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I have promised myself one thing in life: I will never let somebody use me. Op y do u allow dis guy to b using u Is dis the kind of Life u want to Live In his final year in sch is d reason y he is not calling or texting u is not an excuse to me. No mata how his schedule is, Any guy that claims he loves his girlfriend must find tym to still get in tough with her. U were just too blind by his false love for u. My Candid advice for u Cutie9936 is to forget about dis guy. He is a cheater. Don't let him use u again. U are just too good for him. Look for someone else dat will love u n respect d person u are.
I wish u Goodluck.

Op point of correction. Just becos one girl was hard to u doesn't mean all women are the same. Not all women are heartless, u just met the wrong one.

Nice one.

Since dis thing u called relationship is giving u confusion, y not forget about dis ur ex??

Hahaha

lovesmile16:
This girl is classy,she dresses very well and all but just that her face isn't just fine so I don't think she can be better

Just don't marry her then.

Y not go ahead and marry her. Besides u are marrying her for urself, not for anybody. Since two of u loves each other y not go ahead and marry her? As times goes on and u have money, u can beautify her d way u want her to b.

Is not her fault though. But I just can't date such babe.

Is not a good thing at all. But is d dream repeatedly or u just dreamed about it once U have to prayed about it or u c ur Imam or Pastor for counseling...

discoprophet:
Don't!

Forget about him totally. Abi would you keep sending him birthday wishes till when? He's gone baby, you're gone too and you gats be strong.. For me.

One like for u. I concur wit u.

From d way ur story reads, it seems dat u are still having feelings for dis ur ex. I want to ask u dis question: if given an opportunity,would u like to go back to him
If Yes then text him. But if No, don't text.

[quote author=pweetylivia post=47638728]There are many pretty girls in Nigeria. Even more beautiful than the girls shown here. These ones are just showcasing themselves on Instagram and social media[/quote

One like for u. This is what I was trying to pass to Ladycloud.

Ladycloud:
issalie

U can't see the most beautiful babe or handsome guy as far am concern. My reason is becos beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Someone dat is beautiful in ur eyes may not be beautiful in my eyes. Someone dat is beautiful in my eyes may not be beautiful Iin ur eyes. So dat is y I said: the beautiful ones are not yet born......

Ladycloud:
issalie

U can't see the most beautiful babe or handsome guy as far am concern. My reason is becos beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Someone dat is beautiful in ur eyes may not be beautiful in my eyes. Someone dat is beautiful in my eyes may not be beautiful in ur eyes. So dat is y I said: the most beautiful ones are not yet born......

I don't need to b worried. Coz she knows if I have I will give.

Dis ur question get how e Tay dey. Didn't he know u were slim or fat b4 he wooed u?

From the way ur story reads, it seems dat u so much love dat ur girl u met in sch. Y not ask her out again? But b4 u do so u have to ask urself dis questions:
Is she closer to me in terms of location?
Is d memory of her ex still on her mind?
If given an opportunity, will she go back to her ex?.
U have to think about these. On the other hand, if u ask her out n she said No, no matter how close u too are, Pls I advice u to look for someone else. I wish u Goodluck.

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U can't call such a fellow ur boyfriend. Dats numba ONE SIGN of a CASANOVA. U have to b careful dear. Don't allow someone to use u.

The beautiful ones are yet unborn.

That's y u must not venture in what u can't accomplished.

What dis couples need now is someone dat can counsel dem. It is not d fault of d Man, neither d fault of d Woman. In relationship or in marriages, wen u are not getting d results u want especially on BED, u got frustrated. This is d problem d wife is facing. Dey should just try n c someone dat will counsel dem.

A married woman on dat matter! Haba! My wife will cums home n tells me dat her friend bought her phone. She wouldn't even tried it. For wat reason?? There is no 2 ways about it. She will return d phone or retain d phone n leave my life.

sinaj:
I have watched porn before.

But I don't like watching porn. So disgusting nd look like rape to me coz they barely kiss nd romance in porn.

Cnt remember the last time I watched one tho.

Ur second paragraph speaks the truth. One like for u.

Dfinex:
it's easier said than done (for all those saying marry the one that loves me)...... all we can ask the good Lord is for him to give us a partner with whom the feelings will be mutual

U speak my mind coz that's just d answer. One like for u.

Op u are right. Its not a good thing at all. It even makes them irresponsible. Something like dat supposed to be worn at home. Like wearing it to their hubby. May God help us.

No 2 ways about it. This man is dating ur girl. Are u really sure if dis man is her Uncle? U have to do a research on dis. Be dat as it may, It is unfortunate dat u can't stop ur girl from going to his house anytym he comes home, cos if u do, u can't sponsor ur girl. But is dis d kind of life u want to live? What baffles me is dat ur girl do spend d night there. If I were u my broda, but am not u, I would not mind ending dis relationship. What a world we live in

Somebody shud Pls summarize it for me

Make ur sentences clear Pls.

The errors must women make is that after marriage n dey give birth, they no longer take good care of their body. Which is very bad. N dis can make some men go outside. My dear sister try n bring that attractiveness into ur marriage, especially in d bedroom. It is unfortunate dat ur hubby is not faithful to u. Try n talk to him n find out y he choose to act dat way. Don't quarrel about it. And don't 4get to Tell it to God in prayer, he will hear u. Best of luck.