₦airaland Forum

dietsono:
I really never knew that an idiot like you still exist, you are calling Helen Paul an attention seeker someone who has made a name for herself both home and in diaspora whereas you are the never do good attention seeker here who I didn't know until now that you posted a senseless thing on Nairaland.....bad belle and a big black animal you are.

like 50cent will say success attracts envy. Don't be surprised the hater might be a recharge card seller

godofuck231:
bastard phd

Pele dear.may the lord heal you

godofuck231:
bastard phd

Pele dear.God will heal you

[quote author=Danwakae post=77296673][/quote]1st your lousy joke isn't funny, 2 grow up

OkpaAkuEriEri:
check ur fats.Igbo man can Neva jealous yoloba

so what do you call hating on someone who is celebrating her success without any prior altercations?

And WHO is even talking about tribe here? Can you please grow up

Danwakae:
NA ME RAPE HER MAMA

SHAME NO GO LET ME COME OUT.

you better be careful with your utterances because 1.nairaland is not totally anonymous the way it seems,2.the internet never forgets
3.labelling yourself a raapist in your bid to sound funny or attract attention will only put you in trouble you have no business with

PheelzAlmighty:
She just spew trash...

hatred has nothing to offer you.you better be happy for those who are happy so others can celebrate with you.Pele dear

OkpaAkuEriEri:
So u r afonj....bastard.no wonda.
U cn Neva funny or rich lyk chigurl
Mumu woman

so much hate,prejudice and tribalism over another person's success. Take it easy with the envy and bile.jealousy only messes up with your mental health.calm down.the sky is big enough for everyone to fly

Let me use the popular street language of encouragement LAS LAS YOU GO DEY ALRIGHT

The little boy sure looks like his dad but tonto go wail well well if Churchill marries because the way she keeps blabbing over this church hill matter endlessly, she go lament taya o

Sha mabaye omolomo je sha.don't turn your son into another bobrisky because the kinds of questionable clowns you're exposing your son to is dangerous for his mental health tonto


I know you're on nairaland that's why I wrote this

How can Churchill marry a crazy,unpredictable amugbo like tonto and expect the marriage to last? Why do Nigerians even think marriage changes anyone?

I don't know why,I find the insults very funny

Surprising thing is that a frustrated, spiteful and angry toll gate attendant decided to vent her frustration on the person that has no business or cause for her frustration

I find it very hilarious when the dregs of the earth try to use verbal missiles on those they think are supposedly financially comfortable than them and when they give them a taste of their own medicine and remind them of their financial status they become bitter pained and start playing victim

Yet they were the one that were the first pulled the tail of a sleeping lion

JasonScoolari:
Yeye.

like you

ijustdey:
See corruption at its peak....



While wont we have problem when some who bought certificate is at the helms of affairs

but the father can afford to send his children to any school locally and intrrnationally so what I find surprising is how a man who can afford to educate his kids would rather have them get fake certificate. It would have been a different scenario if the father didn't have money to send her to school and she was desperate for that job.its a real mockery on those who earn their certificates legitimately because oyinbo will not know who is who.especially with the influx of yahoo boys

No wonder everyone is weary of Nigerians in the international community

Awon tabuja connection

A won honorables chewing stick

JasonScoolari:
Lol, I don't understand yoruba.

Iwo jebi-you for no keep quiet

JasonScoolari:
It's all good.

Good morning.

Iwo jebi

Good morning to you too

JasonScoolari:
Lol, provoked on a faceless forum? Wow! Things get to you easily then and that's one of the attributes of a weakling.

lmaoooo


Clown

I'm not much different from dangotesmummy AS AN INDIVIDUAL and as far as the weakling issh is concerned, that's your opinion that you're entitled to which is subjective and irrelevant

JustCurious:
I am not surprised, because in everyone is an iota of great talent. I am only more concerned that this talent hasn't been well nurtured and utilised.

mama wey suppose dey work with tiwa Savage

JasonScoolari:
Good to know that.

I guess you've forgotten this handle.

Damn! You were too vituperative then.

I still am albeit WHEN PROVOKED

JasonScoolari:
I am surprise this sermon is coming from you.

But it's all good.

I'm for gender equality

JasonScoolari:
Thank Heaven's you can reason very well.

no particular gender should have monopoly of protection against domestic or public violence.

JasonScoolari:
Thank Heaven's you can reason very well.

no gender should have monopoly of protection against domestic or public violence.

