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Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by dangotesmummy: 7:13am On Apr 01 |
Anashe:I think there are too many maniacs here on nairaland.i thought it's lack of education but many are demented and irritatingly ignorant.before wedding I think a lot of men need to be schooled by what child birth entails and the fact that every woman has their own peculiar experience unique to them.while some have it easy and straightforward some others come with complications.however if you see man wey dey sociopathic before wedding e no dey hard to know, just know say that one Na sorry excuse of a man.carry your shoe and japa 3 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by Maryam1234(f): 7:20am On Apr 01 |
purples25: My emphasis was on (normal birth) Besides my narration is from my personal experience and I'm entitled to my opinion... Every woman live and grew up in different society, our body and the ease with which everyone bear pain differ. I grow up in a society where we don't see child bearing as death sentence and hence our women are always prepared for that before hand.... Whenever I'm in labour I always tell myself it's for sometimes and truly it's for sometime... Before giving birth in my society we have a ritual of taking some natural fruits, regular ones found everywhere which makes the birthing process easier... I'm sorry if my post belittle women From your society or you in particular but all what I have written are nothing but my own opinion and experience And after the baby is out via "natural birth" women in my society regardless of any tribe they represent in Nigeria are back to Life...... Compliments of the season 🤗 2 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by Elsueno: 7:20am On Apr 01 |
bukatyne: Even if she can do Kung fu immediately after giving birth, as a sensible husband, person supposed to stop her. Haba, let the woman rest na, even slaves take breaks after child birth talk less of my loving wife. I rather go to d kitchen and cook myself 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by Agunesinjaweola: 7:29am On Apr 01 |
What if the woman makes love to husband after two days You guys would have hail the woman !!! Oh ye Hypocrite !!! 1 Like |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by Maryam1234(f): 7:38am On Apr 01 |
purples25: Mind you every woman including myself are not immune to labour pain but if you will be logical you'll agree with me that immediately after the baby is out that's where the whole pain die off even with the placenta still inside you won't feel much pain anymore... No man will value or appreciate you except your husband so don't expect praises from any man... I usually walk into labor ward with my hubby and I won't go to hospital until I'm 6cm dilated to make it easier for me,I bear my pain at home...... I also learned not to sleep on hospital bed while in labor because of how my first labor lasted, whenever labour starts at home I will be walking to make it faster..... The last time four years ago a nurse said madam sleep na,I said mummy please allow me to move ..I was exercising in the labor room to make it easier... Have you forgotten how people in the villages gave birth on their way to the Farm, Stream, Market Those women and my grandparents are my inspiration for Motherhood... God has already prepared our body for this,if we see it as difficult and strenuous it will be difficult for us..Let's see it as part of what our body was original designed for and it will be easier for us,I don't pray for difficult child birth because I'm still in the process All what we pray for is for that energy to push through the entire situation and come out Victorious.. Imagine a society without a woman?? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by 1Sharon(f): 7:40am On Apr 01 |
condensedmilk: Poor men should ask rich men what they did, so they can learn a thing or two and teach other paupers. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by wany(f): 7:40am On Apr 01 |
purples25:Don't mind her anything to be praised by a man. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by 1Sharon(f): 7:45am On Apr 01 |
Agunesinjaweola: Who will be hailing her? That one is even worse. She can get an infection. NO doctor will recommend that. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by omoharry(f): 7:50am On Apr 01 |
jayce232:Your friend is a monster and so are you. Your parents should be ashamed of you.They really did a bad job in your upbringing. I feel sorry for any woman that will have you as a husband. Someone like you will look at the mirror and regard yourself a man. . 4 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by purples25(f): 7:53am On Apr 01 |
Maryam1234: Okay. I don't know if you're saying you don't need rest or care regardless of how easy it was for you, but... Despite our differences in opinion, I respect you as a mother. I'm sorry if I seemed to attack you, but even if you didn't mean to belittle anyone or their experience, please have in mind that many men cannot differentiate. Most want to believe all women are like you. So, for the sake of others who bleed, or die or have pains and complications, could you please factor in that many other women need care after giving birth? It's only being sensitive, because as you can see, many men are learning from your words. Don't let some get home and be expecting your kind of attitude from those who truly went through a lot. It is only an act of kindness to other women. Never fail to remind them that it isn't easy for everyone, though thanks to God, yours was okay. I am not belittled, I walked right after giving birth, but I was quickly encouraged to rest and I took that treatment with gratitude. In my case, I would still always remind men that it's not easy, so nobody goes to stress a weaker woman that went through a hard childbirth🤷. Happy new month.✌🏾 3 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by purples25(f): 7:54am On Apr 01 |
1Sharon: 😁😁 2 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by purples25(f): 7:58am On Apr 01 |
Maryam1234: Dear I understand, let them know it's easy but not easy because we should be appreciated and not treated as if it is nothing, i bet you also like appreciation. Much love. |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by Maryam1234(f): 8:07am On Apr 01 |
franugo: I'm A Kogi Woman living in Niger State I'm not from Bayelsa.. Scenes like that are common in my ancestral home town... You'll see women going about their normal duties after childbirth because in the village no one cares much.... I don't see anything spectacular in what the woman did because most women do that. It was the Internet that makes it look special and some are even insulting the man.. And she just cook food using gas in modern kitchen It shows the birth was without complications hence she's supposed to be on bed rest for some months to make her enemies happy 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by purples25(f): 8:07am On Apr 01 |
