocent kids who were unlucky and unfortunate to have useless parents.the father who is a psychopath and the mother who couldn't use her brain

CoronaVirusPro:
That’s a wifey!

that's a woman who doesn't love her health and herself

poshestmina:
Caveman (Our Father's set ) Ndeewo Nnayin Ukwu Sir.
I'd like to ask you few questions;

"Your mother's set" ,Were they any under any kind of pressure to get educated ,get a career /BuSiness to support their 'Dimkpas' and husbands?

The pregnant women you've heard,read about and seen with swollen feet ,constant fatigue, throwing up ,severe Insomnia and all the pregnancy induced uncomfortable situations (I'm not even going to talk about the life threatening Medical Emergencies some go through) ?

Nnaanyi sir ,should the "Weak man AKA man in love " ignore his uncomfortable or sick partner to go hang out with the boys or sleep off on her (Prolly after topping up?)

You must be delusional ,inhuman and bitter to your bone marrow to think birthing a child is a joke!
Men who stayed with their women giving birth have PTSD ..Some won't even go in ,some ran away midprocess .

Of course ,even wall gecko becomes tiger and lions online,so yeah ,enjoy the invisible shoulder pads and Alfa crown.

Women that gave birth had a Fattening where I'm from ,they don't leave that house until 2/3 months. No chores ,no nothing . just eat ,feed the baby and sleep for atleast 2 months and I didn't even grow up to meet that tradition and it was during 'YOUR Mother's Generation)! I'm from Kalabari ,Rivers state. Research and read about it!

"YOUR Mother's set" were mostly housewives ,so they 'tended to their husbands with all of their times and energies.
You want "Your mother's set of wife or women but you don't to be your father's set.

Na your type dey ask What are you bringing to the table?
I wonder and blame women who stays with your kind of men.

Tueh!

o please educate the man child about some women developing stroke,deafness or high blood pressure after bringing life to a child.


I had a friend very pretty, chubby,full of life and vivacious.the moment she was pregnant most of her hair was gone,her blood pressure rose up,her beauty was gone even after child birth.obesity nko? Some cannot even walk again after child birth,some go blind too much to mention and then this sociopathic fool with no home training casualizes child birth like you don't have a mother to tutor you

fyzaila:
All this epistle for what ? 🙄
I pity the woman that'll end up in your prison.

you no see as narcissism dey smell for him Post.

If you jam mam wey no dey narcissistic for this generation everyday kneel down and thank God because you don't know what God has done for you

fyzaila:
So we should applaud him for enslaving his wife abi 😏

Na Wetin them want be that

Reminderz:
When I noticed about this generation females, baddies or hoes as they chose to call themselves, is that they are extremely lazy.. Even without childbirth, they don't even want to do anything in the first place... all they know is just to sit down, cross leg, relax, watch kdrama shit and then wait for man to slave his entire life working for them... no productivity, no value just set of liabilities... instead of them to lower the man's blood pressure and reduce his stress, they will rather increase and frustrate the hell out of his life and y'll wonder why women live longer...

when our mothers gave birth, they didn't even put all these dramas and bullshits these "modern" women are putting up now... all these pregnancy cravings bullshit that's making these women do and ask for stupid things didn't even exist and they were industrious, strong and also a source of peace for their husbands... in fact, childbirth then was as easy as a goat giving birth... go to some part of the villages, you would still see some of what I said happening... but you see now, mehn, I can't help but shake my head... the man in love AKA the slave, will work to satisfy all these cravings, make sure even a pin doesn't touch her, coupled with the fact the slave will even provide a maid for her, but just to do the basic things at home will still be a 5-unit course for her...

it's true, weak men create hard times.. if not the foolish men that encourages these behaviours in women, the women would have sit tight but in a world where the men are weak, the women are the superior... what's bad in cooking for your husband? she didn't even seem force? I also blame social media, if not, I don't know why people can't live their lives privately anymore, using every opportunity to seek validation online... it's a pandemic... if not because of the bullshit we consume these days, the artificial drugs we take, the chemicals we ingest daily, giving birth would never require being in a hospital... all those our local herbs and fruit would have done a great job in keeping us much healthier.. but the knowledge of these is slowing waning off since we adopted the modern way of treatment which is invariably damaging our health.

abeg shut up with This our mothers bs.you think our mothers were happy? They had no option and Many of them were living with depression and resentment while masking a fake smile because being a masochistic woman was considered Being a good wife so you expect today's women to go through all that pain? Dey whine yourself

If you get wife as she dey leave hospital,no even let her breastfeed the baby,carry house chores use am kill am because you did her a favour by marrying her and if she dares complain remind her of your grandmother.afterall the grandmothers of those days spent hours in the farm while the grandfathers.so as you dey tell am get ready to climb iroko tree and trek from Ilorin to Kano bare footed to bring money home since them swear for you say you no fit dey empathetic and reasonable

shortgun:
Abeg shut up, many women have come out to debunk the widely believed pains associated with pregnancy and child birth as exaggerated and a hoax. Of all the mammals on the planet only the modern human female needs 1 full year to recover from pregnancy and child birth.