JasonScoolari:
Now it's normal to assault a MAN, but when it's the other way round, our "beloved" Feminist will take to the streets of Nairaland, Human Rights Commission, the goddess of fertility, Supreme Court, Women of Faith Church, and Ogànigwe shrine to register their grievances and displeasure.

im a woman but I don't support violence against any gender and I'm surprised these ladies aren't arrested by now. This is totally uncalled for

Joshmodest:
My bone of contention is the VC was not professional in his response ...two wrongs has never and would never make one right, the VC lacks self control and that is the main reason he got insulted, by the parents in the first instance....
All those supporting him are either jealous of parents and students of private unis, or trying to form disciplinarians..

so how should he have spoken to the parents or exercise self control? He should be going to their houses and prostrate for them once by one or what? The vc is a human being with emotions and very minute number of people, like 5 in 500 million can ignore and I'm very happy he put the parents in their place

Those parents are what Yoruba's call awon iya ati baba oshi tobimo Oran

Those days when a child misbehaves its the teachers that will discipline him and when the parents know of it they'll come to school and thank the teacher but now we have people who lack self control,having no business being parents but unfortunately are

Zerlo:
I just have to drop in on this thread when I saw the title. I had my service year at d university last year.
I understand that d contents of this acclaimed letter is not of d highest standard but I can tell u that the VC is a great academician whom by my rating would rival the world's best standards.
This man is the best u could think of when u are concerned with; promoting academic excellence, alleviating moral decadence and enriching societal values. I always wondered while still working in d school, that why can't we promote people of his standards to the helm of affairs in this country. I can tell u that Nigeria is truly blessed in human resources but it's unfortunate that the system will not allow God fearing individuals to thrive.
As the man will always says, "I can't wait to resume back to my work at LASU", I pray he finish his tenure peacefully and I can assure u that these ungrateful parents (students, staffs and the church community) will beg to have him back.

I don't understand. Is the vc a lecturer in lasu?

Speaking of lasu,that university is a den of cultist,school girls in the afternoon and prostitutes at night.

I recently heard of an associate professor that was dismissed for sexual harassment. So the moral decadence in lasu is mega

iamclime:
I know Professor Dapo Asaju personally and have worked with him at higher levels on very challenging and sensitive work in University Administration. I can confidently say that he is a man of his words. He is very open and approachable and gives regard to all, irrespective of their status or stature. He doesn't tolerate nonsense and abuse of privileges either, and may get highly frustrated at such things.
For our beloved professor to have written this, the parents and children's cups must have been full and running over. I may not agree with his choice of words in some parts of the write-up, but I can bet you that one of the most difficult people to manage in Nigeria are cosseted, obstreperous children with a sense of entitlement, who also believe in instant self gratification! I have been there. Enough said.

the mistake the vc made was engaging in discussion with parents and making himself too available. THAT IS WHAT YOU SHOULDNT DO WITH OVER SPOILT CHILDREN AND ENTITLED PARENTS. Make them feel they're not all that.

All he needed to do was write down an official letter, cc the deans,deans will cc the hods and hods will cc the coordinator. Its the coordinator that will give the students the letter or better still send the letter to the parents e.mails.you don't indulge spoilt and rude kids or their parents irrespective of what they pay or whoever they are.

Joshmodest:
It's easy for you to come here to say what suits you , cos you speaking from one angle alone ..
Now look at it from the angle of the parents , i hope you realise this private unis are financially oriented universities, we can as well call them businesses, u have to treat your customers who keep the business running ,with courtesy and don't expect to be treated with same , cos you are at the receiving end .......if you were a parent , you definitely wouldn't be glad and be chanting discipline here and there , if you are insulted in this manner..it's like receiving slaps from something you bought with your money !!

And what does FAITH BASED , have to do with this issue , so in a faith based school the VC , can insult the parents anyhow he likes..you made mention of TERMS AND CONDITIONS. in a business setting , once a customer violates the T&C's, you follow due process and kick such person out , and not trading words with them ...such impatience and lack of self control from the VC of a FAITH BASED SCHOOL, is really surprising....

Noone is oblivious of the fact that , private unis are attended mostly by spoilt brats , whose parents want to have an easy life....so why all of a sudden the VC is acting , like he is a fresher in the school...

Schools where the VC can talk to the parents anyhow , like Unilag, Uniben, laspotech and the likes, are all over Nigeria, where the VC can show his lack of wisdom of speech ...he should go and seek employment there ...if you must work in a private uni, and enjoy all the benefits , then be ready for sticks like this ,after all THIS IS NIGERIA !! if he can't take the heat let him leave the kitchen .....

can you just imagine.this is part of the entitlement mentality we're talking about. What is wrong is wrong. There's no grammar for it.if you insult anyone (you have opened a can of worms) and expect a feedback that might not be pleasant or go down well with you.if you are a parent and you don't like the way your child is treated,what happens to expressing your displeasure with manners and basic courtesy.you have to resort to insults. What for? You as a parent KNEW THE RULES AND REGULATIONS BEFORE BRINGING YOUR SON OR DAUGHTER TO THE SCHOOL. Why the sudden complaints? ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE OTHER OPTIONS.if you cannot take the heat,get out of the kitchen. If you want to pamper and spoil your kids rotten and you don't want anyone to call them to order when they misbehave, withdraw them and take them to other schools where they'll have the freedom to smoke their brains out, engage in oorrggy and not go to class or take exams at all and let's see who will bear the brunt of untrained and indisciplined kids


The only unfortunate part of the matter is that untrained kids do not just constitute nuisance to their immediate family but others,if they were only a menace to their parents maybe there'll have been less crimes and parents will draw the line between over indulgence and care

Burna. mabaeja o.why should you apologize to someone trying to rob you? Who should be begging who?

