Good morning guys.
Need your advice have been in a relationship for 5year now me n my boo we started dating November 2011 we are cool den 2012 Feb things changed he stop calling, texting either chat with me, I do call him but he never pick my calls I decided to move on 2015 he came to visit me because is a distance relationship we talked I asked him d reason for his attitude he said school wahala blabla I accept him back we started afresh everything move smoothly till July 2016 things change, he stop calling, texting, chatting me.
I knew he his going through alot he is in final year I called up as him Wat's d problem he kept saying nothing, I swallow my pride I call n chat him bt he dnt call nor chat bt he is always online he dnt buzz me. Ever since we started dating have been patient n understanding wit him have not for once demand anything from him.

Please I need your advice what should I do should I continue to understand n be patient with him
No insult pls[color=]Good morning guys.
Need your advice have been in a relationship for 5year now me n my boo we started dating November 2011 we are cool den 2012 Feb things changed he stop calling, texting either chat with me, I do call him but he never pick my calls I decided to move on 2015 he came to visit me because is a distance relationship we talked I asked him d reason for his attitude he said school wahala blabla I accept him back we started afresh everything move smoothly till July 2016 things change, he stop calling, texting, chatting me.
I knew he his going through alot he is in final year I called up as him Wat's d problem he kept saying nothing, I swallow my pride I call n chat him bt he dnt call nor chat bt he is always online he dnt buzz me. Ever since we started dating have been patient n understanding wit him have not for once demand anything from him.

Please I need your advice what should I do should I continue to understand n be patient with him
No insult pls[/color]Good morning guys.
Need your advice have been in a relationship for 5year now me n my boo we started dating November 2011 we are cool den 2012 Feb things changed he stop calling, texting either chat with me, I do call him but he never pick my calls I decided to move on 2015 he came to visit me because is a distance relationship we talked I asked him d reason for his attitude he said school wahala blabla I accept him back we started afresh everything move smoothly till July 2016 things change, he stop calling, texting, chatting me.
I knew he his going through alot he is in final year I called up as him Wat's d problem he kept saying nothing, I swallow my pride I call n chat him bt he dnt call nor chat bt he is always online he dnt buzz me. Ever since we started dating have been patient n understanding wit him have not for once demand anything from him.

Please I need your advice what should I do should I continue to understand n be patient with him
No insult pls

first to comment....

Op if I may ask, did u both av sex during ur first short phase of ur relationship back in 2011/2012?


If "yes", Whatt are u trying to understand here?
U are just being used as a sex object. He comes at will wen he feels he need to cool himself sexually.
The earlier you stay away from him nd turn down all forms of plea from him when next he shows, the better for you.


Only if you enjoy being serviced as a side chick, you can continue to give him chance

Op leave your boo's madness and move on. I don't understand why you're still trying to call him and txt after all that trash he's doing.

theEYe21:
Op leave your boo's madness and move on. I don't understand why you're still trying to call him and txt after all that trash he's doing.

really

I have promised myself one thing in life: I will never let somebody use me. Op y do u allow dis guy to b using u Is dis the kind of Life u want to Live In his final year in sch is d reason y he is not calling or texting u is not an excuse to me. No mata how his schedule is, Any guy that claims he loves his girlfriend must find tym to still get in tough with her. U were just too blind by his false love for u. My Candid advice for u Cutie9936 is to forget about dis guy. He is a cheater. Don't let him use u again. U are just too good for him. Look for someone else dat will love u n respect d person u are.
I wish u Goodluck.

He might be busy, maybe you should give him space for now, don't call or text him for a while, inshort delete anything that will make you remember him then after two weeks and he still did not call you or text, my sis just let go. Its shows he will choose whatever he is into over you.

Thanks guys for your advice we haven't sex ever since we started dating!!!

Op its so obvious the guy is no longer into you. Move on with your life. Forget about him. Tho its not easy but try.

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iLegend am all ears!!!!