condensedmilk: I didn't have a hard birth, I don't mind if her or I teach other women how to make our lives easier bruh, I just want the appreciation and care to be on point for all women regardless of how it went for each woman and how strong she is. Strong doesn't mean we should abuse that strength. Oh, so because a man brings money home without complaining, I should just 'dey bill am dey go' right? Men want to be appreciated for bringing money in don't they? Why must a woman give birth and be treated like she didn't do anything? 5 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by DKM123: 8:08am On Apr 01 |
TrustNone: See TrustNone the lazy @ss beggi Beggi Nairaland banbiala who sc@ms and begs on Nairaland 24/7 for over a decade calling a woman lazy! LNGKM .Wonders! The unf0rtunate woman who will be with a s!MP like you must be suffering generational curs£s for them to be afflicted with a partner like you. Tufiakwa! Ewwww! TrustNone , the 40 year old expelled teacher named Victor Omerigwe, a paedoph!le g@y rap!st and Ch!ld molester, resident Nairaland beggar and perpetual internet scammer also known as HellVictorinho6 aka abba190 aka EbenezerTriumph aka keet13 aka MrsAminaBello and 40 other monikers.... I will keep coming for you until you are arrested for scamming a p00r widowed mother of 4 and scouting for underaged kids on the internet to m0lest. You must pay for all your evul doings. 1 Like |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by Maryam1234(f): 8:09am On Apr 01 |
Agunesinjaweola: It means both the woman and the man have issues upstairs. Who does that 😒 1 Like |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by Maryam1234(f): 8:14am On Apr 01 |
condensedmilk: That's the aspect some women miss out The modern day Gen Z woman don't believe they can learn anything from elders... Those elders are always willing to give reasonable advice to make some process easy for us but they'll be forming Class... I learned so many things from people who can't even spell their names correctly,yes I have to learn because they know one or two things I don't know.... Even some common health issues women face can be solved by fellow women if they open up I discovered all women face similar challenges in womanhood so I'm always available to learn from my elders... 1 Like |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by jayce232: 8:25am On Apr 01 |
omoharry:You are just ranting for nothing If a woman delivery wasn't via CS devoid of any complications, there is no big deal. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by condensedmilk: 8:34am On Apr 01 |
1Sharon: Are you a female? |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by folake4u(f): 8:37am On Apr 01 |
poshestmina: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Nor be lie. Happy New Month to you, Ma'am. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by 1Sharon(f): 8:38am On Apr 01 |
condensedmilk: Are you a male? |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by condensedmilk: 8:50am On Apr 01 |
1Sharon: Send me your aza so that you can celebrate Easter like your fellow and stop putting pressure on that young man. |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by NoToPile: 8:57am On Apr 01 |
I don't have an issue with the video, I guess she was strong enough. Even if she was she still deserves to rest. What I have a problem with is the nasty comments on this thread by Nairaland boys. Even for the same woman every pregnancy is different. Had a 4th degree tear in my first, had a very painful stitching while I had a very easy and short delivery with my 2nd. Recovery was very different in both cases So those yapping nonsense should stop abeg. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by NoToPile: 9:00am On Apr 01 |
Maryam1234: Care to share the fruits and how it's used? Thanks. |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by 1Sharon(f): 9:07am On Apr 01 |
condensedmilk: Send yours first |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by franugo(m): 9:16am On Apr 01 |
Maryam1234: Silly isn't it? Staying in your house and coming online to insult someone simply for showcasing strength and love towards her family. |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by franugo(m): 9:33am On Apr 01 |
1Sharon: I'm obviously a man but i know several women that have experienced childbirth. I have been to the hospital for a friend after childbirth. Some ladies that have gone thru it have come out to say that the op is not a new thing, that they have also experienced something similar but some children here are trying to shut them up. I can bet you that several people lambasting them have not gone thru childbirth. Some of you here make it seem like all men are heartless creatures, imagine what some foolish girls are posting in the pages. Personally, i wouldn't let my wife cook for a couple of weeks, even if she wanted to, but that's a moot point anyway as i did most of the cooking when she was in Nigeria and I'm good with that. What you people should understand is that we have different strokes for different folks and this habit of fallacious generalisation helps no one. |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by 1Sharon(f): 9:39am On Apr 01 |
franugo: Do you see your hypocrisy? You haven't experienced childbirth and you never will, so who the hell are you to speak on childbirth as If your experience is more valid than those other women that also haven't experience childbirth? Are you the only person with friends that have given birth? Don't pretend like you haven't seen other men up there equally lambasting him. What are your words for them? The husbands lacks courtesy period. A commenter here gave the perfect analogy, imagine going to a hospital and asking to eat the patients food, some of them might be okay with it, does that mean you should do it? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by franugo(m): 9:47am On Apr 01 |
1Sharon: My opinion has always been the same, the lady obviously was not forced, her husband loves her and she loves her husband, what gives you people here the right to curse or belittle her If one's childbirth experience was traumatising, there's other women who didn't have traumatising childbirths so why the hate? If you say it's because the woman is encouraging your man to treat you differently even when your experience was worse, then that's on you for marrying a foolish man, not on anyone else. |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by franugo(m): 9:50am On Apr 01 |
1Sharon: Where's the hypocrisy? Did i ever say i experienced firsthand childbirth? Your analogy is so flawed i don't even know where to begin, plus i don't even see the correlation to the op |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by kkins25(m): 9:52am On Apr 01 |
Hmmmm.. 😁 😁 Reminds me of one woman who no wan dey rest. The day she gave birth, she was the one going up and down... Say, she can't sit down like that.. Now that I think of it, maybe she get ADHD. 🤣. Mumu man sha.. Instead of him to sieze the moment to be ultra-super-duper romantic.... 😁 3 Likes |
Re: Man Hails Wife For Cooking For Him A Day After Returning From Child Birth by okerekingsley90: 9:53am On Apr 01 |
TrustNone: Iwu ezi 1 Like 1 Share |
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