shebi you have wife or girlfriend.infact as she dey come out from labour room,no let her even drink water or sit down.tell her you want pounded yam and goat meat.baby husband with psychopathic tendencies

End result of cultism.i am sure you don't want to be in this position

Hmnn

Primer1:
These words touched me bro, just got me thinking about the fatherly advice i got b4 going to school.
I really wouldn't want to put my parents in pain dey are actually all i have

good decision.the Bible says a wise child brings joy and pride to his parents.how will you feel after the years of investment, sacrifice and pain your parents see your corpse dumped somewhere or your mom and siblings are going to police station to be kneeling and begging for your release? There's no reward in cultism.it all ends in pain, shame and regret.many are dead,some are forgotten in prison,some have become junkies and destitues.cultism will reduce you to a nobody and even those dregs assuring you of security are not even safe themselves if e sup now them go japa.now going by what say no to cultism explained let me summarise how cultists operate

Let's say there are 10 cultists in let me give it a name (group a) and one of the members of group a offended one of the members of group b.you who is just a member of group a and have no knowledge of what caused the fall out will likely go in for it if the person group b is looking for escaped.they know you're a new recruit so you will be replaced with the actual target they were looking for and trust me your group a members will all run for their safety.none of them will look out for you and even if you die they'll mourn you for few minutes and look for the next rival member to kill and the cycle goes on

Meanwhile in all of your period as a member they'll be giving you deadly and life threatening assignments to do and if you don't do it you'll be killed. by the way joining group a automatically makes you an enemy of rival gangs so as your own life is not safe with your group members,group b is after your life even if you didn't offend them and mind you they also go after their victim's families too.read about George iwilade aka Afrika in OAU.he was the one that fought against cultism in OAU but he paid with his life.dont let his death be in vain

Afrika like many others too have fought against cultism in Nigerian universities at the reason why you can move around freely in your school without bullying, harassment or anyone threatening you at gun point not to go to class or talk to a particular person is because of people like george.theres a documentary and movies done about that guy.cultism is signing your death warrant while you're still alive

Emmanuel30a2:
Ur own go sweet when I eat or when I eats it.../as I dey eat it... Mind u, I get no human affiliation...GOD&THE LORD JESUS CHRIST ARE THE HEAD OF EVERY nation...

no your mama own sweeter.cut and eat it, join your papa own too


Eranko

Ashoro Na dun

Primer1:
I wouldn't be joining because of causing problem or being feared, I wouldn't even be noticed.
I just wanna have a family away from home and also considering the fact that am a street boy(Gboy) i fit get update from them and also i nor want any banga to come day rip me.

avoid riffraffs that call themselves cultists before your life is used to count scores.go and read say no to cultism and see many gory pictures and stories.even if you have no value for your life by joining violent nonentities and deliquents,pity your parents and family members.

Except you're ok with your family seeing your deadbody by the side of the road.theres nothing good about cultism.its all bad news

Emmanuel30a2:
Na ur own I want to cut... I have no human affiliation... I flew or comes down from heaven...

cut your mama own

Emmanuel30a2:
You are not serious... Let me catches you, you won't be able to use your pussy again... I would cut it my knives.. You are mine!

you no see your mama Toto cut?

I said it I knew it.youre a sexual kolo patient.you don dey reveal am

Emmanuel30a2:
I am not seeing your oval&ovaries too, but I know you are seeing my penis...

this one don dey suffer schizophrenia

Emmanuel30a2:
How you take know my penis? You knows the size and resize, so much that you wants it to capsize...?

lol I'm not interested in your penis.keep the information of your penis to yourself.just control it if you don't want liability, period

Emmanuel30a2:
The mans responsibility is to impregnate, no be to take responsibility... Responsibility on its own is a liability... I mean full responsibility... Make nobody carry me con carry responsibility... Responsibility na liability... I don't want liability...

so you know say responsibility Na liability,Na him you no fit control your penis.anyway Na because this one Na poor single mother pikin.the cycle usually continues till one of the kids decide to stop the rubbish

LocalFARMERS:
This one dey feel like Dangote because I give am small attention. Your little fame is over, oya run along and go play with ya mates

lmaooo e pain am say I don expose his pretense

LocalFARMERS:
Weting this one dey talk. Have you ever had Davido talk down on the North? He can't do that cause he knows their worth. But you wey no be anything, na you dey talk anyhow. You hide behind your Tecno phone to type trash. Cause you get 100mb.

The North light-years ahead of you. Thats why even Tinubu no fit do anyhow with the North. Else he go collect wotowoto

rest.nobody send una.youre not as important as you think you are.besides in a normal society nobody is above the law not even the president or senators so no dey carry yourselves for pedestal wey no exist

Lol did you say light ahead of you? Of course they are.in slaughtering yourselves and impregnating children

LocalFARMERS:
Ok. But na one individual talk that one. So many people love Davido songs for North. That's why this local Hausa musician is singing Davido's song

yinmu

After them see say nobody send them.you think some people were blind or deaf when there was an uproar in the North,where the locals were tearing Davido's pictures found in front of shops or Keke maruwas? Where the locals were shouting that no Davido song must be played