Burnaaa seems you want to be a people pleaser and the disadvantage of that is that people will encroach on your space

Joshmodest:
God bless you bro...
That this is Nigeria excuse really pisses me off, do Nigerians forbid doing things in the right way ?
What is wrong , is wrong....
The man practically insulted parents and students that pay his salary...there are better ways to make your point than being rude, the VC's attitude speaks alot about the kind of students they have , the tree never falls far from the tree !!

so you expect him to sound subservient BECAUSE THE PARENTS ARE THE ONES PAYING HIS SALARY


need I remind yo that in every business or services rendered ,there are TERMS AND CONDITIONS. so he should be begging parents after the insults he received from them.the elders say RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL. the mere fact that his salary is coming from the school fees of the students is not a license to insult your children's vc.even if you're not happy with things you express your displeasure with manners as a parent. This is part of the indiscipline we're talking about. For example when you have an appointment by 9am or an event and adults are coming at 11am.does that show regard for the person waiting for you? Now the school is trying to enforce discipline, A FAITH BASED SCHOOL and all of a sudden he is rude.no wonder cultism,armed robbery, rape ,exchanging vagina for marks and all manners of barbarism happens in public schools because there are no boundaries or enforced rules for students and lecturers

Any parent that doesn't want his child disciplined for bad behavior or wants his child too have lousy freedom can as well carry them to uniben,lasu,esut etc where they will spend eternity to get a degree and be susceptible to cult related attacks or gang killing


Anything goes schools are all over Nigeria where they harbor all sorts and where nasty behaviors can easily be concealed and go unchecked till they enter the society and become a nuisance to themselves and others around them

naijadefender:
Are you for real, a whole Vice chancellor could pen down this condescending and abusive letter.

No matter what happens Parents deserve respect because without their hard earned money the University will not be in existence.

so because they're paying thousands of naira,that's a justification to insult their children's vc? What happened to communication with respect and consideration? No wonder Nigerians think money is a license to be obnoxious and lousy

Were you expecting the vc to stoop so low and be trading insults with parents of wayward kids?

If you check the matter well,it will be parents of drug addicts,sexual deviants and entitled kids that will be raising dust.

Moreover why is it so hard to abide by REASONABLE RULES in order to get VALUE FOR YOUR MONEY AS A PARENT.If you so wanted freedom for your kids as a parent, why didn't you take them to schools where laws don't work and anything goes?really?

If I was the vc, I won't even engage any parent in any discussion knowing how unnecessarily aggressive and entitled Nigerians can be when they think they have money,I will just tell them that anyone who is not comfortable with the rules IS VERY FREE TO WITHDRAW THEIR KIDS and it won't be in a face to face conversation where there'll be license for disrespect or feeling like whatever, it will be official letter.

Its the same behavior when Nigerians go to public places like banks,restaurant, nightclubs etc and acting so uncultured,inconsiderate, rude,aggressive and obnoxious to bar attendants or people who they consider lower than them in status hence you hear statements like IS IT NOT MY MONEY or ON TOP MY MONEY meaning my money should give me the liberty to misbehave and cross people's space

IamaNigerianGuy:
Very low quality of discourse. Certainly this letter is not at the level or standard expected of a Vice Chancellor. It is emotional condescending and abusive. The VC vents his frustrations instead of providing solutions. After all he was appointed to lead the university.
Can you imagine the president of Harvard or Oxford writing this ?

so until he blows big grammar that's when he is writing like a vc abi?

So his decision to be firm on rules and let parents know that they won't indulge wayward kids and parents who refuse to train their kids is now condescending and emotional...

Leave the messenger and face the message.there's no 2 way to it,the vc is right. He needs to talk that way because Nigerians take things too far abi you expect him (vc ) to be exchanging insults with parents of untrained students?

A lecturer once told me if you're too friendly with students (one of the mistakes of this vc) you will be insulted,disrespected and taken for granted (that's why they can pour trash on the vc)

But if you're firm and you let the students know that you don't take nonsense, they'll know what to bring to your table

Now let me give you an assignment.Go and do a purposive observation in universities. Observe lecturers that are friendly with students and allow them play with them vs the one that is very firm and isn't friendly with students. You realize that students will begin to have no regard for the friendly lecturer and he will be very prone to insults, rudeness and disrespect from students

Because Yoruba's say eyan tabafepa,ama nboyo ni

For example look at the chickens in the cage.They are always well fed so that when they are killed,they will die easily

How did he climb up and he wasn't shocked and no one could try stopping him?